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@zazen You failed to mention any of the long term consequences Russia faces for continuing to fight. Stop this RT take. It’s been happening since 2022, first with this war only going to last to a few days to now how Europe is making terrible long term decisions. Moving the goal post always. Both sides are going to face major problems and a loss in a standard of living.
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Lyubov replied to PurpleTree's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Because it isn’t about perfection. You can know something works and even be living truthfully and still make some mistakes. I do not believe in enlightenment in the way this word is often used and the way people frame things here. To me there is a way of life and a state (you could maybe label it a state) which is the byproduct of living the way. But it opens so many doors to the unknown where this term enlightenment in an of itself is like infinitely evolving, infinitely unable to be labeled, it breaks down and starts to dissolve itself. So all that is left is just pointing towards it. I think if you are looking for people to learn from, asses how humble they are, how honest they are, how kind, balanced and flexible they are and most importantly if what they are saying can be applied to your life to make it better, peaceful and more authentic. -
This is a belief system I choose sometimes as well, as a straight guy in a society which tells us more is better. I’ve noticed I definitely want more and more beautiful women, and I’m getting married to a woman who is very beautiful and who loves me! Why isn’t one enough? It doesn’t help being surrounded by beautiful women and women knowing I’m getting married who then want my attention more and more knowing I’m in a relationship. Single women are absolute devils around taken men. It’s a form of corruption where we as men think we need more and more women to fulfill something in our lives and it’s a way the ego sort of hijacks the openness and excitement that the soul gives to new possibilities. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with exploring sexuality and sleeping with various women. Just something seems off when you get a guy bending all sorts of social agreements and whatnot, perhaps in a somewhat dishonest way considering it’s like signing a contract then trying to change the terms after when you have more power. I’m going to be careful going into the future because I know there are some women I’d absolutely be tempted to cheat on my fiancé with if they came for me. I have to choose not to be corrupted and let go of all this glamours instagram fantasy stuff, that more beauty from women will make my life better, when I know deep down what will make my life better is being honest about the long term authentic connection and long term vision for building a family with someone who loves me is more important. Because at the end of the day beauty fades and after a guy busts a nut he sees more clear what he’s doing when he throws out his loving monogamous relationship for a bit of passionate fun with a tease. Audrey is kinda doing this by wrapping it in spirituality. He basically has gotten his wife to agree to him having a mistress.
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Lyubov replied to Flowerfaeiry's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
What can’t you control? You did take Ayahuasca so while I do agree there were aspects of that state change, while on ayahuasca, which you couldn’t control, you are still responsible for it. You chose to alter your state taking ayahuasca. What now in this moment can you not control? Those benefits sounds really good. -
But don’t conflate relationships with love. They are two separate things. Love is not a commodity that can be given or taken away. It is hard to put into words but it is truth, it is the sun. You can recognize this sun within yourself and clear the clouds and then choose to act in a way in which you shine, regardless of conditions you honor or what needs you have which you may be pursuing. A mom shows signs she is experiencing this sun within herself by caring for her baby and treating it well. You can love and still have conditions. A mom experiences herself and cares for her child and mirrors back to the baby the love the baby has within itself. All relationships revolve around the same thing where you may tap into various aspects of your true self more than with others based on the arrangement of them. For example, you may not see this as much in your mailman but if you stopped for a moment you still may have love for their existence and wish them well in life just as much as any other person. You may see this more apparently in your wife though who you live with and relate to often and have various things you share together and various needs you fulfill for each other.
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How is the prioritization of truth here very limited? All you have in relationships ultimately is communication and if you are doing that honestly you are prioritizing truth…. From my POV you are making distinctions I see no point in. Existential truth? What? What is existentially true in a relationship is when two people are communicating truthfully which includes communicating your conditions honestly and finding what is in harmony with each other, like I said. Yes, a relationship has needs that need to be met, how does that make it less true? I do not align with your model to be honest or your application.
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Lyubov replied to Flowerfaeiry's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
So what is the point of you changing your state and going to the spirit realm? What is the benefit for you? In what way is this true for you and better for your life as opposed to before? -
You look at it far too black and white from my point of view. I never said there weren’t conditions nor that they should not exist. Recognizing there are conditions, meeting those in a relationship and prioritizing truth and open communication in balance with them is living from truth, including if it leads to the relationship ending. Since when is removing conditions entirely what makes something truthful? You see this is probably where we disagree. This is living out of balance and chasing an ideal / perfection, an idea of what true love should be. True love in a relationship is prioritizing truth, which has room for conditions. You can have a condition for a relationship that “I won’t be in a relationship with you if you are addicted to drugs” and still maintain love as yourself. That is true if you live by that, and if both people are living by these conditions and being themselves (love), that is a relationship built on truth.
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Lyubov replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
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You don’t receive love ever because it is not a commodity you can give or take. Love is what you are if you so choose to see through any lies or barriers you’ve created. You experience yourself and then in your relationships you show signs you are experiencing yourself to your partner / wife / husband / kids, etc. Maybe through words or actions which remind them or point them towards experiencing themselves which is also love. So yes, if you prioritize your true self and seeing through any barriers, and you build your relationships on truth then your relationships will in turn be far more authentic and true and be much less about conditions and much more about truth.
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Lyubov replied to Flowerfaeiry's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Leo has a lot of young men that follow him and look up to him. I really enjoy reading what Leo has to say here sometimes cause he’s a good writer and an interesting guy. But I definitely do not agree with many things he says and don’t condone his spiritual path for everyone. My path is very different from his. But it’s to be expected. You are basically at the house of Leo right now, it’s his website so you get his biggest fanatics and likeminded folk. -
Lyubov replied to Flowerfaeiry's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
The thing is people have all sorts of funny associations with Jesus, including me. Christianity is a deeply corrupt religion and it is a religion that encourages group think and blind faith. Many people who follow Jesus don’t care about truth. Jesus the saint and of course his teachings are fine. If you are experiencing only positives and benefits from studying what Jesus teaches then that is a good thing. Many people turn it into a dogma though. Anyways good for you and hope you have more helpful trips. -
Damn, Hogan died?
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Many guys are getting priced out of dating
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No never. I almost became a citizen though during COVID, they have a program for naturalizing if you are Jewish and it’s a form of lobbying the USA by getting middle class white Jews to become a citizen, way of getting soft power on the USA. It’s called Aliyah, it’s a joke itself as well. They have no way of actually proving who is Jewish or not so just having a letter written by your Rabi counts, doesn’t even have to be notarize or anything. A lot of wealthy Russians manufacture proof they have Jewish relatives in order to get the citizenship as well.