Hardkill

How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?

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@MrBON You're demanding women reduce their decision-making about sexuality and romance down to a single factor lmao. People are more complex than that dude. 

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6 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

In order to love something (appearance), you must fear its disappearance. If you don't fear its disappearance, then how can you call that love?

That's attachment, not love. Love is the absence of suffering. 


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13 minutes ago, MrBON said:

I dont understand why looks should matter to women considering they judge you on your personality and skills a lot.

A lot of women would really like to be judged on their personality and skills if they are going to be judged and evaluated at all.


My Youtube Channel- Light on Earth “Run from what's comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious. I have tried prudent planning long enough. From now on I'll be mad.~ Rumi

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5 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

That's attachment, not love.

Love IS attachment. And don't give me the unconditional love lecture.

6 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

Love is the absence of suffering. 

So, there's no suffering in love? God must really hate humanity.

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7 minutes ago, Gesundheit said:

Love IS attachment. And don't give me the unconditional love lecture.

So, there's no suffering in love? God must really hate humanity.

Your idea of love isn't love, it's a thought. Don't mistake the thought of something and your judgments about it, (more thoughts) for the actual experience, which you know by how it feels. Love feels amazing. 


My Youtube Channel- Light on Earth “Run from what's comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious. I have tried prudent planning long enough. From now on I'll be mad.~ Rumi

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@mandyjw Nah. You just proved that it's impossible to reason with a high person. And I just proved that it's impossible to experience unconditional love from within an ordinary state of consciousness.

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Very, very little. Ive been probably a 8.5/10 on looks most of my Life. 

Yet since my personality has been totally beta male i have gotten NOTHING.

Although its true that Girls do look at me and i can see im being looked in an attraction manner . But once they got to know me im fucked Lol ahahha


A thought can´t ever tell you how you feel.

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If you got high looks, online dating will be shooting fish in a barrel.


You are God. You are Love. You are Infinity. You are Leo.

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53 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

If you got high looks, online dating will be shooting fish in a barrel.

Not according to my experience. In fact, online dating is like a numbers game times 10. 

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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

If you got high looks, online dating will be shooting fish in a barrel.

@Leo Gura Yeah but you have to "close" afterwards. The real interaction afterwards is a whole other game.

Getting the foot in the door doesn´t guarantee the sale as you said haha. Which is why the whole incel movement is so fucking ridiculous. 

pd: Of course im not saying im not fortunate to have that advantage tho, just saying.

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A thought can´t ever tell you how you feel.

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1 hour ago, Hardkill said:

Not according to my experience. In fact, online dating is like a numbers game times 10. 

1) Then you're not at good looking as you claim.

or

2) You don't understand how to game online.


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Some average infield for yall.

I think the guy at 0:52 signed up straight up for Elliot Hulses workshop LOL

 

 

Different guy here, more authentic

Enjoy

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@Elevated @mandyjw I mean guys are ruthless about looks and girls are ruthless about strong personality.

Seems super even in this way to me.

Both are selfish survival oriented. 

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@Hardkill Your pictures are not good enough and dont reflect your good looks. Your bio is bad and or your text game is bad.

Check out playingwithfire and school of attraction and text god for online game tips. Pick any of the three, they are the best for online game tips.

Playing with fire is for texting, school of attraction is for pictures and bios.

Also online dating is rigged against men since 2/3 of users are males, females are super picky due to a lot of choice and therefore you need a lot of volume. Around 100-150 matches for a date i would say if you know what you re doing.

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6 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

1) Then you're not as good looking as you claim.

or

2) You don't understand how to game online.

1) I am very confident that I am. A lot of people have constantly compared me to many male celebrites and models. Even a lot of girls in middle, high school, and undergraduate years came on to me even when I didn't try at all. However, the girls that I wanted were already taken and the girls who wanted me were not the ones I wanted. Several years later, I got ripped , which I still am to this. I can PM you my pics if you want. Again, I am not trying to brag or argue with you. I am just having a positive belief in my body image, which is what dating experts say you're supposed to have in order to succeed at the game.

 

2) I would agree with this being case. From what I heard, it's more about the quality of your photos and your overall profile. Plus, as a guy you gotta swipe right like crazy on apps such as Tinder and Bumble and send an onslaught of messages to as many women you are attracted as you can. In fact, that's how I had to do it in order to get 4 girls to have sex with me. 

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5 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

 I can PM you my pics if you want.

😂😂 Hey! We said no dick pics :|

8 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

Plus, as a guy you gotta swipe right like crazy on apps such as Tinder and Bumble and send an onslaught of messages to as many women you are attracted as you can. In fact, that's how I had to do it in order to get 4 girls to have sex with me. 

This kinda makes sense... my friend matched with this v attractive guy the other day and said he was "too good looking" so wouldn't message him unless he messaged first.

I guess a lot of girls know guys swipe right for everyone, so don't want to get "rejected"? But then again, if a girl just wants sex, she'd probably message if you're attractive enough. Dunno, haven't really used these apps. 

 

 

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If you swipe too many people, you're actually hurting your chances. Or at least it used to be that way. They literally have a score that they assign your profile, and the more you swipe the lower it goes. It dictates how often you appear in other people's stack. 

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Everyone gets attracted by looks.

You are confusing "looks" with the physical body only.

Looks includes smiling, facial expression, body language, having fun, etc.

Looks is as close you can get to knowing a person - because people usually lie like its sunday in church - but the body doesnt


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Did someone already mentioned some sort of obvious "I get attracted to men who can understand me and can provide me reliable safety" ?

Safety includes: emotional safety (she is confident that the guy is emotional mature to endure even bad times; to maker her feel good about herself and provide feelings of healthy self-esteem); money safety (the women expects the guy to be financial independent and self-sufficient, that makes her feel confident about the future, and a potential mate to have children with). 

Now, the big deal comes about how does the man show this traits to the women he is interested in? Let's say, how can I show I am that Man on dating apps? Does my fancy pictures will make it seem obvious that I can provide safety? Probably not.  For that matter, you probably need to have a job, let's say, like a Lawyer, and then you make it tseem like you are someone who loves his job. Some women will like it, some don't, and that's ok.

The last thing I wanna say. Both women and men want to be with someone who they feel they are lucky to be with, and not by merely 2nd option or because they can't do better.

Are you expressing yourself in a way that makes you look like you are always shooting for the one who will fall into your lazy trick, or are you full of choice, and she knows that you choosed her. Now, that hits different.

Forget about rating, "I am a 6, I am 10" What a joke. For some women, you are a 10, for others, you are a mediocre 2.

 

tl;dr Find your niche girl/ boy, and aim for it, not everyone will like you even if you are a consensual 10.

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