Yali

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  1. Is dating multiple people ethical?
    Is dating multiple people ethical?
    I found the best approach is to date freely whoever you want until things get serious and exclusivity arises.
    Unethical would be if you start lying about things.
    Setting the right frame is important. What are your intentions? Do you want a gf or do you want to just sleep around? Set your frame accordingly so she is not misled.

  2. Leo, are you more conservative yet?
    Leo, are you more conservative yet?
    I'm not conservative in the sense of how online right-wing figures are. But I clearly see the problems and limits of progressives.
    Trump is not a conservative. He's just a con-artist, and anything he touches will turn to shit.

  3. Tucker Carlson to interview Putin
    Tucker Carlson to interview Putin
    It is amusing that Putin gave us a history lesson from the 1600s to justify his war. Really stretching there.

  4. Can stage yellow support the death penalty? 
    Can stage yellow support the death penalty? 
    It saves resources which can be used to improve the lives of people who need it.
    This is really a resource allocation issue. Simple as that. There is no point taking care of an asshole for 40 years. If he's gonna be an asshole we don't gotta bend over backwards to take care of him.
    Be ware of idiot compassion.

  5. What is the point of getting laid if solipsism is true?
    What is the point of getting laid if solipsism is true?
    I still cum harder than ever. I still connect with the girl more than ever.
    Solipsism doesn't make anything less enjoyable.

  6. Today I made myself Cum with my mind
    Today I made myself Cum with my mind
    You've always cum using your mind

  7. Tucker Carlson to interview Putin
    Tucker Carlson to interview Putin
    @VictorB02 Putin has never been an evil madman, he just has a totally different survival agenda and worldview than America.
    The reason it's hard for Americans to understand Putin is simply because they are not faced with Russia's survival challenges and are paradigm-locked into American survival challenges.

  8. For you guys who think that is easy for girls.
    For you guys who think that is easy for girls.
    @Princess Arabia
     
     
    Read them all. Now you've just discovered the fact that you are even more silly than the woman in the video.

  9. For you guys who think that is easy for girls.
    For you guys who think that is easy for girls.
    @Leo Gura
    don't you think being attracted to a women with low value by society's standards is the real test of your love?
    If you can't love an "ugly" person, then how loving are you really?
    if you can't see the beauty in the ugly, then how loving are you really?
    As much as spiritual people purport to value love, they're still humans and humans are DAMN bias. 

  10. For you guys who think that is easy for girls.
    For you guys who think that is easy for girls.
    This girl is so silly.
    All attraction is about VALUE.
    Men only sleep with with women who have VALUE. And women only sleep with men who have VALUE.
    It's a value game. It's never unconditional.
    This girl herself will never sleep with a man who has low value to her. She will not even register him in her mind. He will be invisble to her.
    The truth is that mating is about finding value, and it hurts when you lack it because you end up getting a bad deal because you got nothing to bargain with.
    This girl should be happy that men look at her at all. She could have been born ugly and no one would look at her. Now that would be a real problem. This girl has no real problem, she just needs to screen men better and have a realistic of why mating happens at all. Mating is not for entertainment, mating is survival.
    And yes, the fact that men look at you does make you special. That's exactly why they are looking at you. But it does not make you unique because you are not the only beautiful girl in the world. But guess what? Your personality is not unique either. There are a thousand girls with a similar personality and the truth is that personality is not what people date off of because there are as many suitable personalities as there are beauitful bodies.

  11. Can Ayahuasca Give An Intense Spiritual Experience? Sadhguru Answers
    Can Ayahuasca Give An Intense Spiritual Experience? Sadhguru Answers
    DMT will make you forget about Sadhguru and his human games.

  12. What are the life differences between a cashier vs someone viewed as successful
    What are the life differences between a cashier vs someone viewed as successful
    Nothing alone creates wealth. Wealth requires a constellation of factors. Which is why it's rare.
    Good luck creating wealth without health.

