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Non-violent communication
Non-violent communicationIn one of Leo's recent videos, he mentioned he was going to do an episode on non-violent communication. I wanted to get ahead and see what the fuss was about before he made the episode, and found this gem:
It's a 3 hour video, so a great time killer for us self development nerds.
Seriously this has already totally changed my way of thinking about social activities and how we relate to people for the better.
Very keen to see Leo's video on the topic, I think it will make the episode extra juicy having a little bit of extra background knowledge before diving straight in.
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Kriya Yoga - where to start?
Kriya Yoga - where to start?Yes.
I get weird tingely sensations in my skull. I also feel a difference in my dreams, like the pranayama rewired some of my brain stem.
36 per sit. And I try to do 2-4 sits per say.
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Kriya Yoga - where to start?
Kriya Yoga - where to start?We have a Kirya yoga mega-thread that answers many newbie questions.
Follow the books.
I suggest focusing 100% on pranayama spinal breathing. All other techniques are tertiary and mostly unnecessary.
You could reduce all Kriya yoga to just pranayama and maha-mudra. Which makes it so simple.
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Kriya Yoga - where to start?
Kriya Yoga - where to start?I skip it.
I only do pranayama and supreme fire.
Supreme fire feels important.
You can always add in more practices after a year of solid pranayama. So don't worry about it. Your first goal should be to start to feel the effects from a lot of solid pranayama. Once you are feeling that, you can think about more fancy techniques. I like to strip away all superflous techniques to get to the bare essentials.
Pranayama + supreme fire is that. You can also include maha-mudra in that but I am currently even cutting that out.
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Leo, WHY Are You In Las Vegas?!
Leo, WHY Are You In Las Vegas?!That's why it's affordable.
You can't have everything without a fee.
You want perfect weather? Pay 3x higher rent.
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Leo, WHY Are You In Las Vegas?!
Leo, WHY Are You In Las Vegas?!No. I hate big cities like NYC.
I would not live in any big city, like a rat in a concrete box.
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Leo, WHY Are You In Las Vegas?!
Leo, WHY Are You In Las Vegas?!I'm in Vegas because it is convenient and affordable. It has great roads, no traffic, no nasty winter weather, fun nightlife, not too large to be dirty and noisy.
There are nicer places to live but they are expensive or inconvenient.
I wanted to live in Austin but the traffic is a nightmare.
California is crazy expensive.
Vegas is a nice livable city. Tourists don't even know what Vegas is really like. I'm not on the Strip doing tourist stuff. I live just like you would in any normal city. The Strip is just a small part of Vegas. Outside the Strip Vegas is just a normal city.
Vegas is a very practical place to live. You get all the convenience of a full sized city with none of price, dirt, and congestion. The only downside of Vegas is the hot summer and fewer local girls to date.
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Be on the right side of history.
Be on the right side of history.Don't gaslight me.
Israel dominates and abuses Palestinians. This is obvious to anyone with a clear mind. No amount excuses and rationalizations will change this underlying reality.
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If you want to defeat Israel, promise Jews there’ll never be another Holocaust.
If you want to defeat Israel, promise Jews there’ll never be another Holocaust.Whether they are or aren't, they certainly believe they are.
Don't underestimate how deep their collective trauma & paranoia goes.
Every time some Arab terrorist speaks of wiping Israel off the map, they literally perceive that as Hitler 2.0 and react accordingly. That's how their entire military intelligence operates.
The reason Israel is killing so many civilians is because they believe they are fighting to stop Hitler 2.0, so from their POV the civilian deaths appear reasonable. They truly believe all this conflict is just anti-semitism and that they did nothing to cause it.
The Hitler/Holocaust analogy is very convenient for Zionists because is makes them feel like violence is being done to them for no reason other than their race.
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If you want to defeat Israel, promise Jews there’ll never be another Holocaust.
If you want to defeat Israel, promise Jews there’ll never be another Holocaust.The key thing to understand is that it's not about fairness or morality, it's about power.
If you think the world works based on morality the world will never make sense to you and you will fail at predicting the future.
