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  1. This is stupid,because she will manipulate the guy who has no impact on her,so shes one deciding how things will go aka manipulating the situation dictating,she wont do this to someone she is reacting to.It all boils down to a guy you are.If you have no understanding of yourself she will f you over.If you have no self awarness of the things that causes her to react in bad ways then you can only go on youtube and forum typing how women aint shit... Attack vs Defens if shes on attack and keeps at it then she basically using you for something so better to remove yourself or be used. When you have no impact and shes on attack she doesnt care in slightest about anything regarding to you,its matter of perspective will you see this as me not being a man or shes being a bitch(pardon my french)..
  2. Because you are defined by the cultural norms.I would much rather have a garbageman friend who is quality of a person, than a doctor who looks down on people just because they are less privilaged. While ago you could be served by Jeff Bezos thinking how low of a person he is, then glorify him when amazon blows up, silly games.
  3. Everything you listed from athletic,musician,empathic etc. Doesnt hit on deeper level, game is on a deeper level than external thing.Its all in your mind,the way you talk it will either hit the deeper level or wont,but when you on superficial level like looking what you are doing and how you are looking you will only hit her eyes that doesnt penetrate the emotion.You dont know how to express that deeper level of yourself to her, so she can see you, since you think you are athletic,musician or whatever you listed game comes from I AM not I DO level. Also if you only see her as a body and calling it beautiful,sexy etc. And you dont dig to see her on a deeper level she wont see you either.But you cant see her if you dont see yourself on deeper level. But when one looks at beauty he cant see or penetrate deeper than level 1.Also for the guys who wants just sex you cant get to the deeper parts. If you dont hit deeper even if she becomes your gf she will dictate how things will be and when relationship ends.
  4. From first glance you pedestilize "hot" women ,so you act different around them because your mindset is :"hot is valuable she needs someone more extroverted more alfa"so you judge yourself without knowing it.Also you dont have a direction where you go with all of this, they want sense of direction with you, but since you dont know what you want mainly appears so because of point number 1 that makes you feel stuck + this rant is you being emotional about caring having resaluts with hot women she wants you to make mistakes while not falling apart from it they will look for chink in your armor more than "regular" ones.
  5. @caelanb Experience with women doesnt mean you have game and you dont know what it is.
  6. You wont learn game here go somewhere else. Game is not something you use to get a resault that's a big f up.Game is you.
  7. https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4HMPDeMbLZ/?igsh=ejM1bzRkZGRqaDR2 Take a moment to watch the reason for all the hardships faced on this side of the planet.
  8. @Rishabh R Okay to clarify you saying you miss her is communicating:i have interest in you way too soon and its much bigger than she has ,which is not good,women say i miss you when you dont call her its feminine expression.You saying she is beautiful is seeing her as something great,so now you in your mind have to be something to get her which causes stress. Basically she was nice to you didnt want to hurt your feeling but did anyway. I dont have advice you have too much of things to learn that you need a coach if you have money,because you have alot of holes in the game.
  9. @Rishabh R You didnt give me much, you need to learn to express yourself in more depth. I dont know why you complimanted her dress, but you should be saying why you love the dress ,how you see her in that dress etc. Okay what did she tell you and how did you respond, be more desriptive if you cant express it then there is no depth in you, that she can see to be interested about.
  10. What were you saying to her in terms of flirting?
  11. @m0hsen I like how you think about, its your job to make things happen thats great,but not in a way of self pity but in a way i want to be better for myself,like someone with game if things went way too smooth would even hate it,because he didnt learn nothing new about himself, but in 99% of cases this is 1% case when someones not really himself,ofcourse you could have done way better,but its not you doing things to her to raise emotions(wrong way to think,thats manipulation) you can only position yourself like i said, so she with her own judgment comes to conclusion hey im ready right now, this is the guy that i never seen(thats your lack of game,takes alot of time to master so dont have high expectation to be someone for someone),but thats healthy person you wouldnt want someone who just jumps from one relationship to another like its nothing, i hope... Im bad at examples but take it like an addict needing to take things out of their system before being themselves fully. You want her too much vs wanting yourself this will haunt you in dating game.
  12. @m0hsen you act like you want to act based on who you want to be and where you want to lead yourself and in this context the woman,so you dont look at her reactions as much as what you need to be doing to be better at what your game you want to have.Now she owns spaces in your mind vs you for example positioning i gave you in her mind.But shes not ready for dating atm it seems.
  13. @m0hsen Thing is you must create your own positionings when you figure out how it works. It could be about 1.showing why she should be with you 2.Ways to miss you by how you make her feel 3.To trigger parts in her, trigger things in her to tell you about herself. Lets use positioning to think about you. So she is drinking her favourite drink now you tell her:every time you take a sip i want you to savour that taste for the time we kiss ,to have me with the drink because i know that drink means to you. Im writing this on a fly but it has to fit it to other things(and so you not use this lines because it has to be your own lines),point is that you make her think about kiss with you every time she takes a sip and when you are not there when she drinks the same drink she will think about you and the kiss you had that night.
  14. @m0hsen I thought its been multiple dates,well game is all about positioning so you need to position yourself for it to happen,making an opening you could be like flirting or whatever and eating ice cream, then you use ice cream for a kiss like saying:this one is a tasty ice cream wonder how it would taste it on your lips would it taste even better....by setting it up the mood beforehand.Friendly is just one part of you,there are hunders parts of you to bring out in situation for the direction you want to go in..
  15. Her thinking is: "what's the point of dates when he doesnt kiss me or do anything to seperate us from being just friends" happened to me when i was beating around the bush scared 😂