Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness

[Schizophonia]

6 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

I personally became more attractive when I stopped denying being LGBT and neurodiverse. By those standards I am pretty attractive. Attracting heterosexual, cis neurotypical women, on the other hand, guarantees I fail 99.9% of the time.

Authenticity is important

You are a heterosexual man.

[Yimpa]

7 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

You are a heterosexual man.

I identify as a fluid shapeshifter 

[Schizophonia]

Il y a 2 minutes, Yimpa a dit :

Je m'identifie comme une métamorphe fluide 

 

Edited February 24, 2024 by Schizophonia

[thierry]

I guess it depends on the woman. But look definitely matters. I actually disagreed with the first Leo's videos on the importance of look for a man attractiveness. I personally have attracted many girls just due to my look and this even when I was very depressed so I do not think I was bringing anything else on the table. Moreover look has a social validation effect. If you are in a group of people and only one girl thinks you are cute. it can cascade on the other girls who subconsciously know one girl is attracted to you and are suddenly more attracted eventhough they were not attracted on the first place.

But of course, look is not enough to maintain attraction with a girl. I repelled many girls who were at the beginning attracted to my look with my other weaknesses.

To conclude I would say that look in a man is not as important as it is for a girl but it helps a lot.

[Leo Gura]

4 hours ago, Raze said:

You said it didn’t matter in your how to get laid series though, what changed?

I have had deeper insight into attraction. It's not an easy thing to unravel.

Edited February 24, 2024 by Leo Gura

[Yali]

@Leo Gura Can you make a video on the importance of physical appearance and how one can go about accepting it?

I think one's physical appearance is a major limiting belief for both guys and girls in many areas of life, and making a video dedicated to that topic would be worthwhile. 

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

I have had deeper insight into attraction. It's not an easy thing to unravel.

 

Edited February 24, 2024 by Yali

[kamill]

This is just fucked what leo is saying It will be an excuse for everyone now to stay comfortable.

Leo in his series how to get laid said in a year if you start from scratch you should expect 3-10 lays I got 17lays in 6 months and now I have very attractive girlfriend. 

Its doable I put blood sweat and tears into it almost got kicked out of a school my grades were so low.

On a scale 1 - 10 iam 5 but I feel like I am the shit and that's what made the difference

[Consept]

Looks are important but for a man there's plenty you can do to enhance that, wardrobe, grooming, gym etc. 

What I would say is the number 1 factor is true confidence, meaning you know you're cool, you fully believe that anyone would enjoy being around you and that any girl could be attracted to you. There are many factors but I think if you had confidence at a 10 it would be more impactful than any other factor. 

This guys homeless but super confident, can't tell if he's good looking or not though 

 

Edited February 25, 2024 by Consept

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, Yali said:

@Leo Gura Can you make a video on the importance of physical appearance and how one can go about accepting it?

I think one's physical appearance is a major limiting belief for both guys and girls in many areas of life, and making a video dedicated to that topic would be worthwhile. 

Yes. Such a video is planned.

[The0Self]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Yes. Such a video is planned.

You have videos planned? Your last on the YT ch was 8 months ago. It’s good to hear that you’re still planning on making more.

[Yimpa]

2 hours ago, The0Self said:

You have videos planned? Your last on the YT ch was 8 months ago. It’s good to hear that you’re still planning on making more.

Good things come to those who wait 

[Kowabunga]

Pay attention to all the couples you see old and young, the majority of the men will be taller with larger frames and most relationships are going online where 90% of females will deny outright men under 5’6” so looks are hugely important and the top importance.  If you cant even get your foot in the door to show your personality, status or fame then its over from the start.  You need to be average at best to even begin to attract girls.  Dont fool yourselves 

[Alexop]

Looks are just a plus for men, unlike in women where no matter how cool and nice they are, bad looks will ruin their show. 

FIrst what do you mean by looks? Physical fitness? If you are fit, that will tell the girl something about your personality, that you are disciplined and take care of yourself so you will also take care of her(probably). Personality, charisma, social status is way more important, I've seen guys who look like complete garbage seen as rockstars in highschool because of their charisma, influence and status.

[Leo Gura]

12 minutes ago, Alexop said:

FIrst what do you mean by looks? Physical fitness?

No! What's meant is genetics.

The whole point of sex is to breed with those who have above average genetics. This is what attraction is really about.

Edited February 25, 2024 by Leo Gura

[StarStruck]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

No! What's meant is genetics.

The whole point of sex is to breed with those who have above average genetics. This is what attraction is really about.

Weird thing is that you can have good genes but if you are not calibrated they will don't want to mess with you. 

[Princess Arabia]

4 hours ago, Kowabunga said:

Pay attention to all the couples you see old and young, the majority of the men will be taller with larger frames

Isn't this what most men are anyway. Men are usually taller and have larger frames than women, period. Your statement here isn't saying much. 

[Yimpa]

55 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Weird thing is that you can have good genes but if you are not calibrated they will don't want to mess with you. 

How do you define calibrated? 

[StarStruck]

3 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

How do you define calibrated? 

Being socially adept, understanding social and power dynamics. Women are very good at this and they are constantly monitoring this. Lately I’m more popular and I notice that they notice it too. In the same way we like teen ass and boobs, they fancy status. 

[Heaven]

@Leo Gura So the reason why you haven’t published a video for a while is because you traveled to Turkey to get a hair transplant?

[Ash55]

23 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Please don't ask Leo about how much does looks play a role in relationships or influences a man's attractiveness. @kamillsaid it perfectly. Of course, if you're dried up and look like a bum on the street or dirty and smell like garbage it won't work so well, but that's the obvious and works both ways, but on a general scale most women don't really care and, listen to this, because it's very important ESPECIALLY THE HOT, VERY FEMININE ATTRACTIVE ONES. They're not running around seeking handsome dudes with muscles, a six pack and who dresses like Don Juan, they are mostly attracted to men's traits, character and personality - whatever that may be. The looks is just an added bonus. 

 

id agree with princess here idk her name lol well bascilly there is no objective measure to looks yes some people are considered super attractive by most people even these people some people gonna see them as ugly, the reason why approaching a lots of girl will increase you chances because your will start finding girls that see your as cute from your look and personality, but i personally believe that looks doesn't matter at all, i feel in love with girls that are super attractive and not the most attractive girls  and girls loved me that saw me super sexy and some that saw me average
leo give looks so much value he him self want girls to look super good i personally dont care too much as long as i find the girl cute too so i see how that can be found in girls too, am definitely attracted to really beautiful women but i know my self and my heart is most of the time can pick not the most beautiful based on genuine love and connection personality etc  

how ever the things about the looks that matter pretty much to all girls is how much you take care of your self and your dress + grooming
a bonus points is being super fit
and both of that you can work on them

remember each girl gonna have a radically different view to reality and different likes and dislikes 

btw i leaned this from teal and its super true if you wanna girls to love you for you looks that what you market your self for
but girls can love you for being super smart too or something else about your personality well i can't remember what video did i see  but you can control what people are drawn or attracted to you, basically you can show that you have money and some girls come to you just because you have money that is how you are selling your or market your self
and you can sell your self as a creative person that can attract other girls to you for that and find the girls that shares with you what you are unique for 

and developing hummer is much more attractive than looks

Edited February 25, 2024 by Ash55