Yali

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  1. Is gender a social construct?
    Is gender a social construct?
    You are imagining them right now. Take a look.
    Your entire life chromosomes have existed in your mind.
    Some fool told you chromosomes exist, and you believed him and imprinted that idea in your mind without any second thought.
    You have never seen a chromosome. It's an idea you hold. If you are not experiencing it, then it must be an idea.
    Looking into microscopes is also an idea you hold.
    Sitting on a planet is also an idea you hold.
    "But Leo! In school I looked in a real microscope! So what about that?"
    Going to school is also an idea you hold.
    "No Leo, I really went to school! That's not an idea!"
    That's an idea you hold.
    How deep do you dare to go?
    How much of your life is ideas?

  2. Is gender a social construct?
    Is gender a social construct?
    Ahahahaha...
    How cute
    But how about you point to the line between you and my dick. I dare you.
    My dick is literally made out of your mind.
    My dick has always been inside your mind.
    Ta-da!

  3. Is gender a social construct?
    Is gender a social construct?
    Is there?
    That's your projection. Animals do not understand such things.
    Acting out in ways YOU have classified as male-female does not make an animal male or female.
    As always, YOU are the one drawing these definitions as part of how you construct your reality.
    YOU do it, but then deny you did it so that it can feel more real for you.
    There's not even such a fucking thing as an "animal". You invented "animal" in order to make yourself feel "human".
    You invented the line between you and an animal, you and a male/female, you and everything else. You and your lines are bullshit. When you gotta realize that?
    Go look at a dick or vagina on your phone. Then realize that is your dick and your vagina equally. Both are literally yours. You are the one who imagines that a dick on your phone is not you. And this imagination is the ego.
    You see? Somewhere in your early childhood you bought into the silly idea that a dick must be attached to your body in order for it to be yours. You never questioned how absurd that idea was. You just accepted it like a gullible fool. It never occurred to you that every dick on the planet is yours.
    Obviously

  4. Is gender a social construct?
    Is gender a social construct?
    It's way more twisted than you imagine.
    Human is a social construct.
    Being alive is a social construct.
    And even social construct is a social construct

  5. How can I work 12 hours every day
    How can I work 12 hours every day
    I don't work on weekends.
    You guys are gonna burn yourselves the fuck out.
    By trying to accomplish more you'll end up accomplishing less.

  6. How can I work 12 hours every day
    How can I work 12 hours every day
    @Ineedanswers I consider 40 hrs/wk to be the ideal to aim for.
    Rather than working harder, work smarter.
    JP works a lot, but he still has no clue of the fundamentals of how mind works. You have to be careful not to get caught up in the weeds. The weeds are endless. You can work endlessly and get nowhere if you aren't really wise about it.
    How come I work way less than JP yet understand mind and reality way better?
    Because I work smarter.
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    No one on their deathbed ever said: "Oh God! I wish I worked longer hours."
    Never forget that in the end your work means nothing. People who work long hours are willfully ignorant of this simple existential fact.

  7. Sales leadership by Bet-David training worth it?
    Sales leadership by Bet-David training worth it?
    If you want the secret to Pat's success, it's running a pyramid scheme and finding enough suckers to join it.

  8. Women are poor judge of character
    Women are poor judge of character
    Through my research on women around me including myself, I've realized that women are poor judge of character. 
    Our emotions and empathy rule our mind more than our intelligence. 
    Another observation - Women who come abused environments with bad childhoods are even worse judge of character in comparison to those who come from healthy families. 
    Please don't shame or judge women for choosing bad partners. Women like this don't understand what love means because nobody showed them what love means. 
    We have a social role to protect women from bad partners instead of judging them. 
    If someone is alcoholic it's important to rehabilitate them instead of judging them. 
    Similarly.... Women are like alcoholics. They are addicted to masculine love. Usually the wrong man approaches them and gives them a promise of love and then abuses them.. It's like putting poison in alcohol and giving it to the alcoholic. If they die, it's not their fault because addiction is a mechanism of the brain, often the addict does not have conscious control over it and there's no replacement drug and addiction only keeps growing. 
    Women are like addicts. They don't attract wrong men. Wrong men simply know how to get them drugged into their trap. 
    The woman who choose good partners are not that addicted and usually come from healthy families and are difficult to drug. 
    A lot of masculine women are not ruled by emotion or empathy so they use their intelligence and choose the right guy. 
    A lot of feminine women (like me) are Hyper, chaotic, crazy and are ruled more by base emotion/instinct than intellect. 
    The problem is that women like me who choose wrong partners are high in oxytocin. Our brains are designed to respond to stimulus. We're more maternal. That's why we are more inclined to become nurses, teachers, caregivers. The problem is that such professions or duties make a woman very vulnerable due to spike in her empathy. Can a woman judge her own child? No. We become non judgemental because of our role as women. Since our brains have been trained this way. The male brain is designed for order, logic and protection. This means that the male brain will be highly skeptical, and much more judgemental and very strict as compared to the female brain. That's why men don't get fooled easily. They carefully study their partner. Women on the other hand are careless, kind, vulnerable, reckless and don't bother to check their husband's phone. Often women get cheated on and are not aware of it. Because we're trained to always forgive, show care, love, empathy, kindness. This makes us blind to male error. 
    We don't sit and study the males we date. Because our brains is full of bonding hormone oxytocin and this hormone is also important during lactation to bond with the child. As a result, we're less inclined to logically study the guy we're dating or even screen or scan him for red flags. If we like the guy, we just like the guy and we forget everything else, we don't even think about our future with the guy. We simply want to bond with him just like we want to bond with children. 
    Masculine women don't want bonding. They want order in their life. So they carefully study the guy they are dating. So they get successful men and settle with good men 
    Whereas most feminine women end up with some abuser, asshole, like me because we give too much into emotion and some creep comes along and learns to trigger an emotional response either by acting sweet (aggressive men repel this emotion), or by playing victim so the woman takes pity on the guy, and then win her heart using deception and manipulation, blackmail etc. 
     
