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Problems with pick up
Problems with pick upYou must prioritize.
I have no idea what your priorities are. Sit down and figure it out.
If you are going to be a cold approach machine on a school campus word will definitely get around.
You have to be more careful and calibrated about how you approach on a campus.
But a campus offers a lot of socialization events and activities, so your game can be more indirect social-circle than direct cold approach. Sign up to social events and chat up girls.
Frat parties is where it's at.
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Optimal Frequency for Mushrooms
Optimal Frequency for MushroomsI wouldn't do it more than once per week.
If you want daily tripping you need 5-MeO substances or DMT. 4-AcOs and 4-HOs should be done no more than weekly. 5-MeO / DMT you can blast all day long. But be careful what you wish for.
Too much tripping will destabilize your mind and life.
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Optimal Frequency for Mushrooms
Optimal Frequency for MushroomsIt's not purity. 5-MeO molecules simply work differently in the brain than 4-HO and 4-AcO molecules.
Actually the novelty wearing off has never been an issue for me. I did 28 days straight of 5-MeO-DMT and the novelty only increased each day. It didn't wear off at all.
If I was hooked up to a 24/7 IV drip of 5-MeO, I don't think I would ever get bored of it. I'm hoping in the future someone will invent a device that can be implanted in the body like a pacemaker which will just manufacture chronic mild doses of 5-MeO and drip it into the bloodstream. This would solve all of mankind's problems with spiritual practice and the majority of the population would awaken.
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What do you do for a living?
What do you do for a living?@Vision Sorry i misunderstood what you where asking, i thought you where asking about cloud services as a business model. I know a few guys who slowly built up there own over time, for every new client they would add a service to there infustructure and in a few years they had a entire package of cloud services to quickly build any app and keep there customers tied financially to them lol. But the services are no different from using google or amazon cloud services, so they basically remade what has already been done a million times, but now they own it and can charge for it.
Excellent.
Yes but are they profitable? There are so many alternatives/competition. Most of the work people do goes to open source or ends up freely accessible to people.
Im constantly learning new technologies for different jobs, so ive done a few things like, Full stack web development, Smart Contracts, Game development, IOT and Hardware modeling/programming, Mobile apps, Chrome extensions, Trading bots... ++
I worked in a company for a few years 9-5, its definitely less enjoyable then working with startups, but the pay is good + benefits. Working with other people is a pain and a distraction, its takes a lot of effort coordinating, tracking tasks, meetings, bug management...
I work for people and have side projects. Ideally i would of done things differently and started a company or various services but life doesn't always give you the opportunities.
22, i would of started sooner if i new coding existed, i had no idea what it was. But before any of that i was addicted to problem solving and games like chess, so programming was a immediate addiction that suited me.
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The 5-MeO-DMT Mega-Thread
The 5-MeO-DMT Mega-ThreadGot my hands on a bag of 5MEO-DMT HCl for the first time. (Only managed to source freebase before.)
I have had a few experiences smoking it and breaking through. 30mg was the sweet-spot when smoking it.
Now with the HCl (plugging), I wonder how much I should use to get on the same wavelength as a 30mg smoked dose?
As plugging makes psychedelics much more intense for me. 2CB can for example get very intense (In a good way) when plugging.
Any tips? @Leo Gura
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5-MeO-DMT Fumarate Dosing and Trip Report
5-MeO-DMT Fumarate Dosing and Trip ReportGood work. Especially that last trip.
For me 20mg would be a breakthrough dose. 30mg would be intense enough to be physically harmful. 25mg is my sweet spot.
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Starting my Nofap & Attraction journey
Starting my Nofap & Attraction journeyI’m going to start Nofap from now on, no PMO for 90 days at least.
And im going to start talking to girls while out, Im going for 500 approaches this year at least.
what are some high quality/high consciousness dating gurus online? I really like Owen Cook aka rsdtyler, maybe you guys have more suggestions like him.
Gonna start a journal as well soon.
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Another date, another fail
Another date, another fail@kras That proves you don't know ALL the theory or applying bad theory. Unless you have terrible logistical issues (which I do have), the first date should be back to your place, which is the MOST ideal and is preferred, even without a lockdown.
@MrBON You obviously don't know women- there are many guys in a private group taking girls back to their place. Even with my bad logistics, I get invited to their house.
