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How to avoid getting attached and needy to the girls you approached?
How to avoid getting attached and needy to the girls you approached?You suffer until you learn your lesson and move on.
Suffering is the best teacher.
If you are wise you will not get invested in any one girl until you sleep with her. In which case you just talk to other girls and don't even think much about the phone numbers you get.
The rule this: don't invest in her at all until she's interested in sleeping with you. It's crucial that you stop daydreaming and fantasizing about the girls you approach, and even if you get her number. Just don't think about her. Only think about her enough to set up a date. But no more! Don't start imagining that this date will lead to anything.
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I will become a day trader
I will become a day traderThe point is with your attitude you won't make it even when you're 60.
A) Making it by 40 is still great.
B) You don't have to wait till you are 40, there are many legit businesses you could start that can generate solid wealth. But it ain't no shortcut and it ain't quick or easy
I wasn't making a moral case.
The problem with robbing banks is not that it is immoral, it's that you will sooner get killed than rich that way.
That's why you should care. You are mostly gonna end up harming yourself. That's what I am concerned with here.
When you become a leech you think life will be great, you will just leech without consequence, but then you suddenly get swatted like the annoying mosquito that you have become. You see, people don't take kindly to mosquitoes.
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There are legit ways of gaining financial independence. I would direct you to research that while avoiding all get-rich-quick-schemes that are peddled online.
I've been where you are now. I know all too well the traps of get-rich-quick-schemes. They are going to waste your precious time and money and leave you dry.
If you are serious about solving your problem then get serious about building a serious business, not these kid's games. If you build a serious business you could become a millionaire within 5 years. But this does require skill and real ingenuity. You have to be creative, clever, and hard-working.
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Chris langan
Chris langanNot if he's thinks Trump is better than Biden.
This shows your man's true colors.
I thank Trump for revealing to me who the morons are masquerading as intellectuals. There is no better litmus test than Trump.
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Stepping Away From actualized.org
Stepping Away From actualized.orgWhen you do 5-MeO-DMT every day, chronically, as I have warned against, yeah... your life will unravel.
Not sure what you expected.
If you do 5-MeO-DMT every day, I would not be surprised if you end up in a mental hospital.
You took the most powerful psychedelic there is and treated it as a toy. If you just stop taking it every day most of your problems will auto-correct.
I have always warned against chronic use of psychedelics. Of course I take no responsibilty if you do the opposite of what I say.
I guarantee that those of you who use psychedelics chronically will get into serious problems. Guaranteed. You are playing with dynamite.
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I will become a day trader
I will become a day traderOh God....
Your biggest mistake is actually assuming you will become rich from daytrading. What you'll discover is that you actually end up losing money and wasting even more time until your situation becomes truly dire.
The problem with leeching value as a survival strategy is not merely that it hurts others and society, is often simply does not work even for you. Greed and desire to take shortcuts often ends up hurting you the most.
The surest way to become wealthy is through serious hard work, not through get-rich-quick-schemes like this.
Daytrading is a get-rich-quick-scheme because it offers no value to the world yet demands high profits. And therefore it is fundamentally unnatural and you will be ruthlessly weeded out by evolution. Theft is a risky survival strategy. And don't fool yourself, what you're doing is a form of theft -- you're just not connecting the dots yet.
Stop listening to people who are selling you the idea that daytrading will make you rich. Those people don't make money off daytrading, they make their money off desperate suckers like you.
I understand you just want to be financially free. But financial freedom is not created with that kind of mindset. Financial freedom is very counter-intuitive. You have to relinquish your desire for quick and easy results. Rather than trying to get rich quick, you must adopt an attitude of get rich slow.
The proper way to get wealthy is to offer massive value to the world, to become genuinely creative. Not these silly games you're playing. Your greed and laziness with backfire on you.
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Desperate To Kiss A Woman And Lose My Virginity
Desperate To Kiss A Woman And Lose My Virginity@Chris_Esoteric Start socializing and talking to girls, obviously.
20 is still very young. You'll be fine.
But desperation will lose you many kisses and girls. The more desperate you are the worse your results will be with women.
But you should be willing to take massive action.
I didn't start dating till 26. Too busy doing more important things.
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RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possession
RSD Tyler claims a toxic relationship makes him believe in demonic possessionIt's just development and evolution. Not different from how Spiral Dynamics works.
Orange is higher than Red, but Orange still isn't that high.
Absolutely!
In fact, many guys grow out of pickup rather quickly, within 5 years (which is roughly how long it takes to move up one Spiral stage with active work).
Most pickup guys end up settling down with a girlfriend. The limits of pickup become very aparent after several years of doing it.
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Should I wait until my brain is fully developed to do psychedelics?
Should I wait until my brain is fully developed to do psychedelics?Stop waiting, 21+ is good enough.
It's not a physical age problem, it's a matter of maturity.
If you are immature age will not save you.
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Why do Girls get angry when Guy try to have standards???
Why do Girls get angry when Guy try to have standards???There is hypocrisy on both sides.
Both sides want to maximize the sexual value they get while denying others of maximizing their value.
It's a market system where everyone is looking to maximize their own personal gains.
