No high consciousness person would be allowed within 100 miles of Washington DC.
We barely were able to elect Biden, and you are complaining about high consciousness people not being there. You were born 200 years too early for that. Even the idea that someone like me could be elected already shows a deep flaw in your understanding of how these systems work. I have a better chance jumping to the moon with a pogo stick.

This is a more general paradox of non-attachment: those who are most needy get the least, while those who are not-needy get the most.
For example, people who need money the most end up having the least of it. Because desperation is not a good place to earn money from. Likewise, neediness for sex or relationship is not a good place to get quality sex or relationships from.
In general, when you are in a negotiation the one with the least attachment has the advantage. And sexual relationships are certainly a negotiation.
You can be strong and independent but still interested in relationship and communion. It does not have to only be for her body.
Pretty much. Females are always attracted to high-value males regardless of culture.
You're conflating things. These kind of celebrities actually tend to be very assertive with their agenda. MJ manipulated people into sex way more than any PUA.
Because attracting women requires a certain realism and pragmatism. You don't get laid on fairy tales. Women will ruthlessly cull you out. Women are ruthless about this stuff despite their stories and excuses. As a man you gotta we wise to their games otherwise you will end up jerking yourself off to sleep in tears.
The collective experience of the entire attraction community. I started out as the biggest nice guy and I went through much pain to learn not to treat women like princesses. A big part of becoming a strong and high-value man is learning how to set your own frames and not letting any girl sway you with her games.
Sorry, I don't buy it.
You are trying to logic your way about attraction and that is not how attraction actually works. Your logic flies out the window in real-life attraction scenarios.
Because otherwise she won't respect the man. For a woman to be attracted to a man she needs to feel that the man is higher value than her.
I did not give rigid rules. I gave general principles of attraction from the male POV. This is what men need to understand to properly get laid. If they don't understand these things, they will end up suffering.
There are principles to attraction. I didn't invent them. Attraction works how it works.
Don't forget, dating and mating is a bit of a bloodsport. It is not all rainbows and butterflies. It is survival first and foremost. There are painful lessons for the ego to learn in this game.

I like the tall guy who treats me like a kid. I like endearing terms. 
Like for example, every time my ex used to call me a dummy, I used to get turned on. So he began calling me "silly" during every conversation. Even piglet. 
Then he began calling me "leetul" the alternative version of "little" and he used to call "the leetul woman" although I'm quite tall.. 
I get some kick out of being treated like a kid in the relationship. I easily get attracted to those type of men who are stronger, domineering, protective and treat me like a little kid. 
But if the guy is trying to treat me like a woman, in the sense the conventional graceful grown lady, it puts me off instantly. Because he is expecting me to behave right. I find it boring because I don't get to be playful around him. I feel suffocated around such men because I'm supposed to be coy around them and that is to me is like putting on an act. I like to be submissive and feminine but mixed with childishness and innocent playfulness. 

Hannah Arendt famously interviewed and studied Nazi officers after the war.
What she discovered was the shocking "banality of evil." None of them was really evil. They were just being good profressional stage Blue rule followers. Mike Pence types.
Your average Nazi was just a pawn in Hitler's schemes. Similar to your average Trump voter.
Many German intellectuals, scientists, and philosophers were supporters of the Nazi party. Like Martin Heidegger. Because few people think for themselves about anything. Even awakened people are fucking sheep for the most part.
You can be awake but social pressure will still drive you to delusion. People underestimate the power of culture and ideology. Awakening does not make you immune to cultural biases.
In 500 years spiritual people will be asking, How could someone have been enlightened and still a capitalist? The same way ya'll asking about Nazis.

Yes, you are stuck in your personal selfish biases. You are not seeing or caring about the female's survival agenda, instead pushing your own.
A woman needs a weak man as much as you need a dick in your mouth.
What I said does not preclude intimacy.
You are asking for feminine containment and then immediately asking for a gay friend. You can have one but not both.