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Is meditation useless?
Is meditation useless?@Dovahkiin Definitely agree with everything you wrote... It really resonates. And yes, happiness isn't insight, however happiness IS an insight haha. I use the techniques outlined in The Mind Illuminated, which is a book heavily focused around Samatha, but it's more accurately a samatha-vipassina hybrid as it combines elements of both in an integrated way. Feels like a SD stage yellow meditation book, with streaks of turquoise. Highly recommend it if you feel more pull towards traditional meditation vs. kriya. I've done some kriya yoga, but it feels a bit too active for me. There's something about the stillness and potential boredom that arises with meditation that attracts me. I think eventually I'll give Kriya another shot once I've developed the skills with meditation I want.
My strategy with consciousness work is using meditation to transform my mind and use contemplation/psychedelics for insights. I don't really regard meditation as an insight generator (though I have had many insights while meditating), but rather a tool that works directly on reprogramming my mind and emotions, as well as a tool for integrating the insights I've gotten from both dry contemplation and contemplation under the influence of psychedelics.
Edit: To give credit where credit is due, @ardacigin is the one who initially brought The Mind Illuminated on my radar. He has a lot of really great posts talking about facets of meditation and its utility.
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Is meditation useless?
Is meditation useless?That is exactly what mediation is: worming your way up Mt Everest. If it sounds needlessly slow and painful, that's because it is.
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Comparison between pornography and real sex!
Comparison between pornography and real sex!Great sex is all about your mind, not your body. The physical mechanics are the least important part of sex.
Never had this need.
Get her and yourself so turned on that you won't even be thinking about lube.
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DMT vape pen
DMT vape penCrack pipe is very wasteful of chemical and inconsistent.
Electronic rig is way more efficient, potent, effortless, and discrete. Makes breaking-through a breeze.
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Comparison between pornography and real sex!
Comparison between pornography and real sex!You just need to learn to have better sex.
Good sex requires training, skill, and experience. There are many ways to make your sex a lot hotter and deeper. But people are too lazy and uncreative to do it.
Don't form your opinions on sex based off one or two girls you've done it with or some lame ONS. Jerking off is not nearly as emotionally satisfying as sex well-executed.
Sex, like awakening, comes in many degrees. Don't expect girls to just give you great sex on their own. You must lead them into great sex. Train them to have hot sex.
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Isn't Pickup Unconscious?
Isn't Pickup Unconscious?Haha
In practice what most women do is this:
They spend their teens and 20s sleeping around with the hottest, most high-value guys they can find. But since these guys are high value, they tend to be players who leverage their value and won't commit, or are abusive narcissistic assholes. So eventually by the time you hit your 30s you learn your lesson and lower your standards to guys who are less players, but also less attractive and you find some comfortable compromise position with such a guy and you two settle down.
Then you get divorced.
This is a tale as old as mankind itself. Nothing at all surprising about it. This is the game. The game is happening whether you know it or not, whether you want it or not.
The only way out of the game is not be alone and not have sex. If you're going to play the game, you're gonna suffer its inherent limitations. There is no free lunch in the relative world. Sex and relationships have a high cost. Which is why monks and yogis avoid them entirely.
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Isn't Pickup Unconscious?
Isn't Pickup Unconscious?I've had multiple ex-girlfriends, so be careful with your assumptions.
It's best if you didn't concern yourself with my personal life.
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Isn't Pickup Unconscious?
Isn't Pickup Unconscious?This is not true.
And stop framing this as "tricks" to get in a girls panties. Proper game is about becoming a legitimately more attractive and higher value guy. It is not fake. It is real. The confidence and humor developed through pickup is REAL. And it will be respected and appreciated.
Today I am genuinely much more attractive than I used to be. Because of the development work I did. And any woman who sleeps with me will benefit from that. It's not some trick I'm running on her.
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Isn't Pickup Unconscious?
Isn't Pickup Unconscious?Like I said, it all depends upon your standards. If you have low standards you can go develop a deep intimate relationship with a crack whore or a hunchback. But who are we kidding? We want the best we can get.
You don't need to go crazy with maximizing sexual value. But your mind IS maximizing it to some degree, whether you know it or not. Feelings of attraction ARE the maximization process at work. It is not a logical process, it is all handled subconsciously by your mind and all you know about it is the feelings of attraction and arousal.