    Masculine women who are more logical don't fall for such manipulation. They don't easily believe a man's words. So they usually end up with better less manipulative partners. 
     

  9. How to Get Over a Girls Body Count
    How to Get Over a Girls Body Count
    This is so silly. The only solution here is to just stop thinking about it.
    You could also spend hours thinking about how many nasty shits your gf has taken in her life. But you don't because it has zero value to dwell on such things. Every time you sit down for dinner you could fantasize about how you gf is taking a shit. Imagine what it would be like to live that way.

  10. How To Get Laid - Part 3 - Thanks again Leo ;=)
    How To Get Laid - Part 3 - Thanks again Leo ;=)
    Leo,
    I just listened to part 3, How To Get Laid. Somehow, I missed that series. Disregard my rant about women not being angels. You communicated that they aren’t angels in this part 3. The last hour about ethics was the most important. As a person with severe stutter, dating has been hell. I'm 53 and just learning how to date. As a result, I have a little bitterness against women that I've been working on in therapy. I feel much better now.
    I know so much now about -- game, dating, and female nature. Now I know why I was a failure with women. Dating for me was like, myself playing a football game against the Dallas Cowboys, not knowing the rules nor how to play football. I never had a chance, and got my ass kicked every time. 
    You're right Leo….,"Do not blame women for not sleeping with you".
    I understand the world doesn't owe me understanding because I stutter. I have the power to correct it, and reap the rewards from it, which is what I’m doing.
    Thanks again so much Leo.

  11. Leo, after all your awakenings do you still get scared or angry?
    Leo, after all your awakenings do you still get scared or angry?
    I still experience fear and anger sometimes. Fear moreso than anger. It takes A LOT to anger me but it might happen once every few years.
    They have helped me with emtional mastery by making me more loving and conscious. I actually feel emotions more deeply now, both up and down. I am more sensitive. There is also more desire in me to feel emotions more deeply. Emotions take on a spiritual dimension.

  12. Leo, after all your awakenings do you still get scared or angry?
    Leo, after all your awakenings do you still get scared or angry?
    How has awakening through psychedelics or whichever, helped you in your emotional mastery. I know you are already rather grounded but I am just curious.
     

  13. Advice regarding my recent approach
    Advice regarding my recent approach
    There was no mistake. She just wasn't interested or busy with life. Talk to other girls.
    Most girls will not be interested in dating you. And you shouldn't worry yourself about why. Just look for the ones who are interested.

  14. What is woke?
    What is woke?
    Wokeness is whatever right-wingers happpen to be in denial about at the moment.

  15. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    That's what she wants from a relationship. That is not what creates attraction.

  16. Is consciousness just awareness?
    Is consciousness just awareness?
    Consciousness is a much more complex and richer thing than merely awareness. Although of course awareness is core to consciousness.
    To understand what consciousness is requires insane levels of awakening. Beyond nonduality and human spirituality. It couldn't be more profound. These so called enlightened people do not understand what consciousness is. Consciousness is a 1000 times more sophisticated than what Buddhists teach.

  17. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Show me a successful chimpanzee.

  18. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    If you want a true black pill moment, one time I was at the club talking to a girl and she literally saw another guy, ran up to him and said, "OMG! You are so symmetrical." And she stood there admiring him while I stood back and watched.

  19. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    But think of it this way: if he was physically able to do it then his heart could not have been the limiting factor.
    If his heart was truly a limiting factor he simply would have failed. You cannot just grind your way through a bad heart. That is the fantasy.
    It's sorta funny, but if someone with a handicap succeeds, then by definition it was not a serious handicap. A serious handicap means you will fail no matter how hard you try.

  20. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    I never said it was.
    You guys keep arguing against things I didn't say.

  21. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    I understand. I plan to make a video about that.
    Be careful not to get down over this. Getting laid is still possible for you.

  22. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    If you do as many approaches as Owen, you too will slip and land into some hot girls.
    I've dated some hot ass girls that were out of my league. That's what lots of pickup enables. Effort does matter.
    Again, none of this contradicts what I said.

  23. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Pretty much all of it is valid and very useful.
    The only correction is that looks play a bigger role than I said.

  24. Dear Leo, after all of your awakenings, is karma real or b.s.?
    Dear Leo, after all of your awakenings, is karma real or b.s.?
    Depends on how you define what karma is.
    If you simply mean that acting selfishly will produce natural negative blowback for you, then of course that's true.
    If you mean that God is somehow inflicting punishment on you for your evil ways, then that is a fantasy.
    Karma is not some kind of perfect or fair universal accounting system. It's possible to be extremely selfish but also lucky in avoiding blowback. But you could also be unlucky and experience extreme blowback to the point of unfairness.

  25. Criticism About Leo's 3 Part Series
    Criticism About Leo's 3 Part Series
    As I said, to do pickup effectively you need to move to a big city.