  13. Is 10k rule bullshit ?
    Is 10k rule bullshit ?
    I know people who play chess for 8-10 years and they still have the same rating. And this is a guy who plays everyday because he has a boring job so he has the time to play it. 
    More and more I’m understanding that 10k rule is bullshit. Time you put into something is a factor but it is one of the least important factors. Mastery, deliberate practice, and systematic learning is fundamental. 
    For example I got into boxing a half year ago and I’m already a better boxer than most people there. Same with chess, dancing and other things I’m practicing.  It is just that coaching will only bring you so far. A coach can’t do the learning for you. Only make a program for you. And although I follow the same boxing program as other I’m making leaps because I know how the brain-body works. One has to be in alpha brain waves to learn. There are special meditation techniques that get you there. And that combined with visualization exercises and self knowledge (self reflection) is killing. 
    For me coaching is overrated too. Although I had good coaches (my current boxing coach for example is an olympic medalist) and therapists, they are just not up to date with the latest mind-body science. They are basically applying the 10 k rule and hope for the best but as I said there are people who throw years and years at a skill like that guy I was talking about who plays chess everyday and his rating has been the same. 
    I tapped into all kinds of teachings but Joe Dispenza’s stuff is insane. I’m surprised it is not on Leo’s book list. Instead he has some esoteric books on there that he doesn’t even believe in himself. 

  14. How can I get out of poverty?
    How can I get out of poverty?
    Be careful. That's not true.
    There are some jobs that pay a lot and require zero education or skill.
    For example, I once met a merchant marine. He worked for 6 months a year on shipping container ships. It pays a lot of money, a high full year's salary for 6 months of work. And it requires no education. They train you for free on the job. This guy was saving tons of money and traveling all around the world and only working 6 months out of the year.
    You can find stuff like that if you bother to do deep research as I said.

  15. What's it like to have lots of consciousness?
    What's it like to have lots of consciousness?
    Rat levels.

  16. What's it like to have lots of consciousness?
    What's it like to have lots of consciousness?
    Nonsense.
    It is possible to have 1000x more consciousness than a typical human.
    A human's consciousness is like that of an ant from God's perspective.
    If you accessed Alien Consciousness you would be so amazed and terrified you would shit yourself. I still have shit stains on my carpet from it.

  17. why don't incels just hire a dating coach ?
    why don't incels just hire a dating coach ?
    A dating coach will not get you laid.

  18. Vaping 5 Meo side effects
    Vaping 5 Meo side effects
    I get headaches from vape pens. It's caused by the e-liquid. It's not healthy for you.
    Try vaping it without the pen and see if you still get headaches.
    With that said, chronic use of 5-MeO-DMT can definitely result in damage to your system and brain. That's not just a myth. So be careful. Don't overdo it.

  19. I'm very impressed with Latin women
    I'm very impressed with Latin women
    Hard to say. Less than people might think. Blue religion runs deep in such places.
    It's easy to get a veneer of Orange and Green, but her core may be very Blue and you will be fooled until deep into the relationship.
    It's really hard to advance solidly beyond Orange and Green. In any country. But especially in the 3rd world.

  20. Why does God allow such extreme degrees of suffering?
    Why does God allow such extreme degrees of suffering?
    But you won't remember it.
    Think of it this way, you were already tortured in another life before this one. But that has no bearing on this life.
    The problem is that by mentally imagining all this suffering you create suffering for yourself when you don't have to be suffering now.
    Suffering will definitely happen to you, the key is to not worry about it much. Enjoy the good times while they last. They won't last forever.
    Also, stop filling your mind with toxic images which then loop around in endless nightmares. As you purify your mind your nightmares will stop.

  21. Formscapes vs. Professor Dave drama
    Formscapes vs. Professor Dave drama
    Then how come something like 50% of scientific studies fail to replicate? Lack of rigor within science.
    And the problem with this notion of "rigor" is that it's very much subjective and biased. I could argue that ignoring evidence of the paranormal is lack of rigor on the part of materialists like Dave.
    The problem is that Dave claims to be rigorous but he isn't. If he was truly rigorous he would not be a materialist.
    Science defines rigor in a circular manner as whatever aligns with its dogmas.

