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Pickup is leading to frustration
Pickup is leading to frustrationYes!
Flake rate is typically very high. Which is why PUAs tend to push for same night lays.
You should also get in the habit of screening. Screen for boyfriends, screen her desire to date.
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you can only study philosophy in tandem with physics or other "hard" science?
you can only study philosophy in tandem with physics or other "hard" science?I fool sees wisdom as foolishness.
Philosophy is the pursuit of wisdom.
You have to be a philosopher to appreciate philosophy.
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This week - I swallowed the Black pill ... I'm not sure if I can go back
This week - I swallowed the Black pill ... I'm not sure if I can go backWhy are you people so negative? The only thing women care about is the dude's confidence. That's the truth. Men are designed to be predators.
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This week - I swallowed the Black pill ... I'm not sure if I can go back
This week - I swallowed the Black pill ... I'm not sure if I can go backForum guys: girls have way too high standards, they don’t care about incels/ unattractive/nice/low value guys, how can they be so evil and ruthless.
also forum guys: I would never stoop so low as to hit on a girl lower than a 6, no thanks, I have standards to keep up, I would rather masturbate than date anyone that low.
??? the hypocrisy is painful.
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The Best Pickup of my Life Report - All Criticism Welcome
The Best Pickup of my Life Report - All Criticism WelcomeToo on-the-nose.
You got to learn to say the opposite.
"Well, hey, you seem real cute, but I bet there's something wrong with you. You probably snore like a pig."
Everything about attracting women is OPPOSITE-WORLD.
Learn to live in opposite-world.
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In conversation with Claire W. Graves
In conversation with Claire W. GravesWonderful Conversation, very insightful coming from the O.G. himself. Note: This does serve as an alternative to reading the Spiral Dynamics original book.
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How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?
How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?They aren't ruthless.
They just won't surrender their pussy to that kind of weakness.
It helps to think of it from a raw sexual polarity perspective.
Why would a woman want to get impregnated by a cowardly man? In what world does this make sense? Why would this turn her on?
You might as well be upset at rabbits for fleeing from wolves.
All this black pill stuff is like a pack of wolves complaining to themselves that rabbits are bad because they are too fast and should slow down for them because they are starving.
Don't ask the rabbit to go slower, become a better wolf. You are simply a wolf who has not learned how to hunt. But learning to hunt is hard, it's much easier to make excuses for why hunting doesn't work. Then you can keep blaming the rabbits.
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How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?
How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?
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Are extroverted individuals capable becoming self-actualized?
Are extroverted individuals capable becoming self-actualized?Be careful with such gross generalizations.
Who says they have to be intellectuals? That's your subjective bias. There are many more ways to live life than as an intellectual on YT.
Again, your bias is causing you to lose sight of other modes of doing spiritual work.
The majority of spiritual work in the world is done via group and communal settings. People meditate together, drink psychedelics together, have orgies together, pray together, go to church together, etc. Even monks live together and fuck each other.
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Are extroverted individuals capable becoming self-actualized?
Are extroverted individuals capable becoming self-actualized?Don't be fooled by an extrovert's happy facade. Such people are not happy, they are just gerbils in wheels.
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How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?
How come that girls can be ruthless against nice guys?Don't forget that it runs in girls too. Perhaps even more so than in you.
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CRT Paranoia & Foolishness
CRT Paranoia & FoolishnessNope
People gotta work different amounts to get the same results. And some people can't get the same result no matter how hard they work.
I am never gonna be a Victoria Secret model no matter how hard I work.
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Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?
Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?Lucky for you the attraction phase lasts about 60 minutes tops.
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Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?
Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?@joeyi99 What is a woman's value in a man's eyes? Think of a list of what makes a woman high value to a man. What makes a woman a prize?
Now step in the woman's shoes. What is a man's value to her? Make a list. Why would a woman need a man in here life at all? What makes a man a prize?
Hint: these are NOT symmetrical! You must stop thinking about this using your dick. A beautiful face/body is not why a woman is looking for a man. Nor does she need a man with a long dick. She has much more important needs he must meet.
