Yali

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  1. What's dating in 30s like?
    What's dating in 30s like?
    All the 30s guys I know are pulling girls in their early 20s.
    I have a friend who is 51 and pulls 20 year olds regularly.
    Being a man with game is nice.

  2. The ultimate game is just love
    The ultimate game is just love
    All every girl wants is a man who can lead her into profound Love. And a man cannot do that unless he loves himself.
    Of course! It's so simple.
    "Hey girl! You are lovely, but I am more lovely. Which is why I can lead you to Love."
    Try that pickup line

  3. Sweden Has now Higher Crime Rate than USA
    Sweden Has now Higher Crime Rate than USA
    Actually my default instinct is to not like immigrants. But I try to not act on this bias because I know it's just a silly xenophobic instinct that most humans have. If I was truly honest I would prefer to live in white neighborhood. However I am not going to allow such biases to affect my politics. Diversity is uncomfortable but it is good for mankind overall.

  4. Dating Strategy...
    Dating Strategy...
    It's certainly a lot easier to get laid in 3rd world countries. But do you want to live there?

  5. Pick up at different stages of the spiral
    Pick up at different stages of the spiral
    @Hello from Russia The most important thing is that there is values alignment and openness to grow and learn. All you really need from a girl is that you are physically hot for her and that your personalities get along well, and she values personal development. That's enough to build something great. You can find that in an Orange/Green girl.
    And it's not so much that you're gonna sit down and school her, you will just plant seeds and show her things and grow together over the years. Trip together, etc. She does not need to know all the Actualized theory.

  6. Infinity
    Infinity
    Good.
    Now go deeper. Realize that all POVs but your own are a fiction.

  7. Best cities
    Best cities
    Madrid! The best city in the world, where everyone is foreign, and where the energy is always high 

  8. Best cities
    Best cities
    Italy could be an interesting one for you to consider. 
    The country has a wonderful balance of good weather, access to sea, mountains, lakes, forests and natural parks as well as ancient history and culture. Socialisation-wise, Italians are very welcoming even to foreigners. 
    You'd have to learn the language but it is not a difficult language, perhaps in 2years you could be semi-fluent with some tutoring and study

  9. Pick up at different stages of the spiral
    Pick up at different stages of the spiral
    @Hello from Russia
    1) You assume that pickup works on only some type of girls. This is wrong.
    2) The reality is that most girls in big cities are Orange/Green. Occasionally you bump into something higher, but that does not mean physical attraction will be there. If I only dated girls at my level of depth, I would be a virgin forever. I don't need a girl to be my spiritual guru. That is not her function.
    3) Be careful what you wish for with those witch girlfriends. They can be batshit crazy and impossible. A lot of New Agey type girls have all sorts of New Age brainwashing which is less appealing than just a simple materialist girl who knows nothing about spirituality. I would rather teach a girl spirituality myself than have to fight a decade of New Age brainwashing.

  10. I Hate Beautiful Women
    I Hate Beautiful Women
    Yeah, well, that's like 1 in 50 women.
    Being born spoiled into an easy life is actually a curse. You shouldn't want it.
    Also, a woman's value goes down, a man's value goes up. So you should be glad to be a man. It's way better to be a high value male at 40 than a high value girl at 20.
    Hot women usually have very shallow existences. Sure, they get lots of sex easily, but sex gets old quickly and it does not satisfy the soul.

  11. I Hate Beautiful Women
    I Hate Beautiful Women
    Of course. And these hot women struggle with finding love.
    It's not good to be too good-looking because it makes your life too easy to the point where you are not forced to seriously develop yourself. It spoils you.
    The amount of development I got from learning how to pursue sex is worth more than all the sex in the world. A hot woman is missing all that development. And pretty soon she will lose her good looks and wind up with very little.

  12. LGBTQ+ SJW's BLM - Left Extremists - Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, Matt Walsh-Gender
    LGBTQ+ SJW's BLM - Left Extremists - Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, Matt Walsh-Gender
    Dude, I would not have sex with most women.
    I have extremely high standards.

  13. LGBTQ+ SJW's BLM - Left Extremists - Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, Matt Walsh-Gender
    LGBTQ+ SJW's BLM - Left Extremists - Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, Matt Walsh-Gender
    It's like plastic surgery. It can make some people feel better, but it can also be abused.
    In general, trans people are pretty confused about themselves.

  14. Pick up at different stages of the spiral
    Pick up at different stages of the spiral
    Well, approach 5000 girls and you will find your one.
    The same as an Orange guy, by socializing.

  15. Pick up at different stages of the spiral
    Pick up at different stages of the spiral
    Pickup itself is a very stage Orange activity and frame of mind.

  16. There has to be a hack...
    There has to be a hack...
    @onacloudynight You are developing wrong ideas about women and sex. You are getting too attached to outcome.
    When you genuinely attract a girl, she will make it easy for you to sleep with her. She will come to you.
    Be careful making this about sex. Enjoy the process of going out and growing your social skills.
    You still don't understand how to communicate with girls. That's the core issue. Just grabbing some numbers is not enough.
    Stop thinking about sex and stop chasing girls. Rather, focus on developing genuine socialization skills.