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This video completely changed the way I see Lex Fridman
This video completely changed the way I see Lex FridmanSome things said in the video might have been overblown, but I can’t help but agree with almost everything that was said. I can’t see Lex the same way anymore. It’s like having an insight, and now I can’t go back to seeing him the old way, as an innocent man who’s authentic and full of love, or whatever image or persona he’s trying to adopt.
It’s like the box in the picture: once you realize there’s another perspective, everything changes instantly.
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This video completely changed the way I see Lex Fridman
This video completely changed the way I see Lex FridmanPowerful, famous, and wealthy people need an interviewer who will never challenge their corruption.
That's why Lex is perfect for the job.
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Debunking Solipsism
Debunking SolipsismNo.
You misunderstand what "real" means.
Real means whatever you imagine, and nothing otherwise. That's what God is.
God is the ability to imagiine any kind of reality. That means, if you aren't imagining it, it has no reality.
China is real to you only because you imagine it is. If you stop imagining that China is real, it will stop being real.
This work has nothing to do with assumptions. You need to become directly conscious what "real" is.
I am not speaking from assumptions. I am speaking from 100% absolute consciousness of reality. I became so conscious that I understand I imagine China.
This work is not about theorizing or guessing.
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Trump-Musk Feud
Trump-Musk FeudWe know Trump and Epstein where good friends. That much is public record.
The rest is speculation.
Did Epstein help Trump hook up with hot women? Probably. Were they underage? That's unclear. Probably not but who knows. Trump doesn't seem like he's into underage girls.
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How to overcome the hustle culture paradigm?
How to overcome the hustle culture paradigm?At your stage of development grinding might be the right thing, for a time.
However, eventually you'll realize that no matter how hard you grind and how many material goals you complete, you will be no more happy or satisfied than you are now. Even less satisfied because now the illusion of goals making you happy will be shattered.
If you want real progress you need to work on changing your internal relationship to reality. That's the only thing that will change your condition.
Of course if you are just looking to break free of wage slavery, hustle culture has its purpose. But once you are free of wage slavery you will still be exactly the same slave of your mind that you are today.
I've spent so many years achieving goals that today the prospect of pursuing a material goal hardly interests me. My only goal now is higher consciousness of God. But it took me 10-20 years of work to get here.
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Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-ThreadYeah but what if someone has genuine health issues and they're genuinely slow, low energy and can't even work to start saving money to move out of an abusive home? I have a friend that's genuinely trying to eat healthier, but their body is just "garbage," according to them. They have genuinely tried programming but they can no longer keep up now. They have speech anxiety, social anxiety and just couldn't even communicate, and come from an abusive home. I have spent years and years with this individual and I see they genuinely tried to be creative and take care of themselves. They just couldn't compete, and are being abused at home, trauma, with many limitations and autism. Effort was never the issue.
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Realizing memorizing lines is not the way to learn how to talk to girls
Realizing memorizing lines is not the way to learn how to talk to girlsYes.
But it also requires sensitivity and intelligence.
She’s not a child, she’s an adult. But, also, we are all children at heart.
The point is to be AWAKE in the present moment… realizing that your entire life is like a dream.
Imagine you were lucid-dreaming… it would be so much easier to play and have fun if you realized that life is temporary and is all happening in your consciousness.
That being said, there is no substitute for actual intuitive and emotional development. If you want to get with the highest quality girls, (beautiful, intelligent, sensitive) you have to actually become a high quality man. There’s no way around that.
What does that mean? It means lots of things. It means having a life purpose, having a meditation practice, being kind and considerate. Being bold and playful. Being non-needy. Playfulness stems from non-neediness. Authenticity. Honesty. Light-heartedness.
To some up “having good game” in one concept. It would be **moving from survival cognition into being cognition.**
So, you need to actually self-actualize in order to get more consistent and fulfilling results with women.
PLAYFULNESS is important. So is presence and understanding.
Get to working on yourself… and you’ll figure it out eventually. Have fun
A great book that I always recommend is called *Models* by Mark Manson. It really changed my perspective about dating to help me be more authentic and honest around women.
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How The Hell You Reach Play As An INTJ?
How The Hell You Reach Play As An INTJ?@The Caretaker Good effort.
There will be a lot of failure in game until you figure stuff out. So stick with it. Persistence is key.
