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Is marriage a scam?
Is marriage a scam?JP actually has a pretty good take on marriage: it's a commitment. The commitment is the most important part. It's like tying yourself to a sinking ship. You don't do it for the fun. You only do it if you're a serious sailor. If you treat it like that, it's not a scam, it's a test of your resolve and it matures you.
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Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?
Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?1) You actually don't know that. Grifters like him can manipulate social media to construct whatever image of themselves they want. Case in point, Tai Lopez. Tate is exactly following the Tai Lopez formula. Nothing new here.
Also, you have to wonder how he got his millions, his mansion, and his supercars. Was it doing something ethical? Highly doubtful. It was some kind of prior grift. You don't make that kind of money with that kind of personality by doing honest work. You get it through grifting, manipulation, and exploitation of people. People like Lopez and Tate are classic manipulators and exploiters -- which is the true secret to how they make their money which they won't teach you.
2) Even if he was a millionaire, his grift now is making himself even wealthier by exploiting young fools. He's not helping you out of the kindness of his heart. No serious millionaire is trying to make others millionaires. A real millionaire is too busy making money from his business to care about teaching you how to make money. The ones who teach you how to make money are doing it because they don't actually have any solid business otherwise. Hence it's a classic pyramid scheme.
Millionaires like Tate are a joke.
He's not the fool, you are for following him.
It shouldn't take you more than 3 minutes of listening to him to smell that he is a grifter. He will fuck you the same way he fucks his women. As is the case with almost every PUA coach, he exploits his male clients worse than he exploits his women. You think he's teaching you how to fuck women, when actually he's mostly just fucking you. This is the classic PUA grift. He didn't invent it.
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How Do You Deal With False Accusations When Doing Pickup?
How Do You Deal With False Accusations When Doing Pickup?Ignore and go about your day.
If you talk to 1000s of people you will occasionally get some very negative reactions that have nothing to do with you.
Then again, if you're being particularly awkward and creepy, then stop doing that. Basically you need better social calibration.
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NN DMT vs 5MeO DMT
NN DMT vs 5MeO DMT@Leo Gura
That’s actually nutter butters. It’s a shame said substance has been so difficult for me to acquire. Going straight into that state reliably sounds nice. It would also be nice not needing to compensate with a higher dose of another psychedelic. Looks like I’m going to Canada. Its hard for me to grasp the idea of something stronger than dmt?
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When women make excuses not to date you are they true or false?
When women make excuses not to date you are they true or false?Pretty common excuse. It's not worth your time analyzing whether it is true. Most girls are so confused about life they themselves don't know why they do what they do. Just move on to other girls.
Do not try hard to win girls over. If she's not down, next. And don't waste time trying to figure it out. Girls will waste a ton of your time with their drama, real or imagined. Do not indulge their drama, go about your life.
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🍄 Actualized.org on Psychedelics 🍄
🍄 Actualized.org on Psychedelics 🍄@tedens That’s a good tip. Pick a good tip!
A 1 ml syringe is your best bet. They’re only 6 mm or 0.24 inches in diameter.
Coconut oil is your friend
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Question about 5 meo toxicity
Question about 5 meo toxicityHow toxic is the 5 meo DMT? if its toxicity were zero I would smoke a small dose every day, which would make my meditation much cleaner, and a dose of 15 mg every two weeks to make a foray into infinity. But I suppose that could have dire effects on my health. I feel that smoking 5 meo is aggressive for the lungs, for the brain I do not know, I have tried to investigate and I only found the case of a guy who said that after smoking about 3 grams in a year and a half (I think I remember) he had had serious problems respiratory symptoms during sleep, which the doctors told him was asthma but he was sure it was something neurological, after stopping consuming the problem disappeared. I've read that Martin Ball suffers from severe insomnia, but he says it's not caused by 5 meo. is there scientific evidence about its toxicity? Long term consumers?
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Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?
Leo gura what are your thoughts on andrew tate?Are you kidding me?
Bet-David runs an MLM pyramid scheme himself. Of course he will love Tate. They are two apples from the same tree.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.You should replace the concept of "nice guy" with "weak guy", then it will make sense.
A nice/weak guy is incapable of protecting her when shit hits the fan. So she isn't attracted to that.
Being a good provider does not hit her on a visceral level, does not give her the masculine containment she craves.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.Unless you plan to stay a virgin, you will have to reach hook-point with any girl you intend to date and marry.
You are acting as though the girl you marry will be attracted via some alternative way. No. She will get attracted in exactly the same way as a girl who sucks your dick in the club bathroom.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.@mr_engineer Girls are not attracted to love. They are attracted to SURVIVAL VALUE.
