Thought Art

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  1. What are some tips for getting better at socializing at social events or loud places where groups of people drink and laugh and dance. I was at a staff party tonight and it was a lot of fun, fancy etc... I work in a pretty upper class environment. I did dance, and I socialized with my table but I would have liked to walk up to other tables and just start talking to people but I felt like that was too awkward and scary. That I wanted to sit down, but also deeply wanted to just sit by myself. The server was super cute... I felt like I could have made more eye contact with her. I could tell she was attracted to me. I was with her as well aha. I have long noticed that at the end of a social party I can often feel a deep loneliness, awkwardness and out of placeness. It's a total illusion I think if I just let go and flowed. I am fun, likeable and attractive but... This has long been a sticking point. Tips or questions? (edited)
  2. Wondering what you think? 1. Not learning to deal with failure 2. Not taking life serisouly 3. Half assing life 4. Letting yourself be distracted 5. Not being willing to really look at how your behavior is shaping your life 6. Not enjoying what is...
  3. And if there are two infinities.. That is a duality and all dualities collapse. So there must be an infinity of infinities ad infinitum.
  4. Nothing is outside of God. Because whatever is... must be God. God Imagines forever, and it even sort of transcends forever and contains infinite possible forevers within it. It also imagines 'why' and 'how' and exists prior to those things.
  5. @Emotionalmosquito Try low dose and slowly work up
  6. That goes against my tripping protocol… I’m too huggy… have a strict no moving or touching protocol now with any trips… unless it’s like some low dose fun with a loved one. whether is 5meo or nn… or any psych… I recommend doing it alone or only around people who are willing and aware of what you are doing and the protocols for safety.
  7. @Leo Gura games on DMT? That makes no sense to me when I think of a DMT trip..
  8. @bloomer no. Jamie Griffith was jumping out of bushes grabbing women’s boobs and asses and then running away with a smirk on his face then he played the victim card. Just be calibrated and go slow. Smile and have fun. you have the intent on having a good night with these women it will come through. just don’t assault people like Jamie.
  9. How goes human to prove anyone can become god like.
  10. "When Love is Gone... Where does it go? and where do we go?" -
  11. This is probably true. I can understand you feeling some shame or hurt about it. Keep working toward mental health instead of taking pride in your illness and blaming others. If you want. It's a path you may take which has many rewards.
  12. @Bazooka Jesus I don't think so. "Frostyyy the snow man" It's not clear. The is definitely saying that "true love will find you in the end" Truth=Love
  13. As is mental illness. Maybe people have trouble understanding one another when we think and act different. I tend to try to take responsibility for my neurosis instead of blaming people who don't have them for not people pleasing me.
  14. @something_else I agree. I did more research and though it’s not clear in this guys case he was literally jump assaulting women in that area not just her. So it makes sense his sentence. It should be fine.
  15. I think you should only approach sober I don't fully understand your story but seems like you are gaining the important direct experience. I did some more research on the article... Seems the article twisted the truth of what he was actually doing. He was grabbing women in that area... multiple women he would just run up and grab and run away. If you are approaching women with the intention of you two both enjoying the conversation, escalation etc and you are a man. You should be fine.
  16. Don’t take it personally. instead maybe try to make higher quality distinctions about the type of posts that make sense on the forum. Your party and raves maybe better for friends on Facebook than a personal growth forum.
  17. I personally find these low quality posts. I expect a question and get some long quote with no opinion attached… its hard to read
  18. @Leo Gura Good idea. also, I will do one or two approach nights a month starting a month or two from now. There is pretty good night life in my city, though it’s medium sized. I think your pickup lines are more for a city like Vegas but, I’ll find what works here.
  19. It's something I can work on. I can go slowly, dip my toe in and develop the skill over a couple years.
  20. I am alive so. I can't live in fear forever. I am working to escape these fears and just live boldly. These fears of me too have been holding me back from my LP and have caused a lot of suffering in my life. I find myself with these fears of 'what if I did something and don't know and get publicly accused and my life ruined'. I just have to live my life. I will die one day...
  21. @universe Yeah but his sentence is a little over kill. With risks like that Id rather just stay home.
  22. Is that article real? Why not just educate the young man. This Jamie guy isn't as innocent potentially as the above article makes it out to be... https://asdaddy.com/2019/10/25/fake-news-how-much-can-you-trust/ Sounds like he was grabbing booties in the area not just one girl he awkwardly tried to make friends with.