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No. My dad tends to buy pork and he made for himself. Just drizzled in a little oil and some spices.

I ate a little pork belly today for dinner but it was made in oven

Everyone reading this I gotta clarify I did NOT like that 😂

Because it makes you more horny because it’s “forbidden” . I had the same tendency

It kinda depends on the reason why you have difficulty continuing the convo. If it’s fear then getting yourself completely relaxed is a game changer. Like if any insecurity is holding you back. But then you can still not know what to say even if you’re relaxed, it happens to me. Then it could be other factors such as lack of genuine interest in the other but I guess it’s not the case because you said you’re looking for genuine connection so that genuine interest is probably there, it could be lack of interests in your life in general so not having richness in your own life to talk about. It could be too stuck in head so it’s like you’re closed in on yourself, so you’re not able to react as spontaneously to the other person or connect to environment/the other person. You might have ideas in your head about how convos should go, what’s relevant to say or not, what’s appropriate so it’s kinda limiting your flow. Imagine that when you talk, your responses are impulses and they are traveling like on a stream in your head, traveling in your brain to your mouth when you speak. It should be quite a flowing stream, things shouldn’t be blocking it. It’s like you have a connection to yourself, that is your connection to your own stream. Anything that’s blocking the stream is a block in that connection to yourself. So the more your go into yourself, and clean up your psyche, clean it from trauma, insecurity, unwanted societal conditioning that doesn’t align with you. You are cleansing the stream so it can flow better

It’s hard to know where our mind ends and reality begins … they go so hand in hand

Sex can reflect other parts of a person yea

Ok I’m open to it.

@Basman Ok

Why is conventional fluoride toothpaste bad?

Does evidence prove the decrease in rape is directly correlated with the porn? Because a decrease in rape can be because of other factors in society.

As a contrast I could do experiment where I watched porn “neutrally” without thinking and it’s just seen as it is and doesn’t necessarily trigger arousal

I found in my past imagination plus porn watching simultaneously to be the strongest hit. It’s like you watch the porn, while simultaneously adding your touch of fantasy to it that matches what you’re watching. If that makes sense

Porn is a byproduct of our society simultaneously as it’s contributing to creating our society. It’s playing into what is already on people’s minds but also fueling it. It’s like a wheel. One question I have is do people have the capability to get turned on my their own mind or do they need to view sex externally in the form of porn to get off? Because if they can’t get turned on by their mind only, then it makes sense that porn offers a kind of sexual relief . But also it makes you crave even more, because it’s like it gives you too much dopamine, so you want it even more than if you wouldn’t watch porn at all. So it both gives you relief but can create toxic cycle of needing even more . So dependency

I see