Yali

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  1. Is it really possible to be successful in nightgame alone?
    Is it really possible to be successful in nightgame alone?
    Yeah it can be challenging.
    That was one of the nice things about RSD. They provided a container where you could meet guys who were into this and who weren’t at least total sociopaths.
    Game Global exists like OP said. Michael Sartain also has his Men of Action network, but you have to be in his program. And I bet you can still find people on Seddit and other forums.
    Also, consider expanding your definition of a wing. A wing doesn’t technically have to know anything about pickup, although it can be nice when they do. They could just be dudes who like to go out and party.
    In fact in some ways, regular dudes who like to party or who have status are going to be way better wings than puas. Puas are often pretty socially awkward. 
    So just meet guys who are social and get laid a lot. Maybe at your gym, maybe at work, maybe at school, maybe doing a hobby, wherever. If you make friends with them they can help you a lot. Cold approach guys as much as women.
    The only downside with regular party dudes is they tend to eschew cold approach. They usually have a good social circle and get laid from that. So they may not be interested in doing approaches. So you may be on your own, depending on the guy.

  2. The best pick-up techniques
    The best pick-up techniques
    The verbal content of your opener is basically irrelevant.
    I've opened with "I have the most amazing sperm."
    I've opened with "Hey ladies, what's your opinion on glory holes? Pro or con?"
    I've opened with "I'm looking for a wife."
    I've opened with "Hi, I'm Sprinkles. Who are you?"
    I've opened with "I love you."
    I've opened with "I hate you."

  3. The best pick-up techniques
    The best pick-up techniques
    But, I wouldn't do that many approaches without having a system. '
    Go buy a PUA course, then do that many approaches. Otherwise, you'll be a deer in headlights. 
    If you have a career, than buy PlayingWithFire or John Anthony Occams Razor. Even Bradicus. 
     

  4. Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 results
    Interview with a guy that spent $8000 on PUA coaching & still got 0 results
    That's his problem right there. Pickup has a steep learning curve. Took me 440 approaches to get my first result. But I didn't pay no $8000 for it.
    If you are a hard case newbie with serious social anxiety issues and deep introversion, you'll need more than 300 approaches to start to see results. But the good news is, your results grow at an exponential rate. The first year is the hardest and driest.

  5. Am I alone? Enlightenment experience led to Solipsism, and it made me Depressed
    Am I alone? Enlightenment experience led to Solipsism, and it made me Depressed
    @Betterself Yes, you are alone. As God.
    Nonduality means there cannot be any "other" who is not you. The deepest levels of nonduality can make you start to feel lonely, as you realize that you created this entire dream all by yourself and the illusion of "otherness" gets shattered. It can feel very solipsistic, but also, as the mind adjusts to your new understanding, the loneliness should dissipate.
    I do not exist. You created this forum to entertain yourself. And here you are reading all these posts that you yourself wrote to yourself. Seeking advice from "others" who are really just yourself.
    Try to see the beauty of that.
    Aloneness and connection are ONE. You can look at it like the glass is half empty, or the glass is half full. By being everyone, you are infinitely connected to everyone.
    You still haven't surrendered fully to nonduality. Yes, it's very radical and scary to surrender fully to it. The truth is radical beyond words. Your fear of being totally alone is precisely what you must explore and ultimately surrender. The ego-mind hates it of course and will be resistant, trying to anchor itself into something, anything to avoid Absolute Nothingness and Total ONENESS.

  6. Leo's video on how to love does not correlate well with getting girls
    Leo's video on how to love does not correlate well with getting girls
    There is a silver lining. What you lose in quantity and raw material hotness you can make up many fold in depth of connection.
    You are going from shallow as an oil spill to deep as a well.

  7. Leo's video on how to love does not correlate well with getting girls
    Leo's video on how to love does not correlate well with getting girls
    Oh, pussy will activate for a man who is truly spiritual. Trust me
    But you must still learn to be a MAN. Spirituality is not a shortcut around that. The core fundamentals of game are still operative. You can use spirituality to ground yourself deeply in an authenic masculinity.
    But you still have to leave your basement and talk to girls to get girls. There is no shortcut for that. If you are too scared to approach a hot girl and look her square in the eyes then what does your spirituality really mean?