When you feel aroused by another person, that's your mind telling you:
"ALERT! ALERT! ALERT! HIGH SEXUAL VALUE DETECTED! HIGH SEXUAL VALUE DETECTED! CAPITALIZE ON THIS IMMEDIATELY! DO NOT IGNORE!"
And your ego-mind says, "I love that person for who they really are. I'm so loving. This is true love."
It's all self-biased bullshit. A delicious hallucination.
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Isn't Pickup Unconscious?
Isn't Pickup Unconscious?A supermodel is a lot more than just a hot girl. She has fame, status, and millions of dollars.
Yeah, I could bang a hot nobody girl. But landing an actual supermodel is a very different matter. She's not gonna date a guy who's not at least a millionaire.
Celebrity dating is a whole nother league, son.
BTW, I once went on a date with the 75th top ranked Russian pro tennis star. She was buying BMWs with cash and she was smoking hot. Her body was incredible. But we didn't get along so I never got the chance to sleep with her. But I got real close. If our personalities were more aligned it would have happened.
So yeah, even a guy with my looks can attract hot girls. But it requires game. It ain't gonna happen "naturally".
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Isn't Pickup Unconscious?
Isn't Pickup Unconscious?Nah... women will always downplay their numbers because it increases your value.
Your friend who fucked 55 dudes will never tell that to her future husband.
So why are you rebuking me for the cock carousel? There it is.
I totally get that.
Men and women both struggle, just in asymmetrical ways. That's my whole point. Neither side has it easy.
I'm all for it. I promote conscious relationships. But I am also realistic about how survival works.
Statiatical surveys show that women consistently downplay their number of sexual partners, just as guys upplay theirs.
Don't take it personal. I didn't slut-shame anyone here. I merely said I won't blindly trust a woman's self-reported numbers. I'm not a fool. Women play games too. Your game is playing coy.
Haha! And how do I deal with the fact that I wasn't born with a foot-long cock and a perfectly muscular body that would allow me to be a world-class porn star?
You can raise your value but only so far. Genetics is a big factor.
You ain't ever gonna land Leonardo De Caprio. Just like I will never land a supermodel.
Tough titty.
But here's the silver lining: you can find someone near your level of sexual value.
You deal with it by loving who you are regardless of who you are.
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Isn't Pickup Unconscious?
Isn't Pickup Unconscious?Of course I understand that.
You are describing the female sexual agenda. I totally get it.
But men are under no obligation to cater to your agenda.
Well, that's beyond the scope of what most men are interested in learning. Most men want to buy advice for how to get more sex, not how to be nice to their girlfriend.
Again, you are expecting men to want to suit your female sexual agenda. But of course men have their own agenda. Why should men work towards your agenda when you don't care about fulfilling their agenda?
Men are merely doing to you what you are doing to them.
Notice your self-bias here.
Haha! And if women would freely open their legs for men when the man wanted it, then men would be much happier with no frustration or burden.
You are not understanding that women and men have conflicting agendas. You expect the man to align to your agenda while you will not do so for him. So here we are stuck in sex wars.
The nature of sexual relations is adversarial. This needs to be understood.
Yes, but you will never give your love to a man you don't find attractive.
Neither will a man.
You expect the man to bend over backwards for you. Which is selfish. But when you act selfish, why are you surprised when the man acts selfish too? He's merely mirroring your own selfishness.
Your desire to lock down a high quality man is selfish and that is your agenda. A man is not under any obligation to do that. Maybe he wants that. But maybe he doesn't. And there is noone to say which is right or wrong because this is a purely relative matter.
And what if he wants sex but you don't give it to him?
High quality women will attract strong men, which is what they want.
Where in the universe is it written that a man should have one woman. See? The universe doesn't revolve around your needs.
Then don't sleep with players. Sleep with some shy nerd who has zero game. There are millions of them around so you will have no problem finding one.
But you see, you don't want to sleep with such a man. You are not attracted to that. You are attracted precisely to strong men who are players who would sleep with lots of women. But you selfishly want to lock him down for yourself exclusively.
So you are creating your own problem.
Likewise for a man. A hot woman can easily be an awful human on the inside. The hottest women tend to be spoiled and emotionally fucked up.
