Thought Art

I’m going to be kinder to myself

I made a wild sounding song. It’s not perfect but I felt like a captured a vibe worth sharing. https://www.bandlab.com/post/1615005c-6e03-43d2-b18b-a1088c3f2db8 i basically just don’t like how the vocal comes in at first.

I love swimming. One thing I’m grateful for is I swam competitively as a child. So nice to be able to swim well.

I had this day where I woke up and just felt turned off by Bryan Johnson. Not sure what happened.

Girls dress up because they want people to think they are beautiful. If they are into you, and you tell them… it can open them energetically. They really, really like it. They are sort of insecure and I think when you tell them they really appreciate it. It’s not even just a compliment it’s confirming your interest in her.

@Leo Gura Yes, I know better. I was too complacent last night. However, it’s still a rep. I am aware of the need to talk to people and build state, I’ve done this before while I was here. Sometimes it’s like I’m in this thick gel and everyone seems outside or reach. I have one more night here I’ll give it another swing. How can I find wingmen? thanks,

It would be cool if you guys were in Montreal. I’d love to go out with some guys and see you in action. Im happy with my wins recently. But, for example last night I went out but didn’t really socialize. I didn’t see any girls I was into. But, I feel like if I was with other guys to push me and to see how they do things it would help me grow.

Yeah, but how you gonna replace your ear?

@Zenterus As far as I’m concerned I’ve had good results. You spend time with her.

Frankly, I also don’t care about pickup. I want a girlfriend and a partner.

At a recent studio session I had some camera equipment issues. So I made this off the cuff video talking about Qigong and Mindfulness as a combined and complimentary practice. Not an amazing talk for sure. But, it’s something. I am choosing to share and be imperfectly me.

I’m basically a travelling working nomad. I think that’s my plan. Earn as much money as I can. Work like crazy. Visit Montreal, talk to girls. When I am 35 I’ll take a massage program and move full time to the city and I’ll have lots of money so even if things are tight I’m floating.

I know I’m not the good guy always.

99% of this is just going out. There’s a girl out there waiting for you. We are programmed to be into each other. A lot of the work is done for you at birth.

@Raze Nah man. Some women aren’t engaged at first. The girl who hugged me was face down in her phone eating breakfast before she gave me a hug 5 minutes after asking her if she was a painter (she was a physicist) Just opening the conversation brought in new energy. She was really grateful someone started talking to her. You are not seeking validation but using social intelligence. You want to be gauging her interest. The less interest the less you really need to invest. You also want to get to know her. Does she excite you? Is she interesting? Would you like to spend time with her? Does her facial expression and voice turn you on? You don’t need to know what you will talk about. You just talk and the about comes naturally. Women aren’t looking for a point. The point is in the talking. There isn’t that much people meet for the first time say… haven’t you noticed this? If you like her, and there is possibility of going somewhere, or getting her number or getting coffee, you ask her. If she’s single or interested she will say yes. I’ve done this many times too. But, also, if she has a boyfriend or she’s travelling and you know you won’t speak again… you can just enjoy talking to her for a bit. She might even give you a hug even if she has a boyfriend. What I said says everything about trust and investment. You are engaging her, building trust rapidly, and if you two have a vibe you investment by trying to hangout more. Why not?