  8. Girl ghosted after videocalling > triggering insecurity
    Girl ghosted after videocalling > triggering insecurity
    Well, in this case obviously focus on the other girl who slept with you.
    How many girls must sleep with you before you feel secure?
    It's a holistic equation that factors in everything.
    Just reaching hook point. Enough that she would be willing to sleep with you if things moved forward smoothly. Attraction usually happens within 5 mins. The rest is just follow-thru.
    Less than 20% of girls will get attracted to you. Don't make it personal. You are attracted to less than 20% of girls so its only fair.

  9. Leo's video on how to love does not correlate well with getting girls
    Leo's video on how to love does not correlate well with getting girls
    If you knew how much sex I sacrificed you would cry.
    I didn't say no pussy. I said less.

  10. How much time talking to a girl in club before asking if she has a boyfriend?
    How much time talking to a girl in club before asking if she has a boyfriend?
    Your sexual subcommunication should be so strong that she tells you about her BF within a few seconds or minutes herself.
    If girls are not telling you about their BF until much later that tells you that your intent is too weak and needs work. Sexual eye contact is key. Work on that.

  11. Is Mathematics Invented or Discovered?
    Is Mathematics Invented or Discovered?
    Invented. I don't even see how this is difficult. 
    You don't see number under a rock. You impose abstractions on top of a rock.

  12. How to deal with rejection because of Looks?
    How to deal with rejection because of Looks?
    Haha! That won't work! If that worked, that's what I would tell you to do.
    What you misunderstand is that women aren't attracted by looks, they are attracted by a strong masculine persona, which you cannot fake through any external material modifications.
    See, you are trying to trick women into being attracted to the weak guy that you are, and you think that will work. And what I'm telling you is that won't work, and you should attract them legitimately by actually turning yourself into a strong masculine persona.
    But you want to cheat women. You think it will work. Well, good luck.
    It doesn't matter how good you look, if your game sucks, you will not get good women.

  13. Dear Leo, please make a blog post on Don Beck’s recent passing
    Dear Leo, please make a blog post on Don Beck’s recent passing
    Not sure what to say about it. I have mixed feeling about him because of his support for Trump, denouncement of Ken Wilber, and trademark striking my Turquoise video.

  14. "Talk with everybody" nightgame
    "Talk with everybody" nightgame
    Yeah, that's a big struggle for us introverts. Extroverts have a much easier time just talking random bullshit.
    Here are a few tips:
    Talk about yourself. Talk about your ideas and feelings. Ask less questions, make more statements. Tell little stories from your life. Talk about topical stuff from the news. Read a bit of news before you go out. Or pop-culture news. Make up some assumptions about them like, "You look like you're from California". It doesn't have to make any sense or be accurate. Make observational comments: "Your dress reminds me of Pocahontas."

  15. Do guys hate it when you play with your clit?
    Do guys hate it when you play with your clit?
    I've come close.
    How it happens is you fuck and she cums.
    Build up the emotional connection between you two as you're fucking, and talk dirty to her to get her really turned on. Crank up the dominance and intimacy.
    If that fails, finger her.
    Plenty of girls are sexually repressed, so that might be an obstacle. But that's her issue, not the guy's.
    Some girls cum very easily, others take more time.

  16. Slave morality?
    Slave morality?
    You will get far more value from talking to girls at the club than you will reading Nietzsche.
    At least when you go to the club you are not mentally masturbating.

