This is not the case.
Most of my advice pertains to the relative domain. In your case of dealing with these healers, I'm telling you to be careful precisely for relative reasons. They can give you bad/wrong advice and you just trust them and ruin your life.
In dealing with some of these spiritual healer type people I have found many of them to be full of shit and it would be very foolish to entrust important life decisions to them. I'm not saying it's all bad, but you gotta be skeptical of things they say because they say some bullshit that will directly contradict other spiritual healers.
For example, I went to a top rated spiritual healer last year and asked her specifically about my health problems. She told me there is absolutely nothing wrong with my body. At first I believed her. Then I did medical testing and found out otherwise, and conclusively proved to myself that she was full of shit as I started taking medicine and feeling much better.
Now, will she ever admit her mistake? Never. She's too high on her own spiritual bullshit.
So from now on any time someone tells me they are a spiritual healer, I will look at them like they are an idiot. And in questioning these healers deeply I can see they are not awake, they are playing sophisticated games of self-deception and imagination.

It's tricky to say. I don't know exactly. Some people get stuck chasing the same desire endlessly forever.
I think it probably involves experiencing enough of it that you get sick of it and are ready to move on to higher things. It also requires exploration of higher joys.
I feel like I have almost extinguished my desire for junk food. It used to be so hard to say no, now it is almost effortless. And I had a lot of junk food in the past, but it caused me so much suffering I don't want it any more.
Lower desires tend to bring a lot of suffering which you can use against them. But it requires going through that suffering. Play so much video games that you are disgusted with yourself.
It certainly helps a lot when you discover higher spiritual dimensions to life. You can use spiritual joy to replace the seeking of base cravings and raw pleasure.
Sex is still a desire I have not figured out. It's so powerful and intoxicating. I see few spiritual masters have conquered it even in their 60s.

Shares don't need to give executive control.
Then you are a privileged elite. Because this is very exceptional.
Nice try, but things would still have value even if we killed at the daytraders tomorrow.
Markets can exist without daytraders and speculators.
In some ideal case yes, but nature weeds out middlemen for good reason. Middlemen don't last long in this game.
Thanks, but I'll take my chances

Have you heard of Amazon? Their stock prices are soaring yet they still treat their employees like shit.
Look, I'm not saying a serious investor shouldn't get some return on his investment. But a billion times return like today's CEO's? Hell no.
You could cut returns by 95% and things would still be fine. Take Jeffo Bezo's returns down from $200 billion to $50 million. Give the rest to the laborers who do the actual labor. Likewise for all major corporations. There will still be rich CEOs and investors, just not insanely rich. Cap income at $50 mil and the world will be a better place. There is no reason why anyone should hold over $50 mil no matter how many companies they start. If they don't want to work after $50 mil, fuck them. Let them retire. But such people will choose to work anyway because they can't stand retirement, so nothing will be lost.

It's just what guys do. Don't take it personal. But of course you will.
Of course, because it goes against your survival agenda.
God himself it not able to stop thirsty guys from thinking of women as sex objects. That's how guys think. Of course women don't like it, but that's your agenda, not the guy's agenda.
You're not going to succeed in shaming or guilting guys into not thinking about fuckability. That would be like guys trying to shame or guilt women into having 3-somes. It's not gonna work.
Just so you know what it's like to be a guy, your mind is always automatically scanning for fuckability. This is not something you just decide not to do. And what you so crudely call "fuckability" is just survival value. You, as a woman, are also always scanning for survival value. You just need a different value. So don't for one second think that you're above this sort of this. Your entire life is you scanning for survival value.

@ColeMC01 To some degree yes. But in-person game is much more favorable to effort.
If you put in lots of effort hitting the streets and clubs you will attract some stunning girls. The same cannot be said with online.

I'll grant you height. That's part of looks.
The rest is BS.
How about this. We guys will ask you ladies to post your bra dimensions in your profile, and we will consider that to be not looks but a personality trait
That basically falls under LOOKS. You are looking at that in the pics. But it only matters if the guy is already attractive looking to begin with, otherwise jay jay goes dry.

The problem goes way deeper than that. The problem is in how your mind defines "evidence" and "proof". These are not simple notions, these notions are relative to one's metaphysical and epistemic paradigm.
The problem is that a materialistic paradigm does not have a robust and subtle enough notion of "evidence" and "proof" to accomodate paranormal phenomena, therefore it is blind to them and says they can't exist.
Color can't exist for one who super-glued his eyelids shut.

@Hugo Oliveira You should look into doing pickup more authentically rather than selling yourself. Reframe it more as socialization rather than trying to sell yourself. And enjoy the process.
The bottom line is that you cannot get laid unless you socialize somehow. How you do it is up to you.

Of course your defintion of maturity is subjective and relative.
The problem that academics and scientists have is that they do not admit the subjectivity and relativity of their own work. So they use that label "subjective" in a demeaning sense and apply it to everyone but themselves. Which is the chief delusion.
Do not expect scientists or academics to understand or acknowledge such things because they have thoroughly brainwashed themselves as a prerequisite of success in their profression.
You can't get a man to understamd a thing when his job depends on him not understanding it.
Relative is the concept you're looking for here, not subjective. Human standards of beautiful people are still totally relative to culture and human biology. A dog does not find a super model beautiful.
If we changed your genetics and culture what you find beautiful would radically change.
And then there is the absolute perspective which is that everything in the Universe is infinitely beautiful. Which is Absolute Truth. But most people are too self-biased to see it.
You see, the human or animal mind is simply selecting a narrow, self-biased slice of Infinite Beauty that serves its survival. Ta-da!