Don't underestimate how selfish and careless more girls are. She isn't some saint. She's blindly following her own survival agenda. She will not give two fucks about flaking on you.
Yeah, well, it goes both ways. Hurt feelings come with the territory of dating. Most girls don't give a fuck if they step all over your survival agenda.
My personal rule is that there is no relationship until sex.
But you may feel otherwise. I set my rules based on my deep experience of what works and what does not.
Of course you can try doing it the other way and get some results, but it's not a good overall dating strategy.
Remember, that is HER frame. You can choose to play by her frame or set your own frame. Will setting your own frame lose you some girls? Sure, but it will get you many more others. As a general rule, the guy should be setting the frame, not the girl. At least from the guy's POV that makes the most sense. If you like being a pussy you can buy into her frame.
Ahahahahaha!
That's none of her business.
If she is asking this kind of question you already did something wrong.
From the moment she meets you she should realize that you are a high value guy who is highly social and desirable to many girls. She should feel that if she does not snap you up soon you will move on to other girls. She should feel like you could bang a new girl every night if you wanted to.
First cum, first served
Good!
No, she won't get hurt. She will desire you even more because she recognizes how attractive and high-value you are.
Attraction is highly counter-intuitive. You think that by being meek and humble and loyal and nice that this will make girls attracted to you, but it's the opposite. With that strategy you will lose many girls and mostly attract the weakest and lowest-value ones.
A girl's fantasy is to lock down a player/knight in shining armor who is a pussy magnet. Not some meek nice guy who will beg her for sex like a panhandler begs for nickles. Regardless of whatever bullshit story she tells you, she wants a high-value guy. Period. No amount of talking or excuses will change that. And the #1 clue of a high-value guy is that he can get laid any day he wants to.
One of the most attractive things you can do is to show up to a party with a bunch of hot girls at your side, orbiting around you like groupies. This will make you appear WAY more attractive to all the other girls, creating a feeding frenzy for your dick.
Deep down she wants to know that you could fuck any girl in the world, but you choose to only fuck her because she is so special to you. That is her ultimate fantasy.
If the particular girl you want is insecure, you can dial all this down a bit. But there is no shame at all for her to perceive you as sexually active. As a man, you don't need to hide the fact that you're a bit of a player. Don't explicitly say so. It should just be a vibe you give off. Girls will smell it.
Consider Brad Pitt. Every girl knows he can fuck whoever he wants whenever he wants -- and probably does so. And this is why every girl dreams of landing him.
If you want the most brutal truth, dating multiple women not only doesn't hurt your chances, it increases it, and the more women you date the higher your chances get. This is so true that it can get easily abused to sociopathic levels. PUAs abuse this principle all the time. I don't recommend you do that. I recommend you find a nice balance that does not crush girls hearts nor inflate your ego. You can be strong and assertive without being a total scumbag.

@ginger28 Nothing will get a girl to dump you faster than lack of leadership, indecisiveness, and insecurity, which forces her to be the leader.
Tisk, tisk.
You gotta get your shit together and take charge of the situation. You lead she follows.

No. Take her like you own her. But also seduce her with teasing and withholding. Make her crave you.

David Deida explains all this nicely to guys in his books.
Make her feel like a girl and she will love you.

The only solution I know is:
A) Psychedelics
B) Very rigorous week-long retreats where you meditate nonstop using something like labeling. It will be hell and you suck it up and do it.

Oddly, caffeine has no effect on me. I get no boost from it, nor any addiction or withdrawal.
Modafinil FTW!

No idea. Everyone reacts differently.
You are probably carrying around a bunch of lies, wounds, trauma, and egoic shit in your mind which the mushrooms are trying to surface.
As you purify your mind trips should get deeper and more blissful. But there can be a long purification process. It all depends on how dirty your mind is.
Or maybe you just have a negative physical reaction to mushrooms for some weird genetic reason. In which case you can try other psychedelics to see if they fit you better. Mushrooms are pretty squirrely.

@GreenLight Ultimately you're gonna have to do consciousness work on that anger.
Anger is often just a cloak for hurt.
If you are angry a lot, you must introspect deeply to discover the hurt inside you. Who deeply hurt you and why? And you will have to acknowledge this and heal/forgive that hurt. That is the real solution here. Not hitting bags or people.
Your anger is actually armor you created to keep yourself from feeling deep hurt. To take off that armor you will have to experience the hurt that you've been avoiding and denying. Allow yourself to feel hurt rather than posturing with anger.

I could shoot exactly the same video in which I show how ineffective conventional western medicine is.
At least 50% of western medicine is bullshit that masquerades as "science".

The best of BLUE

This is a path to devilry and we will not be doing that here.

The art of cosplay.

You are already living in a toxic, negative, victim fantasy every day.

You will still need game. Foreign girls will not come sit on your lap. You will still need to grow the balls to approach them.
Bottom line, if you gonna be a man, grow some balls.

To be creative, pick a small project and work on it.
Anxiety will arise. Deal with it. That's part of the work. As you immerse yourself in the creative work the anxiety will subside.
The hardest part is getting started.

Billionaires pull shallow women? Says who? Billionaires are pulling whoever they want, basically, and I tend to see them with quality women.
Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Jeff Bezos -- they aren't exactly dating bimbo supermodels or pornstars. They find wife-material ladies with some depth.
But basically, when you are a billionaire, you have enough value and leverage to find a woman optimized in all dimensions you care about.
Power and status are the ultimate game. If you want quality women, don't go to the club, become a multi-millionaire somebody and women will come to you. The wise hunter does not stalk rabbits one-by-one in the freezing cold, he lays a trap and rests easy by the cozy fire back home.

That's because the pundits get paid for writing articles, not for predicting markets.
Market prediction advice is the oldest grift on Wall Street. Don't fall for it. None of the "experts" know how to predict the market. Which is why they charge commission or sell you their advice instead.

You don't need to remember the details.
Underline every book as you read it, then you can quickly re-read a book within 20 mins just by reading the underlined parts -- if you need to refresh your memory. Underlining is crucial and it takes way less time than taking notes.

He's got something. Whether it is God-realization, I don't know. I can't stand listening to those Neo-Advaita types.

He ain't got shit.
You ain't got it until you realize you are God.