Spiral

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  1. How karma really works, thought i suppose you have to experience it yourself to understand. (I not talking about some kind of supernatural force)
  2. Have a soft spot for that verbal abuse, no specific subject though. Harsh statements once or twice is fine, might even help you improve yourself. But if it's every day, it hurts especially since there is not really anything you can do about it. Also i'm somewhat of a forgiving pacifist so i guess that does not really help either(unless it absolutely necessary)
  3. What expectations do you put of yourself?
  4. I personally like kind, social, honest and empathetic girls/women, but realistically the most important thing for me is probably if i can create a real connection with them on a emotional level. Preferably with a healthy lifestyle especially in regards to alcohol(and other drugs) and food. This is mainly to see what kind of person the are, rather then the physical aspect. In my experience really physically attractive girls/women have horrible personalities, so i give them a harder time proving themselves. It does not hurt if they share my views on life and are open-minded, thought i suppose i could go on forever.
  5. Some people like bondage xD, sorry but i think you should adjust your advice to the level of the individual rather then smack em with the tactical truth. @hirax , Guys are unlike most think, not only interested in looks, That begin said there is such as thing as begin too attractive. The problem might be with the way you are dressing or acting. It is possible that you seem really hard to get or unfriendly or sad in general or maybe you use to much makeup? Got any male friends? if you really want to know i suppose you can ask them? (might REALLY hurt thought) Try online dating if you have not That begin said,people whom do cold approached or hit on you in bars/clubs are generally more interested in short term relationships. Every tried it yourself? Guys are generally easier but do not pick the hottest guys just in case.
  6. I find it strange that he recommend us not to join social groups, i mean can't hurt to make some more friends right? Not to mention that women generally like social guys. Regarding parties, well i suppose if you want to improve you sexual skills and possibly improve you "seduction skills" . Since drunk people are easier to seduce. That begin said, don't go out parting and sleeping around all the time intil you are done with college. I simply invite you to try a few times (preferably sober) and talk to a few girls and see what happens If you really want to make yourself a long term girlfriend i would recommend doing so through other types of social events and/or just good old fashioned pick-up. Or possible thought a class you have and have to work in groups, i personally enjoy begin a few minutes early to class so that get to talk to the other students that i normally do not talk to. Online dating sites might also work. What kind of things do you like? Maybe it is possible to do them while being among/with other people instead of at home? Having a female friend really helped me get a hang of those mysterious beings, and if you play your cards right who knows what could happen. P.S I'm not saying that you do this, but generally women under 30 generally prefer to be called girls
  7. Personal development is very "personal" so you'll need to be more specific about what area you would like to develop yourself. Generally i would recommend this one if you have gotten stuck(it's somewhat advanced tho)
