Because when you're attractive, girls just let you get away with it. It fuels the ego, the ego is drunk on its own power and abuses it. 
An ego that big feels entitled to anything it wants any time it wants. And it doesn't take no for an answer.
You might as well ask, why are rich people greedy when they don't need to be?
Russell was a serious addict, which means he was living like an out of control drunk sailor on leave in Thailand.

It's simple:
Feminine = surrender

Sounds like you're simply conscious of what God and Love are.
God is everything that exists. Love is everything that exists.
If it exists, it is God/Love. Hence rape is God/Love.
Don't you find it odd that you believe that God created the universe, and yet you somehow think God didn't create rape???
If God didn't create rape, who did?

Lol
Well, as long as you got the results you want, what else matters, eh? You got one slippery ego-mind
You have no idea the depth of my female-male relationships. If you assume they are shallow, that's your mistake.

The truth is that your romantic love is utterly self-biased and designed to serve your ego's survival needs.
Please stop with the BS. You playing games.

No
One of the things pickup teaches you is to stop caring what women say about you. It simply does not matter. But you can only learn this lesson the hard way, by going out and getting rejected 1000s of times.

That's questionable in a relationship context.
The problem is the ego loves to co-opt spirituality and consciousness for survival. It's a very deceptive and murky process.
Is there something like a genuine connection with another human? Yes. But it is wrapped in layers of survival stuff which will always linger.
But hey, I'm sick of preaching this stuff. Go contemplate how your dating and relationships truly work for yourselves. If you dare.
Consider this: the only reason you guys follow me is because it gives you survival value. As soon as my ability to give you value disappears, you will leave me or hate me. Yet in your minds you don't think of it that way. In your minds you think you really appreciate me for who I am. Of course this is pure fantasy. You don't really care who I am. If I was Hitler, you would want me killed. Such is life. Accept it and move on.

All you have to do to see that your romance is completely self-biased and survival based is to contemplate why you don't get romantic with a gorilla. There is absolutely no reason why you should relate with humans more than gorillas other than survival.
Absolutely everything involving sex is pure self-bias. Why do you not hump a light-post? Sex is COMPLETELY arbitrary and relative. And the only reason you do it is because it has survival value for the species.
But don't get me wrong. This doesn't mean you can't have deep intimate relationships. You can! Just stop fooling yourself about what it is you're doing. You are using those relationships to enhance your survival. You are doing that without admitting you are doing it. Self-deception 101.
Except that's your projection, not anything I said.
Relationships are survival. But saying so does not devalue the relationship in any way. It's just being honest about what you're doing. People get the very wrong idea here that I am anti deep relationships. Not at all. You can do deep intimate relationships with consciousness and spiritual aspects. But it's still a survival game.
People love the illusion of it not being a game. It makes the ego feel justified in its raw survival. The ego needs to paint a pretty story about how all of its purely arbitrary survival needs and manipulations are in fact legit, pure, good, honest, truthful, and selfless. Women especially fall into this illusion and they really upset when it is pointed out them.
Both men and women are selfish as devils when it comes to sex. The selfishness is asymmetrical, with each side denying their own particular brand of selfishness while being outraged by the selfishness of the opposite side. And all of this is, of course, just more selfishness! And all of this is, of course, denied with great passion and fury.
It would be much simpler if you just came out and said: "I am a selfish devil and I want sex under conditions X, Y, Z because that's what serves me best." But of course you cannot do that because it harms your survival. Your community will judge you for it and you can't stomach admitting to yourself just how selfish you are. So you must keep all your true motivations and conditions secret, even from yourself.

I'm 19 years old, never had a girlfriend. It usually never bugs me unless I'm exposed to a lot of new women, big cities etc... (like right now). And I always questioned, what will happen when I get one. What activities can couples do that aren't cringey? Am I supposed to live with her? as much as I want one, I don't want this girl to take up all or even most of my time. how much should I optimally see her on lets say... weekly basis? And lastly, How much sex should we have?
I'm asking this because, well I kinda lied. I had one in high school, but it was so strange I barely consider it a proper relationship! It was mostly messages, emojis and occasionally going out. I remember that this girl absolutely demanded that I message her everyday! and she would get insanely depressed and angry If I "left her one read", apparently this is a thing people look at. I was shocked. O and she didn't want to have sex at all, she said that we we're too young for that. We we're both 16. But I guess she couldn't make that excuse today
It's like this girl wanted 100% of my time just to talk to her on the phone...

