Yali

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  1. I need help reconnecting with God
    I need help reconnecting with God
    I think that would vary a lot from person to person. You need to find what makes you feel most creative.
    For me, about 5 days of nonstop meditation makes me very creative. So I'd start with that. Just force yourself to sit and do nothing all day long. Eventually your mind will start to fill the void with creative thoughts.

  2. Is nightgaming everyday sustainable/doable?
    Is nightgaming everyday sustainable/doable?
    No, you will burn out.
    Stop trying to get things done faster, rather enjoy the process and do it slow but more consistently and at higher quality. Stop rushing.
    Your attitude is too mechanical and will produce worse results.

  3. The difference between Self and Being
    The difference between Self and Being
    Imagine nothing changes about your experience other that there is no sense of self to it. That's what no-self means. It does not mean lack of experience.
    When you were a baby you had experience but no self. Animals also have experience but no self.

  4. I Slept With 100 Men in One Day | Jesus xd
    I Slept With 100 Men in One Day | Jesus xd
    Leo, you are very wrong here. By far. Speaking from experience.
    @Recursoinominado is more correct. Way more than 100 is also possible.
    That being said, I have the looks, probably the best personality type for this, rock-solid inner game, 20 years of dancing skills, pretty lovely IG, live in Finland (stage green, sexual liberty, income & status equality) & I went out 3 nights a week, did daygame & online game - while working part-time, like 20h a week (work was in the evenings).
    I didn’t really add social circle game to all that tho, which would have made all this dramatically even easier.
    I was 24-25 & it was 2019. Did this for a while and then got bored to death of it. Started feeling really off about it all, the same old cycles over and over, the superficiality of it... Burning through karma in effect, and it worked, eh?
    Sometimes I was having sex with 3 girls within the same day. 1 in the morning (from last day date or pull from club), 1 from evening date & 1 from pulling in the same night. Or 1 in the morning, and went to 2 dates in a row in the evening etc.
    Got to a point I couldnt get erection due to it just becoming ego & performance than connecting and enjoying. Went to the doctor to see if I had some erection issues lol.
    Anyway, this was right before I ”re”-bumped into your content so I was probably selfish and manipulative as hell (relative to now - the growth has been immense - even tho I’ve done spiritual and self-help work ever since 15).
    But yeah, I am perhaps more of an exception. But isn’t all the best PUAs an exception? I have no idea, don’t really know anyone to compare myself to, other than my then #1 wingman (& probably the only other dead serious PUA here lol), who did as well as I did.
    He had to eventually change his whole identity 180 to a low-key one tho, since his reputation started to get him in serious trouble (he did it like 10X longer than I). The guy went to the show Bachelor after approaching half the country 🤦‍♀️ - moral of the story: if you have a reputation of a player, don’t rub it in the face of the whole country. I promise you, you will suffer immensely for it.
    Side point: all that being said, if I were to be single now (havent for 4 years), I wouldnt make it so structurally performative and would have more fun and spontaneus - and so, I wonder if my game & results would be even better. Probably not as I wouldnt be nearly as hungry for MORE & results all the time.
    But who knows.

  5. Elon Musk Shenanigans thread
    Elon Musk Shenanigans thread
    Recently Musk has been attacking Europe. Supporting far right parties in Britain and Germany.
    I think Europe should ban every company that Musk is involved. Especially X.
    I’ll post videos later.
    You can also post positive information about the Dweeb.

  6. How to have fun without alchol/stimulants?
    How to have fun without alchol/stimulants?
    I've socialized for years without alcohol or drugs. You just have to train yourself to build up state.

  7. Successful pickup artists?
    Successful pickup artists?
    If you actually watch his in-field, there is nothing impressive about his game.
    He loves to brag about his lay count, but you have no idea if he's lying or not.
    I've seen him game. He's good. But I wouldn't say he's better than most good coaches. I would not trust his self-reported lay count.

  8. What is the US really trying to achieve with all those tariffs?
    What is the US really trying to achieve with all those tariffs?
    You don't think Trump's grifter friends and family shorted the market right before he announced tariffs?
    Trump's friends and family can basically make billions just by asking him to issue or revoke tariffs any day of the year.

  9. What is the US really trying to achieve with all those tariffs?
    What is the US really trying to achieve with all those tariffs?
    To feed Trump's ego and to make his corrupt friends rich.

  10. Can deconstructing reality turn you into a serial killer ?
    Can deconstructing reality turn you into a serial killer ?
    Killing people in cold blood is so repugnant that if you're actually going to do it, there's a lot more involved to that than deconstructing reality. There's some kind of twisted emotional trauma element which has, ironically, not be deconstructed.
    You can jailbreak your mind but you'd still need some compelling reason to go out of your way to murder people. It's just a dumb way to live.

  11. I need help reconnecting with God
    I need help reconnecting with God
    I get all sorts of powerful new business ideas and art project ideas in the middle of a retreat. It's quite frustrating because you're not supposed to focus on them when you're meditating. But you could really flesh those visions out. It's powerful way to hone your life purpose.

