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Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-ThreadThat's why you must be careful with your stereotypes and categories.
For some people, the idea of a smart black man also does not compute. Which is the very source of racism.
An overly simplistic mind is a dangerous and ugly thing.
The devil you see in others is the devil inside your self.
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Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-ThreadThat's one way to look at it. But are you really sure that's the proper way to look at it? Where did you get this perspective? From TYT? And you just blindly accept it as unbiased?
Calling him a racist is pretty silly.
Racism is a complex and nuanced issue. There is personal racism and systemic racism, which is much more subtle. Someone can have no personally racists attitude and yet still be part of upholding a systemically racist institution for many complex reasons, chiefly, his own survival.
He's not some open racist. You're saying it as though he's a KKK member. This is absurd.
The accusation is that he inappropriately fired a black police chief due to political influence. But even this requires serious proof. There are many reasons why he could have fired him. Maybe you should listen to Pete's version of the story before jumping to conclusions.
One can have biases and blindspots without being explicitly racist. In fact, most of us have such biases. If I put you into a position where you had to fire a black police chief to feed your family, you'd probably do it without blinking an eye. And you would never ever consider yourself a racist for doing so.
Of course being gay does not automatically make one a champion for African American rights or justice. Mostly likely Pete just grew up in a white bubble where African American rights were not even a topic of conversation or concern. He would have to go out of his way to care about that.
I grew up in such a white and affluent part of the US that I didn't even know racism was a thing until well after college. When you live in a great part of the country, you don't even know what injustice is. The notion that a cop would treat a black person different than a white person was impossible to even imagine where I grew up. It would be like worrying about people eating dogs.
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Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread@Mondsee That's like saying, "My parents molested me as a child, but now I've overcome it and I'm grateful for who its made me."
Good for you, but most molested kids don't get over it so easily.
This is not a matter of judgment but a matter of creating paradigm lock in a child's mind. Which is as big a problem as molesting a child.
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Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-ThreadBlue vs Green again:
The conservative girl is unable to wrap her mind around the idea that gender is a relative mental construct. So to her the idea of something other than the traditional, black & white man/woman roles does not compute and seems absurd.
Blue REALLY struggles with issues of relativity. They just don't stomach relativity because to them the world is absolutely as their beliefs say.
This is also a good example of how the mind projects. The conservative girl's mind thinks that it can make others look foolish when really it is projecting its own foolishness as a denial mechanism so that she doesn't have to deeply question the groundless distinctions that make up her worldview.
But also notice how stage Green (the TYT hosts) are also unable to understand where this conservative girl is coming from. They just think she's a fool, when really, her mind is simply not yet fathoming the relative nature of reality.
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Leo's New Vegas Video
Leo's New Vegas VideoMy inner game has improved a lot after 6 years of spiritual work. But I still get approach anxiety at times. All mental thoughts do not disappear, especially when it comes time to approach a smoking hot girl with a bunch of her friends cockblocking.
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Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread
Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread@Kensho Ugh... Ben Shaprio is the worst of Blue.
It's like Blue cancer, lol.
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Who sucked in social skills?
Who sucked in social skills?I had such bad social anxiety that I used to pay my friends to go buy me food because I was too scared to talk to a cashier.
My story is that of the typical introverted video game nerd who rarely left his room growing up.
You simply need more exposure. Start to look people in the eyes. Once you’re comfortable there then start to smile at people. Next, ask strangers how they’re doing. Continue progressing until you develop your social skill to your desired level.
Today, I literally work with people for 8+ hours a day. I’m still an introvert and this can be a bit draining and even anxiety provoking at times but it’s about 1% of what it used to be. I’m quite confident approaching stranger and striking up a conversation with new people now.
It’s just putting the reps in bro. You got this.
Side Note: some of my favorite books that helped with this field are...
How to win friends & influence people (Dale Carnegie) The way of the superior man (David Dieda) Cant hurt me (David Goggins) Social (Matthew Lieberman) That said, books won’t do shit for you if you don’t go out and talk to people on a regular basis.
Go figure.
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Myers-Briggs Personality Type Indicator
Myers-Briggs Personality Type IndicatorINFJ
I've found learning about my personality type to be tremendously beneficial. It’s kind of scary how accurate the test is. It also connected a lot of dots as to why I am the way I am naturally vs who I try to be because of cultural conditioning... great tool to help be your more authentic self.
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Leo's New Vegas Video
Leo's New Vegas VideoHahaha the funny thing is it wasn’t creepy at all because I owned it.
I was showing this one chick my set up (because I was mad proud of it) and she deadass pulled me into the back of my own van conversion.
She crawled into the bed and said “well aren’t you going to come in here with me?”
If that doesn’t bust limiting beliefs then idk what will.
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When Should I start dating
When Should I start datingRelationships (not just intimate) are the most important thing in life.
They are not about money, they are not about worshipping, they are not about trading goods. (Of course that doesn't mean unhealthy relationships don't exist)
Find friends, guys and girls, people you love, people woth whom you can share, people who make your life worth living.
