NoSelfSelf

At this point(like i got somewhere haha)i cant imagine myself with a person that is not willing to understand how relationships work and how we work together so we can make a nice relationahip..i find that people are not willing to do that ,if i would give books to read to someone or telling them how things should work(find a way it would work we start arguments) it doesnt end well...i quickly see that it wont work in a long run and its better to end or stay in circle of disfuction...am i wrong here am i missing something decieving myself being too idealistic?I end up being overbearing and like im manipulating but i just want a nice relationships ...some people(one person so far lol) that i know that i study relatuonships human behaviour etc. say :oh you read that in a book i can smell it its fake or something so it stays disfuctional rather that it improves situation

In new video leo said that we can understand human behaviour if we know self deception,how can you read and know human behaviour just by knowing how someone decieves themselves i dont get it?

Dont try to get anything from anyone and you wont need to get the approval if you are asking in that way...

@Etherial CatOh now i get it yeah its true guy with options will leave girls hanging and not even wanting relationship while some great guy but no so attractive want the relationship but girl will go for that attractive guy lol

Yes but they are usually so unconcious that they wouldnt even consider enlightement as a possibility..

Thats your insecurities coming up(investigate them)point is that everyone has options and then the solid relationship is made because of it... thats only way to have a real connection and love many people "love" their partners out of fear they dont have other options so they live a lie,thats why i would love to be good at pick up because when i have options i can truly love that one person not thinking i have no options and its run by fear...thats "true"love ...

No you are not a pussy its a society conditioning...you are not concious yet that you create your reality there is no enviroment creating your reality you are doing it... in logical way i can tell you that only way you can experience enviroment is through you.. through your filter of thoughts/ego your feelings etc..(yet again its not enviroment doing it its your body/mind doing it)and thats all that is creating in you by you, you saying that enviroment is blocking you is you creating that experience in yourself and then its part of your reality when you create that nothing is stopping you( if you dont create it yourself )there would be no experince of you reacting and getting victimized by enviroment...and its easy to fall asleep and not realize this even if you are concious of it...this reality of rules society goverment feels real because alot of people experience similar realities so it becomes a collective reality...

In which section is that book?

If we did i would destroy world long time ago

Killing yourself means in mainstream hurting and finishing your body...but you are not the body you are a thought so willing to die is to surrender your identity/ thought constract...

@RawJudah that wasnt the reason i commented i commented because you say girls hate pick up...and she would hate you for being involved in pick up ..

@RawJudah that makes no sense how did he pick her up then?

@Leo Gura romantic relationships are all lies then...i need to figured out how to make it healthy its like its rigged to become devils activity like almost everything 😵

@Leo Gura i feel a need to manipulate to grow out of my weaknesses and to do better at things...but i do it in moderation, so much less than before...whats the alternative then ?

@Leo Gura i thought pick up is full of manipulation until i got one of the rsd courses and there was not so many manipulation they teach giving,colaboration not competitive mind frame,being yourself...ofcourse its still manipulation but how can you get resaults in anything if you dont manipulate in some degree...me being introvert i had to force myself being social and thats also manipulation and if i dont manipulate myself to be more social i wont grow...