Yali

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  1. Is meditation useless?
    Is meditation useless?
    No, it's not useless. But it just cannot compare to a powerful psychedelic.
    It's the difference between a bow & arrow and a nuclear bomb.
    But also appreciate this: if you don't have a nuclear bomb, a bow & arrow is still damn useful.

  2. I’m Becoming Tempted to Drop Random Spiritual Phrases on People that Annoy Me
    I’m Becoming Tempted to Drop Random Spiritual Phrases on People that Annoy Me
    Like someone wants me to do something and I could just say “There is no doer-ship”
    Or someone’s worried about something and I say “The future is imaginary”
    Or someone insults me and I say “The boundary between self and other is imaginary, so you’re really just insulting yourself”
    I would take the time to correctly explain these ideas to someone who was interested, but for people who aren’t, is there any harm in trolling them in this way?

  3. What kind of car do you have?
    What kind of car do you have?
    Wv Golf 1.4 Fsi. A second-hand (or more like 4th hand). Manufactured in 2009 and works well. I had to replace a few things that were just worn out and change a water pump after leakage but haven't had any other issue. The car cost me 2600 British Pounds. 
    If you don't know anything about cars, it is a good idea either to buy from an authorised reselling dealer or go with someone who knows more about this stuff to help you review the state of the car if buying from previous user. 
    Things to keep in mind: 
    diesel cars are being pushed out of the market in Europe & UK, I wouldn't buy one consider cost of fuel if you are going for bigger engine especially if you're gonna be driving in cities a lot (costs of fuels are skyrocketing across the world and are only gonna go up from now on)  consider how common that car is (spare parts & repairs cost)  consider utility - no point buying pickup if you're gonna be commuting. Unless you want an exceptional performance something with 1.4-1.6 engine volume should do the trick. Go for the best fuel consumption you can get while not completely sacrificing for performance (Golf, Polo etc). Also, I think 6th gear is a nice thing to have if you do a lot of long-distance travel but I don't know enough about cars to really be sure this makes that much difference  check if you'll have to pay emission tx where you live check the annual cost of car tax beforehand  check the annual cost of car insurance beforehand make sure the car you bought is not reported as stolen or previously crahsed  (authorised dealers will know this)  Generally second hand car purchase is probably a better idea if you are on a budget just make sure to buy from reliable seller. You can't usually go wrong with German cars, Toyota, Honda or Ford (ppl who know more about cars may disagree) The more complex the engine (e.g. turbo and that sort of stuff) the higher the likelihood of issues (from what I've been told) 

  4. How much has the Biden administration accomplished?
    How much has the Biden administration accomplished?
    Slavery was popular just two lifetimes ago.

  5. girl acts cold on 2nd date
    girl acts cold on 2nd date
    It doesn't have to be hard. Your mind is creating that. It could be fun and effortless. But this takes practice of putting yourself in the right state.

  6. Racist Karen is the victim.
    Racist Karen is the victim.
    That's going to be a subjective and relative judgment call everyone will have to make for themselves.
    I'm not saying she is a racist. I don't know. I'm just saying that most people judged her as a racist for that language she used, and I don't see that changing even if the dude threatened her.
    People do over use the "racist" label these days. You need to be extra careful to notice whether your calling someone a racist isn't just your own projection. It probably is in 50% of cases or so.

  7. I have to go out, oh no...
    I have to go out, oh no...
    I call BS on this.
    Everyone craves to be close with others. They just have trauma which obscures intimacy or they lack the skills.
    It is not true that introverts don't value intimacy and closeness to others. They value it a lot, they just prefer it with fewer people but deeper. Whereas extroverts prefer it more shallow with more people.
    I am extremely introverted but I love intimacy and closeness with very select people. I don't like juggling a bunch of shallow friendships.

  8. Height insecurity hurting my dating self esteem
    Height insecurity hurting my dating self esteem
    Nothing in life is achievable for everyone.
    But if you want to get really good with girls, you can, and your height will not stop you.
    There's no simple answer to this question. Obviously having natural social skills makes it easier. But you can develop your game a lot regardless of where you start.
    Notice that your mind is hunting for excuses to justify your limiting beliefs.
    Girls taller than me virtually do not exist.
    And I personally don't find any girl over 5'11" attractive. I don't want to sleep with a fucking giraffe. Girls in the 5'6"-5'9" range are ideal for me. Short girls are also not a good fit for me because of the height difference. If you are a shorter guy, you can find tons of girls in the 5'0" to 5'5" range that I would rather avoid.
    Stop making excuses and go build your game properly.
    Height is not your problem. Your problem is your shitty mind full of victim excuses, your lack of skills/experience, and your lack of serious commitment to getting good. All which you can correct.

  9. Height insecurity hurting my dating self esteem
    Height insecurity hurting my dating self esteem
    You can screen out tall girls just by looking at them, so this is moot.
    And furthermore, if you stop being so weak, you can date tall girls too. One of the best pickup friends I had was 5'4". He got laid more than me at 6'2". So spare me your BS excuses.

  10. How much has the Biden administration accomplished?
    How much has the Biden administration accomplished?
    Stage a fucking coup and corrupted faith in our election system for decades to come.
    And that's just one out of 100 other shitty things like deregulating EPA protections, massively cutting corporate taxes, and filling the Supreme Court with religious ideologues for the next 30 years. Oklahoma just passed a total ban on abortions without exception for rape or incest.
    The list of damage the Trump admin did is staggering. You don't even know 10% of it.
    A lot happened. You just aren't paying attention to actual policy as you get lost in Trump's stupid antics. Beneath all the antics and drama is a very dangerous and toxic set of policies.

