The lesson is: girls have zero loyalty or care for you until sex, regardless of what they say.

You need to figure out your life purpose and career.
What are you passions?

David Sinclair, Harvard professor, longevity reseacher & author - best known for his appearances on Joe Rogan and several other podcasts - seems to be one of the new big snakeoil salesmen in the medical industry. I did not expect this kind of bullshitting from someone with his credentials, but there you have it.
Absolutely shocking:
 
 

That's a different matter.

Lol. I’ve been in 4 long-term relationships. I didnt know I abused the shit out of them 🤷🏼‍♀️
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@r0ckyreed
Your OP is full of excuses and defense mechanisms to avoid growing yourself as a man.
Ironic when all this crap comes from that profile picture. Seems to be just a compensation.
”I know what I want. I want an assertive woman who knows what she wants and who doesn’t conform to the BS social norms and tradition of men always having to make the first move.”
No, you’re just too scared to be a man and approach the damn feminine girl.
Go out there and approach a 1000 girls. Then most of this bitching will be gone. And you’ll actually learn to enjoy the game.

This is just some BS story your mind invented.
There are literally a billion women in non-abusive relationships. No reason why you can't be one of them.

It was actually triggered by my awakenings. I had awakenings that gave me much deeper insight into how attraction works. Without the awakening I was not conscious enough to see it.
Boldness can take you far in life. But it's not everything.
Looks is also a complex issue. Someone might be short, but otherwise great looking, or tall and ugly. So you shouldn't over-simplify these things.
Look, this isn't science. Attraction is a nebulous thing. I don't have numerical scales of how it works.
You shouldn't be thinking so hard about this. It doesn't matter. You only need to think about going out and talking girls. If you start obsessing of your looks to his anal numerical degree then you will struggle to get laid, because all this thinking is antithetical to game.
You will never get clear-cut answers about attraction because it's a very messy, multi-factorial process. Dozens of factors go into making someone attractive. The more of those factors you have the higher your success rate becomes. Some of those factors you can control and some you can't. Don't worry about the ones you can't, worry about the ones you can.
The status only helps if it's something she can experience or see/feel. If you're the boss of your company and you go out to a bar, no girl there will know or care. So that will add nothing to your results. But if you're the boss of your company and you want to date your secretary, your higher position obviously helps you. Or if you go to the bar with 20 of your employees and they are all flocking around you, this makes you more attractive in the bar.
There are complex tradeoffs between status and ugliness. Obviously if you look like troll but have high status then you will get laid less then if you were high status and had great looks. But you will get laid more with high status than otherwise.
Less attractive people pair with each other because that's the best they can get. And many people just have low standards and willing to settle with someone who they are compatible with personality-wise and looks are not a big deal for them. Most people are not so looks-obsessed. In a sense, when we're talking about pickup, it's an very biased pursuit because pickup assumes you're into chasing hot girls. Most people in the world aren't doing that. They just settle for the first girl that is willing.

With awakening you are still stuck in a dream, but you are more conscious or lucid within it.
"Us" and "separate" are part of the dream. So is "death". Any notions of anything are part of the dream. So you can't really use any notion to ground the dream because all notions are part of the dream.

@Jehovah increases Don't overlook the value Owen offers. It's too easy to be cynical. You can learn a lot from Owen if you really want to grow.

I don't even know if I would call myself intermediate.
There are many variables involved: how often you go out, how long you stay out, how hard you hit it, your health, your logistics situation, time of the year, what city you live in, your skill level, your personality type, the quality of girls you're trying to pull, your ethics, luck, what your goals are, how much momentum you've built up, your emotional state, etc. So there's not going to be any clear number. It will vary a lot from guy to guy.
A bad month is zero.
But also, I don't measure my results based on quantity of girls I sleep with. That's a pretty foolish measure. I would rather sleep with 1 amazing girl than 10 below average ones. But even that is still not the right measure because the skills developed and life experiences gained are more important. I measure my results based on how much it grows me internally. This way if I have a month where I get zero girls, I still see it as part of my overall success and I don't quit. Whereas most guys would just quit.

It is, but I assume you don't got that, otherwise you won't be complaining about hot women.
But even if you got that, hot women have so many options that you will still struggle to sleep with any particular one just off your looks and game. Plenty of guys around who have good looks and game. It's not hard for hot women to meet such men.

Lol.
There is no such country. You are just blind to all the ugly girls in your country.

Hot women are looking for value, just like you are. The only reason you are talking about hot women is because you want to grab some value from them.
Imagine if a woman came here and started a thread: How To Find Men With The Biggest Dicks?
This would be analgous to you trying to pick up "hot women".

Your social circle game doesn't need to be elite. Just at least something rather than nothing.
Look, it comes down to a matter of consistency. Any guy can get lucky and sleep with a hot girl or two. But if you want to get them consistently you need a social plan.

