Yali

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  1. Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    That is part true and part false.
    Ultimately who is to say what is real and what isn't? We make up those definitions.
    Of course in person sociaizing is different. But as humanity evolves digital communication will become more and more common and robust. Even digital sex is getting common now.
    I've had deeper orgasms through text message than through physical sex. So don't dismiss the digital world as somehow inferior. It has its pros and cons, just like all mediums.
    Don't forget, physical reality is just one medium out of many. Digital reality is no less real than physical reality or imagination.

  2. Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    Careful.
    I know extroverts who are awakened and do spiritual practice.
    And obviously many extroverts make a killing in creativity, business, art.
    There's more than one way to skin a cat.
    One should only be a lone wolf if that's what one is called to do. It's not necessary for success.
    With that said, personally I love lone wolfing life. But that's just me. People here must find whatever kind of lifestyle resonates with them. This is a highly individualized thing.

  3. Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    Well, sex and intimacy are still meaningful to me. But the process of chasing after it is not.

  4. Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    To be more accurate, I just have a different kind of social life than most people consider a social life. My social life is through my work.
    For example you might ask if the Buddha or Gandhi had a social life. And the answer is, their social life was everything that revolved around their life's work. The same goes for me, except with the added wrinkle that we now live in the digital age, where the notion of "social" has expanded to include all of the activity happening through digital communication.
    If you include digital communication, my social life is quite significant.
    The very definition of "social life" is flexible and relative and changes across the ages.
    If you mean, do I go to the bar and drink beers with people, or attend dinner parties, or go bowling with friends? Definitely not. Such things are not interesting to me.

  5. Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    Did Leo grew up in a religous Home?
    I don't have a social life. Never cared to have one. It does not interest me.
    I rarely watch movies these days. Hard to find good movies. Most of them are juvenile superhero crap. Occasionally Hollywood makes a good movie for adults. But that's like twice a year. The rest is popcorn spectacles & money machines, which I don't care for.
    Occasionally I'll play a video game. When a good one comes out. But again, that's quite rare. Maybe once a year. I don't care for most games. It needs to be something original and deep or artistic.

  6. how much money can one make from investing
    how much money can one make from investing
    That is probably the most reasonable strategy.
    The thing you gotta watch out for in investing is that it can be a huge time sink and emotional sink. The index fund strategy saves you from most of that. It is better to invest your time and mental resources into your life purpose and passions vs investing.

  7. how much money can one make from investing
    how much money can one make from investing
    The best financial investment I made was buying my house. My house went up in value by $300k in the last 3 years.

  8. I fucked up with crypto
    I fucked up with crypto
    Not trading. Investing.
    Investing means you place your resources into a thing that has massive long-term value.

  9. I fucked up with crypto
    I fucked up with crypto
    This is not investing, this is trading.
    If you don't wise up you'll be in a world of hurt.
    You still haven't learned your lesson. I'm trying to help you here.

  10. I fucked up with crypto
    I fucked up with crypto
    @StarStruck Your investment time horizon is too short. If you invest in a good thing you should be able to stick with it for at least 5 years. If you can't do that then what are you doing?

  11. I fucked up with crypto
    I fucked up with crypto
    It's hard to say. I also lost some money on crypto but it's recovered a lot now.
    Of course the only crypto I would hold money in is Bitcoin.
    It might be wise put your money into solid stocks instead. But the market is up a lot right now so not the best timing.

  12. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Hold with me, there is no sleep, you have never slept. It's like a videogame, you enter bed, it's dark, and then the screen changes, there is light and you have full stats again.
    That's actually your experience if you are rigorous and truthful.
    To get this one insight took me three years, it's extremely radical and will forever break the illusion of life to realise there's no sleep, you're always awake in one state or the other. You think times goes on while you sleep, no no, there a seamless 8h speed run of existence in one snap, like a frame jump, which regenerates with the feeling of time having past and memories, etc.
    There's so much to marvel about the design of Reality, it's a trillion times more intelligent and efficient than what the human mind can fathom.

  13. MDMA for personal & spiritual work
    MDMA for personal & spiritual work
    It's very useful for realising love and healing trauma. I strongly recommend it for that, but with the following cautions:
    Do it twice a year max. Consider a health protocol like the following: https://www.reddit.com/r/DrugNerds/comments/15m9sf/mdma_supplementation/

  14. Why is Omnipotence harder to realize than Omnipresence and Omniscience?
    Why is Omnipotence harder to realize than Omnipresence and Omniscience?
    I've realised Solipsism so deep that I when I stared at someone's eyes I could only see myself looping for Infinity.