  12. Mark Manson Quits Podcast
    Mark Manson Quits Podcast
    I love Mark. He is similar to Leo in many ways. Mainly that they both truly give a fuck about what they value most and ditch everything else. 

  13. How can we increase our love and understanding for seemingly "evil" people/groups?
    How can we increase our love and understanding for seemingly "evil" people/groups?
    You have to become conscious that you are all humans at once.
    It's not about realizing you are analogous to a drug cutter. It's about realizing that drug cutters are your own mind. It's not an analogy, it's an identity. Drug cutters are you. Hitler is you.

  14. Mega-Thread of Low vs High Perspectives
    Mega-Thread of Low vs High Perspectives
    @abc123 I don't have a good answer. I teach advanced things for advanced people. I don't really know how to drink beer with your local Joe and talk about football. The ideas I teach would offend the hell out of most normal people.

  15. What is the US really trying to achieve with all those tariffs?
    What is the US really trying to achieve with all those tariffs?
    Don't forget that Trump is pretty cowardly under the facade. I don't think he has the balls to do the kind of stuff like a proper dictator would do, like a Putin.

  16. Violent Energy on 5-MeO. What Is This?
    Violent Energy on 5-MeO. What Is This?
    That 24/7 tripping happened in the last few days of the retreat. It wasn't for the whole 30 days. That would have been insanely too much.
    I have tripped for over 60 days.

  17. Violent Energy on 5-MeO. What Is This?
    Violent Energy on 5-MeO. What Is This?
    Frankly it was too much.
    I was to the point of losing my mind. I was tripping so much I couldn't even sleep, which drives you mad.
    Nope.
    5-MeOs

  18. Leo is Wrong About Genetics
    Leo is Wrong About Genetics
    Leo said, "Health is largely genetics". I think because Leo is struggling with health (I feel for you my man <3 ), potentially a genetic disease, he started to develop this opinion based on his experience.
    First of all, in some instances genetics are determinants, other times, they are correlational. Huntington disease is an inherited disorder, in this case Leo is right.
    However, most people do not possess such genetic disorders, most "bad genetics" increase the probability of certain diseases, but they do not determine it. Let's not forget that epigenetics is also real, and some genes can be turned on or off. Leo said you should eat "according to your genetics". Again, if you have an allergy or intolerance, then he is right. Most people have no such conditions.
    This advice can be taken in a very wrong way. Health is not largely genetics for the majority of people. This is just false and I am tempted to post a long ass post filled with actual research to back up my point.
    Love you Leo.

  19. Leo is Wrong About Genetics
    Leo is Wrong About Genetics
    I don't ignore those factors. Those factors matter, but they assume a decent genetic foundation.
    People who hyper-focus on nutrition and exercise are actually people who have great baseline genetics and they fool themselves that it's their nutrition and exercise which gave it to them, when that's not the case. This is a very common point of self-deception within the whole health industry.
    A person with bad genetics will never be as healthy as a person with good genetics no matter how good he eats and no matter how bad the healthy person eats.

  20. Is life supposed to be easy or difficult?
    Is life supposed to be easy or difficult?
    No one has ever had an easy life. This notion is a joke.

  21. I need help reconnecting with God
    I need help reconnecting with God
    I've taken so many psychedelics and understood God so clearly that the entire room I'm sitting in is God. I just sit and admire God.
    God is the room you're sitting in. Just keep returning your consciousness to it.

  22. Leo, how to not give up on people?
    Leo, how to not give up on people?
    @WikiRando You need to get out and socialize. That fear is holding back your development. You're like a king who has locked himself in his castle.

  23. Leo, how to not give up on people?
    Leo, how to not give up on people?
    Your own life's work should be too important to you to care what other people think about it.
    Leadership is knowing what the best values are, what the best vision is, and then following through on it despite what anyone else says. As a leader you understand that average people are clueless, blind, and lost. The opinions of the blind, ignorant, and corrupt are entirely irrelevant to your life's creative work. You should care about your work so deeply that everything else is just human noise.

  24. True Christian theology
    True Christian theology
    Of course, because you never realized what God is. And you still don't.
    Christianity is a trap because it makes you feel humble, but actually it is a vast epistemic and ontological arrogance. So much is believed and assumed.
    It take the highest arrogance to adopt all of Christianity's ideas as true with any direct experience, inquiry, or validation.
    Feel free to follow whatever path you want. But are not doing truth-seeking. Which means you'll end up in self-deception.
    The very idea that you believe Christianity is humble is self-deception. True humility would be to sit in silence in pure not-knowing without a single religious belief in your mind.
    All religion is arrogance and idol worship.
    When you reach the point in your journey where you realize that you know absolutely nothing. THAT will be true humility. You will have nothing to ground you and nothing to give you hope. And that very moment you will be closer to God than you've ever been in your life. God is not-knowing.

  25. Aspects of the dream trying to stop me from awakening...lol......
    Aspects of the dream trying to stop me from awakening...lol......
    It's not intentional. It's just unconscious survival.
    It is a lack of prime directive. The prime directive ought to be truth, but this directive is missing in 99% of people. Which is why a circus results.