Contemplate this from the woman's POV until you understand what needs a woman has. Then you will understand what value means here.
A woman's value is much more physical. A man's value is much more social. A man who is weak, lazy, socially out of touch, and incapable of leading other men is the equivalent of an ugly woman.
What makes a man ugly is NOT his physical appreance but his meek attitude. Which is exactly why incels can't get laid. It's not their looks, it's their ugly attitudes.
You need to develop the attitude of a winner or a boss or a warrior.
What do all girls fantasize about? A knight in shining armor who will sweep her off her feet and show her a whole new world. Looks are not what make a warrior.
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Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?
Can you Get Girls That Are More Physically Attractive Than You?I've attracted girls (8s, 9s, and even 10s) who were way more physically attractive than me.
Because girls aren't primarily attracted by a guy's looks, but by his persona, charm, charisma, confidence, wit, leadership qualities, intellect, social status, and strength.
If you go out a lot and approach a lot you will attract 8s and 9s fairly regularly. Which is not to say you'll be able to close all of them, because closing requires having perfect logistics, which usually isn't possible. So you will lose a lot of 8s and 9s, but at least you'll get the validation of having attracted them. You will be able to tell, for example, that if the logistics had been good, she would have eagerly slept with you. And from that point, it's only a matter of time until the logistics line up and you'll sleep with your first 8 or 9.
10s are just so rare it's not even worth thinking about.
All that's required is that you go out a lot, approach a lot, and have good game. If you can set up good logistics (by living very close to bars/clubs) that will up your chances of pulling girls by a factor of 2x-10x. Logistics are super important if you want to get laid a lot.
Basically any girl that's an 8 or above is a model-quality girl, as she can make easy money off her looks, and often does or did so in the past. She can be a model, actress, stripper, pornstar, webcam girl, go-go dancer, hostess, etc. But don't forget, a lot of these girls can be annoying to deal with as they tend to spoiled rotten by men. These girls know how to use their looks to manipulate men. They know they are hot and they know the value of that in our society. Handling girls like that requires a serious boss/pimp attitude. A weak man cannot handle a girl like that.
The rule of thumb is, whatever quality of girl you feel you deserve and can boss around, is the quality of girl you will get. Anything above that you will not be able to handle because your confidence is too low. Hot girls have high confidence. As a guy, in order to attract a girl your confidence and value must be higher than hers. If you want to date models, you need to develop balls of steel and a delusional, borderline narcissistic degree of self-confidence and self-love. You need to be unfazed and just have an I-don't-give-a-fuck attitude.
Or become famous. Famous guys get hot girls easily.
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Pick up or Life purpose first
Pick up or Life purpose firstLP by day, pickup by night.
Move to a bigger city when you can afford it.
Remember, pickup doesn't have to take up your whole day. You can go out for 2-3 hours every Fri, Sat, Sun. You can do day game in the afternoons on weekends.
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Day game: minimizing flakes
Day game: minimizing flakesFlake rate is high regardless of what you do. It's a numbers game. Even a 5% close rate would be awesome.
But of course you can improve your conversion rate. Always push for an instant coffee date. If you can get her into an instant coffee date this will increase your rate a lot.
The biggest problem is that you need more time with her to build a connection. This is very hard to do in 5 minutes. So the more time you can persuader her to spend with you, getting to know you, the more of an impact you'll have and the more she will remember you when you text.
Also keep in mind many attractive girls have boyfriends. You should screen them for it early on so as not to waste your time. If she has a boyfriend she will not text you back. Don't waste your time. Screen girls.
Push for instant coffee. Don't let her run off with empty promises. A promise from a girl is less than worthless.
Never do that. You clearly failed to attract her and she was just looking for any excuse to leave without a hassle. Yelling at her to call you back is needy as fuck and therefore she never will.
Girls will give out their number easily just to get to you leave them alone. So shooting for numbers is pointless. You need to shoot for building attraction and connection. If you don't build attraction + connection the number is useless. One deep connection is worth 50 numbers.
