Yali

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  1. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Hold with me, there is no sleep, you have never slept. It's like a videogame, you enter bed, it's dark, and then the screen changes, there is light and you have full stats again.
    That's actually your experience if you are rigorous and truthful.
    To get this one insight took me three years, it's extremely radical and will forever break the illusion of life to realise there's no sleep, you're always awake in one state or the other. You think times goes on while you sleep, no no, there a seamless 8h speed run of existence in one snap, like a frame jump, which regenerates with the feeling of time having past and memories, etc.
    There's so much to marvel about the design of Reality, it's a trillion times more intelligent and efficient than what the human mind can fathom.

  2. MDMA for personal & spiritual work
    MDMA for personal & spiritual work
    It's very useful for realising love and healing trauma. I strongly recommend it for that, but with the following cautions:
    Do it twice a year max. Consider a health protocol like the following: https://www.reddit.com/r/DrugNerds/comments/15m9sf/mdma_supplementation/

  3. Why is Omnipotence harder to realize than Omnipresence and Omniscience?
    Why is Omnipotence harder to realize than Omnipresence and Omniscience?
    I've realised Solipsism so deep that I when I stared at someone's eyes I could only see myself looping for Infinity.

  4. What do I do when I get a girlfriend?
    What do I do when I get a girlfriend?
    Girls can have very different personalities. Some are chill and relaxed, others are neurotic, needy, and even batshit crazy.
    It's really up to you to lead the relationship and set it up as you like. You can see her often or rarely. Just depends. 1 to 2 times a week is a good starting point. If you have sex every day it gets old real fast. Once a week would keep things exciting.

  5. Texting a girl fast back
    Texting a girl fast back
    Don't be too available via text.
    Keep texting short.

  6. Dating Advice For Incels
    Dating Advice For Incels
    This is a topic that's interested me for a while because for a while I was struggling with approaching the opposite sex. Recently I've been having more success approaching women and it's so much more fun to put yourself out there. What are your thoughts on Incels and how we can help them move in a more constructive direction? 

  7. How to maintain a social state
    How to maintain a social state
    There is no way around building and maintaining momentum.
    Going out consistently keeps you sharp. If you stop going out, you will get dull.
    I know professional pickup coaches who have slept with 500+ girls, but if they stop going out for a few months, they will lose their momentum and their game will not be great until they build the momentum back up.
    But as you get better, you will be able to build up your momentum faster.

  8. Incompatibility vs ego paradox
    Incompatibility vs ego paradox
    Even if you don't have ego you still have preferences, biases, values, goals, a lifestyle, and a personality.
    The idea that an enlightened person just gets along with anyone and everyone is a fairytale. Relationships are way more tricky than that.
    Don't forget that your partner could just be a mentally unhinged nutcase. That is common enough that you better be prepared for it.
    Not everyone is mature or healthy enough to even be in a relationship, and it takes two to make it work.

  9. Incompatibility vs ego paradox
    Incompatibility vs ego paradox
    Values are where it really counts.
    Imagine you value health and spirituality and truth but your girlfriend values socializing, drinking, and material pursuits like luxury vacations. That is not going to work.
    No matter how conscious you are, you still have values you wish to live by. In fact, the more conscious you are the less you are willing to compromise on core values like health, consciousness, truth, honesty, peace of mind, etc.
    The less corrupt you are the less compatible you are with corrupt people. And most people are corrupt.
    There is also incompatibility in terms of life goals, personality types and sex drive. Life goals is stuff like wanting kids vs not. Personality type is like introvert vs extrovert. Sex drive can vary a lot.

  10. Is marriage a trap?
    Is marriage a trap?

  11. I don't understand weed
    I don't understand weed
    I started smoking weed 1 year ago, I am not addicted but I think I'm not far from developping a psychologic addiction.
     
    I don't smoke everyday and don't want to because I want to keep the effects and I don't want to be addicted.
    The two past months, I did 3-5 days in a row of smoking. I could notice that the effects were different, it was like background effect but still strong!
    It was almost negative, I felt a little bit less confident and happy, less positive. I had like 2 experiences where I would tell myself "If I haven't smoked I would feel better".
    I decided to stop 10 days, then I smoked again and it was GREAT, I had all the positives effects I was loving about weed, more presence, more insights, more positive thoughts, more facility to see beauty etc...

    Why does the effects have a tendency to become negative when we smoke for several days in a row ? Why do people get addicted and smoke everyday if that make them paranoid or less happier ?
     

  12. I want to move to America
    I want to move to America
    @Dinesh Karki Legally immigrating here will be very difficult these days. The number of permanent residencies given out each year is very tiny. You're about as likely to win the lottery.
    The best way to move here is to start a successful business in your home country, then expand it into the US and hire 20 employees here. Then they will give you residency and citizenship.
    That's how my dad did it.
    As always, if you want something in life, rather than asking others to give you value, you become the provider of value. Don't ask the USA to provide you with free value. Provide the USA with value first, and then the doors will open to you.
    This is a general strategy for anything you want it life. Provide massive value to others first without asking anything in return.
    If you really want something, you gotta be willing to work for it and be super creative.

  13. Leo´s MOM and her story
    Leo´s MOM and her story
    When you realize there is only one being -- nothingness -- you'll realize that it infinitely reincarnates as everything.
    There's really no difference between you and your Mom and a random mom 5000 years from now and chimp mom from 1 million years ago. It's all exactly the same consciousness.
    The Buddha is now looking through your eyes, looking through your Mom's eyes, looking through your dog's eyes. You are the Buddha. You just don't realize it yet.

  14. Best cities
    Best cities
    I'm sure you could find such a girl.
    The real challenge would be keeping a stable relationship with her, cause you'll prolly fuck it up and then you'll be all alone in the woods.

