Yali

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  1. Women are driven by money out of survival and men for social status
    Women are driven by money out of survival and men for social status
    Women are driven by emotions, not money.
    When you understand this, you've mastered women.

  2. Anything fundamentally wrong with buying prostitutes, sometimes, for sex only?
    Anything fundamentally wrong with buying prostitutes, sometimes, for sex only?
    Yeah, I agree. However, if you are going to pay a prostitute then it should still be done just as a one-off only for the purposes of losing your V-card as a late virgin and then never do it again.

  3. If you are introverted, you need less status and money to have a happy life
    If you are introverted, you need less status and money to have a happy life
    You can be highly social without caring about stutus or money. This is like what hippies are.
    However, you are right that people who chase money also tend to chase status and they tend to socialize a lot.

  4. Why Marxism failed according to Bertrand Russell
    Why Marxism failed according to Bertrand Russell
    Marxism fails because it fundamentally misunderstands human nature. It fails to take survival seriously.
    The ego will not surrender its survival for the benefit of a collective good. The Marxist's own ego will not do it.

  5. Anyone had Kensho (Zen) type of realization on psychedelics?
    Anyone had Kensho (Zen) type of realization on psychedelics?
    Psychedelics do not raise baseline, with rare exceptions.

  6. Seek and ye shall find. That's the whole trick.
    Seek and ye shall find. That's the whole trick.
    @Joshe Be careful. You are starting to get lost.
    If you don't correct course it will get worse, until up becomes down and down becomes up for you.
    Truth exists. Truth is not whatever you want. Truth does not care what you want. What you're talking about is not truth-seeking but human mind games.

  7. You are not Succesful, you are Lucky
    You are not Succesful, you are Lucky
    The practical answer to your dilemma is:
    You need to find a more intelligent way to making money. A more intelligent way will require less work, not harm your health much, and generate lots of money.
    Put simply: work smarter, not harder. There are many highly creative ways to earn lots of money which require relatively little work. But it requires a lot of creativity and intelligence to find those ways.

  8. You are not Succesful, you are Lucky
    You are not Succesful, you are Lucky
    That means you don't care about it enough.
    You have to truly care.

  9. I have noticed i am balding. I am afraid I'll look terrible
    I have noticed i am balding. I am afraid I'll look terrible
    Sometimes the path of self-love is one which involves a strong stance against a certain condition, rather than passively accepting it. We are not talking about a birth deffect or other irreversible deformities - we are talking about androgenetic hair loss, which is treatable for the most part. Its of course not a disease, but a rather cruel joke from mother nature.

    Fix what you can and accept/love the heck out of that which you can't.
    Or dont. Its really up to the individual. You will pay a certain price regardless of your decision.

    What you are saying is of course, at the root of it all, true. It is a mental dynamic of insecurities, ego & conditioning.
    However, the path to self-love is polyaxial and sometimes, the net positive for someones life is taking the extrinsic route.
    I love myself even more for taking action and not just "accepting" it. 
    I really dislike this monotonous way of seeing complex issues. 

    OP needs to come to his own conclusions. Thats why I told him not to listen to anyones advice.
    It's really up to his invidual expression and patterns and not something we can chose for him. 

    Cheers

  10. Jeffrey Epstein from a Spiritual POV
    Jeffrey Epstein from a Spiritual POV
    God is too intelligent to care what silly things humans do.
    God doesn't care where you stick your dick.
    But your fellow man does. And it is him you gotta deal with, not God.
    Trafficking minors for sex acts is about as low as one's character gets. It's not like Epstein fell in love with one child. He was just using them as personal sex objects.

  11. Ladyboys
    Ladyboys
    Dude, what?
    If you want a girl with a dick you are gay.
    The last thing a straight man wants on his girlfriend is a dick. That is not a little thing, that's a dealbreaker. Lol.
    If you negotiating about your gf having a dick, you ain't straight. Do whatever, but don't kid yourself.

  12. Is Seeing an Escort an Ethical Choice? Let's Talk Honestly
    Is Seeing an Escort an Ethical Choice? Let's Talk Honestly
    In some ways, seeing an escort is the polar opposite of doing pickup in your early 20s.
    In your 20s, you probably don't have much money or social status. Pickup therefore forces you to win on sheer personality and logistics handling. This actually can add to the appeal of doing it. You feel like she's into you for YOU, not just because you pay her rent.
    Seeing an escort is the reverse. Your personality is irrelevant. You don't have to solve any logistical problems at all. You just flash some cash and that's enough. You as a person are barely in the equation. It's anti-game.

  13. Leo's predictions about Trump are coming true
    Leo's predictions about Trump are coming true
    I'm not a mind-reader. I don't know what all his crimes are. I just know there's too many crimes there to count.
    But he will not be charged with any until he is out of office.

