Breakingthewall

Trauma is an ego evolution switch. Sardines have no ego and are not traumatized by whether other sardines have died, they don't care at all, but sardines with faster fins reproduce more and that is their evolution. We humans have that little parasite called the mind, or ego, that creates time, causes and effects, and imaginary worlds. It is a living being, it exists, it changes, it evolves. Trauma is its driving force, without it we would do nothing to evolve. A trauma of a second seeing your mother being devoured by a tiger in the jungle can lead you to dedicate your life to preventing the tigers from devouring members of the tribe and other egos will take over and continue your mission until no one is devoured by tigers, all because of a trauma that a goat would forget forever in 5 minutes

Good sex is positive, bad sex is negative. The problem is that you have a dick, then you have to do sex , good or bad. We are slaves of sex, and women aren't. They are slaves of be loved, very different. It's a joke of god, the son of a bitch. The evolution game, no mercy for the looser. The solution, stop fucking and learn to make love, even when it's just one

Super common when you don't know yourself enough in the sex facet. It means that the sex you were having was not fluid, you were not totally open, there was no real connection (the connection can happen with a woman with whom you have not even said hello), you did not feel totally yourself, so all that shit is camouflaged for the fact that you are horny, as if you were drugged, and the moment you cum, the drug disappears in a second, and the sad naked reality is left, and you just want to disappear.

Yes, it's absolutely simple, but the human mind hates it.The human mind is a construction within a finite cycle, nothing is more alien to it than the infinite. it needs an idea of purpose, a starting point and a destination, a movement in one direction. Absolute reality is nothing like that, in infinity there is no real movement, any movement is only apparent, so if you want to open yourself to the absolute you have to leave movement. the human mind says: wtf?? This is fucking shit, malfunction, I need to grab something, be someone, have a goal. Well, all that is relative, that is, ultimately an illusion. There is no real movement, since movement is by definition relative. one thing moves relative to another. At infinity, point x and point y don't matter, you can advance whatever you want, which is an imaginary advance, there is no advance, no movement, nothing.

Exactly, that's the absolute truth 😅

Are long relationship with sex involved something that is not a hell in any single case in the history? I'm not sure

What I meant is that ultimately, infinity is absolutely empty in the sense that it's impossible that god wants anything, like being an individual, or hidden anything. Could happen relatively, in a given moment in the infinity, but in the whole infinity no, there is no intention, no real change, no movement, just because it's infinite. Then, any perception that we could have, even it seems very true, is just relative, not false but not absolute. The absolute is just total, is the essence, only the essence is real, and it's nothing that can be defined, just totality, existence.

Let's say (sorry for the monologue) that meaning is a linear dimension, or better, seems a linear dimension but it's a circular dimension, because the cycle. Without change meaning is impossible because it needs a starting point and a destination, therefore it is limited. The cyclical structure of our existence causes the mind to create time and meaning, and cycles are inevitable. Reality creates forms because it cannot be static since it is not limited, and not being static is flow and that in an infinite paradigm is equivalent to a cycle. So everything is cycles within cycles, which, being infinite, do not go anywhere. an inevitable infinite dance, which borders on existential horror, but avoids it because the absence of limits places you outside of any judgment. It is a delicate maneuver to shift from the point of view of the temporal cycle with meaning and trajectory to what lies behind the cycle, to bottomless existence, to the infinite space where the cycle occurs, the existence. the cycle goes into the background and completely loses its meaning. It loses its density and becomes empty. So you are free, but what about that? If you have a toy in your hands, you are not going to waste it without using its possibilities.

Yeah, that's the only meaning. Existence exist. hallelujah

For me it's simple, there is no meaning. It's quite difficult to be without meaning, the human mind is meaning. Without meaning there is no time, the time is a creation of the human mind made of meaning. Change is meaning, change without meaning is unchanged, because it's always the same, for all the eternity, even it apparently changes. One feels like an orphan without meaning, so alone. Without meaning, the others doesn't exist, the others are meaning. Without meaning, the infinity opens, and you are absolutely free, but you can't grab the fuckin meaning, even it's so tempting, so cozy, so serious and solemn, like a mythical warrior, as severe as a monk, so important, so great, so necessary to follow a path. There is no path, there is no objective, there is no destination, everything is illusory. there is only beauty, and the beauty is simple, it's just empty existence. Everything else is just a game, nothing important, but let's play.

You can easily embody all the knowledge of the infinity, it's very simple: nothing means anything, existence exist, there are not limits. That's it. It may seem anticlimax, boring, lacking in salt, but no, it is absolute beauty

And where does monogamy fit into this? I would say more in the neurotic section

God is a weird word, limited. What's the meaning? An entity, a cause that produces an effect, a will that wants things, a mind that imagine. It's an idea that the human mind needs to feel safe. If you break all the limits, there is no God, no cause, not a center, just unlimited existence.

I'd say that there is guarantee that your mind is lying you in an absolute level, since any explanation of infinity is false by definition. It may be true at a local, relative, cause/effect level, but at an absolute level the only explanation of infinity is that it is infinite. That is, at an absolute level, saying that God creates limited experiences for a reason is like saying that Toyota cars break down rarely. It is something apparently true, on a relative level, but from an infinite point of view it means absolutely nothing. Then that God that does things could be a cosmic force, the universe, anything, but ultimately finite. Interesting, but not absolute.

The problem with relationships is that they are limiting because they are almost always going to be with someone who is limited, and that someone wants you to be limited. So in your life, in your reality, there is a limiting factor that reduces your sovereignty, and this is incompatible, or an hindrance ,with spiritual awakening. If you have a partner who is not limited or limits you at all, then there is no problem