Well, you can do whatever you want.
Personally I would not date a girl who doesn't have sex by the end of 2nd date.
Ain't no such thing as celibate girls unless maybe they're nuns. And even then I wouldn't take this celibacy seriously. This is an act. Not real celibacy.
Again, you can do whatever you want. These are just my personal standards.

Your mind remembers things easily when they are related to your life purpose. Remembering requires meaning and significance. The information must be significant to your higher goals. Not just random scientific or historical facts.
That's why you forgot 99% from school. None of it was meaningful to your life goals.

I figured out that the reason they were pushing this idea of "Radical Monogamy" is because Aubrey and Vylana have sold a course in the past about how to do divine union and monogamy. So they need to rationalize that they are still doing monogamy, otherwise that course and all the people who bought it will feel like a fraud.
Aubrey put himself into a corner when he publicly told everyone that he rejected polyamory for monogamy when he married Vylana. And now he needs to reverse course but he needs it seems like his craving for sex didn't really cause him to reverse course. Hence "Radical Monogamy" and hence Marc Gafni there to coach him through the mental gymnastics of that reversal.
This is a beaitful example of the insane craftiness of self-deception.

Sounds like pure BS.
Disappointed in Ken not being more aware of this BS. This dude is clearly a sex pest and more.

I researched Gafni's biography. He has a lot of sexual abuse incidents. Like 8+ which he doesn't really deny. It's kinda nuts at how many different points in his life he exploited women. It wasn't just one period in his life but multiple periods.
I don't understand why Ken Wilber associated with him.
Gafni clearly has problems with handling his sex drive. Which is hilarous because so does Aubrey. They are the perfect match.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marc_Gafni
Gafni is obviously a problematic dude.

I think first and foremost Aubrey invented it to sell himself and his girlfriends that what they are doing is highly conscious.
Aubrey's ego needs a way to rationalize its horiness as spiritual, conscious, selfless, and Godly. Otherwise it would have to give up all the fun sex.
Aubrey is avoiding the elephant in the room: giving up his sexcapades. His ego will invent whatever stories to avoid doing the real serious inner work on that issue.

"Hey girl, there is a wild untamed stallion of Eros inside of me"
Or as us simpletons call it:
"I'm horny"
You know... until I saw Aubrey doing this, it never even occurred to me to poeticize and spiritualize my horniness. That's a level of creative self-deception my mind couldn't conceive of on its own. It took a pioneer like Aubrey to show us the way.
Here I was, like a fool, trying to transcend my horniness, when I should have just called it untamed stallion of Eros and fucked every girl I could.

I've been in the trap Aubrey is in. Trying to play to his audience, trying to do the work publicly, trying to play the guru role. It's too performative. The real work is done privately when you go away from YouTube.
For Aubrey to really slay this beast he'd need to quit YT for a year or two and stop all the sex, relationships, socializing, partying, weed, and business. Just sit alone for 6 months and stop all social activity. That is the real work.
But this would kill him. He's addicted to the attention and the whole social game of it all. Real spirituality is not a social activity.
The only way to stop caring what others think about you is to realize that all the rewards of the social domain are fake -- fool's gold.
The whole social domain is fake and false.
He's not serious enough to give it up. He wants to keep playing that role of a spiritual influencer and maintain that whole New Age facade. I don't think he understands any other kind of spirituality but the socializing and the feeling good kind. Real spirituality would bore him to death.

Yes, but such people are usually too weak to do the work necessary to reach God deeply.
The problem is that spiritual work is some of the emotionally hardest work there is. Many need it but few are willing to stick through it. Spiritual work requires exceptionally strong character to reap its fruits.
It's like running a business. Poor people need money real badly but they are not in a good position to launch a thriving business. But of course running a business is the ultimate solution to poverty.

