Stop this masturbating and go talk to girls.
You don't need to be in the top 10%. You just need to hook ONE girl.

Lol, dude, hooking up has the lowest requirements. All you need is a dick and to be in the right place at the right time.
When a girl is ovulating, horny, and looking for fun, basically anyone with a dick and sense of humor will do.
I see girls in the club who will sleep with the first guy who has the balls to approach her and pull her home.

Why didn't you succeed at pickup? How many girls did you approach?
Also, pickup isn't the only way to attract girls you know. 99% of men do not know pickup, and yet they still manage to get laid.
What is the crux of your problem with attracting girls? Are you highly introverted and anti-social? Do you have social anxiety? Do you have confidence problems? Speaking problems? Appearance problems?
The single most important factor for attracting girls is simply being near them. If you sit at home all the time reading books and playing video games, then yeah, it's very hard to get laid. You need to find ways to bump into girls your age. Try to brainstorm ways to get more involved in social activities like yoga class, dance class, workshops, seminars, music festivals, parties, networking events, Toastmasters, events on college campuses, etc.
What city do you live in? It helps a lot to move to a hip city like Austin, LA, NY, Miami, Vegas, London, etc. It's much easier to find girls in those kinds of cities than in someplace like Kentucky.

@MM1988 You're missing the obvious: Go get laid.
Learn to attract girls.
Not every problem in life is meant to be meditated away. Meditation is an advanced tool, for mature people who've already taken care of the basics of life. It is not a crutch to avoid the basics of life like food, money, shelter, health, relationships, work, family, etc.
You wouldn't tell a starving child to meditate his hunger away. You would tell him to go make a sandwich. If you don't know how to make a sandwich << that's the first-order problem right there. Learning to make a sandwich is a lot easier than learning to meditate.

1) Then maybe raise your standards.
2) If you can find the girls outside the club, then why do you need the club? What is the problem?
3) Or you can just wait till you're inside the club to start approaching. Talking to girls on the street is often not logistically sound, which is why it's better to do it inside the club where the girls are actually standing around and not running off somewhere else.
4) When you approach you must take into account logistical soundness. It is pointless to approach a girl who is running off somewhere. You gotta approach in a way where you have a reasonable chance of hooking her and getting her to stop and talk to you. Don't just be a mindless approach machine. You must consider which logistical situations lead to success and which ones do not.
5) Although of course you can pick girls up off the street, so don't let that stop you. Usually the best thing is to wait till you're in the club to hit on girls, then once the night is dying down, you can hit on girls outside the club as they go home. It tends to be a waste of time hitting on girls outside the club as they walk into the club -- you are better off hitting on them in the club.

Going out and approaching consistently is like 80% of what pickup is. The rest is fine-tuning.
It can be a lot of fun if you're doing it with friends.
Solo tends to be really hard tough.

There are no guarantees when it comes to girls. But if you approach 1000 girls you should be seeing some very promising things.
1000 is actually a pretty conservative number. For most guys they will get laid sooner. It took me about 450 approaches, and I was really bad when I started.

How about getting a car?
Day game in Paris should be amazing too.
You can often pull to the girl's place.
Paying for a motel or cheap hotel if you're pulling a girl is also doable and reasonable. See if you can find a cheap hotel in Paris that will let you book rooms late at night.
If you got a car, you can also fuck in your car. Get a car that has room to fuck.

Organic is premium treatment of your food and you should pay premium for what you put in your body. 
You can even taste the richness of an organic fruit. 

I heard Leo say that cheap fruits and vegetables contain heavy metals which cloud your judgements by remaining in brain.
If you have heavy metals in your brain, your judgements and creativity decrease, and your ability to make money decreases.

It's not just about pesticides. All animals and plants need water, soil, and food to grow. If you feed them dirty water, food, or soil, they will absorb the bad stuff from it.
Do you really think giant farm companies are watering your apple tree with spring water? They use the cheapest sewage water they can find, probably from some toxic factory -- to save a few pennies.

Monsanto?
https://risk-monger.com/2016/04/13/the-risk-mongers-dirty-dozen-12-highly-toxic-pesticides-approved-for-use-in-organic-farming/
Here's one example of organic apple sauce tested by a lab:
https://www.puremarket.com/365-everyday-value-organic-apple-sauce-cinnamon-24-oz
Here's some organic peanut butter filled with heavy metals:
https://www.puremarket.com/365-everyday-value-organic-creamy-peanut-butter-unsweetened-no-salt-454-g
Here's some vegan organic plant protein powder filled will heavy metals:
https://www.puremarket.com/garden-of-life-meal-replacement-organic-raw-plant-based-protein-powder-chocolate-cacao-509-g
There is no perfect method.
But here's a decent place to start:
https://www.puremarket.com/search/food
Look, for example, at how many organic foods get F ratings on heavy metal toxicity:
https://www.puremarket.com/search/food?menu[facet_lab_grade]=F&refinementList[taxonomies.pm-product-diet][0]=Organic
You can even compare them to the non-organic versions which sometimes get A ratings.
It all depends. There's no simple formula here. Any product can be bad, no matter what the label or brand.