The only way you could define what YOU are is through others. Don't be stupid and waste your life sololey on meaningless things such as money, career and status. However, don't ignore them either, find the middle way.
Think about it, really be truthful and honest ablout it. Is there a better way to live?
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Leo's New Vegas Video
Leo's New Vegas VideoWhen I brought her home she told me she assumed I was homeless based on how I dressed and looked.
#HomelessGame
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Leo's New Vegas Video
Leo's New Vegas VideoRussian girls are the easiest for me to attract. But I don't like them.
I went on a date with 75th top ranked female tennis player in the world. She was a smoking hot Russian. But I didn't like her personality. Was not a good match.
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Leo's New Vegas Video
Leo's New Vegas VideoThe last girl I slept with
BTW, she thought I was homeless when she came home with me.
But don't let me stop you guys... keep bullshitting.
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Leo's New Vegas Video
Leo's New Vegas VideoIf I showed you a pic of the last girl I slept with, your jaw would drop. Hotter than a Playboy model. She was into spiritiality and read David Hawkins too
You don't know what a 10 is until you come to Vegas.
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Suicide leads to god?
Suicide leads to god?It's not a function of my work. People are just suicidal. It's pretty common. I have no control over if people want to kill themselves.
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How big population size for Pick up?
How big population size for Pick up?@Hardkill @Leo Gura
I wonder if it'd be a good idea to instead shmooze with the high status young males in the college and then get into some sort of party clique and fuck girls that way
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can you tell me anything about "broken mans game"?
can you tell me anything about "broken mans game"?The bottom line is, you need to gain enough mastery over your emotional state such that you feel good and solid most nights out.
Gaming from a depressed state is not really gonna work. Fix your depression. Controlling your state is like the biggest aspect of inner game. Everything else hinges on it. You need to become a generally happy, go-lucky guy who doesn't easily get ungrounded.
Work on enjoying and loving going out and socializing with new people. This is the gold.
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If looks for guys are not that important why pretty girls tend to date attractive guy
If looks for guys are not that important why pretty girls tend to date attractive guyActually you can see hot girls with average looking guys fairly commonly. Which shows you that looks aren't as important as you think.
When you see short guys, fat guys, bald guys, skinny guys, asian guys, black guys, etc pulling a lot, you will realize it's not the looks so much.
Get some wings who aren't so great looking but pull consistently. This will blow your limiting beliefs apart.
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Do girls ever sleep with guys solely because they are hot?
Do girls ever sleep with guys solely because they are hot?"Attractive" is a holisitic quality which involves a lot more than just looks. A girl will think a guy is good looking when she is actually attracted by his status, confidence, masculine vibe, charisma, eye contact, humor, etc.
Solid game makes a guy appear attractive.
But of course some lucky guys simply get laid off their looks. It's not a solid strategy though. Guys who get laid the most are working for it. It doesn't land in their lap.
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Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?
Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?Dude, many marriages and relationships are already in the death process.
Obviously I'm not going to lead a girl to break a good marriage. It was obvious that her marriage was mostly a formality and that her heart wasn't in it.
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I've been getting blown out of many sets for insulting girls
I've been getting blown out of many sets for insulting girlsDude, what the fuck? I never told you to say anything like that.
I deliberately go out of my way NOT to insult girls. Sometimes it happens by accident and kills the set.
Teasing and flirting is not insults. << Get that through your bean brain
You never want to say anything what she would perceive as an attack on her core self.
Don't say hurtful things to people. Saying hurtful things is not game, it's just cruel.
You also shouldn't be aiming to say sexist things. You say funny things and if they happen to be a bit sexist you will skate by.
If she is not laughing then you are failing.
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Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?
Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?I have talked about this in my How To Get Laid series.
Ideally you start with the player frame and then switch to the boyfriend frame once she's slept with you a few times and is seriously invested into you.
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Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?
Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?Bro, I know. I used to be the biggest nice guy.
Yes, if you are stuck in nice guy mode then a scummy PUA is a good counter-balance. Just be careful, it's easy to go to the dark side. The dark side will get you laid so much with such hot girls you will forget the word integrity exists.
Haha, good luck.
While you're at it, teach your son to ignore looking at tits.
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Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?
Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?1) Nightclub builds skills
2) You can meet all kinds of girls in the club. Example: I pulled and made out with a PhD professor of mathematics doing stocastic modeling. She was smarter than all you guys here making excuses about going out. Didn't close that one cause she was married.
You can pull doctors, professors, engineers, businesswomen from the club.
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Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?
Owen Cook predictions - Can we trust this guy or not?Well, to be fair to John, I think his case was dropped and didn't actually involve sex. Not all charges/accusations are automatically true. I don't know all the details, I'm just saying what I heard.
But yeah, he's is a sketchy guy. He was too sketchy for RSD. Let that sink in.
To be fair, Fox News anchors probably sexually abused and harassed more women than John. Now let that sink in.
