I don't work on weekends.
You guys are gonna burn yourselves the fuck out.
By trying to accomplish more you'll end up accomplishing less.

@Ineedanswers I consider 40 hrs/wk to be the ideal to aim for.
Rather than working harder, work smarter.
JP works a lot, but he still has no clue of the fundamentals of how mind works. You have to be careful not to get caught up in the weeds. The weeds are endless. You can work endlessly and get nowhere if you aren't really wise about it.
How come I work way less than JP yet understand mind and reality way better?
Because I work smarter.
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No one on their deathbed ever said: "Oh God! I wish I worked longer hours."
Never forget that in the end your work means nothing. People who work long hours are willfully ignorant of this simple existential fact.

If you want the secret to Pat's success, it's running a pyramid scheme and finding enough suckers to join it.

Through my research on women around me including myself, I've realized that women are poor judge of character. 
Our emotions and empathy rule our mind more than our intelligence. 
Another observation - Women who come abused environments with bad childhoods are even worse judge of character in comparison to those who come from healthy families. 
Please don't shame or judge women for choosing bad partners. Women like this don't understand what love means because nobody showed them what love means. 
We have a social role to protect women from bad partners instead of judging them. 
If someone is alcoholic it's important to rehabilitate them instead of judging them. 
Similarly.... Women are like alcoholics. They are addicted to masculine love. Usually the wrong man approaches them and gives them a promise of love and then abuses them.. It's like putting poison in alcohol and giving it to the alcoholic. If they die, it's not their fault because addiction is a mechanism of the brain, often the addict does not have conscious control over it and there's no replacement drug and addiction only keeps growing. 
Women are like addicts. They don't attract wrong men. Wrong men simply know how to get them drugged into their trap. 
The woman who choose good partners are not that addicted and usually come from healthy families and are difficult to drug. 
A lot of masculine women are not ruled by emotion or empathy so they use their intelligence and choose the right guy. 
A lot of feminine women (like me) are Hyper, chaotic, crazy and are ruled more by base emotion/instinct than intellect. 
The problem is that women like me who choose wrong partners are high in oxytocin. Our brains are designed to respond to stimulus. We're more maternal. That's why we are more inclined to become nurses, teachers, caregivers. The problem is that such professions or duties make a woman very vulnerable due to spike in her empathy. Can a woman judge her own child? No. We become non judgemental because of our role as women. Since our brains have been trained this way. The male brain is designed for order, logic and protection. This means that the male brain will be highly skeptical, and much more judgemental and very strict as compared to the female brain. That's why men don't get fooled easily. They carefully study their partner. Women on the other hand are careless, kind, vulnerable, reckless and don't bother to check their husband's phone. Often women get cheated on and are not aware of it. Because we're trained to always forgive, show care, love, empathy, kindness. This makes us blind to male error. 
We don't sit and study the males we date. Because our brains is full of bonding hormone oxytocin and this hormone is also important during lactation to bond with the child. As a result, we're less inclined to logically study the guy we're dating or even screen or scan him for red flags. If we like the guy, we just like the guy and we forget everything else, we don't even think about our future with the guy. We simply want to bond with him just like we want to bond with children. 
Masculine women don't want bonding. They want order in their life. So they carefully study the guy they are dating. So they get successful men and settle with good men 
Whereas most feminine women end up with some abuser, asshole, like me because we give too much into emotion and some creep comes along and learns to trigger an emotional response either by acting sweet (aggressive men repel this emotion), or by playing victim so the woman takes pity on the guy, and then win her heart using deception and manipulation, blackmail etc. 
 
Masculine women who are more logical don't fall for such manipulation. They don't easily believe a man's words. So they usually end up with better less manipulative partners. 
 

This is so silly. The only solution here is to just stop thinking about it.
You could also spend hours thinking about how many nasty shits your gf has taken in her life. But you don't because it has zero value to dwell on such things. Every time you sit down for dinner you could fantasize about how you gf is taking a shit. Imagine what it would be like to live that way.

Leo,
I just listened to part 3, How To Get Laid. Somehow, I missed that series. Disregard my rant about women not being angels. You communicated that they aren’t angels in this part 3. The last hour about ethics was the most important. As a person with severe stutter, dating has been hell. I'm 53 and just learning how to date. As a result, I have a little bitterness against women that I've been working on in therapy. I feel much better now.
I know so much now about -- game, dating, and female nature. Now I know why I was a failure with women. Dating for me was like, myself playing a football game against the Dallas Cowboys, not knowing the rules nor how to play football. I never had a chance, and got my ass kicked every time. 
You're right Leo….,"Do not blame women for not sleeping with you".
I understand the world doesn't owe me understanding because I stutter. I have the power to correct it, and reap the rewards from it, which is what I’m doing.
Thanks again so much Leo.

