Spiral

Asking is overrated. Making a guess is more fun

I’m not suggesting you should do anything unethical

Anger management experts can aid you in this endeavor

By the way, having huge balls is advantageous with girls. None remembers a coward

I don’t want to ask, better to just flirt with them. This way they have the convenience of telling me that they have a partner if they do or lie if they’re not interested. Drawbacks include, they can cheat. Furthermore they can have a bf who gets upset

That’s not how I define vulnerability, however yes. What you describe is a required approach to getting what you want from other people in a sustainable way

Little pitchers have big ears. Or in the other words kids hear more than you might expect

Don’t lie Don’t harm others(including emotionally) unless you’re forced to Don’t tolerate disrespect Don’t get caught up in all the negativity, especially cultural/political Don’t try to convince people who have already decided what they believe. Don’t consume toxic men’s advice Don’t expect anything from women (at all). That’s probably toxic, but I’ve been disappointed too many times. Don’t drink or consume drugs alone. Don’t buy things you can’t afford, except housing Don’t gamble Don’t be too greedy, do consume some. I’m not a material person, so I don’t buy something unless I need it. Don’t live in fear Don’t stay in a bad situation for too long

One trick is to give someone money you really don’t want to lose. And then tell them to only give you back that money if you do the thing

I think school of attraction is pretty solid

Conservative progressivism is pretty solid. Although I reckon many won’t even comprehend the concept

Yeah those things are nice and a privilege, but everything has a price

The greatest limiting factor for men is cowardice and for women pride. If your are failing that’s probably the reason

@Boost I get that, you can do so anywhere. Sure you might find more stage green people at certain places for instance. The particular place isn’t going to make a meaningful difference. Familiarity is more important, or in other words places you frequent. Like school and a job, the gym. A bar. Or wherever else you go. In other words, the location question is a red herring.

If you are afraid of rejection and being misunderstood, you will not let people in. If you do not let people in you won’t connect. If you don’t connect and you’ll feel lonely. If you don’t socialize enough you’ll become more unusual and struggle more socially. This makes socializing even more difficult. If you go to the gym for instance you can start there. Just be more friendly, put on a smile. Say hi to strangers, don’t expect things to lead anywhere there. That sort of thing takes time