  15. how much does IQ matter
    how much does IQ matter
    But that's a silly standard. 
    Try passing the SAT when you are drunk or haven't slept in 2 days.
    Obviously passing any exam assumes a certain baseline of health, sobriety, and restedness.

  16. Have anyone been addicted to weed and managed to have a healthy relationship with it?
    Have anyone been addicted to weed and managed to have a healthy relationship with it?
    My period of addiction to it was about 10 years.
    I am currently almost 8 months sober from it.
    During these 10 years I tried quitting dozens, perhaps hundreds of times.
    A few times I managed to go 3-4 months without it, and I had many, many attempts that lasted weeks and even more that lasted days.
    What finally shifted my mindset was a combination of many things...
    One of the most important pieces of advice for me was that if you've been a long term addict, do not delude yourself that you "beat" the addiction after only a few months. Not even after a year or two. Just accept that you'll gonna probably have to go quite a few years, and potentially for the rest of your life without it.
    I realized that for me personally, sobriety has to become my single priority. Total focus. If that's not in place, then everything else is just fantasy.
    There are also many other crucial mindset stuff like that that have helped and continue to help me go through the difficult, and also the stimulating parts of life, sober. I highly, highly recommend the channel Addiction Mindset for this.
    But ultimately, what Leo keeps repeating to us rings true - when the pain is big enough, you'll change.
    Last year this pain finally became way too much. Even though it was pretty bad for years before that!
    It became so painful - couldn't believe how it's as if for years I was asleep to just how addicted I was. I was completely deluded, drowning in fantasies, beliefs etc.
    It was shocking to realize that I'm living like a miserable, lazy, deluded, narcissistic, unconscious addict!
    I started realizing that I'm in real danger of totally wasting my entire life.
    And so after a few months of fiercely searching for the information/help that I specifically need, i finally gathered all the tools, that combined with a certain painful and scary experience, allowed me to step into this completely different era of my life.
    Also it took 10 years of Actualized for me to finally see how I am being a textbook zen-devil, falling in every trap possible.
    While fantasizing of becoming one of Leo's best students, I was IN TRUTH making a mockery of this work.
    My last 5-10 years were spent half-assing meditation, contemplation, pickup, career, business, sobriety, learning, having new experiences, psychedelics... I was destroying my health...
    And poof, I'm 30 now.
    That's one of the main dangers of weed.
    But at I am SO GLAD that now I can see the truth of my foolishness.
    Truth is worth all the pain.
    I also have compassion for myself, and i understand why my sad Romanian ass had to go through all of this. It is ultimately so Beautiful and Perfect!
    I am putting Truth at the top of my values as best as I can. I credit my (currently still unimpressive) breakthrough into sobriety to valuing Truth. I will continue doing so and I will see where that leads me.
    I wish you good luck, and may you break free from the chains of addiction!

  17. How come there is no Difference between Pain and Pleasure?
    How come there is no Difference between Pain and Pleasure?
    Reality is nothing but imagined differences. If you become conscious enough all the differences become irrelevant as you realize you are dreaming them up.
    Imagination of difference is not the same thing as belief. Imagination happens at a much deeper, physical and even metaphysical level. Which is why changing your beliefs will not remove the difference between pleasure and pain. But there actually is no difference between anything. Period. If you think or feel there is, that is you dreaming and constructing "reality."
    The construction I am speaking of is absolute. That means you, as God, make it manifest by dreaming it.
    Since you are God, whatever you imagine is literally reality. Right now you are imagining you are human. And an important part of being human is imagining that pain and pleasure are really different.
    You actually have to be insane to think that anything is different from anything else. But since humans are all insane together, this creates a false sense that you are sane.

  18. I approached 40 sets in 8 hours
    I approached 40 sets in 8 hours
    Good. 
    But yes, focus on quality over quantity.
    Make it your goal to sustain at least 1 set for 60 minutes.
    Stop self-ejecting from sets. Stay until they tell you to leave.

  19. I Slept With 100 Men in One Day | Jesus xd
    I Slept With 100 Men in One Day | Jesus xd
    I don't wanna sound ironic, I wish her true happiness, and ill have empathy for her if she is deeply unhappy
    but anyway this is a documentary to show what happened when you try to 100 any% glichless in 24h speedrun 
    If she slept with 1000 man i wonder if she would still be functioning

  20. Conformity Examples Mega-Thread
    Conformity Examples Mega-Thread
    Replace alcohol with a DMT vape cart.

  21. Fall of clavicular, is this the end of looksmaxxing?
    Fall of clavicular, is this the end of looksmaxxing?
    Every word out of his mouth that I have heard is BS.
    He is an inscure child, drunk on fame and success.

  22. Conformity Examples Mega-Thread
    Conformity Examples Mega-Thread
    Nothing.
    Alcohol is a poison, so I don't consume it.
    If you want to get high, there are much better ways.
    But I am not telling you not to drink. 

  23. Not Understanding Leos Blog Post “Rape is bad because it is unconscious survival”
    Not Understanding Leos Blog Post “Rape is bad because it is unconscious survival”
    What is rape?
    Unconscious survival.
    Part of that is thinking rape is cool, or whatever other BS rapists tell themselves.

  24. Canadian Prime Minister On Rejecting US Trade Negotiations
    Canadian Prime Minister On Rejecting US Trade Negotiations
    @Thought Art Don't waste your time thinking about Trump. He will come and go and relations with Canada will renormalize after a sane President returns.
    Foreign leaders need to not panic and not take Trump too seriously. They need to wait him out of office. You can't negotiate with a lunatic.

  25. I'm enlightened at getting laid. AMA anything
    I'm enlightened at getting laid. AMA anything
    Natasha is more mature than half of you put together, and she's just a girl.