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How fast can I develop my socialization skills?
How fast can I develop my socialization skills?Don't focus on how long it takes. If it's alinged with your top values just start doing it.
If you get into it hardcore, you can develop a lot of social skills in 2-3 years.
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Can being sexually explicit effectively screen for girls who are DTF?
Can being sexually explicit effectively screen for girls who are DTF?That's basically what experts PUAs do. They screen for girls who are DTF in many subtle ways. You don't need to grope her to screen for DTF.
This strategy is effective in certain contexts, like if you're in a huge nightclub with more girls than you will ever approach. But this strategy will have you missing out on many of the best girls because most of them will not be DTF.
It depends on your aims. If you just want a ONS vs if you're looking for gf material girls for something more serious. The higher quality girls will not be open to your sexually explicit approach. Drunk club sluts will be.
The most solid game is not sexually explicit because that turns off many of the best girls and comes off creepy.
It's important to learn the skill of being charming and subtle.
"Hey, wanna fuck?" is not good game.
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Palestine/Israel war - What can we do to stop this genocide?
Palestine/Israel war - What can we do to stop this genocide?Easily.
You are just not thinking staight if you equate Netanyahu with ISIS. They are at totally different levels of development.
Of course that doesn't make Netanyahu an angel, but he's not a bloodthirsty radical. If you can't see this difference then you have no business doing politics. Politics is all about distinguishing degrees of bad, and choosing the lesser of two bads.
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Palestine/Israel war - What can we do to stop this genocide?
Palestine/Israel war - What can we do to stop this genocide?Because Netanyahu does not sit around planning to target civilians in Gaza with attacks. If you think he does that, you're being biased.
Netanyahu could have killed 10,000 civilians in Gaza a month ago if that was his agenda.
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Palestine/Israel war - What can we do to stop this genocide?
Palestine/Israel war - What can we do to stop this genocide?Smh. All those psychedelic trips and meditation retreats and you still lack basic compassion and empathy.
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Do most people enjoy living?
Do most people enjoy living?Yeah, I wish I was 25-26 years old again.
I am 34 years old which means that I am getting close to being middle age. That's why I feel like I don't have much time left for fulfill my stage Orange desires.
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Do most people enjoy living?
Do most people enjoy living?For real?
Dont look at people who live in africa and cant eat, people who have serious diseases, homeless people etc. People who already have a hard time enjoying life
Look at it through average persons
In % how would you rate it?
I think 70% dont enjoy living 30%do but maybe im false
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I don’t want to feel misogynistic but I can’t help if sometimes…
I don’t want to feel misogynistic but I can’t help if sometimes…That is just a misunderstanding of the feminine. The feminine desires to surrender to the masculine. That does not mean women wanna be raped by some creep in a dark alley. They wanna be possessed by a high value man of her choosing.
It's not dark triad men that turn her on. It's high value, masculine, strong men who turn her on. A psychopath is not by itself inherently attractive. In fact it will lead to much regret.
You can certainly admire a woman's physical appearance. Just don't reduce her to only that. Women love to be admired for their beauty but not reduced to it -- like all you want is sex and can't treat her as a conscious being. That's psychopathic behavior.
The mistake noobs makes is complimenting hot women on their looks. This is just too obvious and desperate. But it doesn't mean you ignore physical appearance. You just don't lead your pickup with it.
It's called game for good reason. Because you gotta play a bit of games to get laid. Don't be so lame and desperate that you stare at her ass and tits like a mouth-breathing ape. Have some class and charm. Getting girls requires some reverse psychology.
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5 meo DMT is horrible.
5 meo DMT is horrible.1) That's way too big a dose to start with. Now you spooked yourself off.
2) 5-MeO-DMT can have a pretty uncomfortable body-load for many people. It takes getting used to. Usually the body-load passes once you're heavy into the trip.
3) Some chemicals will just never be right for you. Find the ones that resonate with you. However, know that it takes time to get the full potential of 5-MeO-DMT. You cannot do it with just a couple of trips. You must really test it out patiently, knowing that there is a goldmine at the end of the road if you succeed. But you may have to work for it.
4) You may have energetic or psychological blockages which are keeping you locked up and unable to open up to the full 5-MeO-DMT experience. Those blocks need to be worked out over time through smaller trips, perhaps on other substances.
5) Stick to 10-20mg doses. And also consider plugging vs snorting. Snorting is a really unpleasant experience which will just make you not want to do it again. Plugging results in a more gentle trip than snorting.
6) 5-MeO-DMT is not a fun, recreational psychedelic. It's as serious as it gets. It should only appeal to the most hardcore, metaphysical-oriented psychonauts.
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10,000 hours of work
10,000 hours of work@How to be wise It took you 12 years to graduate high school.
So what's another 14 years?
Doctors, lawyers, and PhD's spend 8 years in grad school. And you want to master the whole universe in how long?
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What Am I Doing Wrong? With Dating + Women + My Emotions
What Am I Doing Wrong? With Dating + Women + My EmotionsIt's okey man. I really feel for you because I have been there myself. I approached hundreds of girls and got rejected every single time for many years.
Girls have blocked me, unfollowed me and not replied to me more times than I can even remember.
You're not doing anything wrong, you're just inexperienced. Keep talking to girls and keep getting rejected- in fact get rejected faster. I don't know how many times I fucked up with different girls and humilated myself in different ways but it doesn't matter.
I Keept talking to girls and today I have a girlfriend.
Trust the process
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Zero friends
Zero friendsStep #1: move to a cool city with nice nightlife or social scene.