  8. You know what? I've changed my mind, how about a video about sex transmutation and nofap. I̶'̶m̶ ̶j̶u̶s̶t̶ ̶s̶a̶y̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶i̶t̶ ̶n̶o̶t̶ ̶f̶o̶r̶ ̶e̶v̶e̶r̶y̶o̶n̶e̶ ̶b̶u̶t̶ ̶i̶t̶ ̶c̶a̶n̶ ̶h̶e̶l̶p̶ ̶a̶ ̶l̶i̶m̶i̶t̶e̶d̶ ̶g̶r̶o̶u̶p̶ ̶o̶f̶ ̶p̶e̶o̶p̶l̶e̶,̶ ̶I̶ ̶m̶i̶g̶h̶t̶ ̶h̶a̶v̶e̶ ̶m̶i̶s̶s̶e̶d̶ ̶o̶n̶e̶ ̶o̶r̶ ̶t̶w̶o̶ ̶g̶r̶o̶u̶p̶ ̶o̶f̶ ̶p̶e̶o̶p̶l̶e̶s̶ ̶t̶h̶o̶u̶g̶h̶t̶.̶ ̶ ̶W̶a̶n̶t̶ ̶m̶e̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶e̶x̶p̶l̶a̶i̶n̶ ̶a̶n̶y̶ ̶o̶n̶e̶ ̶p̶a̶r̶t̶i̶a̶l̶l̶y̶?̶ ̶ ̶ H̶e̶a̶v̶y̶ ̶p̶o̶r̶n̶ ̶f̶o̶r̶ ̶i̶n̶s̶t̶a̶n̶c̶e̶ ̶r̶e̶d̶u̶c̶e̶s̶ ̶o̶n̶e̶s̶ ̶d̶o̶p̶a̶m̶i̶n̶e̶ ̶l̶e̶v̶e̶l̶s̶ ̶r̶e̶s̶u̶l̶t̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶i̶n̶ ̶l̶o̶w̶e̶r̶ ̶m̶o̶t̶i̶v̶a̶t̶i̶o̶n̶ ̶i̶n̶ ̶g̶e̶n̶e̶r̶a̶l̶.̶ ̶S̶o̶ ̶g̶o̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶o̶n̶ ̶n̶o̶f̶a̶p̶ ̶c̶a̶n̶ ̶h̶e̶l̶p̶ ̶y̶o̶u̶ ̶w̶i̶t̶h̶ ̶m̶o̶t̶i̶v̶a̶t̶i̶o̶n̶ ̶i̶f̶ ̶y̶o̶u̶ ̶w̶e̶r̶e̶ ̶w̶a̶t̶c̶h̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶p̶o̶r̶n̶ ̶h̶e̶a̶v̶y̶.̶ ̶ ̶ I̶ ̶f̶e̶e̶l̶ ̶l̶i̶k̶e̶ ̶t̶h̶i̶s̶ ̶t̶o̶p̶i̶c̶ ̶m̶i̶g̶h̶t̶ ̶g̶e̶t̶ ̶u̶n̶n̶e̶c̶e̶s̶s̶a̶r̶i̶l̶y̶ ̶s̶c̶i̶e̶n̶t̶i̶f̶i̶c̶ ̶a̶n̶d̶ ̶s̶h̶o̶r̶t̶,̶ ̶b̶u̶t̶ ̶i̶ ̶w̶o̶u̶l̶d̶ ̶e̶n̶j̶o̶y̶ ̶h̶e̶a̶r̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶L̶e̶o̶s̶ ̶o̶p̶t̶i̶o̶n̶ ̶o̶n̶ ̶i̶t̶,̶ ̶p̶o̶s̶s̶i̶b̶l̶y̶ ̶c̶o̶m̶b̶i̶n̶e̶d̶ ̶w̶i̶t̶h̶ ̶o̶t̶h̶e̶r̶ ̶l̶i̶f̶e̶-̶s̶t̶y̶l̶e̶ ̶c̶h̶o̶i̶c̶e̶s̶.̶ ̶ ̶ C̶o̶m̶e̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶t̶h̶i̶n̶k̶ ̶o̶f̶ ̶i̶t̶,̶ ̶i̶t̶ ̶m̶i̶g̶h̶t̶ ̶h̶a̶v̶e̶ ̶s̶p̶i̶r̶i̶t̶u̶a̶l̶i̶t̶y̶ ̶a̶p̶p̶l̶i̶c̶a̶t̶i̶o̶n̶s̶(̶o̶t̶h̶e̶r̶ ̶t̶h̶a̶n̶ ̶S̶e̶x̶ ̶t̶r̶a̶n̶s̶m̶u̶t̶a̶t̶i̶o̶n̶)̶ ̶s̶o̶ ̶m̶a̶y̶b̶e̶?̶
  9. Nofap is useful If you have a porn addiction(I would recommand you not to view it at all) REALLY what to get a partner/laid Masturbates to much Eats horribly (men only) If you fap/have sex once or twice a week you'll be fine P.S I've tried it for a few weeks and it was quite umm.. lets say interesting.
  10. If possible move to a student accommodation, preferably student dormitory. Had a similar problem and moving really helped
  11. Short story: You have low self-esteem. If you did not, you wouldn't not need to "Prove yourself to others" Simple practical things for boosting testosterone(and in turn confidence) Diet changes: more (good)fat, zinc and vitamin D Avoiding ejaculation(you lose zinc this way, the less you do it the better) Exercise(if you don't already) Make sure you get a good about of sleep These are of course not the best solutions since low self-esteem is a physiological problem but they will help get you started and are rather easy. Also try some confidence boosting mindsets etc (google it). Leo might even have something
  12. If you want to make things a lot easier and do not already do this, then... Do: Exercise Eat healthy If you are able, get a nice haircut. (short on the sides, long on top, works best generally) Women/girls really likes a man whom cares about him self and his looks Don't: Watch porn masturbate Avoiding porn and masturbation will increase you willpower/motivation as well as testosterone/confidence levels among other benefits. P.S: Don' t spend too much time watching videos/reading, make sure you do the practice as well.
  13. Can you explain more? How come things stay on earth if there is no gravity?
  14. How would gravity work if the earth was flat? wouldn't everything just fall to the center of the disk, collapsing into a "ball-shaped planet"?