Yali

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  1. All success is driven by unhappiness
    All success is driven by unhappiness
    Omg, that's such a good quote

  2. MDMA/Molly for self healing / positive outlook
    MDMA/Molly for self healing / positive outlook
    It’s unfortunate that MDMA can only be taken once in a while. I’ll be honest out of all the substances I’ve done it’s my favorite. I’ve had some of my most profound awakenings with it. My last trip with it I was afterglowing for a month. 

  3. MDMA/Molly for self healing / positive outlook
    MDMA/Molly for self healing / positive outlook
    I think MDMA has the greatest potential out of all the psychs for personal growth & trauma healing
    It blasts your heart chakra open and fills you with love in a way that other psychs don’t
    With regards to the sides that is a valid concern. I’ve definitely gotten sick by using mdma over consecutive days so don’t recommend that.
    Now if you should wait 1 week, 2 weeks, 1 month, 3 months etc between trips im not sure because I’ve never seen any research on that. I encourage experimentation and your body will tell you if you’re overdoing it. 
    My advice is to make sure any time that you do MDMA that you have two days to commit. The first day is for the trip and the second is for the integration process.
    MDMA has the “heaviest” body toll of the major psychedelics in my experience and that second day to rest and integrate makes a world of difference.
    I’m honestly surprised the Leo doesn’t talk about MDMA more considering his teachings revolve so heavily around “love”
     

  4. All success is driven by unhappiness
    All success is driven by unhappiness
    Success is a kind of addictive hallucination that masks the existential emptiness underneath.

  5. Harmful Liberal Policies Mega-Thread
    Harmful Liberal Policies Mega-Thread
    That's one of the problems with leftism: it yearns to do good but in a naive and foolish way which often ends in virtue signaling and moral outrage more than actually workable policy.
    Yes, leftists are morally outraged at ICE and the police in general. But abolishing these things is like sweeping a turd under the rug. Leftists do not have a workable immigrantion policy. Their policy is just go let endless immigration happen and things will be cool. But they won't be cool. Because most people aren't leftists.
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    This isn't about you. It's about a general point about the blindspots of liberalism.

  6. Bryan Johnson shat himself
    Bryan Johnson shat himself
    The problem is he's turned health into an ego-trip and a marketing circus.
    True health is the opposite of gimmickry.
    Beware of these social media marketer types. They are building brands, not health.

  7. The Tension Before the Approach
    The Tension Before the Approach
    Approach Anxiety.
    You must drop thinking, you must relax your body, and you must build state by having fun.
    Stop all thinking when you are out. Your overthinking creates the anxiety.

  8. My Path to Transcending Sex as a 32-Year-Old Virgin
    My Path to Transcending Sex as a 32-Year-Old Virgin
    I think relationships are generally very good for your development as a human. They're going to force you to grow and mature.
    But it's worth making some distinctions between human development and awakening. Awakening is really trans-human. So there's overlap, but also distinctions.
    Personally, I've let go of the idea of needing my partner to be interested in hardcore consciousness. I think it's an unfair expectation and puts you in the bind of looking for a unicorn. 
    Really want I need from her is just basic maturity and to be a good mother. As long as she supports me taking time for consciousness work, that's enough. She doesn't need to be Peter Ralston.
    Consider that dating a woman who is interested in hardcore consciousness will inevitably come with serious downsides. 

  9. Let’s Take Looksmaxxing Seriously
    Let’s Take Looksmaxxing Seriously
    I’ve been thinking about making this post for a while. I just want to alert you guys to the fact that looks are important for dating. Pickup is nice and all and does help, but our looks matter more realistically. If a very attractive guy does pickup, he will have WAY better results than an average person, let alone someone below average. 
    Let me clarify that I’m not one of the ideological “blackpilled” looksmaxxing people who have been circulating lately. But I have looked into the looksmaxxing space to extract the juice and leave behind all the resentment, ideology, and noise.
    Why are looks important? Simply put, we evaluate people’s attractiveness almost instantly, as a biologically ingrained mechanism. We essentially have a perfect looks-rating device that we use unconsciously, though we ironically can’t give accurate ratings (people are rated 7/10 on average, which is stupid). Looks are an indicator of genetic quality and there are good survival reasons for why we value them. 

    Doing the whole Owen Cook pickup thing is ineffective if you look bad. Even granted that it helps you get better with women (and I don’t really care to debate how much it does), it’s silly not to be optimizing the other factor that makes you have success with women— looks.
    Now I’ll evaluate Leo’s looks profile. This is just an honest assessment and not a personal attack.

    Leo is 6’2. This is a huge advantage in attractiveness, as height is a big factor in addition to facial harmony. The average male height is 5’9, so Leo towers over the average male by 5 inches. Think about this in a club environment—Leo is able to see above other people and actively heightmogs the vast majority of people. 6’2-6’3 is also often considered the ideal height, as beyond that there are diminishing returns and a degree of “freak effect.”
    Next, Leo is not attractive but not unattractive either facially. I’d estimate he’s probably slightly above average. But what’s interesting is how he has unknowingly looksmaxxed subtly, which is ironic given the emphasis on pickup. The biggest looksmax by far is having a low body fat percentage, which makes your facial structure more visible. Fat is bad for looks, and the ideal range is considered to be 8-12 percent body fat (depending on your specific genetics). Leo is quite lean, far more so than the average person. Additionally, Leo’s facial hair covers a likely suboptimal lower third (chin and jaw area), which is another effective looksmax.
    So what if Leo was 5’9, overweight, and had no facial hair? Would the results be the same?
    My point stands. 
    The practical upshot of this is that improving your looks is helpful and worth doing. There is a lot of research into this subject you can do, and you have a choice how far to go, from softmaxxes (non-invasive things like hairstyle, clothing, skincare) all the way to hardmaxxes (surgeries). Obviously be safe and don’t buy into the incel ideology BS.

