Look, the reality is that there is a sexual marketplace. Every actor in this marketplace is trying to maximize value. This being the case, of course the highest value actors will tend to hook up with other high value actors.
If you got no game and low social value, then yeah, your looks matter more because you got little else of value to offer.
For looks not to matter so much you gotta develop either game or social value. Ideally both.
The real question here is: How much value are you bringing to the negotiating table as a man? This value can take many different forms, from status to friends to leadership skills to spiritual connection to looks.
When people hook up through dating apps they are basically sorting themselves by looks.

Ultimate fear is realizing you are all. There is nobody else to share your being with. Everybody, every time and every thing is something you are imagining right in this timeless eternal moment. Ultimate fear is realizing that the hopes you had of seeing your son grow up is a sham, because your son is someone you imagined! Ouch! Ultimate fear is realizing true ramification of Oneness.

You tell them: Every other generation had it worse.
This is life, not some fairytale.

WTF??
You obviously lack basic social awareness. 
Rule #1 when talking to girls: Don't talk about creepy shit.
When the content of what you say is creepy and weird, that creates a creepy, repugnant, anti-social vibe.
Whenever you talk to a stranger you need to talk about things they would be interested in. You don't open a conversation with a stranger by passionately talking about how much you like to stick your fingers in your ass. You have to be attuned to what normal people are interested in, and what women tend to be interested in.

Well, there is def a reason why this lack of results is happening. So now it's just a question of whether you want to troubleshoot the issue seriously enough to find the reason.
I can guess that your top problems are: 1) wrong city, wrong location, 2) not approaching enough, 3) poor understanding of how to socialize, flirt, and vibe, 4) lack of intent to close, 5) you are not isolation training core aspects of your outer game, 6) your inner game is really bad such that you cannot relax and vibe.
All these issues can be addressed, but you have to be serious and deliberate about it.

@Hardkill It's creepy, pathetic, and needy. Stop trying to talk about sex.
Vibe with a girl the way you would play with a child.

This is a total lie.
That person in actually unhappy 95% of the time.
Be ware of how you are so miserable in life you are too unconscious and scared to even admit your own misery.
It is impossible to be unconscious and happy. Period.
Ironically, it takes consciousness just to realize you are unhappy. As but one example, notice how you constantly live in fear. Every day of your life you have a constant cloud of fear and insecurity hanging over you. Fundamentally you feel incomplete and incapable of facing life. Fundamentally you feel broken, not good enough, and unlovable. This is not something that happens occassionally. This is the theme of your entire life!
Just take a look, if you dare
Do not fool yourself into thinking that any external material acheivement will ever change the above sitution. No matter how much money or sex you get, you will still be afraid, broken, and miserable. And eventually you will want to kill yourself because nothing you try will fix it. That is, unless you know about spirituality.
The devil lies to himself that he is happy being a devil. Therein lies his tragedy. If only he would admit he is a devil, there would be hope. But he is too blind and arrogant to see it. So he continues living in his own self-created hell, calling it heaven.

No, these are distinct. However, there tends to be overlap of these in highly successful people.
When you are looking at extremely successful people you automatically introduce a selection bias. These people are highly abnormal in there psychology and temperament.

So the Queen of England died Yesterday and the "World" or at least England is mourning. When I think about it though she's lived a priveledged life with out really having to work and everything given to her on a silver platter. She lived a life most people could only imagine living and she's never had to suffer worrying about bills and not having a place. Yet, so many people are sad and so many things are going up in honor of her life.
Now I think about the kids in Uvalde, Texas who had their lives taken away randomly and who knows how much pain and heartache they've had in their short little lives. Did the world mourn for these kids the way they're mourning for this Queen who's had this full life? I don't know it just seems so unfair and screwed up. The lives of these people who have lived it so easily and with so much priveledge that's important to remember and honor but, for all the other people who have had to go through so much pain and suffering and can disappear Tomorrow with no one even knowing their name or caring about them. It just seems so fucked up. 
Maybe 30 or 40 years from now will look back on this period in history and think about how stupid and unfair humanity is for having these priorities. Just like how we looked back thousands of years ago. I mean if humanity survives in another 30 or 40 years and some narcissitic shit bag leader of a nuclear country doesn't think that it's time to end the world because of their dumb fragile petty ego. What do you think @Leo Gura?

You gotta lower your standards. As least for the purposes of gaining experience.
1-2 approaches is not enough to learn game. You need to be doing 20 approaches a night at least.
Ultimately, relocate to a city where there are more attractive girls.
Getting some wingmen is also important for your progress. You need to find guys who are good with girls and observe and emulate them.

I think DMT is the one that works in the opposite direction - it encourages achieving success in life by helping you improve your understanding of social phenomena and inspiring you to do something creative. I always want to write a poem or a song verse after DMT. I think it's part of why they call DMT "The Businessman Trip", not only because of the 15 minutes maximum duration, but also this effect on improving your creativity and social skills. Social skills, because with improved understanding from DMT you are able to practice social interaction better until again you hit your upper point of your understanding of social phenomena.
LSD also has the potential, in 100-200 mcg range.

I’m 17. When I first turned 17 I started doing LSD. I went on a few trips, called it good, and moved on with life. Just today, one of my coworkers, a super kind, spiritually intelligent dude looked at me and said, “You’ve done psychedelics before.” We talked about it and he says he’s totally down to be my trip sitter on 5MEO-DMT. Should I accept? Is this too young of an age to be using psychedelics? Any advice? I’ve been eating super clean all year, a medical medium lifestyle, so my brain and body are unreasonably healthy and happy. What do y’all think? 

