Flowerfaeiry

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  1. This is such a sweet question! Thank you. I would say, expressive
  2. Historically women have been the ones to stay home and raise children, looking after the household. But women have poured their spiritual energy into other things like story telling, witchcraft, creating, etc
  3. I’ve never had any problem with mods on the internet. But I behave myself pretty damn well.
  4. Being yourself does take practice. Of course you are always being yourself but is that self you are expressing coming from a truly authentic place? A teacher of mine taught me that physically grounding helps with authenticity. She also taught me a meditation that calls all my energy back to me. Noticing my feet in the earth and feeling the energy from it moving up into my body. Through that I feel myself able to express in an authentic way.
  5. Herpes is pretty common. It’s not that big of a deal really.
  6. “Calling in The One” by Katherine Woodward Thomas
  7. It’s good you’ve found something that works for you
  8. I’m not saying pushing yourself won’t get you results. And discipline is necessary. But be wise about it. If pushing yourself is causing you stress and anxiety, back off a little. That’s your body telling you something. Maybe you need some loving care in that moment instead. Maybe you need to recalibrate and figure out if you’re approaching things from the right angle. This idea of push push push until you reach your goals is hurting us. We see this all around. Self help culture, while it has some gold, is toxic and it’s hard to see that when you’re swimming in it.
  9. Forcing yourself to do spiritual practices and self help for years on end is not worth it. You will end up harming yourself. That’s sort of the vibe I’m getting from this post. I blindly pushed myself for yearrrrs until I finally started doing some healing and realizing I had been approaching my development incorrectly. There is this idea in self help that you will be happy and fulfilled if you just push through but that’s most often not the case.
  10. Enjoying a drink or two a couple times a week is not bad for your health. In fact, allowing yourself to enjoy some of your favorite pleasures in life will increase your health. It kinda sounds like you’re unsure if you want to quit drinking or not. That’s ok too, you can live in that in between for a little while while you explore that some more and can feel satisfied with your choices.
  11. I do. I believe in “sun charging” in general. I energetically cleanse things in the sun. I love being in the sun. It changes me.
  12. Let it flow. You don’t need to overthink this one. I’m overly practical when it comes to friendships and can take them or leave them for the most part (I have a few close friends). I’ve noticed a lot of people, like coworkers or classmates make empty promises like “we should hang out” etc and I mostly stay quiet during such exclamations because I know it’s often just something people say to fill space/be nice. They don’t mean anything by it it’s just how things go sometimes. I have in the past straight up told a coworker that I didn’t think we would be friends once I quit that job. Her and I got somewhat close at work and went out with other coworkers and even just us two at one time. But I knew that outside of work it just wasn’t a friendship I cared to pursue. But I have also made good friends from coworkers but it wasn’t something that I thought much about. It naturally flowed.
  13. Bald is good. It matters less what you look like and more the type of man you are.
  14. I created a Reddit sub forum with other online friends several years ago. The premise was sort of a “find the others” type deal where we connected to people who had wild psychedelic experiences. It was also heavily focused on the arts so much of what was shared was done in an artistic manner. It has now in some regards become a place where those who had psychedelic experiences and are severely mentally ill share their mostly incoherent thoughts. Some share artistic spiritual platitudes that lead nowhere. Fun but not super productive. There is some good stuff on there too. It was a really neat experience growing a community (it now has 15k subs) but yea too much mentally ill ramblings killed the space for me and some of the other mods were kinda already on that plane.
  15. Sounds like you’ve got it! Be careful with supplements. I know 5htp is a popular one to take after a trip and I heard that if taken during the trip it can cause more damage. Plus those brain supplements can be potent so I would tread very carefully.