Princess Arabia

Guys, if it's just about sex, listen to Leo, if it's about a relationship, don't. You'll be lost and confused. Women love that you care about what she likes, it shows you care about her as long as you're not kissing her ass. Here he comes, I'm not listening. I don't care what you like. Lol

You want a pickmeisha. Lol. Poor woman, chasing a dog. She'll catch you and you'll be like next. BTW, not calling you a dog. Figure of speech.

No, that's what men want. We don't care about your mysterious self, just come direct.

The word "my" should tell us that that's duality and a dream. Reality screams this shit.

https://www.actualized.org/insights love this too. Leo is on fire lately. I love when he talks about Reality, even though I may disagree sometimes or haven't seen what he's referring to yet. Relatively, of course. This post is relatable, understandable and says a lot.

Notice people that post (start threads) constantly, excessively like maybe 3or 5 posts a day, then on to the next one the next day, maybe 4 or 5/wk or more, just posting excessively in a short period of time like maybe a month or two usually disappear for a while after that. Maybe even forever or a year or many months. It's something I've noticed. When I say I excessive I mean to the point where it's noticeable. Not like one every day or 2 or 3 a week or so but as I mentioned above. Never fails. I would say to myself I bet this person doesn't log on for awhile. That's energy exploding. Like a hurricane or tornado or tsunami. Then comes the calm. It needed that expression Lots of pent up frustration. Needs to go somewhere. This is an excellent place to relieve tension. A place for safe expressions. Judgements and criticisms here aren't taken too lightly because that's like criticizing someone's expression. It's taken personally and as an attack. I know I've felt that way before. I've even noticed that since I've started this journal, my responses, threads, posts and comments on the main forum have reduced dramatically. Energy is being expressed here. It's pretty stable and not eruptive and loves to talk to itself. Express itself in writing. Some days it's more, some days it's less and some not at all.

Definitely not the Bible. Just kidding.

As long as she's not really ugly. 😜

If there was someone in the body, a me or an I, there would be no need for the use of these pronouns. These pronoun's uses are there for narratives to place them within the body as a representation. The only reason there's a person in the body is because you put it there. Now you have to name it and call it 'me' or 'I' to make the distinction. You, them, us, our, their, etcetc are all a representation of what isn't there but is abstractly placed. All the pronouns. A 'you' must come with a 'your' and a 'them' must come with a 'theirs' and an 'us' must be accompanied by an 'ours' and a 'me' must be accompanied with a 'mine'. It will take a special kind of thinking to get what I'm saying. A something that's actually there doesn't need a name, doesn't need to be pointed to and doesn't need to be seen. If something is seen, it's already not there. Heard, not there, smelt, not there, touched, not there. That's what the senses are for. They are there to give the illusion life. Can you see absence, the absence of something, no. You need eyes to see it. That's another 'sense'. Just like hear, touch, feel, taste and smell are senses, absen(s)e is another sense. That's the real sense. That's why we seek, we seek our absence. No self, nobody, no this no that...it's all absence. Not non existence, but the existence of what's not there but needs a sense to pick it up.

Corny. That's for a husband to keep telling his wife or an already established date. "Telling her she's beautiful, I mean". No need to tell a stranger you're trying to hit on/date/sleep with you find them beautiful. Ugly females might care, but a beautiful woman or even an average female doesn't really care about these lines. That doesn't hit an emotion. It's generic, cliche and puts you beneath her right off the bat. Telling a random female she's beautiful just for telling her she's beautiful and keep it moving is a different story. Nothing awkward about that. It's the one's you're trying to pick up where it makes a difference. What if I wasn't beautiful, what if we get married and I lose my looks, what if another beautiful woman comes along.....these are subconscious responses going on in her head without her even saying a word. The compliment is nice, but it's not a way for a female to see you differently or someone she really wants to get to know. Exceptions are there, of course, I'm speaking generally and from my pov.

An insight came to me today. The human seems to be the only organism, thing, person....whatever that seems to carry this separate energy that thinks it's a somebody with free will and choice and blah blah blah. We have heard it been called 'contracted energy'. That's what they call it in non-dualism. Now, when a woman is pregnant and is about to have the baby, she experiences contractions. We all have heard about this before, and mothers can contest to that. Maybe this is the cause of the 'contracted energy' in humans. Usually there's also pain and suffering involved in the birthing process and maybe that's why this energy experiences pain and suffering. Animals seem to experience pain too but remember the mother also has contractions. Maybe there is some similarity there. The energy is innately contracted and it arises within the body from the mother's contractions. It tends to seek relief and is a seeker by nature. All the characteristics that come with this energy is what being human is all about. Maybe. Food for thought. I find this insight interesting even though it's just a story and there really is no contracted energy, only appears that way.

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He's probably getting these advice on his cell phone. Wait...throw away your cell phone but after you've read what I have to say on your phone. Throw it away tomorrow. The phone is not the problem, he'll just pick up a new time-wasting habit instead. Advise on how to do other things or spend the time, not throw away the phone. We're always putting blame on objects, without the phone, he's still there.

It's not about having a cell phone or not, it's what you do with it. Stop telling the man to throw his phone in the trash or get rid of it. That's asinine.

@RazeYoure not going to find women talking on camera and making a big deal about being attracted to "non-toxic" men. The only reason it's being talked about is because of its essence. How much "non-drama" situations do you see getting exposed. They do exist, you know. No one cares, everyone loves drama. Drama sells. So when you see these things on social media maybe they are the exceptions and not the norm or rule.