Lyubov

Dude you gotta take a break from the internet

Damn, Hogan died?

Many guys are getting priced out of dating

No never. I almost became a citizen though during COVID, they have a program for naturalizing if you are Jewish and it’s a form of lobbying the USA by getting middle class white Jews to become a citizen, way of getting soft power on the USA. It’s called Aliyah, it’s a joke itself as well. They have no way of actually proving who is Jewish or not so just having a letter written by your Rabi counts, doesn’t even have to be notarize or anything. A lot of wealthy Russians manufacture proof they have Jewish relatives in order to get the citizenship as well.

Israel is a colonial state justified through revisionist history, lies, victim mentality and a warping of sensibilities any rational/moderate person would not apply to their world view otherwise. Israel has to reach for justification somehow, how else would Europeans distantly removed over 800 years have a claim to land thousands of kilometers from where they are from? “God’s chosen people”, “This land was promised to us 3000 years ago”, it’s an extreme form of ideological perversion by spinning a really crazy story, reaching for baseless evidence through emotion and mythology, people eat it up because it’s under the guise of their religion. If you tried to justify mistreating other people in your daily life by doing this you would be labeled mad, delusional a compulsive liar. So you can’t make people like this feel safe because statistically they aren’t in any more danger than the rest of us. It’s ideology and that will eventually crumble.

Jews are safe in the west. It’s pure victim mentality and ideology running the Zionist show. I’m Jewish and I appear white and blend with every other white person in the USA. Unless you were shot in a mass shooting at a synagogue you really have nothing to worry about and statistically speaking that is just bad luck. Zionism is a sort of colonialism to satisfy a biblical ideology where white European and American Jews think they were promised land 3000 years ago. That’s ideology. They have lied to themselves and warped a narrative to throw out all sensible layers and facets to their foundation that they therefor have to now live out this crazy fantasy of being god’s chosen people and having to rebuild some kingdom their holy book promised to them 3000 years ago.

I heard there is a record number of Jewish USA citizens returning from Israel (those that got this second citizenship). They definitely aren’t doing it due to safety. White Jews blend in with all other white people. It’s pure ideology, at least for Jews from the USA.

Of course most of it is limiting beliefs. Basically all problems in life culminate in limiting beliefs. And what you cannot change (IE your height) you accept.

Unlearning is a process. I’m not talking about learning pick up techniques, I’m talking about cultivating a state of being, lifestyle, foundation and social understanding to attract a woman you will want to be with. That is not something many men just are able to do instantly by any means.

I’ve not found that to be true at all. If that’s your experience then that’s cool. Not denying that for you. For me it was a process, like learning to walk. A baby doesn’t one day stand up and run. It tries to walk and falls hundreds of times before being able to walk, and then it continues to fall a hundred more times before doing it well. For many men this is the process they go through when gaining social skills, building their finances and mastering their emotions before they are able to have success in dating. Some men don’t have to do as much while others need to do a lot more.

A lot of it comes from just not being educated or having experience, which takes time to learn. Don’t assume men and women start off the same in this domain. You are born and then when you reach the right age have to do almost nothing to have men come after you. For men, you have to develop aspects of yourself which are not evident, and take all sorts of resources and time. You aren’t born with a manual for all the different things you will encounter in life so a lot of it is purely trial and area and grinding to level up. Building attraction for themselves and desirability is a quality that is developed in men not something bestowed upon them like with women. For women it’s just their feminine way and looks. For men it requires learning and developing for sometimes years beforehand.

I think women both underestimate and do not understand what most men have to go through in order to have a relationship with a woman of any kind. I also think this type of guy, “incel” for lack of a better word, is sort of over represented on this forum. By my estimate they account from anywhere 1/5 to 1/2 of men depending where you are.

I don’t care for socializing much either. Then again a close friend is an invaluable companion and asset in life. I sometimes like talking to strangers though and making a connection. There is something lost in this highly introvert anti social way of life that is sort of embraced here in the name of spiritual growth. I’ve had several awakenings through socializing as a catalyst. I think it just depends on how you live life yourself. If you aren’t living so well or honestly you often will attract similar people and since many people believe they need other people to complete them, they use relationships to fill an endless void that only the realization of their true spiritual value can break. So relationships sort of become this filler. It’s not exactly easy to let go of either since many people build their life around their relationships and family and often times they are bound to have some people who have more issues or lies in their life than you. In that sense then the only way to really entirely remove this issue is to remove relationships from your life, but do you want that??? A good analogy is trying to remove yourself from the modern food chain due to all the processed junk and chemicals and whatnot. You could start a farm but you probably don’t have the energy, resources or lifestyle to do that and you’re better riff just educating yourself on what to buy and making peace with the occasion junk you eat. I’d say something similar is needed for relationships if you value living in society, which most of you do when you realize the amount of work and resources it takes to live outside of society.

As someone who is getting married, I can relate a little bit of what you wrote. Here's the thing, you only have a limited amount of time and resources, and it gets spent up a lot sooner and quicker than you think. If she want's a baby and you truly know in this moment you don't then, be honest and tell her, do not lie about that. Be open to it changing, or never changing, but be honest. As a man there is indeed this drive to crave more and more beauty, I'm grateful my girlfriend is beautiful, thin and has a nice body but even I still sometimes want more or see a woman who has some unbelievable or different proportions and I desire sex with this other woman. You need to balance these two opposing forces of wanting something else vs being grateful with what you have. It's something you need to reflect on and you aren't born with some manual to life on what choice may be right for you always, you have to live life and make mistakes and just live it, it's always evolving and changing. You can't be outsourcing your emotions to her or blaming her in any way for them. Grow up. Don't waste any more of your time wining and playing games about how you feel bad or tricked or whatever. You know the truth and your mind knows the truth and what you don't know isn't a problem, you can continue to learn and grow in the relationship or leave it and learn and grow single. You overthink stuff way too much. Just be honest and stop being so autistic in your thought.

Interesting. He seems pretty chill. I remember that entirely bogus laptop scandal that failed to take off in 2020.