No one ever said incels are bad people. Some of them simply create a toxic online ideology which has nothing to do with reality or truth.
Even dwarves can get laid if they go out and socialize.
Most incels can get laid, they simply have too toxic of a mindset to do the work necessary.
It's true that women will not sleep with you out of pitty. They are selective for strong men. Which you can become through hard work if you drop your toxic incel ideology.

It is very easy to villianize someone because that way you don't have to empathize with them, and to empathize can be painful. To feel someone's suffering, it is much easier to paint a negative image.
   A good example is incels. By definition all an incel means is to be "INvoluntarily CELibate." Many men are incel not because they are inherently bad people , or hate women but simply because of neurodivergent disorders or their appearance. Sex is ultimately the exchange of DNA and women do select men based on genetic indicators of fitness , I'm sorry but if you think only men can be superficial and care about appearances  you're severely misguided. It's not even superficial but just evolutionary instinct, sexual selection keeps the gene pool healthier and females of most species are the selectors. ( example Bonobos)
   Now i'm not saying you have to a model or millionaire to get a girlfriend, but there is definitely a threshold men must meet to enter the dating market and have any chance and some men simply don't meet it. It doesn't matter how kind , intelligent or interesting they are , simply due to circumstances out of their control they will never have much success with women. This is a reality it's not fair , brain cancer isn't fair , dwarfism isn't fair etc...
   So not all incels are bad people , some are good people who were just dealt a bad hand. The same way many men who have great success with women and dating can be horrible people. 

God is just an Infinite Mind. Which means, it is every possible thing that a mind can imagine. As it turns out there are no limits to what a mind can imagine, which is exactly why your dreams of torture happen. Your mind is just exploring the full potential of what a Mind is.
Don't think of it as God allowing or disallowing. God is simply Mind. And Mind has no limits to what it can dream. And it's all dreams. The function of Mind is to accept itself in its totality.
As it turns out, you can't dream anything unless you are able to dream everything. So here you are. If Mind couldn't imagine suffering, it would be a very weak mind and you could not be alive.

@diamondpenguin Wherever you are, whoever you are, you are always floating around as a figment in the eternal mind of God.

The truth is that Tinder works entirely off your photos. If your photos are good all you need to do is open with "Hey". And if your photos are bad nothing you say will work.
Spend less time perfecting your opener and more time perfecting your photos. And if you don't have good looks don't bother with Tinder at all.

That's what game is.
Guys who don't know game are, ironically, unable to create rapid emotional connection. Which is why they struggle to get laid.
Emotional connection has little to do with love.

I have seen multiple comments against starch specifically lentils, beans, and oats. This interests me because legumes and grains are actually higher in vitamins and especially in minerals per gram compared to vegetables. In general, vegetables are lower in micronutrients compared to most other foods including meats. And of course, the reasons for eating more or less of something should be backed up by science. Eating more vegetables is associated with better health at least in general medicine, but the same can be said about legumes and oats.
I feel like this whole thing is about high-calorie foods being bad in general, lentils are high-calorie IMO. I don't like the idea of eating less than 2500 calories a day though, some of us have very fast metabolisms, which means if we ate only vegetables we would look like children. You can poke fun at that idea all you want but you are ignorant of the fact that people Gen Z and forward have the opposite problem their parents had, we don't have balanced hormones, especially male ones. Testosterone isn't just a muscle-building hormone, It's also an essential hormone to be and remain a happy male in many other areas.
Consuming 2100-3000 calories a day is necessary for most men.
Written with open-mindedness.

That is a great quote.

It's no different than how men are attracted to women.
It doesn't matter to you that a girl is hardworking, logical, and successful -- you care about tits and ass.
Nothing profound or suprising in any of this. Sexual attraction is never about character. So the fuck what? Go talk to girls.

You don't need all this elaborate theory.
Just go out, be social, and talk to girls. The rest is BS.

Sounds like you're just a weirdo.

Real game is about becoming more charismatic and extroverted. And learning how to deal with the feminine. Which changes how you interact with people.
Once you develop a sense of humor, for example, that skill stays with you into all your relationship.
I don't even worry about keeping her. If you want a relationship you will natutally want to have fun together.
Obviously you need to make time for any relationship to be successful.

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Going on a date does not equal commitment to an exclusive relationship.
It also matters how you frame your dates. Don't make them too involved and romantic. Keep things light and fun and she won't expect so much.

It's very important to figure out how you are going to offer value to the world.
Your mistake is thinking of this as "work" or "making money". That's super shallow. You need to think of it as: "What is my art? What do I want to contribute to mankind?" The money follows from your passion.
You will have to make a living in the world no matter what, so might as well do it on your terms.
I make a living by doing what I love most. This was by deep design, not luck.

Of course.
As I have said, if you are good looking and extroverted you will have it much easier.
But still, pickup is a specialized skillset that takes years to learn.

I do, unless you're doing long term investing.
Many of you here are not really investing, you are trading. You are trying to buy low and sell high, over and over again.

Recognize that fundmentalist women are not for you, no matter how hot they are.

Depends on how much money you make.
RSD bootcamps can be bad because they get so overcrowded and you don't get much 1-on-1 supervision as it's more like an all-around RSD party than a proper bootcamp. But this can vary by location and time of year.
You'd probably be better off taking a bootcamp with a less well-known coach. That way you get lots of 1-on-1 supervision and his full attention. Owen is too popular do that. You have to understand that because RSD instructors are so popular they can be very lazy with their bootcamps. And they also over-charge.
I would never do a bootcamp in the middle of RSD world summits. It's total chaos and you won't get any serious instruction. It's important to select the right time and location of your bootcamp if it's to be productive.
But if you're a total Owen fanboy and you must have Owen, then that's what you're really paying for. It's fan-service.

Most of my nights out were with wingmen. Maybe 90-95%.
Solo gaming is real hard when you start. But it grows you the most if you can muster the balls to do it.
If you want to seriously learn game, you must look for experienced wingmen who you can learn from.

What do you mean by results? Sleeping with one girl? That is so random it could happen anywhere from 1 to 500 approaches.
The only result you should be interested in is building a solid skillset. Which takes 2-5 years of constant approaching.
If you're not gonna do 1000 approaches you shouldn't even start pickup.

Stop comparing yourself to others. They are not you.
If your looks are really good or you are highly extroverted then getting girls is much much easier.
You have to work with the cards you've been dealt.
You just have to accept that some guys will get girls way easier than you, and such guys will never understand your struggles. So don't listen to them.

Stop thinking about it, stop worrying about it, and just commit to going out and approaching people. Their reactions are irrelevant.
There is no mental trick here. The only trick is to force yourself to go out and approach every week, whether you want to or not. If you try to be too clever here, you will end up not taking any action. So the solution is not more thinking, it's action.
YOU CANNOT THINK YOUR WAY INTO SKILLS WITH GIRLS. You must go in the field and take the blows. All the shit that will arise, you will deal with as it arises.
Pickup requires courage.

@Rishabh R Just the discipline you will need to go out every weekend for 2 years straight will grow hair on your balls.
And much more will come along the way.
For example, most of guys have zero sense of humor. You don't know how to crack to hilarious joke. That will take you 2 years to learn.

I'm not. Because I already went through that.
I spent 2 decades building my life. Many of you guys haven't.
If you are 18, you need to spend at least 10 years grinding to build up a decent life. But realistically more like 20 years.