I still experience fear and anger sometimes. Fear moreso than anger. It takes A LOT to anger me but it might happen once every few years.
They have helped me with emtional mastery by making me more loving and conscious. I actually feel emotions more deeply now, both up and down. I am more sensitive. There is also more desire in me to feel emotions more deeply. Emotions take on a spiritual dimension.

How has awakening through psychedelics or whichever, helped you in your emotional mastery. I know you are already rather grounded but I am just curious.
 

There was no mistake. She just wasn't interested or busy with life. Talk to other girls.
Most girls will not be interested in dating you. And you shouldn't worry yourself about why. Just look for the ones who are interested.

Wokeness is whatever right-wingers happpen to be in denial about at the moment.

That's what she wants from a relationship. That is not what creates attraction.

Consciousness is a much more complex and richer thing than merely awareness. Although of course awareness is core to consciousness.
To understand what consciousness is requires insane levels of awakening. Beyond nonduality and human spirituality. It couldn't be more profound. These so called enlightened people do not understand what consciousness is. Consciousness is a 1000 times more sophisticated than what Buddhists teach.

Show me a successful chimpanzee.

If you want a true black pill moment, one time I was at the club talking to a girl and she literally saw another guy, ran up to him and said, "OMG! You are so symmetrical." And she stood there admiring him while I stood back and watched.

But think of it this way: if he was physically able to do it then his heart could not have been the limiting factor.
If his heart was truly a limiting factor he simply would have failed. You cannot just grind your way through a bad heart. That is the fantasy.
It's sorta funny, but if someone with a handicap succeeds, then by definition it was not a serious handicap. A serious handicap means you will fail no matter how hard you try.

I never said it was.
You guys keep arguing against things I didn't say.

I understand. I plan to make a video about that.
Be careful not to get down over this. Getting laid is still possible for you.

If you do as many approaches as Owen, you too will slip and land into some hot girls.
I've dated some hot ass girls that were out of my league. That's what lots of pickup enables. Effort does matter.
Again, none of this contradicts what I said.

Pretty much all of it is valid and very useful.
The only correction is that looks play a bigger role than I said.

Depends on how you define what karma is.
If you simply mean that acting selfishly will produce natural negative blowback for you, then of course that's true.
If you mean that God is somehow inflicting punishment on you for your evil ways, then that is a fantasy.
Karma is not some kind of perfect or fair universal accounting system. It's possible to be extremely selfish but also lucky in avoiding blowback. But you could also be unlucky and experience extreme blowback to the point of unfairness.

As I said, to do pickup effectively you need to move to a big city.

There's just more consciousness beyond what Spira and Ralston can access through sober self-inquiry and meditation.
It should not be so surprising that the sober human mind is very limited no matter how hard it tries. You just cannot overcome your chemical limits through hard work. No amount of hard work by a chimpanzee will make it understand reality as well as a human. This is very obvious if you think about it for a bit. And then all you have to realize is that a human being cannot be the pinnacle of consciousness in this Universe. That is such a silly assumption.

Connect with the joy of learning and studying reality.
Otherwise you'll be a dumb human and your life will not go so well.

You guys are my fanboys. Nobody else in the world treats me as special. When I am out about town I am as invisible as a ghost.

Owen is a worldclass bullshitter. Owen does not get many girls. He struggles to get them. Because of his looks.
You have to understand that pickup coaches are very biased and untruthful people. They either straight out lie to their students or they themselves are deluded by years of pickup brainwashing.
Also, if you notice, most of the successful pickup coaches are good looking extroverts. It's not merely their game that's doing the work. Similar to how successful bodybuilders are also coasting off great genetics and fooling you into thinking that it's all their hard work at the gym. No matter how much a regular guy hits the gym he will never be Arnold Schwarzeneggar. Because Arnold had peak genetics that enabled everything else. But fools think that it was all just hard work. You can't hard work you way into peak genetics. Which is why actors, musicians, athletes, and models get paid so much money. It's not just because they work hard. It's because they have peak genetics which 99% can't have. This makes them incredibly valuable comodities.
Spiritually successful people also coast off their peak genetics, in case you haven't noticed. And so do the best intellectuals. All these things are grounded in having the right genetics. And then these people fool you into thinking otherwise. Many times they themselves are unaware of their innate advatages because they are too close to them.
You can deny this all you want but in the end it's the truth.
Be ware, if you turn this truth into a victim mentality, that's on you. I am not saying to do that. My only concern here is how reality actually works, not how you feel about it and how you need it to be for your sake.