It's very important to find the best locations in town where the most women are. So keep looking for those.
As far as wings go, remember, it only takes one good one. So keep looking for them. If some flake it's okay. You keep looking. You don't just give up.
Never just give up after one try on anything.
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Leo with all due respect
Leo with all due respectWhy are you spending so much time here? For almost 10 years you stay here and explain the same basic stuff to some newbie kids who, most of them, just search a community, not serious personal development guidance.
Maybe thousands of hours spent here for what? It does not help your business in any meaningful way. Most people here are not serious about this work, almost nobody is serious about this work, this work is done alone. Not even paywalled discord servers and forums are serious communities, it is almost impossible to create a serious community around self-improvement. Okay you want a place where people come and get their questions answered. I would just pay some moderators to take care of that and focus on myself.
Your teachings are top notch but it seems there is a dissonance between what you teach and what you do. You tell us to stay in solitude, to burn our egos to the ground with boredom while you spend thousands of hours here. You tell us that you are very introvert and love solitude but you are here talking to newbies all day? What are your motivations?
And for you guys who search a sense of community on a forum, It is like trying to meet your sexual needs by masturbating in a jar. Peace.
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Leo with all due respect
Leo with all due respectI am here for my enjoyment. I also use the forum as a test-bed for my own thoughts and I gain experience dealing with people here. Without the forum this work would be too isolating. I have learned a lot about dealing with people here. I also get feedback on my work which is important. I can't do this work just totally isolated, talking to no one about it, hearing nothing, knowing nothing. I need to understand how my work affects people and what issues people are facing, what questions they have, what progress they're making, etc.
If all I did was record videos, that would be way too limited. And I am not interested in running a commune.
Your view of this forum is too cynical, as if everything here is just useless noise.
People who are into this kind of work are extremely rare. To have dozens and hundreds of them here is no trivial thing. Don't brush that off so flippantly.
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Where to find friends who are interested in Personal Development or/AND Spirituality?
Where to find friends who are interested in Personal Development or/AND Spirituality?London is so large that you can find anything there probably. But it's going to be mostly Orange people.
Austin is superior to LA in my opinion. I would not want to live in LA.
If you want a very Green area, Sedona Arizona is the place. But it's very small.
I suggest you fly around and vacation a bit in each of these Green cities to find which one you like best. Visit Austin, visit Oregon, visit Seattle, etc. You will tell just by vibes which place suits you to settle down.
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Where to find friends who are interested in Personal Development or/AND Spirituality?
Where to find friends who are interested in Personal Development or/AND Spirituality?Join stage Green communities and social events like yoga classes, burns, festivals, seminars, workshops, etc.
You'll have to look beyond your city.
You can relocated to more Green cities like Austin, Bay Area, Oregon, etc.
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I tried Leo's sitting down and staring at hand experiment - I have questions
I tried Leo's sitting down and staring at hand experiment - I have questionsYou haven't even begun serious meditation or yogic practice. You don't even understand the effort required.
This is very advanced work. It requires momumental effort.
I recommend you do Kriya yoga. But even learning that will require much more effort than you seem ready to give.
Without effort there is no God and no liberation. Sorry, but that's just reality.
You need to sit down and rethink your priorities and your work ethic. Your priorities are bad and your work ethic is poor.
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What distance is considered close to clubs timewise?
What distance is considered close to clubs timewise?Well, she has to be into you. Then you take her for an adventure that accidentally ends up in your bed.
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Realizing memorizing lines is not the way to learn how to talk to girls
Realizing memorizing lines is not the way to learn how to talk to girlsThat's generally how it works. Each approach builds up state until eventually you stop giving a fuck entirely and you enter a flow state.
But you have to rebuild it every night.
Still, you can enter state much faster if you consciously enter into play rather than just hoping that many approaches will brute force you into it.
And sometimes you may just not be in a playful mood, in which case go home and do something else.
The whole point of going out to engage in nightlife is because you want to have fun. Don't overlook something so basic. If you aren't having fun you are missing the whole point. The problem then is that you have a stick up your ass that needs removing.
See, you gotta ask the deeper question: Why are you so anti fun? Who hurt you?