  14. Leo's predictions about Trump are coming true
    Leo's predictions about Trump are coming true
    I don't know man, Trump literally comments on his 1 year old child's breasts and people still rally around him. Americans are absolutely the dumbest sickest people on Earth, man. GTFO America anyone reading this.

    https://www.thedailybeast.com/resurfaced-video-shows-trump-making-lewd-comments-about-baby-daughters-breasts/

  15. This random guy I found has insane aura
    This random guy I found has insane aura
    His energy is not light at all. It’s dense as fuck.

  16. I have noticed i am balding. I am afraid I'll look terrible
    I have noticed i am balding. I am afraid I'll look terrible
    Yes, especially finasteride and minoxodil work wonders. They are FDA approved for that indication.
    I would advice for topical solutions in both cases. 
     
    Sure. 
    You can also accept/(self-)love that you are 200kg overweight. Or you can do something about it.
    This might not be the same thing but both it shows that the nature of the question is not either/or.

    I am defintiely better off with hair than without. There is just no question about it. 

  17. I have noticed i am balding. I am afraid I'll look terrible
    I have noticed i am balding. I am afraid I'll look terrible
    Ignore all the advice.
    They dont know you. Just because someone else shaved their head and did fine afterwards doesnt mean that this is the right solution for you. I also started suffering from male pattern hair loss in my early 20's and THANK GOD I did not listen to all the family members and internet experts who told me to "just shave it bro". 

    I am not telling you to keep your hair either. It really depends on many things - your headshape, your beard status, how much you care about being physically attractive, your job situation and so on...
    Some guys look way better bald than balding. Others suffer from the slaphead curse.

    If you want to be proactive, then there are many ways to stop and even reverse your lost hair.

     

  18. TRIGGER WARNING, Uncomfortable experience about Dating
    TRIGGER WARNING, Uncomfortable experience about Dating
    I didn't say she needs to be a genius philosopher. Just aligned in values.
    You have no idea how toxic Socrates marriage might have been. You are just assuming it was good.

  19. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Yes. Once I get warmed up and really into. But entering that flow doesn't always succeed. Sometimes I feel uninspired, exhausted, or distracted.
    No. You don't have to read anything. Reading can help, but it can also be a distraction.
    The utility of reading is learning techniques and learning about the many traps in this work. Without reading you are likely to fall into a serious trap and get stuck in it for years.
    For me there is no direct connection. I like game design just because it lets me be creative and imagine cool worlds that cannot exist in normal life.
    The most direct connection between design and philosophical work is that design is about thinking in a big picture, holistic way, and so it philosophical work. I have a designer's mind and I think like a designer. This is the common thread between game design and philosophy. A designer's mind must be very holistic because you need to take the entire product into account. A designer needs to see the game in its totality, not just in parts. A good game is designed top-down as one unified whole. Which is of course how God works.
    Thinking very big picture, like a film director, is a very good skill to develop. I have that kind of director's mindset. It is the mindset of an executive, a CEO -- where you are responsible for the entirety of a thing. To invent a game, you must be responsible for the entire thing. It's the mindset of founders.

  20. Actualized.org wasn't enough to fix my life. A critique of actualized.org.
    Actualized.org wasn't enough to fix my life. A critique of actualized.org.
    Eben Pagan, Dan Kennedy
    I've recommended them before.
    There are endless sources on those topics.

  21. This random guy I found has insane aura
    This random guy I found has insane aura
    It is both hillarous and stupid that Vitaly is a Trump supporter. Right on the nose. Clown recognizes clown. Man-child recognizes man-child.

  22. TRIGGER WARNING, Uncomfortable experience about Dating
    TRIGGER WARNING, Uncomfortable experience about Dating
    That is a guaranteed disaster.
    There cannot be a relationship when values are so misaligned.
    Your girl needs to be on your wavelength. If you are into self-actualization, you can't marry someone who isn't, regardless of how nice or sexy she is. Your core values need to align, otherwise it will not last.
    You need to screen women on values before you fall for them.

  23. downsides of sleeping around
    downsides of sleeping around
    Biggest downside is simply the waste of time.
    All the time people use to socialize could be used to launch a business.

  24. This random guy I found has insane aura
    This random guy I found has insane aura
    Prison should be his wake-up call.
    But he's in so deep, I doubt even that will change him.
    He doesn't know how to produce meaningful, quality content. That's too much work for him. So he specializes in scum content.

  25. TRIGGER WARNING, Uncomfortable experience about Dating
    TRIGGER WARNING, Uncomfortable experience about Dating
    If a man does not meet her needs, yes, she will replace him.
    But it is silly to expect otherwise. It is your job to know her needs and satisfy them within reason.