The only thing that I would criticize about you is your spiritual ego/identity/attachment. You can have a teacher's identity and teach spirituality without ego. And it's not that hard to do. Just stop repeating (in your mind at least) that you are the most conscious thing there is at every chance you get. Just don't focus on levels and comparisons.
Your style is okay. It could barely arouse me cuz I'm used to Muslim preachers who are at least a 100 times more aggressive than you. But apparently hippies are softer than a tree leaf, and your audience has it share of those lol.
Oh, and your views of women are ace, especially in medieval times. On the other hand, modern women (and hippy men) have fully-fledged feminist egos, you won't be able to communicate with them like equals no matter how you try. Feminism is a virus of the mind. The way I've seen it used is mostly about utilizing every chance to create a problem out of thin air, just to maintain control. So, I wouldn't beat yourself so hard about your views of women. Sure, question your views, but don't expect feminists to be happy, either way (cuz they won't).