  11. I have to go out, oh no...
    I have to go out, oh no...
    Don't make it about hot chicks, make it about something deeper: human connection and personal development.
    You can form deep connections with people. It doesn't just have to be about chasing pussy.
    You're not gonna grow from watching Netflix. You will regress.

  12. Fear or cops while approaching girls
    Fear or cops while approaching girls
    One of the RSD instructors said that if you go out long enough eventually you'll get stabbed.
    But it will be worth it.
    So stop being a pussy and approach
    I have a 2-inch scar on my neck from when a drunk girl clawed me. Wounds of love
    You're a man, you're not as fragile as you think.
    It's not that there are no risks, it's that part of becoming a man is learning to tolerate and handle risk. That in itself is an attractive quality. When you can walk up to a table of dudes and hit on their girl, that takes balls and girls want that kind of man.

  13. Differences in gaming women abroad vs. in your home country
    Differences in gaming women abroad vs. in your home country
    You are overthinking it. Just talk to every girl you are attracted to.

  14. Is Ben Shapiro a blue sociopath.
    Is Ben Shapiro a blue sociopath.
    I don't think so.
    He's just a typical conservative American Jewish white boy who was indoctrinated from birth to be an obedient boy.
    He's not a sociopath, he's an ideologue/fundamentalist.

  15. Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Don't pussyfoot around. A man must be comfortable doing a direct approach.
    When you hide your genuine intention and sexual desire for her, you're losing your attractiveness and power.
    Stop inventing false reasons for talking to a girl you like. This is unbecoming of a real man. You should feel entitled to talk to any girl you like with no pretense or justification.
    "If my dick likes you, I'm gonna talk to you." << That's the proper frame.

  16. Differences in gaming women abroad vs. in your home country
    Differences in gaming women abroad vs. in your home country
    That's what I've heard as well.
    In my experience attracting Asian girls as a tall white dude works quite well, even in America. It would work even better in a 3rd world Asian country.
    In general it should be easier to get laid in 3rd world countries as a Westerner because you are perceived as having way more value than a local 3rd world dude. Girls are attracted to value.

  17. Questions for hardcore meditators and psychedellic users.
    Questions for hardcore meditators and psychedellic users.
    They are pretty different for most people.
    For me there is a lot of overlap.
    DMT is terrifying at higher doses. Then again, so is 5-MeO or any psychedelic at high enough doses.
    The dose is crucial. You have to find your sweet spot.

  18. Shunyamurti and Bentinho Massaro - Cult leaders?
    Shunyamurti and Bentinho Massaro - Cult leaders?
    I have always told you that awakening says nothing about what actions you take or how "good" you are.
    I could go murder someone tomorrow. And it would not diminish my realizations of God one bit. Might even enhance it.

  19. I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    Even with a hot girl, jerking off is often just better.
    Quality of your orgasm is a function of mind, not body. My best orgasms were via text message or imagination.
    Your mind can imagine things which no physical girl can give you. You can't fuck a girl in every hole at once within physical reality. But you can in your mind. And you can make her feel any way about you that you want in your mind. A real girl can't compete with that. But she can offer you a sense of "other".

  20. Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Did my first daygame cold approach today
    Great!
    Now do that 5000 times and you'll be solid 

  21. I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    I got laid for the first time, but it kinda sucked. Any resources for amazing Sex?
    Such people usually have sex with lots of new partners.
    And also I'd question how much they really "enjoy" it.
    I know a lot of guys who sleep with a lot of new girls, but I don't think they really enjoy sex at a deep level because their sex seems rather shallow. Just like eating a bunch of different fast food isn't really the best way to enjoy food. It's a low consciousness kind of enjoyment.

  22. How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    How to not be nervous with girls out of your league
    You think I'm going to be bragging about my girlfriends here with you? To prove something to you?
    You've lost your mind.

  23. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    Even that is not so easy to find in most places during the day.
    You are going to waste more time looking for the girl than talking to her. It is much more efficient to just to the mall for 3 hours on the weekend and do all your approaches back to back. You will also build up a nice momentum that way.
    You have to be pretty skilled to just cold-open a random girl you see walking past you as you're going about your day. Most guys will never muster the balls to seize that opportunity. They will just talk themselves out of it. It takes a lot of approaching to get confident enough to the point where you can seize such a spontaneous occurrence. It will take you 30 minutes just to psych yourself up do it unless you are experienced.
    It's much easier to talk about approaching than actually doing it.

  24. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    If you live in NYC that can work. That does not work in most places.
    The biggest problem is the lack of hot women during the day on the streets. You need very special streets for effective day game.

  25. 1 Girl per day
    1 Girl per day
    That's cause you are putting out shitty energy and/or not talking to enough women.
    If you are approaching 1 girl per day you will never feel abundance and you will be forced to settle with the bottom of the barrel.
    The whole point of pickup is that it teaches you how to put out better energy. It's not only about numbers. You become much more charming. But for that to happen you gotta be serious about it and hit the streets hard.
    When you go out you should aim to approach 5-10 girls at least per day/night. And you should go out at least 3 nights a week.