  17. Elon Musk, "...nobody ever changed the world on 40 hours a week"
    Elon Musk, "...nobody ever changed the world on 40 hours a week"
    There are times when I work a lot. There are times in life when you need to work a lot. But this should be done strategically, in bursts, not as a chronic habit in an attempt to avoid spiritual work (which is what Elon Musk is doing -- avoiding spiritual work).
    Work will NEVER make you satisfied. If work made people satisfied then Elon Musk should be the most satisfied guy in the planet. And yet he is clearly miserable. He has turned work into a neurosis.
    I find that if I work too much I start to feel like a robot and I lose my creativity and passion for life.
    The times I am most creative and connected to life is on my days off.

  18. Debunking Solipsism confusion All is one in a positive way
    Debunking Solipsism confusion All is one in a positive way
    I saw topics on the forums and experienced this myself when starting the spiritual journey. Solipsism aka all is in my head is a misconception that can lead people to madness and pain. I saw this topic adressed incorectly in the forums and thought i can help remedy this issue.God or consciousness is infinite as Leo Gura pointed out.However all the points inside are conscious. Every person is experiencing an ego just like you. A sense of self,thoughts a feeling of separate experience. Not just people animas trees plants and other beings as well. So yeah thats what is revealed a being of pure infinite experiencing itself through us.Have a good one and love others as yourself because they are you.

  19. Debunking Solipsism confusion All is one in a positive way
    Debunking Solipsism confusion All is one in a positive way
    This is false.
    Those people are imaginary.
    There is nothing whatsoever outside your present moment. You are just still in denial about that. If you look very precisely and carefully you will notice that all other people have been your imagination 100% of the time. Even to deny what I'm saying you must imagine a Leo!
    Notice that you are talking to yourself, not Leo.
    Awakening is a radical thing. Keep deconstructing your reality.

  20. Best cities
    Best cities
    If you want an abundance of girls that are cute, feminine and stylish I think Paris is the place to be. Paris is pick-up heaven, no better place in my opinion. French girls are very cute as well as all the foreign ones there. 

    Eastern Europe seems like a good option because of the cheap prices and abundance of some very feminine girls. Serbians, Hungarians and Baltics are a pretty bunch. Normally I would also mention Russia and Ukraine... but yeah...

    Though make sure you have your game down before moving to such a place otherwise, you'll be in for a rude awakening when even supposedly "easy" girls flake on you one after the other, and then you'll have to return home without having had the experience you hoped for. 

    From my experience, nationalities such as Spanish and Brazilians love being approached the most. They really appreciate that polarity. They will for example play with their hair and are easy to strike up a conversation with. In contrast, I noticed that more masculine Germanic girls can have more often shitty reactions such as being skeptical, unimpressed, and even outright bored.

  21. Queen Elizabeth II has passed away
    Queen Elizabeth II has passed away
    What's silly is that this royal cosplay still takes place in the 21st century.
    Chimps wearing crowns.

  22. What is ego-death?
    What is ego-death?
    In the very moment of ego-death it is realized that your biological birth was just a story. It is realized that you are not a physical or a biological object, but an idea. This idea is eliminated, as though it never existed. Not only that, it becomes almost impossible to imagine how you ever thought you existed.
    Imagine life minus you.
    That's ego death. Everything stays the same. But you are missing!
    In other words, absolutely nothing changes! Just its always been, and how is right now!
    There is no you reading this sentence. The sense that there is a you reading this sentence is a fantasy. The end of this fantasy is ego-death.
    Ego-death is not an idea or a belief, it is state of consciousness. Accessing this state of consciousness requires intense concentration and stillness of the conceptualize mind. The conceptualizing mind is what is sustaining the fantasy of a you in the same way that a video game console sustains the appearance of Super Mario. If the console is unplugged, Mario disappears.

  23. Is 26 too late for college?
    Is 26 too late for college?
    You're still super young and no one will care about your age. What employers care about is your demonstrable skill set and portfolio.
    If you want to get hired as an artist, all you need is a great portfolio. You don't even need a degree and your age is irrelevant.
    All of your attention should be focused on building your skills and putting together a jaw-dropping portfolio.
    Artists get hired solely on their portfolios.

  24. What if you are old?
    What if you are old?
    @Samantha If you really feel called to serve the world, by all means go for it. The point is simply a very practical one: the older you get the less time you have to build a foundation from scratch and the less energy you will have to work with. This is not meant to be a limiting belief, but a factual statement. If this statement wasn't factual the question of age wouldn't even arise at all.
    It's not that you can't do it, it's just that maybe there's an even bigger game you could play! Which is spirituality.
    One of the best benefits of being older and retired is that you can really focus on spiritual work in a way that people who are building careers cannot. Starting a new business or career takes a lot of time and energy which could be used for spiritual work.
    But it all depends on your priorities. The best you can do is follow your heart.
    You know in Hinduism they have a pretty nice model for how to structure one's life:
    Phase 1 of life: Growing up to adulthood, education
    Phase 2 of life: Getting a job, having a family, taking care of them
    Phase 3 of life: After the kids are grown and out of the house, and your finances are stabilized, you retire and pursue enlightenment full time. This is really supposed to be the pinnacle of life. Not a downer.
    Then you after your enlightenment you can become a guru and contribute wisdom back to the young.
    It's a pretty good model. Of course you can break all the rules and do whatever you want.

  25. What if you are old?
    What if you are old?
    That's definitely more challenging.
    At your age I would spend more time on awakening and spiritual practice.
    Of course you can work on some books and so forth, or start a community, but also your priorities should be different at your age. It's less about impacting the world and more about deepening your spiritual connection with yourself.
    Awakening is more satisfying than meeting any career objectives anyhow. You don't want to be filling the last quarter of your life with a busy work schedule at the cost of your spirituality.