  22. Mr Bill Gates - conscious stage green philanthropist OR dangerous, shady elitist?
    Mr Bill Gates - conscious stage green philanthropist OR dangerous, shady elitist?
    Lol
    Look at your paranoia.
    If Bill Gates wanted to be a power-hungry psychopath, he could easily do so given his resources, and his work and influence would look very different. He could easily be a tyrant or a James Bond villian.
    But here is a guy who devoted the remainder of his life to helping mankind, and you call him a psychopath. That's like spitting in God's face.
    You can question the capitalist political system which under-taxes billionaires, but when a billionaire acts for the benefit of powerless people, don't bite his hand. People are not bad for being billionaires. It's how they use their money and power after they get it that matters.
    Bill Gates warned about coronavirus some years ago. While you were at home watching Netflix and jerking off, he was working hard to make sure your mom doesn't die of a pandemic. Yet he is the psychopath. Lol
    If Bill Gates wanted to, he could have supermodels riding his dick 365 days of the year and feeding him grapes. Yet he works every day to help under-developed countries fight diseases. Think about that.

  23. Eckhart Tolle on Diet: Quite Grounding
    Eckhart Tolle on Diet: Quite Grounding
    @Ether
    it is true what he says, pretty much ALL of us are mind-absent when eating, not even acknowledging how lucky we are to eat that certain thing. Usually just staring at our blue flashing screens and shoving stuff into our stomachs. We need to eat mindful.

  24. If you are suffering, then 'no-self' & Truth is NOT understood!
    If you are suffering, then 'no-self' & Truth is NOT understood!
    Some people have the mistaken understanding that suffering is not contingent on 'Truth'. Or even no-self.
    Then, the following sentence might be too radical for you: If you are suffering even in the subtlest of forms, you are not accessing the truth.
    In other words: if you are sitting bored in God-Head in a psychedelic session, thinking you are so above this puny no-self insight - accessing so much depth and richness of consciousness - Well, think again!
    The slightest bit of craving produces suffering. And suffering reinforces self-perception. As long as there is even a taint of self-clinging, you don't truly have the insight into no-self. You are in duality. You don't have access to this 'absolute truth' many people are so extremely sure is the case.
    Without no-self as a basis, 'God consciousness' is already tainted by the illusion of suffering. And you need to go back to the drawing board and question what aspect of the truth do you REALLY understand. And what part of it is still filled with illusions of the mind.
    Don't underestimate the core insights. Keep practicing and before exploring the rich constructs of the mind, make sure you know the big picture deeply and clearly.
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    Much love,
    Arda
     
     

  25. If you are suffering, then 'no-self' & Truth is NOT understood!
    If you are suffering, then 'no-self' & Truth is NOT understood!
    The problem with this view is that all your so-called enlightened teachers will suffer if you hit them over the head with a hammer.
    So you are setting a virtually impossible standard for anyone to meet. By this standard no one knows Truth, no one knows God, no one is awake. And this is false. Awakening and Truth-realization is independent of suffering. You can realize no-self and still suffer.
    If you doubt this, think of Christ on the Cross. You think he didn't suffer? Don't kid yourself.
    So are you going to deny Christ awakening and truth because he suffered?
    You see how silly this gets?
    Of course if you suffer easily that shows that there is much more work you could do on yourself. But it doesn't invalidate any awakenings or realizations you've had.
    Suffering is part of Absolute Truth. And just because you're not suffering also doesn't mean you're consciousness of the highest truths. This conflation of suffering and moral purity with awakening or truth is very problematic for students in this work. It creates a lot of wrong expectations which will never get met. Stop thinking that awakening or God-realization will make you macho, stoic, infallible, and morally perfect. It won't. Consciousness of Truth is just that, nothing more. You could still be addicted to whatever. If you don't think awakened people have addictions and cravings, you're kidding yourself.
    What's not wise is setting up simplistic litmus tests for consciousness of Truth. Like, for example, you are not conscious of Truth unless you can sit still cross-legged for 4 hours without flinching. This is a human-made litmus test which says nothing about one's consciousness of Truth. Truth is not testable by any such litmus test. All it takes to be conscious of Truth is to be conscious of Truth. Nothing more. If you are conscious of Truth but cannot sit still for more than 1 minute, you are still conscious of Truth. You just haven't trained your mind and body to meet some spiritual ideal you have set for yourself.
    I suffer plenty. But it doesn't make my awakenings any less real or valid.