Step #2: Force yourself to go out and socialize at least every Fri & Sat.
Do this every week for several years like clockwork, don't quit or make excuses, and your problem will be solved.
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is it really bad to getting into programming job at age 30
is it really bad to getting into programming job at age 30This is a nonsense point because nothing has ever stopped anyone from stealing people's work and placing it into their portfolios. It was always possible to lie to get hired. But then you'd be screwed because you wouldn't be able to do the work.
All that matters is one's ability to code and to demonstrate it. It's very easy to tell when someone is a good coder vs not. I've hired talented programmers and I could tell within a few days, a week tops, if he was seriously good.
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is it really bad to getting into programming job at age 30
is it really bad to getting into programming job at age 30An AI tool cannot do the job of a serious programmer. Enough with the AI hype train.
Portfolios and projects will always matter.
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Many incels are misunderstood
Many incels are misunderstoodNo one ever said incels are bad people. Some of them simply create a toxic online ideology which has nothing to do with reality or truth.
Even dwarves can get laid if they go out and socialize.
Most incels can get laid, they simply have too toxic of a mindset to do the work necessary.
It's true that women will not sleep with you out of pitty. They are selective for strong men. Which you can become through hard work if you drop your toxic incel ideology.
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Many incels are misunderstood
Many incels are misunderstoodIt is very easy to villianize someone because that way you don't have to empathize with them, and to empathize can be painful. To feel someone's suffering, it is much easier to paint a negative image.
A good example is incels. By definition all an incel means is to be "INvoluntarily CELibate." Many men are incel not because they are inherently bad people , or hate women but simply because of neurodivergent disorders or their appearance. Sex is ultimately the exchange of DNA and women do select men based on genetic indicators of fitness , I'm sorry but if you think only men can be superficial and care about appearances you're severely misguided. It's not even superficial but just evolutionary instinct, sexual selection keeps the gene pool healthier and females of most species are the selectors. ( example Bonobos)
Now i'm not saying you have to a model or millionaire to get a girlfriend, but there is definitely a threshold men must meet to enter the dating market and have any chance and some men simply don't meet it. It doesn't matter how kind , intelligent or interesting they are , simply due to circumstances out of their control they will never have much success with women. This is a reality it's not fair , brain cancer isn't fair , dwarfism isn't fair etc...
So not all incels are bad people , some are good people who were just dealt a bad hand. The same way many men who have great success with women and dating can be horrible people.
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Why does God allow such extreme degrees of suffering?
Why does God allow such extreme degrees of suffering?God is just an Infinite Mind. Which means, it is every possible thing that a mind can imagine. As it turns out there are no limits to what a mind can imagine, which is exactly why your dreams of torture happen. Your mind is just exploring the full potential of what a Mind is.
Don't think of it as God allowing or disallowing. God is simply Mind. And Mind has no limits to what it can dream. And it's all dreams. The function of Mind is to accept itself in its totality.
As it turns out, you can't dream anything unless you are able to dream everything. So here you are. If Mind couldn't imagine suffering, it would be a very weak mind and you could not be alive.
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Is there a way out of suffering?
Is there a way out of suffering?@diamondpenguin Wherever you are, whoever you are, you are always floating around as a figment in the eternal mind of God.
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List of Tinder Pick Up Lines
List of Tinder Pick Up LinesThe truth is that Tinder works entirely off your photos. If your photos are good all you need to do is open with "Hey". And if your photos are bad nothing you say will work.
Spend less time perfecting your opener and more time perfecting your photos. And if you don't have good looks don't bother with Tinder at all.
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How do you approach the ethics of dating when you're not ready to commit?
How do you approach the ethics of dating when you're not ready to commit?That's what game is.
Guys who don't know game are, ironically, unable to create rapid emotional connection. Which is why they struggle to get laid.
Emotional connection has little to do with love.
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I'd like to hear your opinion on starch, legumes and seeds.
I'd like to hear your opinion on starch, legumes and seeds.I have seen multiple comments against starch specifically lentils, beans, and oats. This interests me because legumes and grains are actually higher in vitamins and especially in minerals per gram compared to vegetables. In general, vegetables are lower in micronutrients compared to most other foods including meats. And of course, the reasons for eating more or less of something should be backed up by science. Eating more vegetables is associated with better health at least in general medicine, but the same can be said about legumes and oats.
I feel like this whole thing is about high-calorie foods being bad in general, lentils are high-calorie IMO. I don't like the idea of eating less than 2500 calories a day though, some of us have very fast metabolisms, which means if we ate only vegetables we would look like children. You can poke fun at that idea all you want but you are ignorant of the fact that people Gen Z and forward have the opposite problem their parents had, we don't have balanced hormones, especially male ones. Testosterone isn't just a muscle-building hormone, It's also an essential hormone to be and remain a happy male in many other areas.
Consuming 2100-3000 calories a day is necessary for most men.
Written with open-mindedness.
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This video of Owen is worth watching
This video of Owen is worth watchingIt's no different than how men are attracted to women.
It doesn't matter to you that a girl is hardworking, logical, and successful -- you care about tits and ass.
Nothing profound or suprising in any of this. Sexual attraction is never about character. So the fuck what? Go talk to girls.
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This video of Owen is worth watching
This video of Owen is worth watchingYou don't need all this elaborate theory.
Just go out, be social, and talk to girls. The rest is BS.
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I speak to myself. Am I schizophrenic?
I speak to myself. Am I schizophrenic?Sounds like you're just a weirdo.