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One of the biggest things that has held me back from actualizing the best version of myself is other people. A lot of people around us are in a very poor state of Mind. . When you become more conscious, many people will feel uncomfortable and threatened by you. They will judge you, criticize you, or try to bring you down. This is just a survival reaction. 'Attack and destroy' whatever is threatening in order to maintain my silly fantasies about how the world really works. These people don’t really want to hear the truth. They just want to hold on to their beliefs, their habits, and their comfort zones — even if it’s all based on lies or illusions. They’re not ready to see things differently. They will not support you on your path. If you've been watching someone like Leo Gura for a while and doing deep inner work — thinking for yourself, meditating, reflecting on life — then you're already far ahead of most people when it comes to spiritual and psychological awareness. Ground yourself in your truth. Stay connected to what feels real and meaningful to you. Don't let unconscious people pull you back down. Stay focused on your growth. One insight that has helped me enormously to ignore and avoid all idiots is the following realization "these people are more miserable than myself. Why do i even care? They do not have the results that i care for" Who is an idiot? If you are not aware that you are not the thinker of your thoughts you are by definition an idiot, executing the conditioning you received from your society. The results of this conditioning is low consciousness, greed, war, extreme inequality, people like Andrew Tate, Trump , Putin, etc. Not waking up is dangerous.

@Applegarden8 No. It's not the same. I tend to treat people in a fair way. I would never leave earlier on a date just because i don't like the other person. Where is your love for your fellow human, if you do that kind of petty behavior.. This is what disapointed me the most.

@Schizophonia I did not force anything. When a girl is reaching to you, you assume she is interested and arrange a date. I don't need any more self-help theory. I need more action primarily.

@meta_male Not victim mentality at all. But Truth-Mentality instead.. You didn't read the post carefully. Bottom line is: many women will give guys preferential, non-fair treatment.

2 days ago i went out for a walk with a woman, that was kinda pursuing me. Her interest level was low and there were also some other things i didn't like (like dismissing something deep, i said once). But because she was texting me, i arranged that we go outside. When i meet her, she tells me that in like 30 minutes, she has to go for a dance class (in other words: you are the least important option for me, so i won't give you the time of the day). This was a big turn off and a waste of time. She will probably contact me again 2-3 weeks from now (if she doesn't find Chad or Bryce or some other guy who will be the "perfect" one). This time, i won't ever see this woman again. This just shows me how ruthless and not caring some women can be. There are very good reasons why many men end up hating women. Very good reasons..

@samijiben One ice-cream. But infinite flavors.

Do you feel some anxiety and stress after uploading an important video? Does your mind go "what if this or the other scenarios". I will find it hard to believe if you say no because the mind is analyzing data all the time, and gets anxious when it feels overwhelmed..especially when thinking about long-reaching consequences some uncertain action has..

@Applegarden8 @Applegarden8 What siddhi? I think the guy on the thumbnail of the video is a scammer-master manipulator.

@Sugarcoat Thank you! Even if there are infinite, some states are better than others.

@kavaris Thank you! Some states are better than others. I don't think than anyone would prefer a hysterical, suicidal state vs a calm, composed one. Meditation is Mind Training. It's like Lifting Weights for your Brain. That's how i view it. There is nothing woo-woo about this.

I have done tons of paying attention to my breath but after some time this got boring. I'm a hardcore person. I need more stimulation. Not just feeling like i took a bunch of xanax..lol. I tried Leo's technique where you just watch your hand. Mind was like: "What's this? This is weird. This is a waste of time. Stop doing it". But i kept going because i was getting something from it. Can't really explain what. This eventually progressed to where i just look at a specific location in the center of my left hand. And sit there for as long as i can. It's a Concentration exercise. What i find fascinating with this technique is that when my Mind focuses hard, i get a nice steady, kinda exhilarating feeling of Satisfaction. (Not a shallow, short-lived, cheap dopamine hit). This meditation technique has become the most important thing in my life. Goal is to be able to concentrate for 2 hours at a time but this is a challenge, unless someone else feeds you, and etc. Results so far (after 4 months of continuous practice) is that i can stare at something a lot longer than before. Feel more happy, content and Still. And my mind is sharper and more able to discern and cut through sh!t. Also if someone on the street looks me funny, i just stare at him, i know he won't be able to match my intensity. Lol. If you want a visual representation of the results , check the young man with the dark beard in this video. He is in a very good state of Consciousness. I don't understand why Leo says there is no best state of Consciousness. Isn't a composed calm state better than a Suicidal one??

Solid advice , i like this That's why Spartacus's story is such an inspiration for me.

I see young women being constantly distracted by silly games and traps and havings lot of fun, while men suffer enormously. Being distracted is a blessing because you are not forced by Suffering to grow up. If you are an average looking young woman you automatically have a lot of power and leverage on many things. While if you are an average guy, you are f*cked. Look at Ted Kaczynski. 167 IQ. Harvard Graduate. Died a virgin.. Guy spent decades thinking deeply about the consequences technology while women don't have to think about much, other than how to meet their needs. Leo will tell you that you have to work 10 lifetimes to finally be worthy enough. Not to mention how privileged and rare someone like Leo is. (This is not an attack). While women enjoy effortlessly the fruits of sex. This whole society is messed up. I agree with Robert Sapolsky. Agriculture was a disaster for the human race. 10.000 years ago, if you were a male, you were hunting all day with your group, you were fit, you were socializing and at night time you had sex with a female. Agriculture meant that 1 petty humanoid could have 1000000 more accumulated grain and wealth than 1000 humanoids combined. Before agriculture there was no wealth inequality . This extreme wealth inequality is the root of all of our social problems. There was no "i don't have any friends". Yeah you died at 25. But you lived fully. I'm exagerating some things here but bottom line is if you are male nowadays life is not easy for you. The most basic thing such as sex is like you are trying to climb Mountain Everest.

@Leo Gura Beautiful image though.

@Leo Gura How do you do that?