Two things:
1) Nothing is going wrong per se. Most girls will simply not sleep with you no matter how good you are. Just increase your numbers.
2) You are not grabbing her attention enough. You are not being attractive enough. You are not being memorable enough. You are not building connection enough. You are not stimulating her emotionally enough. You are not being fun and playful enough. You are not telling her enough about yourself.
The bigger problem is simply lack of building connection. She has little reason to call you back because in her mind you take up as much mental real estate as an ant. You need to do something to grab her attention and get her invested in you. Your job is to give her a strong sense of who you are, how cool you would be to date, how lucky she would be to date you. But without saying that explicitly. Tell more cool and interesting stories about yourself. You need to strike a chord with her and draw her in with interesting stories that display your value. For example, tell her about cool places you've traveled to, spiritual work you're doing, business projects you're working on, your dreams, etc.
And, of course, flirt with her and make her laugh.
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Day game vs night game: when are women more receptive
Day game vs night game: when are women more receptiveI never done day game. I think its because i always imagined women in the day being more resistant to being approached than in the night.
Is this an idea that stems from my lack of experience? Because, in my head, i do want to believe women are more receptive in the day, because, right now, im working on day game. Because i have no problem approaching in the night, mostly, because I always felt women want to be approached and are more receptive in the night club. Basically became pro at that whether or not i succeed. But i havent been able to do the same with day game ever in my life. Please unfuck my socially conditioned head.
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Does Daygame really work?
Does Daygame really work?Of course it works.
Don't ask women if they want to be approached. No woman will ever admit that she would sleep with a guy from a cold approach because that would make her look like a slut. But she will if you attract her. Just do a quality approach.
Attraction is not a logical choice. Never ask women if they would logically date you. The answer will always be No.
Day game is the best. The only trick is that you need a location with lots of beautiful women. That's hard to find in most cities. You need a big city. Cities like LA, NYC, and London are amazing for day game. You need a place with cafes, malls, boardwalks, beaches, busy sidewalks, college campuses, etc.
I like day game because the approaches can be a lot more genuine and natural. And there's zero competition.
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all of the actualized forum is mental masturbation
all of the actualized forum is mental masturbationall of the actualized forum is mental masturbation, for all you are doing is spitting out and reading imaginary concepts.
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Noticing Low Integrity Pickup Tactics from Leo and other "High Value Men"
Noticing Low Integrity Pickup Tactics from Leo and other "High Value Men"There are some harsh truths about how women have sex. When you learn the truth of it, it busts many romanticized myths and cultural fantasies.
I got nothing against femininity or women. I just don't prepetuate the myths of how they have sex.
Sex is deliberately lied about in our culture because it is still taboo. You women have to maintain an air of innocence and purity. I get it. But I am not going to play those games.
If you are young guy reading this: treat women well. Don't be a selfish prick. Don't abuse the powers of attraction.
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Since I learned about pick up, whenever I see a hot girl walking down the street...
Since I learned about pick up, whenever I see a hot girl walking down the street...Hehehe....
This is just you realizing how little action you take.
Rather than asking how to feel good about not approaching, approach!
It's not about the sex. It's about curing your weakness as a man.
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Noticing Low Integrity Pickup Tactics from Leo and other "High Value Men"
Noticing Low Integrity Pickup Tactics from Leo and other "High Value Men"There's nothing more fun than fucking.
Of course no girl will admit to going to a club to fuck. She must act like it's just fun with friends so she isn't slut-shamed by folks like you.
Don't kid yourself. People go to clubs to fuck. Whether they admit it or not.
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Noticing Low Integrity Pickup Tactics from Leo and other "High Value Men"
Noticing Low Integrity Pickup Tactics from Leo and other "High Value Men"You are looking at it too seriously.
Go to a club and have fun. See what happens. Have no expectations.
Hot girls have lots of sex on a whim. It's not all about finding some ideal partner. Sometimes people are just horny and looking for an adventure.