  17. Do guys hate it when you play with your clit?
    Do guys hate it when you play with your clit?
    Cause you've never properly fucked a girl.
    Ha. I feel sad for you. You have never been properly fucked.
    - - - - -
    You have to keep in mind that most people really suck at sex.
    I've made girls cum vaginally without even touching them. Multiple orgasms. Minute long orgasms. Squirting orgasms. Etc.
    Tiny or large makes no difference. Stop making up bullshit excuses. Instead, learn to create amazing sex. Great sex doesn't just happen. You must CREATE IT. I got videos on that

  18. Radical implications of oneness
    Radical implications of oneness
    Of course he's maximizing love in his twisted way.
    Devil = God
    You guys keep forgetting that final twist.
    If you do not understand that Devil = God, you are not properly understanding my teachings. I've been very explicit about that when speaking of devils. That's what makes my teaching different than classical Christian teachings which separate the devil from God, resulting in a duality. My teaching is nondual.
    I don't hate Trump. I merely use him as an example because he's the epitome of ego. I understand exactly why Trump must be Trump and that it cannot be otherwise for him. Trump is just a part of my Infinite Self. I would be foolish to hate myself.

  19. Radical implications of oneness
    Radical implications of oneness
    That's a good sign of consciousness.
    But also what must be integrated and accepted is that if the mouse is killed, that too is oneness and love. If you fail to integrate that then you will not be able to love those who do evil.
    It is not enough to not do evil oneself. You must realize that even if you stop committing evil personally, you will still commit evil as others. But since self = other, it makes no sense to judge other since you are just judging yourself.
    Perhaps the hardest thing to accept is the inevitability of evil.
    For example, next time, kill the mouse and accept your own evil for what it is. Can you love evil? That is the true test of your realization of oneness. After all, if everything is one, then love and evil must be one.

  20. Getting out of the friendzone
    Getting out of the friendzone
    Too late.
    It took you 9 months to find your balls?
    Well, now you pay the price. And the price is, no pussy for you.
    Use the pain of this situation to drill into your thick skull to never behave this way ever again with a girl. Set a sexual frame immediately.

  21. How to live in an orange society as a green individual?
    How to live in an orange society as a green individual?
    @ivory Lol, Southern California is Green. Not Oregon Green, but still Green.

  22. How to live in an orange society as a green individual?
    How to live in an orange society as a green individual?
    It is what it is. Work on developing yourself. It doesn't matter what is happening around you really.
    Take extreme ownership of your development. Stop expecting other people or your community to build you a staircase to heaven. Build your own staircase.
    With all the books, videos, and resources available so easily today via the internet you have no excuse not to be at Turquoise. If you don't achieve it it's only due to one reason: you're being lazy and irresponsible.
    You already have all the information. Why aren't you taking action? Why aren't you building a million dollar business? Why aren't you meditating 3 hours per day? Why aren't you working on your life purpose? Why aren't you developing powerful relationships? Why aren't you eating healthy? Why aren't you doing yoga? Why aren't you doing solo retreats?
    Laziness
    There is no cure for laziness but to get to work.

  23. Ending Suffering Forever (if it's possible)
    Ending Suffering Forever (if it's possible)
    @Revolutionary Think You know it's very interesting. If the woman gives birth to the baby in a totally dark environment with no artificial lights and noises, no hospital staff and doctors, no drugs, no surgical equipment, the baby will be born without crying. It will not cry for days until something spooks it, like a sudden loud noise or a knock on the head.
    Our society is so fucked up that as soon as you are born, it's already a neurotic dysfunction in the making: doctors poking you, shining stadium lighting in your eyes, making stupid noises at you, putting you into plastic boxes. And people just assume that's the only way life can be.
    Watch out what you assume. You just might get it.

  24. "Everything is Love" is subjective bias
    "Everything is Love" is subjective bias
    @RedLine Your mind is just not open, so convincing you is pointless.
    You will never understand until you drop everything you think you know about reality.
    There is no difference between subjective and objective.
    And there are no others.
    And you cannot use Ken Wilber's AQAL model to grasp the Absolute.

  25. Is there a way out of suffering?
    Is there a way out of suffering?
    Even death won't really save you because you'll just reincarnate, and probably in worse shape than you are today.
    So enjoy whatever comfort you can while you can because things are gonna get hairy soon.