For all concerned.

I know exactly how girls respond to attractive men. My feelings about it are irrelevant.
I encourage all men to go out and socialize past their comfort zone and learn from direct experience, not ideology. See for yourselves how girls behave out in the streets.
And build genuine relationships. Learn from that too.
If anything is true you will see it in the streets and in the bedrooms.

Looksmaxing... you mean the thing every woman does every day of her life? 
Do women have a gay fixation when they show off their tits and lips?

@SQAAD I know this is very painful, but there is a deeper lesson here for you about the importance of work.
You can't just expect to live for 5 years on someone else's dime as an adult. You need to learn to handle your own survival responsibly.

Fucking. Fucking never changes.
It's always been about maximizing value. Deny it all you want but survival runs you through and through.

Survival takes place within Being. So if you stop long enough to look underneath all the survival what you see is the underlying Being, which is Consciousness for its own sake.
Spirituality is about seeing the Being underneath all the unconscious survival.
Emptiness just means free of survival.

I see this biohacker stuff like an extended performance art / grift.
You create a biohacker public persona and then monetize the shit out of it by selling hope and pills to gullible rubes.
Dave Asprey has pioneered that particular art. It's a very sneaky survival strategy.
Of course there will be a million dollar book deal, talkshow rounds, overpriced branded supplements, a special trademarked diet, and more.

Im struggeling for a while now with socializing. 
i find 90% of my interactions are ABSOLUTE BOREDOM and fakery.. meaningless ping-pong of bullshit.. when its funny i can enjoy it more but most of the time its not even truly funny, i just pretend to laugh to fit in.. im talking about relationships, family and even friends sometimes. 

im not the most social guy in the table for sure but also not the most shy and introverted guy. im definetly not a socialization ninja but i can handle conversations quite fine and without anxiety and shit.. i just dont truly enjoy it.. and lately i cannot stop myself from asking "why? why do i even bother? its so lame and full of phony people doing foolish things and concerned with banal things.. i dont find people and their opinions interesting so why do i even try?" 
 
could someone please enlighten me here with some higher perspective? 
why do you enjoy socializing? what do you find exciting about it? 


P.S
oh lord save me from thy stupid misery and from foolish social activities

Whatever horror you want to imagine.
I said, you would not believe me that reality is Love.
I didn't say that.
Not necessarily. Human existence is horrific enough if you bother to really look into it.
Do you understand the horror of torture prisons in the Middle East?
You know of such things intellectually, but I'm talking about the horror of living it. If you lived through it, you would not be so open to reality being Love.

I personally know someone who utterly tanked their grades in high school solely because of their computer game addiction. I mean -- all F's. 
They were later able to redeem themselves by doing very good in a Community College, allowing themselves to get into a decent University.
But another person I know is currently in his 4th year of Community College, its supposed to only take 2 years, because of his computer gaming addiction. 

Smart phones and social media present a new unique challenge that never existed before. Attention spans are dropping and internet addiction is real.

@Moreira Personal Dev, Consciousness, Growth, Truth, Learning, Health, Reading Books, etc. -- these are all values. Some people value them, some don't.
People who are into self-actualization should seek out relationships with other people who are also into self-actualization. Otherwise, you two will quickly grow apart.
This doesn't mean the person has to share all of your values, but there needs to be at least like 50% alignment on the most important ones.
You can't be a self-actualizer who dates a fundamentalist Mormon. It's not going to work. The freedom and honesty that comes from self-actualization will disturb the Mormon too much.
Fundamentally, you want to find a person who's into growing themselves and values health over dysfunction.
That can be hard to find. But that's what a self-actualizer needs.
Start hanging around yoga classes or Wholefoods, where such people congregate

The problem would be: a disconnect in values.
You can't be in an effective relationship with someone when your values are totally different.
And the deeper question is: Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who's not into your values?
That would be sort of like wearing a shoe that doesn't fit. It might work for a while, but not in the long run.

The biggest thing will be values alignment. Find friends whose values align well with yourself and then friendship will be pretty easy if you invest energy into it.

It's pretty low con overall. But it does force one to grow as a man because it is so challenging. And there can be some high con aspects to it if you do it right.
It's basically learning how to socialize. And socialization is pretty low con overall.

Frankly, if you believe me that reality is Love, it just goes to show that you haven't actually confronted the horror of reality.
If you knew the horror, you would never believe me.
Which would make the awakening all the more of a mindfuck.

Yes, we are morally superior to a Nazi.
At least we got that going for us.
No matter how bad you fuck up at self-actualization, at the end of the day you can tell yourself, "Well, at least I'm not a Nazi."

Awakening has nothing to do with this.
To even think of it that way is absurd.
Spiritual development technically has nothing to do with Awakening. No human concern touches or matters to Awakening. Development is irrelevant to Consciousness.
Do not confuse any human concerns or behaviors with Consciousness.

@Javfly33 Be careful. Don't do anything rash. There is nothing wrong with surviving and working towards success. Do not get too pre-occupied with avoiding all corruption. Life is meant to be a bit dirty. You can have truth and still be productive in the material world.
You don't need to try to escape life. Enjoy life a little.

Corruption isn't something you will or don't. Corruption is just the logical consequence of less than infinite consciousness.
Any being with less than infinite consciousness must be corrupt because you just don't have enough intelligence to do otherwise.
It's not a judgement of you. God doesn't need to judge you. But God sees all your corruption.
The only thing that can be pure is formless Infinity. Which is God. Which is death. So by being alive you are evil.
What did you think? That you were a good guy? Haha!
That's the biggest load of shit you sold yourself.

Understanding women is harder than understanding the fabric of reality

Because God loves EVERYTHING.
The existence of evil just makes God's Love even deeper.
If evil didn't exist God's Love would be less than infinite.

Today i had a haircut and noticed half of my front hair were missing and even in the crown area they were starting to thin heavily. For context im 34, my dad and also the males on my mother side are bald so genetically im screwed, the question was always "when". When this thing started at 26-27 maybe i got a lot of anxiety but later it became less and less important, until today. Now its really gone so i have to cope with it. Also i dont wanna do treatments, dont wanna spray, drop, foam or any other shit to fight for a dead cause max i can do is a hair transplant dont know but even that seem pathetic and not really manly. The reason i'm writing in the mental health section is how do i cope with it, how do i not get disturbed by it. This becomes problematic mostly when i meet new people, or in work related enviroments where i want to be "the best version of myself" which in my mind is me at 25 witch a head full of hair and muscles. That self hasnt died yet and anything below that (the real me now) is a scary cat which just want to leave the room as quick as he can. Not to mention when taking pictures now im aware of things i didnt thought of before like if i got strong lights above my head and so on. How do I enjoy life when aging is so noticeble? People like Leo which i remember being bald since 2014 have no problem at all as it seems and i want to know their path. For me i believe it will be something like one day ill just shave my head and ill say ok this doesnt look so bad and from that moment ill just keep doing it. Until then ill be in a limbo between the 25 old me and the 35+ me, feeling insecure and trying to hide it with caps shadows etc. 

Proves that he is a philosophical pervert.
All his verbal ejaculations are just a clever distraction from realizing God.
This is why I hate academic philosophers.