Plenty of artists and creative people use psychedelics to boost their work. So it's possible.
It mostly depends on the kind of person you are. People can have wildly different reactions to psychedelics.
But if you do very serious, deep tripping it will unravel your whole life. You will reach a point of being lost and doubting everything. Which is not good for staying productive, meeting deadlines, and delivering products to paying clients.

Your understanding of how semen works is silly.
Your semen will be expelled from your body within a week or two if you don't ejaculate it out. It will come out in your urine.
Semen is a LIVE and precious substance. You do not get to keep a batch of semen brewing in your nuts for a lifetime, Lol.
Apes and monkeys jerk off on a daily basis. Nothing unnatural about it.
What's truly unnatural is you not busting your nuts for years. And it's almost certainly bad for your health.
The idea that ejaculation is bad for your health is absurd. You are basically a sex machine. Ejaculation is what you were born for.
You would be better off if you just owned your sexuality.

@Extreme Z7 Which is why we try to work on the ego itself. Cause otherwise one abuse will just be replaced another.
I see a lot of nofap guys whose minds are now filled with the ideology of: YOU SHOULDN'T DO PORN EVAR!
I find porn preferable to wasting years chasing sex or getting into a relationship that wastes 1000s of hours of your life, just because you want to bust some nuts.
If one can authentically outgrow the need for sexual release, that's great, but it has to be done through inner work, not merely through JUST SAY NO sort of tactics. The sex drive is way too powerful for that. It's not like kicking a drug, which you have no natural drive for.
My only beef with nofap is that I think a lot of people might be doing it in a way that denies their sex drive. And then it goes into neurotic Catholic guilt-trip territory, where you have to forcefully deny yourself, and beat yourself up.
Of course if you're watching porn x3 a day, then you'll want to stop that. But I don't see much problem with a couple days a week of porn/fap.

Look, in the end you have to come to grips with the fact that psychedelics and Consciousness can always take a detour into Hell. That's just the nature or Consciousness. You have to just let that go and focus on the positives.
Don't forget, everyday life can also turn into Hell at any day. Nuclear war could start tomorrow. However, you cannot live your life focusing on that.
The key issue is how you use your focus. Focus on good stuff. Why are you focusing on bad trips when you could use that time to focus on good trips?
2 years after a trip is a long time. You should have let that go a long time ago. Stop fixating on it. Stop thinking about it.

Yes, of course.
All these survival games.
Notice: Raising children is favorite pastime of animals.

My description of women is profound. It took me thousands of hours of experience to be able to articulate it so concisely. Don't take it for granted. This is not some angsty bitter Red Pill incel BS.
If women bothered to grasp what I said it would change their whole love life. The shallowness of female attraction speaks for itself. Don't shoot the messenger.
I honestly feel very bad for women. It's a terrible way to mate. It's boarderline retarded. So much self-inflicted suffering.

Because women are just emotional puppets. Zero logic goes into your mating.
It's an awful way to live. My condolences.

I take 150mg, 4-6 times per day. ALA has a half-life of 3-4hrs.

Yes, really good. I will be posting it on my blog soon.

Not genocide but war crimes/collective punishment -- yes.

Looks do matter, however your looks cannot be changed, and you can still get girls with your looks. You'll just have to work harder.
In the end you just have to accept how you look and work from there. And if you keep fixating on your looks you will be too demotivated to talk to girls and thereby lose girls you could otherwise get.
What black pill gets wrong is that there are girls out there who will be okay with your looks. But if you keep feeding on black pill ideas you will never even have the motivation to meet and succeed with those girls, thereby totally screwing yourself.

@effy01 I think your plan is realistic and reasonably workable. Yes, it's a good idea to develop some solid technical skills. If music is your passion then develop technical skills in that area. So you'll be able to leverage them into the future.
Fear is normal.
You have already made the hardest choice: to quit your major. Now comes the exciting part of doing what you're actually passionate about. Give yourself some space to figure it out. You don't need to know HOW just yet. Trust that you will figure it out as you go along. But at the same, don't just sit around and wait. Roll up your sleeves and get to work building your dream life.
Teaching yourself technical skills online is easy these days. All that's required is the passion to learn and train. You can be self-taught. No one in the business world really cares about degrees. University degrees are a joke. What they care about is your ability to produce results. I became a video game designer at a world-class studio after a few years of teaching myself video game design skills. I did not get any formal education for it. And learning audio skills is easier than game design skills. You can find many tutorials and courses online. All you really need is an internet connection and lots of free time. If you can live cheaply in Morocco, got back to Morocco and invest a few years learning these skills, build up a solid portfolio and people should want to hire you in Morocco or even abroad in Europe.
All of my knowledge of psychology and personal development is also self-taught. And thanks to that it's way better and deeper than I would get through a psychology degree from Harvard. You can educate yourself way more efficiently on your own, as long as you're passionate about it. Homework, tests, and lectures are all overrated. You can basically teach yourself most things, unless you need a professional license like for a doctor, lawyer, or engineer.

^-- This model might be an oversimplication, but it seemed on topic. (This uses Ken Wilber's Integral color codes)
 
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