    Objections:
    Looksmaxxing isn’t spiritual. True, but getting laid isn’t spiritual in general; it is survival. If you’re doing survival, might as well do it effectively
    Why change your face? That’s so insecure/feminine/low-consciousness. Look, being attached to how your face looks is classic ego. The stigma against rhinoplasties is a part of this. If someone wants to improve their nose based on objective considerations and they are well-informed, surgery is awesome. There’s also a certain beauty to aesthetics for their own sake.
    By looksmaxxing, you are mainly just doing a survival activity, but since you’re focused on the actual truth of attraction, it is a microdose of spiritual embodiment— as it’s closer to truth than “coping”. Spirituality is just seeing the Truth.
     


     

  10. I'm done pursuing women
    I'm done pursuing women
    Bro, having a crush is already wrong.
    Learn proper game please. You ain't above it.

  11. Carl Jungs view on psychedelics
    Carl Jungs view on psychedelics
    Psychedelics are underrated. No one understands how powerful psychedelics are.

  12. Most Dating Books/Teachers Aren't Exceptional
    Most Dating Books/Teachers Aren't Exceptional
    Understanding women does not require turning gay.
    You are still focused on keeping them, using them, rather than understanding. That is very limited.
    You have some weird resistance to seeing women for themselves, not for you.
    You are seeing them FOR YOU. You are like a wolf who only sees rabbits as food. But rabbits are not food for themselves.

  13. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    You're not going wrong per se. You just lack state of consciousness. So then the work becomes about just raising your state of consciousness through hardcore practice.
    What gurus don't explain well enough is just how hardcore the practice needs to be for state of consciousness to change significantly.
    Your practice is too weak, too distracted.

  14. how to improve further im stuck
    how to improve further im stuck
    Well, if you take a psychedelic and contemplate your field, you will see how little you really know about it.

  15. purpose isn't equal to always doing what you love
    purpose isn't equal to always doing what you love
    Living on purpose is much harder than not. That's why so few do it.
    But it is more fulfulling.

  16. Most Dating Books/Teachers Aren't Exceptional
    Most Dating Books/Teachers Aren't Exceptional
    You don't even know how little you understand women without psychedelics.
    Your perspective is too self-centered.

  17. Conformity Examples Mega-Thread
    Conformity Examples Mega-Thread
    The 5 Love Langauges

  18. rushing approaches
    rushing approaches
    She will feel whatever you feel.
    Quality over quantity. 1 great approach is worth 10 crappy ones.
    Speak slower. You are speaking too fast.

  19. Total newb here; how to get a girl in Uni?
    Total newb here; how to get a girl in Uni?
    Rather than trying "pick up girls", just sit next to girls you like and start talking normal with them. Ask them some shit like why they are taking that class and what her dreams are.
    Don't try to use pickup lines on them. Just be curious about them, ask questions, and grab a number at the end.

  20. Total newb here; how to get a girl in Uni?
    Total newb here; how to get a girl in Uni?
    I hate social circle.


  21. Wealth & Consciousness Are Compatible?
    Wealth & Consciousness Are Compatible?
    Technology Strategy Consulting 
    You'd be surprised to see me in person with a suit and in working mode

  22. Wealth & Consciousness Are Compatible?
    Wealth & Consciousness Are Compatible?
    Yes you can, I do that.
    In my work breaks, I watch through the window and contemplate the imaginary nature of Reality and its raw beauty. I love watching the leaves moving and the trees breathing.
    If anything I've learnt in life is that human development and Awakening are the best combo. If you put all your points there, it gives the greatest returns and synergies. 

  23. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    The modern psychiatry business is one of the worst crimes done against humanity

  24. The Harshest Truth of Spiritual Development
    The Harshest Truth of Spiritual Development
    But what if that were the truth?
    That some truths are unfindable because you're a human and not an alien or a spider or a fifth dimensional being or who knows what.
    Contemplate you'll never know how it feels like to be a woman, have breasts, pussy, the period, being pregnant, giving birth, giving milk to your child... You'll absolutely never know the inner truths of that, unless maybe you die from this form and somehow be in another form with other limitations.

  25. The Harshest Truth of Spiritual Development
    The Harshest Truth of Spiritual Development
    @theleelajoker Prove me that everyone can reach the States of Consciousness I'm talking about.
    I just don't buy it, I've seen people doing everything right and they haven't reached. I've seen people just getting there by virtue of being born. It's simply denial to not see this truth.
    All the teachers and mystics you follow are extremely gifted, that's the reason why so few of their students reach even close to their spiritual heights. If what you say where to be true, then everyone would reach and we know this is not the case. You've been sold a fantasy and in case you're a genetic freak, which could probably be, then you seriously seriously underestimate how much you owe to the starting position you were given.