You don't like asshole men, and we men don't like emotional nutcase women. So we're even. Dealing with a crazy emotional woman's drama is no walk in the park.
Of course. But you must have heard of hot women who were insane spoiled brats.
Let's not pretend that men are the only cheaters in the game. Women cheat too. Women use men too.
No, that's highly relative. Like I said, you are free to date whoever you want. Date a socially clueless and humorless man. Go date an incel. They got zero game. But they also have zero value.
But of course you will never be attracted to an Incel.
You see, you are trying to steal sexual value. What you really want is this: you want a super attractive high value man who will never leverage his value. Well, good luck. The more value a man has, the more he will leverage it. Likewise, the more value a woman has, the more she will leverage it. A hot women will not hesitate to leverage her value to get the best man she can. Don't act like only men do this leveraging. All hot women do it.
If a woman has enough value, she will be able to leverage it to get the man to be loyal to her. But if she has insufficient value, she won't. And this is what really pisses you off. Because you want to be able to lock down a man with higher value than you, and you see how easily that fails. But you still want it because you are greedy. You want value for free. This is otherwise known as stealing value. Your ego-mind wants to steal sexual value. Well, that doesn't work so well. So stop doing it.
I know plenty of players and PUAs who ended up settling for one woman. For most guys, pickup is a phase they go through. They sleep around with a handful of girls until they find one and settle down. Few guys want to be hardcore players for life. This is an exception, not the rule. It's also not very sustainable or even desirable. Dating multiple women gets exhausting and time-consuming.
But also, don't pretend like women don't go through a slutty phase. Women sleep around as much if not more than men, but you love to deny it.
No and no.
Sometimes people are just not compatible or properly aligned with each other. In fact this is more often the case than not.
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Isn't Pickup Unconscious?
Isn't Pickup Unconscious?Don't forget that guys with serious game are like 2% of the population.
So if you don't want a player, you can easily avoid them. As long as you can keep your legs closed for them
The thing about players is.... you want to open your legs for them real bad. That's what makes them a player.
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Is meditation useless?
Is meditation useless?It can still be difficult for them. Plenty of spiritually gifted people have harrowing journeys to awakening (like the many classic shaman stories). So don't get the idea that being spiritually gifted makes this process a walk in the park. You can be spiritually gifted and still have a lot of shadow material to work through.
But the biggest thing is, most people will never even attempt to awaken or know about awakening otherwise, unless they are lucky enough to stumble upon it.
A big secret to successful awakening is have the right motivation, curiosity, and desire for it. That in itself is a very rare thing which already requires a certain degree of spiritual attunement. If you motivation is strong, the rest is just a matter of time. If you motivation is weak, almost nothing can help you. So getting your motivation straight is crucial. Which is where psychedelics can be especially helpful. People would be a lot more motivated to awaken if they had a direct experience of God or Infinite Consciousness. It's very hard to build motivation off hearsay and fairytales. It's crucial to experience God for yourself so you know that it is more real than a brick wall. It's very hard to be motivated to pursue a thing for years which you doubt is real.
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Is meditation useless?
Is meditation useless?Yes, it's worth it.
It certianly won't get you awakening, but at least it will be a gateway to more serious spiritual pursuits in years to come.
If you want a chance at awakening via meditation you will have to do at least week-long retreats where you meditate nonstop all day long, every day. Month-long retreats would be more realistically necessary.
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Is meditation useless?
Is meditation useless?The mistake you're making is confusing psychedelics with makyo. Psychedelics are precisely NOT phenomenal distortions but pure insight, deeper than the insight of Zen meditation. The visual distortions that some psychedelics cause are to be completely ignored. The visual distortions arise with psychedelics precisely for the same reason they arise in meditation. They arise even more with psychedelics because they are like meditation x100. So you get 100 times stronger visual distortions but also 100 times deeper insight. Ignore the distortions and keep the insight, just as the Zen masters advise.
There is no mistake in the Zen advice, but the way you are applying it to psychedelics is precisely backwards.
You should dismiss makyo whether you're meditating or tripping balls. And don't forget, all of physical reality is makyo. So don't forget to dismiss that while you're at it
This can vary for different people.
In my view yoga is signficantly more powerful because it is a bio-chemical-mechanical change of the body-mind organism. Much moreso than meditation. Yoga leads to effortless meditation by a mechanical silencing of the mind.