Love comes long after sex.
She's not gonna fall in love with you until you fuck her properly. And she's not gonna let you fuck her unless she sees value in you.
So if you want love, start with offering social value.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.Your mind is just making bullshit excuses to avoid approaching.
Go do 1000 approaches.
Why should any woman love you when you are being such a pussy?
A man who cannot approach does not deserve a woman's love.
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Pick-up is a trap.
Pick-up is a trap.All women are attracted to the same stuff. Nothing is stopping you from falling in love with her after she sleeps with you.
Pickup easily converts to genuine dating. You can set up many dates. You don't have to do one night stands, you can collects dozens of numbers and instagrams.
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Supplements to help with energy and focus
Supplements to help with energy and focusI would suggest doing a lot more testing to discover the root of your health issues. Health issues are usually NOT an accident, especially at age 23. They are often the direct outgrowth of diet and lifestyle choices. So you gotta discover which of your lifestyle choices are screwing up your sleep and your brain and your energy levels.
Things like supplements can be like band-aids on a broken leg. Your body might actually be sending you valuable signals that something is wrong and needs to be fixed rather than masked over.
I'm a night owl myself and find it hard to go to bed early consistently. I actually saw a study that came out the other week which found a link between your genes and whether you are an early bird or a night owl. Now, I'm sure that doesn't mean you can't change. But there might also be some value in being honest with yourself about who you naturally are and go with the flow. Maybe. Even though I'm a night owl, I do find I'm much more productive if I wake up early.
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Spiral Dynamics Stage Green Examples Mega-Thread
Spiral Dynamics Stage Green Examples Mega-ThreadIt's a tricky topic because in the ultimate big picture, EVERYTHING serves its purpose. Cenk's demonizing the right has its purpose. White people lynching black people has its purpose. Nazis killing Jews had its purpose. Racism, war, genocide, slavery, anti-Semitism, rape, murder, theft, corruption, harassment, abuse, tribalism, etc. It ALL serves a purpose. It's all totally inevitable and part of Infinity. This is the bitter pill that no ego wants to swallow because the ego loves to judge and be self-righteous and to create an environment which aids the ego's survival.
So if you're gonna say that demonization is moving us forward. Okay. But also realize, so did Nazi concentration camps.
It will take some deep enlightenment experiences to accept that. It will not make sense to the ego-mind. The ego-mind is too selfish to see it. And the ego-mind will try to use this fact to further its agenda by saying things like, "Well, I robbed that person, but it was totally inevitable, like Leo said. So I didn't do anything wrong."
Of course this is just ego being a sneaky manipulative snake. Which is also inevitable.
Reality cannot be other than exactly how it is. The challenge for ego is to surrender to what is.
By definition, anything that happens within reality, servers the ultimate purpose. There is nothing within reality which is "wrong" or "should be otherwise". You cannot optimize reality beyond what it is. It is already 100% optimal and anything that occurs is part of that opitmality unfolding. It just unfolds in counter-intuitive ways. Most people would not think that murder is optimal, but that's because they are not seeing the biggest picture. They are not thinking infinite moves ahead the way God does. So to them, stuff looks sub-optimal. But that is just ignorance. At higher levels of consciousness that will fall away and there will be total acceptance.
This is the #1 reason why nonduality cannot go mainstream. This truth is too brutal for people to accept.
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Need tips on what to do when a girl comes over..
Need tips on what to do when a girl comes over..1) You need to have a solid library already built of great music. Create various playlists of your fave music for various moods. Dancing, high energy, low energy, erotic, jazzy, lyrics, no lyrics, ambient, etc.
2) When it comes to watching movies, just watch whatever YOU want to watch. Watch things you are genuinely interested in. You should have a collection of movies, shows, and documentaries already pre-loaded so you can quickly browse through to find whatever catches your fancy.
All of the above should be familiar to you like the back of your hand, so you don't have to think or decide about anything.
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No point to doing PUA
No point to doing PUATalking to girls building skills just to fuck them why so shallow thinking?
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Leo-Your view on veganism?
Leo-Your view on veganism?That is one of the problems.
Realistically you'd need some kind of grain substitute like rice. But eating grain makes me feel bad because it's high in carbs and causes a sugar crash. It not particularly healthy either.
Grain is basically empty sugar calories.
Potatoes are one option. But again, it's mostly empty sugar calories.
My body feels best on a diet of meat, veggies, fruits, and quality fats. Low carbs as possible.
Juicing fruit and veggies is great for health. But you can't rely on it to keep you full.