Selfishness 101. Mostly what you care about is leeching value while offering nothing in return. So here you are, complaining about not getting enough value.
Women actually love it when guys have high standards, but only if she clears them, haha
One of the best ways to appear attractive is to have high standards and screen hard. Like an exclusive nightclub. But to pull this off you'd have to actually not be a desperate starving dog.
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Pickup is leading to frustration
Pickup is leading to frustrationWAY way lower.
And logistics are almost never right.
Realistically close rate is less than 1 in 100.
If you are approaching girls and hoping for a 1 in 10 close rate, you are out of your mind dog.
Typical sales close rates are 0.5-2%
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Pickup is leading to frustration
Pickup is leading to frustrationYes!
Flake rate is typically very high. Which is why PUAs tend to push for same night lays.
You should also get in the habit of screening. Screen for boyfriends, screen her desire to date.
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you can only study philosophy in tandem with physics or other "hard" science?
you can only study philosophy in tandem with physics or other "hard" science?I fool sees wisdom as foolishness.
Philosophy is the pursuit of wisdom.
You have to be a philosopher to appreciate philosophy.
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This week - I swallowed the Black pill ... I'm not sure if I can go back
This week - I swallowed the Black pill ... I'm not sure if I can go backWhy are you people so negative? The only thing women care about is the dude's confidence. That's the truth. Men are designed to be predators.
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This week - I swallowed the Black pill ... I'm not sure if I can go back
This week - I swallowed the Black pill ... I'm not sure if I can go backForum guys: girls have way too high standards, they don’t care about incels/ unattractive/nice/low value guys, how can they be so evil and ruthless.
also forum guys: I would never stoop so low as to hit on a girl lower than a 6, no thanks, I have standards to keep up, I would rather masturbate than date anyone that low.
??? the hypocrisy is painful.
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The Best Pickup of my Life Report - All Criticism Welcome
The Best Pickup of my Life Report - All Criticism WelcomeToo on-the-nose.
You got to learn to say the opposite.
"Well, hey, you seem real cute, but I bet there's something wrong with you. You probably snore like a pig."
Everything about attracting women is OPPOSITE-WORLD.
Learn to live in opposite-world.
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In conversation with Claire W. Graves
In conversation with Claire W. GravesWonderful Conversation, very insightful coming from the O.G. himself. Note: This does serve as an alternative to reading the Spiral Dynamics original book.
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How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?
How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?They aren't ruthless.
They just won't surrender their pussy to that kind of weakness.
It helps to think of it from a raw sexual polarity perspective.
Why would a woman want to get impregnated by a cowardly man? In what world does this make sense? Why would this turn her on?
You might as well be upset at rabbits for fleeing from wolves.
All this black pill stuff is like a pack of wolves complaining to themselves that rabbits are bad because they are too fast and should slow down for them because they are starving.
Don't ask the rabbit to go slower, become a better wolf. You are simply a wolf who has not learned how to hunt. But learning to hunt is hard, it's much easier to make excuses for why hunting doesn't work. Then you can keep blaming the rabbits.
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How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?
How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?
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Are extroverted individuals capable becoming self-actualized?
Are extroverted individuals capable becoming self-actualized?Be careful with such gross generalizations.
Who says they have to be intellectuals? That's your subjective bias. There are many more ways to live life than as an intellectual on YT.
Again, your bias is causing you to lose sight of other modes of doing spiritual work.
The majority of spiritual work in the world is done via group and communal settings. People meditate together, drink psychedelics together, have orgies together, pray together, go to church together, etc. Even monks live together and fuck each other.
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Are extroverted individuals capable becoming self-actualized?
Are extroverted individuals capable becoming self-actualized?Don't be fooled by an extrovert's happy facade. Such people are not happy, they are just gerbils in wheels.
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How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?
How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?Don't forget that it runs in girls too. Perhaps even more so than in you.
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CRT Paranoia & Foolishness
CRT Paranoia & FoolishnessNope
People gotta work different amounts to get the same results. And some people can't get the same result no matter how hard they work.
I am never gonna be a Victoria Secret model no matter how hard I work.
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Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?
Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?Lucky for you the attraction phase lasts about 60 minutes tops.
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Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?
Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?@joeyi99 What is a woman's value in a man's eyes? Think of a list of what makes a woman high value to a man. What makes a woman a prize?
Now step in the woman's shoes. What is a man's value to her? Make a list. Why would a woman need a man in here life at all? What makes a man a prize?
Hint: these are NOT symmetrical! You must stop thinking about this using your dick. A beautiful face/body is not why a woman is looking for a man. Nor does she need a man with a long dick. She has much more important needs he must meet.
Contemplate this from the woman's POV until you understand what needs a woman has. Then you will understand what value means here.
A woman's value is much more physical. A man's value is much more social. A man who is weak, lazy, socially out of touch, and incapable of leading other men is the equivalent of an ugly woman.
What makes a man ugly is NOT his physical appreance but his meek attitude. Which is exactly why incels can't get laid. It's not their looks, it's their ugly attitudes.
You need to develop the attitude of a winner or a boss or a warrior.
What do all girls fantasize about? A knight in shining armor who will sweep her off her feet and show her a whole new world. Looks are not what make a warrior.
