Never_give_up

I accepted many things this year: There are many people smarter than me I am not special I won't do anything important in life (something that will change the future of humanity) I won't do the things I want in life cause I wasn't born for them, my mental capacity isn't enough for the things I would enjoy if I had the mental capacity It will take many years to develop myself to find a girlfriend I can't be top at something, we are 8 billion and I am just one. I can't stand much pain and I am a coward: In short I am feminine in many aspects and traits There are people that are stronger, more beautiful, funnier than me. I am unnatractive at least for now. Don't confuse this with doing nothing. I still do art, workout, socialise and learning japanese, try to eat healthy. This is not about giving up. This is about moving forward without the pressure of things I can't control. This is about realism not pessimism. This is about radical acceptance that will reduce suffering. What are things you have accepted in life? Is acceptance the key to reduce suffering? I feel relieved that I accepted many things in life, but there is still some small part in my soul that I haven't accepted all of them completely. Should I go for radical acceptance and accept what I wrote fully or it's a wrong approach?

@bazeraI run and eat healthy. I have lost weight 2 times and regained it and more cause if I lose it too quickly my hunger goes up and it's impossible not to eat. I was losing 1 kg per week but that's so much for my body. I lost 12 kg and then regained them. Now I want to lose 1 kg per month , i don't want to make mistakes any more. My problem is not losing weight. I can do that. My problem is not regain it.

@Olafbut short girls want tall men too Maybe the problem isn't my height but that I can't lose my weight. During covid quarantine I became fat and since then I can't lose weight. Before that I attracted some short girls. I had completely forgot about that. Yeah, it may can happen! All I need is to lose weight. I was 60 kg athlete attracting girls , now I am embarassed to say but I am 84 kg, that's 24 kg fat. I will lose weight, maybe it will take 5 years but I WILL.

I am 167 cm (5'6), that's what I consider short.

If you are bored to read this then answer if you want if you care about other people's opinions. If you are not bored then proceed. At what point should people not care about what others think, and about what things? I am not talking about doing things that put you or others in danger for doing them. I am talking about embarassing situations/humiliation. You dance really weird and funny, people put you on a youtube video, it goes viral and millions people watch it, even people you know. Everyone laughs and insult you in the comments. In real life they see you and laugh when they see you (not loud to hear it but they remember how you danced and they find it really funny). Should you have danced or you should have avoided. Everyone says their opinions about afterlife, most say they believe nothing exists after, others say there is a paradise and hell, then there is you that believe in eternal incarnation. You say that opinion, people look at you in a strange and weird way. Everyone want to get away from you. You feel the humiliation, you get away and think of the incident for 6 months. Should you have said your opinion? Will you feel humilated or you won't care at all? You go to a wedding party and you want to wear something casual. You do. Everyone is dressed very well expect you. People stare at you, some smile or look in a serious or strange way. What do you do? Do you do what you want or you don't care? Even if you shouldn't have done this, let's say you did it for some reason. Should you feel humiliated or not? You make a youtube video, you are low IQ and it looks really unprofessional and you look really low IQ. Was your life destroyed cause of this? should you care? should you feel embarassed? shoud you have done this? do you care about other's people opinions? You get treated very badly cause of a hot high status bully, you fight back, everyone is against you cause you are low status and he is high status. Everyone ridicule you. Should you have found another way to deal with it or you don't care about the opinions of the crowd? You may have to see these people every day. You want to do a really feminine job as a man. You know society will think something is deeply wrong with you cause you know how normies are. Do you care about their opinions or you do the job? There are millions of examples. You could be walking weirdly, have a really feminine voice, whatever. Not all people are understanding. Maybe you are really ugly like 1 in a million ugly that normies don't want anything to do with you (sad but it can happen), how should you feel about that. You have a weird hobby, do you do it or do you stop doing what you love? It could be being 50 year old and want to do rollers plus you want them really pink. What do you do? Do you care about wht others think of you? When do you care for others opinions. When should you care? How you fight humiliation and ostracization? What are the solutions? how humiliation/embarassing situations work?

@Yimpai can't find psychedelics, I accepted that in this lifetime I won't do them I don't want to go to a foreign country to do them with other people, I am insecure in social situations with strangers. It's ok , it wasn't meant to happen in this lifetime .

Whether is animes or video games or any other type of art, if a person is incapable of creating art, and art is what he likes, then I don't see what else he can do other than consuming art since he can't create art. It's a bad situation but what is he supposed to do? Shouldn't his life purpose be to make money for survival and then consume art in his free time?

after all he can't do much in this world cause of his mental disabilities. Is he cursed not to do anything of value in this world?

@Joseph Maynordrawing. But it's ok , I accepted many things in life are out of my ability cause of my unusal brain. It was a long journey before I accept this hurtful insight. I now pursue informatics and do drawing as a hobby.

@Ulaxwhat kind of goals help with anhedonia? Any example would help

how you spent your time on it?

Do you have any experience of this? if yes how to stop it?

@Ulaxit's hard to ignore a troll but you are right.

now we have one brain cell and incel penis. Nice, please continue, we need to have more self awareness and you help a lot. Not much you say? i see. Thank you for the productive conversation, it was really amazing to talking to you. Next time don't spent time to talk to people like us since we are all these stuff, spent your time more wisely and go support Clancy like mostly women do outside the court.

we are incels, cucks, ''excited to kill a woman'' as you said, and now we are fucking retards. What else are we? enlighten us.