Dude, by definiton most girls are not models. Please stop with the BS.

What I'm saying will hold true across major cities in the US and the developed world.
If you live in a village in Pakistan then obviously things work different there.
Not every hot girl is playing the social status game. Some can be very introverted or not interested in such games. But I was speaking to what strategy you need to get hot girls consistently.
Why would a hot girl have to choose between one or the other when she can have both?

Don't glorify Russian girls. Nothing particularly great about them. Plenty of ugly ones, just as all ethnicities. Plus backwards Russian software.

Doesn't work this way in practice. Because your femininity is linked to the levels of hormones in your body. And the more of the feminine hormones you have the more they literally shape your body to be more feminine and thereby "hotter" in the eyes of masculine men. So when a guy sees a bombshell hottie, chances are she's peaking in feminine hormones and personality. And she dresses the part. She's not wearing boots and cargo pants.
Of course there are exceptions. But the trend is what's important for the purposes of game.
A guy can literally pick out girls full of feminine hormones just by looking at them. Which is exactly what guys do. And girls do it too. It takes one second to see masculine and feminine without even talking to it.
Which is why trans people take hormones. They are using it to shape their body to better fit their minds.
Also, masculine behavior on a hot chick makes her unattractive, as does feminine behavior on a beefy guy. Imagine Arnold Schwarzeneggar whining about a broken nail.

Funny enough many women are not thinking that far ahead. They aren't thinking at all. They will sleep with any guy who makes her feel good and leads her to a bedroom.
But the hottest women tend to be very social, so if you're not offering social value then you just won't even find yourself around them. Because they blindly go where the social value is and you ain't there.
Really, the secret to getting hot women is to be where they hang out. It's just basic physics.

It's one thing to say it, it's another thing to explore it.
And these type of people love to flatten the terrain. They love to act as though exploring infinity is just more of the same, more forms. No! It's not about more forms, it's about higher consciousness. The terrain isn't just wide, it's deep. And what's missing is the depth. They have flattened consciousness to suit their limited position within it.
It doesn't matter if there is or isn't someone to wake up. What matters is Consciousness. These people love to misdirect you about what's important, with their shallow spiritual platitudes which they squawk like parrots.

You just need more experience talking to girls until you are confident and charismatic and don't give a damn about what hot girls think of you.
With lots of experience you lose that insecurity around hot girls because you just stop caring and you are in a self-assuming flow state.
Of course hotter girls have more value and more options, so they will hook up with you less often. This is just how it is. The hotter the rarer. To consistently sleep with hot girls you need to play a serious social and status game. You gotta intice them with more than just a date. You have to build an elite social circle which you can invite them into, which offers them status and other perks. The hottest girls are often chasing high status. So that's the bait you must use to catch them consistently. You do that by building an elite social circle and hosting your own social events like parties, fancy dinners, social outings, etc. And then you invite girls not for dates but to your exclusive social events.
You have to realize that once a girl is in the 8/9/10 level of hotness she is basically in model territory. That means she can make lots of money just from her looks. And such girls will use that to get free shit. They make a whole lifestyle out of milking their looks. Free parties, free travel, free dinners, free events, etc. So if you cannot offer that then why would they sleep with you? You're just one of 50 dicks who surround her every week.

A lot of bad art these days is just a corruption by rampant capitalism. The Disney-fication effect. It's not really art, it's a money-grab with an art veneer.
But even if you took all the corporate assholes out of the process, making good art is still really hard. Just because you are being highly creative and genuine does not mean your art will be good. You can make genuine crap.

@Leo GuraWhat to do if your past girlfriend cheated on you by flirting with other boy.I feel constantly angry for this .I just woke up with the angry mood with the image in my head of she flirting with someone else . What to do ?

@ertopolice Depth can come later, after the attraction is solidified.
There is an order of operations to dating. Don't go too deep too fast. But eventually you can go deep. You have to calibrate.
I love going deep, but only at the right time.

@Skin-encapsulatedego You shouldn't really use me as an example because I'm at a very different position in life than you.
You'd be surprised. You can meet conscious and openminded people in clubs and bars. Girls of all kinds go to clubs and bars for fun with their friends. There is this false idea that only sluts or skanks go to clubs. That's not true. I've met some amazing people. One of the most amazing things you'll discover when you go out a lot is that you will bump into the most surprising people. I once bumped into Tony Robbin's copywriter and she went on a date with me. We had some amazing conversations and she was all into self-help and stuff.
Ironically, it is closedminded to believe that openminded people don't go to clubs.
Then again, I've never really enjoyed clubbing. It's something I did to grow myself, but it's not an environment I want to be in if I can avoid it.
Oh, I once met a stripper with a Om tattoo and she liked to smoke DMT and was into yoga. People are more interesting and complex than you expect.
As far as finding a high caliber match, that's basically luck. The more numbers you get the better your chances. You can't really predict it.