Yes, it's a self-reinforcing reality bubble that the mind constructs and maintains. Structurally no different than religion or a conspiracy theory. They're all constructed reality bubbles.

To be honest... creativity just doesn’t pay. I mean for the very select few that are able to be rewarded for their creativity sure it pays but for every one of them there are a hundred that aren’t. It’s basically a requirement if you have any hope of amassing any sort of wealth in modern society that you invest in the stock market. If you are well educated and on a salary between 10k - 100k you basically have to invest in the stock market if you want to have a decent amount of savings.

So, I was in a long-distance relationship with a woman who treated me like shit. I let her treat me like that, cause I was too blind in love with her. Call it fantasy, love whatever. When i told her about how I felt bad because of her. She was in denial and told me to stay away from her.  I deleted her number and unfollowed her on Insta. I've never been taken seriously by women. It always ends up in a mess when I tell them how I feel. 
I started liking this another girl, i was simply texting, and she calls me rude. She pulled away. I was like- Tf just happened? It's been three days, I haven't texted her, nor seen her stories or liked her post. After this many years, I have learnt, that if a woman pulls away, let her go. It will always be worse when i try to convince her or tell her I am sorry. It has never worked. I know from experience. 
So, the fairy tale idea of the one girl who will truly love me, is kinda dead. I hate to play these mind games. I am growing more detached, which is far better than super needy like i was. I'll never look at women like angels anymore. I won't make generalizations cause I don't want to demean anyone here. The games we play while being in survival mode. I feel like romantic attraction is kinda shallow. I can see through my own attraction as well- I don't see beyond looks: The visuals. 
Help me understand, how can there be a true relationship, when both sexes will always be attracted to attractive people of the opposite gender, and sometimes, even cheat?  
 
 

@d0ornokey Check how you are finding these girls. If you are attracting unloving girls, there's something weird in your way of attracting them. Diversify your source and be mindful of how you're rejecting loving girls. You can also develop screening questions to screen out unloving girls.
SCREEN your girls before you sleep with them! Say NO to girls who don't fit your standards. Have high standards. Cure your neediness. Set boundaries.

Yes, and that is what creates wage slavery.
When you earn money from doing nothing you steal that money from the people who do the work.
You call it "just investing" when really it is exploitation. You just are not honest with yourself about what you're doing because it does not benefit you to be honest about it otherwise you'd have to stop doing. So the key for you is exploit others while thinking you are a good guy.

@Rinne Pretty much all stock investing is leeching, even if you are doing long-term investment.
Just ask yourself, what work are you doing to add genuine creative value to the world? And you will quickly see where you are a leech.
Even when you invest into a 401k for retirement, you are still fundamentally a leech. You expect others to work for you for nothing.

@Mythos Stocktrading is not a replacement for a job/career.
To get a job you need marketable skills. The problem is not the economy. The problem is your lack of skills. If you were well-skilled you would be hired quickly no matter what the economy.

And, as I said all along, daytraders are not your friend:
You guys are too easily hyped. Learn this lesson for the future.
In the future, expect Wall Street to hijack social justice movements to make mad money. That's what you invite them to do when you act like a mindless herd animal.
And the only difference between hedge fund managers and daytraders is the amount of money they have.

Cancel Culture: when conservatives would stone homosexuals, blacklist socialists, do witch burnings, torture heretics, and demonize all other cultures but their own.

I realized that I was addicted to self help when I realized that most of my interests revolve around it and that I tend to base my self worth on how conscious I am being. Part of me was attracted to self help because I genuinely wanted to be the best I could be but I would be lying if I said that this is the only thing that drew me to it. Another part of me was attracted to self help because I think that there is something inherently wrong with me and that I need to make up for lost time because I have all of this potential that I haven't tapped into yet. While this addiction has helped me grow a lot as a person, I'm starting to see the limitations of it for me personally. I also realize that getting over self help is also a form of self help since I'm working through an addiction I have. It's a paradox lol.
But yeah, how do I deal with this?  

Lol
You don't get it.
YOU are all there is. There is no discontinuity in Spira's consciousness because YOU are conscious!
For fuck's sake. Your conscious is Absolute and there is no other.
You guys are arguing pure delusion. All your arguments are wrong. They are not even within the same plane as Truth.

No, I think it's just a matter of social evolution.
The culture has shifted up since 2008. The Overton window has shifted. People get more liberal as society evolves -- even despite MAGA. Conservatives are usually fighting a losing battle. Every liberal president who is elected pushes the envelop forward a bit. Which is why progressives need to calm the fuck down and be patient. It's not going to happen overnight.
8 years of Biden/Kamala will move us considerably forward even if they are neoliberals.

@Striving for more I think I told you on a different post already.
Rsd inner circle on facebook. Its a group to find wings. I found people on RSD inner circle Barcelona. You look up any big cities near you and you should get into the group on Facebook, Whatsapp or Telegram
 
 

When I experience people with really cleaned up mind and psyche I feel so nice in their presence despite them not really being woke. It's amazing, really. I'd even say they are actually quite woke but in their own way. Just more of a secular definition of woke ness
Healthy psyches = Healthy beings
I feel we just need more holistically healthy people in general and the world will already turn into much better and much more woke place for anyone