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No point to doing PUA
No point to doing PUAIn practice what will probably happen is you will get to your 50s and regret not experimenting a lot when you were younger. God realization or enlightenment or whatever isn't going to save you from material regrets. Using these things to avoid completing your material goals in life is a dangerous strategy unless you want to become a monk.
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5-MeO-DMT vape carts
5-MeO-DMT vape cartsThere are different pros and cons.
Pros:
1. No torch or breakable dab rig
2. convenient and small/ discreet
3. You can measure dosage by full drag of the vape till the battery flashes. Make sure you limit it to about 2-3 full draws on the cart to avoid wasting 5meo or taking too much at once
4. the cart is pretty sturdy so if you vape in bed and disappear before you can place it on the table your fine. Way safer than lighting something.
Cons
1. hard to get exact dose
2. easy to abuse
3. Very expensive compared to it if freebase or hcl as they are value added products
Don’t underestimate the strength of the pens and make sure you use self restraint during your sessions. Limit the draws you will take in a session.
Alway follow proper safety protocols. Recommend having some kind of ritual that puts time and preparation between the idea to trip and the trip itself (including cleaning house/ tripping environment , safety checks for trip location, intention affirmation for trip and safety (ie, that you will stay stationary and not move around or panic) meditation and Qigong done before to open and relax nervous system.
Carts may make it easy for you to over indulge as they are super convenient. Be conscious and always improving your protocols and being sure to respect the power these carts offer.
Used maturely I think they have a lot to offer the conscious and mature psychonaught.
Always be improving your tripping protocol to be safer and more insightful and enjoyable.
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Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 results
Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 resultsAgain, it's not about the actual sex, but about learning the skills to be a strong, attractive man. Those skills actually do create lasting fulfillment.
And the sex doesn't have to be low quality. You will find cool girls and they can become your girlfriend which can grow into deep amazing sex.
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Question about Tripp from Leo's Interview
Question about Tripp from Leo's InterviewDon't. Just do pickup when you're doing pickup, and do meditation when you sit to meditate.
If you can get numbers and dates, clearly you're getting attraction, so what are you insecure about? As far as your insecurity goes, what you need to get through your thick skull is this: within about 15 minutes you will either reach hook-point with a girl or not. If you reach hook-point, you will clearly see that she's attracted. Once you see that, you know she is willing to fuck you if you just don't screw it up from here on out and handle the logistics well. So drop any insecurity from here. You KNOW she's willing to fuck you. And if a girl agrees to go on a date with you: YOU KNOW SHE'S WILLING TO FUCK YOU. A girl will never agree to go on a date with a guy she's not willing to fuck.
Your insecurity should be about those initial 15 minutes to reach hook-point. If you get there, you've won! She's willing to fuck you. Which means your looks are now irrelevant.
One of the best guys I knew in game was a short 5'2" Pakistani guy. He was amazing. He got more girls than me at 6'2".
Your PERSONALITY is what matters. Focus on improving that. Become charming and bold and you will attract many girls.
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Question about Tripp from Leo's Interview
Question about Tripp from Leo's InterviewYeah, of course. Getting over your own excuses, fears, and insecurity is like 70% of getting good with girls. That's the hardest part.
Yeah, your mind will trick you with every excuse it can muster to not go to a club and not talk to a girl. You have to be very motivated to start going out regularly.
Yes, just do it. But you need a strong vision of why you're doing it and what you hope to get out of it. Otherwise there's no way you'll be motivated enough to push through the hard times.
Of course if you have serious life problems holding you back, it's nice to solve those. Although you can find ways to do pickup without spending any money.
At the very least you can go out twice a week on Fri and Sat. You can work and still do pickup at night or weekends.
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Question about Tripp from Leo's Interview
Question about Tripp from Leo's InterviewI started at 26-27 in that position. I had a lot to learn.
Yes, at that age you want to get started right away. It will get harder and harder the older you get. 24-25 is the perfect age to get into pickup. Although Covid-19 obviously killed it for the next year.
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Question about Tripp from Leo's Interview
Question about Tripp from Leo's InterviewYou can get very technical about game.
But that's not good for newbies. When you're just starting out you want to focus on the bare basics like your dress, grooming, approaching consistently, building decent state, eye contact, smiling, body posture, physical escalation, never running out of things to say, and leading.
The most important things are:
Going out at least 2x-3x nights a week, consistently Approaching consistently Putting yourself into a good mood while you do so Smiling and laser eye contact Getting good at never running out of things to say. Becoming good at holding conversation Communicating with her man-to-woman, with clear sexual intent Immediate physical escalation Leading her That will get you 90% of your results. Getting decent at all the above will take you several years of full time work.