  15. What do I do when I get a girlfriend?
    What do I do when I get a girlfriend?
    Girls can have very different personalities. Some are chill and relaxed, others are neurotic, needy, and even batshit crazy.
    It's really up to you to lead the relationship and set it up as you like. You can see her often or rarely. Just depends. 1 to 2 times a week is a good starting point. If you have sex every day it gets old real fast. Once a week would keep things exciting.

  16. Texting a girl fast back
    Texting a girl fast back
    Don't be too available via text.
    Keep texting short.

  17. Dating Advice For Incels
    Dating Advice For Incels
    This is a topic that's interested me for a while because for a while I was struggling with approaching the opposite sex. Recently I've been having more success approaching women and it's so much more fun to put yourself out there. What are your thoughts on Incels and how we can help them move in a more constructive direction? 

  18. How to maintain a social state
    How to maintain a social state
    There is no way around building and maintaining momentum.
    Going out consistently keeps you sharp. If you stop going out, you will get dull.
    I know professional pickup coaches who have slept with 500+ girls, but if they stop going out for a few months, they will lose their momentum and their game will not be great until they build the momentum back up.
    But as you get better, you will be able to build up your momentum faster.

  19. Incompatibility vs ego paradox
    Incompatibility vs ego paradox
    Even if you don't have ego you still have preferences, biases, values, goals, a lifestyle, and a personality.
    The idea that an enlightened person just gets along with anyone and everyone is a fairytale. Relationships are way more tricky than that.
    Don't forget that your partner could just be a mentally unhinged nutcase. That is common enough that you better be prepared for it.
    Not everyone is mature or healthy enough to even be in a relationship, and it takes two to make it work.

  20. Incompatibility vs ego paradox
    Incompatibility vs ego paradox
    Values are where it really counts.
    Imagine you value health and spirituality and truth but your girlfriend values socializing, drinking, and material pursuits like luxury vacations. That is not going to work.
    No matter how conscious you are, you still have values you wish to live by. In fact, the more conscious you are the less you are willing to compromise on core values like health, consciousness, truth, honesty, peace of mind, etc.
    The less corrupt you are the less compatible you are with corrupt people. And most people are corrupt.
    There is also incompatibility in terms of life goals, personality types and sex drive. Life goals is stuff like wanting kids vs not. Personality type is like introvert vs extrovert. Sex drive can vary a lot.

  21. Is marriage a trap?
    Is marriage a trap?

  22. I don't understand weed
    I don't understand weed
    I started smoking weed 1 year ago, I am not addicted but I think I'm not far from developping a psychologic addiction.
     
    I don't smoke everyday and don't want to because I want to keep the effects and I don't want to be addicted.
    The two past months, I did 3-5 days in a row of smoking. I could notice that the effects were different, it was like background effect but still strong!
    It was almost negative, I felt a little bit less confident and happy, less positive. I had like 2 experiences where I would tell myself "If I haven't smoked I would feel better".
    I decided to stop 10 days, then I smoked again and it was GREAT, I had all the positives effects I was loving about weed, more presence, more insights, more positive thoughts, more facility to see beauty etc...

    Why does the effects have a tendency to become negative when we smoke for several days in a row ? Why do people get addicted and smoke everyday if that make them paranoid or less happier ?
     

  23. I want to move to America
    I want to move to America
    @Dinesh Karki Legally immigrating here will be very difficult these days. The number of permanent residencies given out each year is very tiny. You're about as likely to win the lottery.
    The best way to move here is to start a successful business in your home country, then expand it into the US and hire 20 employees here. Then they will give you residency and citizenship.
    That's how my dad did it.
    As always, if you want something in life, rather than asking others to give you value, you become the provider of value. Don't ask the USA to provide you with free value. Provide the USA with value first, and then the doors will open to you.
    This is a general strategy for anything you want it life. Provide massive value to others first without asking anything in return.
    If you really want something, you gotta be willing to work for it and be super creative.

  24. Leo´s MOM and her story
    Leo´s MOM and her story
    When you realize there is only one being -- nothingness -- you'll realize that it infinitely reincarnates as everything.
    There's really no difference between you and your Mom and a random mom 5000 years from now and chimp mom from 1 million years ago. It's all exactly the same consciousness.
    The Buddha is now looking through your eyes, looking through your Mom's eyes, looking through your dog's eyes. You are the Buddha. You just don't realize it yet.

  25. Best cities
    Best cities
    I'm sure you could find such a girl.
    The real challenge would be keeping a stable relationship with her, cause you'll prolly fuck it up and then you'll be all alone in the woods.