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  5. Posted · Edited by Spence94

    @Preety_India Seems obvious but a healthy reminder. I don't think I'll ever set foot in a nightclub again for the rest of my life. The occasional times I do find myself at a bar is either catching up with friends or on a date. In both those situations I'm not meeting women for the very first time( unless a friend of a friend turns up), just chilling with the people I already know/ met. 

     

  10. Posted · Edited by Spence94

    You could stay, finish off the degree, try get some value out of it, if anything the degree might help in certain circumstances in the professional world. If you're already not really paying much attention, just handle it gracefully if you can, get a decent score but don't stress, and use that rare opportunity you have with the time, energy and access to the uni library to study and work on what you really wanna build.

    I did that in the final year of my BA History degree. Totally out of touch with it, even though I love History still.  It was the same year I found Actualized.org, meditation, yoga and spirituality. I miss having that freedom that university gives.  I think I listened to more hours of Leo talking that year than I did my professor lol. 

    I dunno man. Just thoughts.

  11. Posted · Edited by Spence94

    @patricknotstar usually the way. 

    It can work the other way though. I've definitely 'friendzoned' girls I  met in social or work contexts that were obviously very attracted to me and wanted me to take the lead and move the interaction but I didn't want to. 

    I've also dated women who were much more interested in me then I decided we should just be friends.

    Either I just wasn't attracted enough in whatever way or I felt that I just didn't want to get physically, emotionally, psychologically, energetically, sexually and spiritually entangled with this woman so I didn't take it any further.

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    Meeting with Nicolas my Life coach tomorrow.  Need to discuss Health.

    新的中文词： 其实 actually

                            其他 other

                            奇怪 strange

    Previously i didn't have the patience for concious study of Chinese words. Chinese didn't nourish my soul like the wisdom in a book or a podcast did. Now though, something has changed, this language is becoming a part of my being. It nourishes me. Every word is a seed into my soul and i just observe the changes in my daily reality. I notice a new word on TV, or in conversation. A word I studied last week naturally bubbles up from my heart and off my tounge in a conversation. There is no force. 无为 wu2 wei2. Two second tones. let things take their own course. Surrender to the 道. Nature. We are just blooming and blossoming flowers going through the seasons with the bees.

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    @Gesundheit2

    21 minutes ago, Gesundheit2 said:

    By the way, the sanctions are useless in practice. The only purpose they may serve is to hurt the Russian people economically, which in turn could make them angry so they would rally against their government, or at least the war. But I don't see that happening. In practice, the Russian government will continue as if nothing has happened, but the Russian people will suffer the cost.

    "Sanctions? Putin laugh at your sanctions!" - A Ukrainian civilian soldier preparing for war in Kyiv.

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    @patricknotstar IME the most successfull interactions i have with women are when i am genuinly authentically attracted and pulled towards meeting her. Sometimes there is an IOI on her behalf and the two of us being magnetically drawn, but rarely.

    Sometimes the IOI is there but I don't feel the authentic raw cosmic energetic pull, and that also doesn't go very well.

    and when there is no IOI and no cosmic pull, then well, let's just forget about those ones shall we.

  16. Posted · Edited by Spence94

    People are good mirrors of our inner beings. If there is no duality between the inner and outer worlds, then how we act will definitley effect our entaglement with other people. Being aware of this we can act knowing that our actions will entangle with those around us and we will experience it. We can act in ways which create positive karmic conditions. We can also go beyond duality with other people and see the the oneness of the things we are experiencing internally and externally in realtion to others and take the messages and cues that come our way in regards to how we should act. Thereby creating more positive conditions for our Selves and those around us.  Rather than falling into the suffering that our judgment, anxiety, fear, or any other emotion we resist creates, we can notice the connection between these inner experiences and the world and people around us. Then we can listen. Listen deeply. Listen to the Truth under it all, the connection to all that is, and the way of action will reveal itself. The way to harmony and balance, in our Self and the world.

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    I know some artists who are amazing human beings. My best friend is an artist. He is a freak, and I love him. His mind and spirit is on such a wavelength that his very being impacts all he comes accross in person and through the expression in his art. He's making an impact by sending ripples through the cosmos in multiple forms and dimensions. His life is his art. Art is his life.

    He impacts through a psychedelic vortex.

    He impacts through love and compassion.

    Through his Dharma and Karma, he is making an impact.

    At least he feels it. Maybe that is all that matters.

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    1 hour ago, voxun said:

    This hole thing could have been avoided if the west listened to Russia's concerns regarding nato expansion.

    Now obviously I am against this war or any war for that matter.

    Ultimately I think the military industrial complex got exactly what they wanted. 

    A cold war scenario and billions of potential profits.

    There is also a lot of double standards from the west as we have started wars and killed people but we're acting like we haven't.

    @voxun All in the name of Freedom bro. Freedom...

     

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    @BipolarGrowth

    On 26/02/2022 at 7:38 AM, BipolarGrowth said:

    Keep reinvesting 90% of the income from my rental properties to buy more rental properties. At a certain scale, you can afford to pay someone else to manage the properties and just watch the money come in on its own. 

    What does a 'certain scale' look like?

    Property intriques me but I wouldn't want to be consumed by the endeavour.

  22. Posted · Edited by Spence94

    I dig it. I took the life purpose course straight after University. It didn't do much for me at all. I coulndn't construct it. 6 years later after more life experience, my Life purpose found me. Funnily enough, now I can actually get the value out of the LP course  and be strategic and concious about the thing. but it's coming from within, it's not me doing it.

    My LP was always in front of my face, i knew what it was 6 years ago pretty much, I just wasn't ready. Now IAM ready.

  23. Posted · Edited by Spence94

    Goals:

    • Practicing yoga every single day.
    • Full time yoga teacher. Building a 6 figure income through teaching yoga.
    • Highly proficient Mandarin Chinese fluency. 10,000+ word vocabulary.
    • Radiant health and strength.
    • Be a multi millionaire.
    • Buying a house.
    • Buying a Tesla.
    • Realizing God.
    • Self-Actualizing.
    • Happiness. Bliss. Peace. Calm. Joy.
    • Attracting my Dream girlfriend and high quality intimate relationship.
    • Starting a concious awakened family in 10 or so years from now.