You'll be shocked to learn that organic products can have more toxic stuff them than inorganic.

Whey protein can cause lots of reactions given how much crap they put in it usually.
If you're gonna experiment with whey, you must buy the expensive, pure, organic, grass-fed, addictive-free stuff. But even so, you have to be very careful with any bulk powdered products you consume because they are likely to have heavy metals. And if you drink that stuff every day for months and years, it could make you very toxic without you even knowing it.

Buy organic and scrub it well with soap and brush/sponge.
Not much else you can do.
You can also do annual detox protocols to remove any accumulated junk in your system.

Massive practice approaching with built up state, and listening to lots of in-field verbals. Study good in-field to have example of good verbals for you to emulate.

It's odd that girls are going on dates with you but not sleeping with you or seeing you again. This is not an attraction problem because if the girl was not attracted she would never agree to a first date. Sounds like you just need to work on your date game. You should be closing like 50%-75% of your dates.
On dates you gotta be building deep rapport / romantic connection and escalating physically.
Don't give up yet. It sounds like you are close to decent success.
Can you describe your typical date, where and how it unfolds?

Lol.  Picture 6/10 (as ridiculous as that seems; rating; oh god I shudder). That’s my absolute lowest. Literally have never gone lower. Not even once. Feels ridiculous to even say this, but it’s usually over 7.5/10. I think I might just be handsome (not serious). And extremely vulnerable and honest — women pick up on that.

Homeless go to California precisely because it's nice there.
It's good to be homeless in California weather.
And the house prices in California are so high because everyone wants to live there. Basic supply and demand.
I would live in California if the prices were more reasonable. There are REALLY nice places in California. You gotta go to the right spots.
Yes, taxes there are high and create some disincentives when other states have such low taxes. But Cali has the best culture and it's much more eco-friendly due to all the regulations.
Larry Elder is def not going to fix California's homeless problem. This notion is a joke. Libertrianism will only create more homeless.

had several of the same experience myself. pick up guys have to create all sorts of bullshit products and produce tons of useless content so they can stay relevant and have something they can sell/scam lonely desperate guys. the best coaches out there know that basically all pick up is is trying to get a guy to be his authentic, normal healthy self. from there fun and chill vibes come and attraction unfolds seamless and naturally. 

Approach every girl you would be willing to sleep with.

What you do in this situation is you talk to more girls.
A big part of dating/pickup is screening out girls who are not a good match for you. Just because she is hot doesn't mean it's a good match.
If a girl leaves you because you refuse her drink, that is not a girl you should be interested in sleeping with.
The lesson here for you is not about how to get such girls go stay. The lesson is to screen them out yourself.
YOU should be screening her, instead she screened you. This is your mistake. Learn to SCREEN girls.

Frame here would be: age doesn't even matter. Older girls want dick as much as if not more than younger ones.
A girl in her 40s still wants a man who will make her feel like a girl again. It's not about your age, it's about how girly you make her feel.

In this case make yourself into an amazing and exceptional guy who brings a lot of value to the table.
Have a life purpose, have a good career, have your finances in order, be well educated, be spiritual, know how to give her amazing sex, know how to build deep intimacy, be in good shape, have a nice wardrobe, have a cool social circle of friends, have a cool house/condo, have some cool hobbies like travel or photography, be well-groomed.
That above is basically every girl's dream bf/husband.
But really, if you just learn to give her deep emotional sex that will be enough for her to think you're amazing and get addicted to you. Deep emotional sex is the way into her heart. The rest is window-dressing.

Dude, if a girl is interested in fucking you she'd also be interested in dating you. It's a matter of logistics in many cases. Sometimes the girl is just in town for the weekend so dating is not viable.
If you can get models to sleep with you, you can certainly get them to date you. Not all of them of course. But it also works in reverse! Plenty of girls will date you who will not do a one night stand with you. If fact, most of your lays will come from dates, not ONSs.
A lot of girls have rules they set for themselves about not doing ONSs. So in a sense ONSs are harder than dating.
It's hard to pull consistently every week, it's much easier to set up 3 dates a week.