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Radical Honesty - Share all your Secrets !

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When you Reveal the truth about who you are...your mind no longer needs to constantly have a cover up story.

Hiding or withholding information causes our minds to constantly try to find the perfect arrangement of words (or story) which makes us seem better than we actually are.

Admit it...you are fucked up! And so am I

the image that we have of ourselves of being this "decent, polite" person represents a very limited aspect of who we are, because our experience constantly contradicts with this self image...we get angry at our neighbor, we are attracted to the 16yr old girl and we like to smoke pot.

So there you have it, a self image which says one thing and while direct experience says something totally different.

When reality contradicts self image, the mind struggles to make sense of this.

Telling the truth of who you are frees you from the mind's constant chatter of trying to cover up the truth.

So what are your secrets? What are you hiding? I'm afraid to post mine...but hopefully you guys will inspire me to do so by starting first!

 

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I am taking Anger Management. 

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1 hour ago, Nahm said:

I’m not actually an old lady. 

@Nahm How much difference is there between an old man with low testosterone and moobs and an old lady? I think I may be morphing :D

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Nice thread. I like boys and girls 

I wouldn't tell my parents, they're quite old fashioned. Otherwise I guess it's not a secret

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My brain is 51% male and 49 % female (considered balanced) according to Brainfall.com.

It's not a secret, just something I wouldn't normally share with people.

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I dressed in drag one halloween and looked so hot I would have shocked an old lady (not @Nahm)

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I'm not a pedophile, but I am scared of becoming one (more before). Like, do pedophiles choose to get attracted to kids, or does it just happen?
So that's some of my OCD xD

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"Every culture that's ever existed has operated under the illusion that it understood 95% of reality and that the other 5% would be delivered in the next 18 months, and from Egypt forward they've been running around believing they had a perfect grip on things and yet we look back at every society that preceded us with great smugness at how naive they all were. Well, it never occurs to us, then, that maybe we're whistling in the dark too!" -- Terence McKenna

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I scored 60% male brain on brainfall.

@John Lula I’ve occasionally experienced harm anxiety. I was reluctant to tell anyone. I did some research online and the consensus in psychology is that people who experience harm anxiety are LESS likely to act on it. 

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66% male on that test.

@Serotoninluv Yeah. Interesting. I also read on something similar, that people who are afraid to become psychotic are less likely to.

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"Every culture that's ever existed has operated under the illusion that it understood 95% of reality and that the other 5% would be delivered in the next 18 months, and from Egypt forward they've been running around believing they had a perfect grip on things and yet we look back at every society that preceded us with great smugness at how naive they all were. Well, it never occurs to us, then, that maybe we're whistling in the dark too!" -- Terence McKenna

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I’ve always been different, I got high IQ, I love to be honest. All these keep getting me into trouble so I try not to show it. Now you have it! Most of the people find it scary, annoying, intimidating etc

Wow, I can’t believe I said it, now I might be in trouble again, all your fault! Haha

(weird ?!?!)


I have an opinion on everything :D

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55 minutes ago, JustThinkingAloud said:

I’ve always been different, I got high IQ,

Then you might like this ;)

 

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I am completely naked when i post.

Careful now ;)


B R E A T H E

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This is my worst day of the year thus far. Got my grandmas car stolen today out  of my own stupidity and it’s really traumatizing. I wasn’t expressing my shame or suffering much, so I question if I’ve fully processed it. I’m having troubles letting go of thought as this post suggests 😩

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I was just talking to a moderator about this very subject.

This forum needs to thrive on radical honesty. Even if the person is wrong, they're given the opportunity to learn from honest feedback as opposed to a forum that leads to an inevitable echo chamber in the context of censoring truth.

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I'm 29 and I haven't had a girlfriend and never been with one


Nothing can make you happy until Nothing can make you happy.

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4 hours ago, Natasha said:

Then you might like this ;)

 

That was great!  Hawking is so humble he didn't even mention he did some vocals in a Pink Floyd song.  I like how they worked Carl Sagan into the rap.  

 

 

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