I don't think there are karma points. The universe doesn't keep score of what you do.
However, you might regret harming yourself. So that's not to be taken lightly.
The point is that higher consciousness can reduce suffering and increase satisfaction with life. Although it can take a lot of work to reach that point.
If you have reached a suicidal point, I would definitely suggest trying a hardcore spiritual practice first because maybe you will have some breakthrough that changes how you experience life. Similar to Eckhart Tolle's biography. He was suicidal and turned around to have a good life.
Unfortunately chronic health problems can be very serious and seriously affect quality of life. I have struggled with that and it can feel like you're trapped.

Yes, I understand. Money, sex, fame, luxury is very alluring. It's how the Devil ensnares you, gets you to compromise on your higher values like truth, justice, morality, consciousness.
The answer is three-fold:
1) Authentic spirituality is just hard. There's a good reason why its so rare and revered. Placing truth above every other value requires super-human courage and discipline. This cannot be made easy. You are choosing the hard life rather than the fun life.
2) With Awakening/God-Realization, your connection to God can become so profound that it gives you more joy than any materialist rewards like sex, money, and luxury vacations. So it's about building a really deep, serious connection/consciousness of God that makes all the Devil's enticements pale in comparison. But this level of connection is really hard to reach, requiring lots of sacrifice and work.
3) You can burn through some of your desires by pursuing them. Go have some sex, go make some money, go take some luxury vacations just to realize that you will still be left unsatisfied. The allure of the Devil's rewards start to lose its appeal once you've had enough of them. Eventually you realize the Devil's rewards are fool's gold and you start to crave real gold, which only God can give. Eventually you start wanting God more than you want luxury vacations to Egypt or threesome sex.
How much threesome sex do you need to have before you realize that God is better?
Well... if you're Aubrey, probably never. So here we are
The more money, fame, and sex you have, the harder it will be to throw it all away for God.

There is a deep connection because wealth is usually acquired and maintained through untruthful, corrupt, selfish, unconscious means. It's really hard to earn $100M through conscious honest hard work. That kind of money usually comes from corruption, and it also corrupts the people who hold that kind of money. That kind of money certainly affects your spirituality.
Spirituality is a battle against survival, corruption, and dishonesty. Rich people are in the habit of placing survival over truth. If you didn't place survival over truth, you would never get $100M.

The ego is extremely sneaky in its ways of survival.
The ego uses polyamory as a way to broaden its search for the best partners, then once it finds the best one, it tries to ditch polyamory and go exclusive with the best it thinks it can find. But after a few years it gets bored or thinks it can find something even better. This is what's happening with Aubrey. He's jumping between poly and mono as it suits him. But then he rationalizes this egoic materialistic survival behavior as spiritual and divinely inspired.
That's what's so offensive about what Aubrey is doing. He's trying to get away with calling selfish, materialistic behavior highly spiritual. But truly spiritual people don't want to buy this BS he's selling.
To be truly spiritual is to transcend this materialistic chasing. But that doesn't fit Aubrey's philosophy that spirituality is supposed to be fun, exciting, and hip. He wants to be spiritual but also run around and have sex with whoever he happens to like that month. It's a sick, billionaire's idea of spirituality. It's like, how can I be spiritual but still keep my big luxury yacht full of servants and prostitutes?
This is why I can at least respect Zen Buddhism. They are serious about a spartan lifestyle. When rich & famous people get their hands on spirituality they want to marry it with their luxurious lifestyle -- which is bullshit. Real spirituality requires surrendering luxury and materialistic decadence, not rationalizing.
Running around having sex with random people is not spiritual. What's spiritual is surrendering that lifestyle to sit alone in a broom closet contemplating God. But you can't share that on Instagram. It's no fun.
This is a great example of the sophistication and craftiness of self-deception.

If you are good-looking, famous, and have $100M -- yes, you will have an endless supply of women no matter how badly you treat them.
Women love a rich, famous, handsome, charismatic, extroverted narcissist. This is a girl's holy grail. This is like candy to a child or a mouse to a cat. 
And then when you mix woo-woo spirituality in with that, and a bunch of spiritualized jargon and poetry about love -- this is chick crack. You couldn't design a better trap for pussy.
Aubrey Marcus is the venus flytrap for pussy with an endless appetite.

So here's the thing:
He got bored of having sex with his wife within less than 2 years.
How long will it take for him to get bored of sex with both these girls?
The elephant in the room is that Aubrey wants these deep loving relationships, but at the same time he gets bored with sex so quickly and he has zero interest in sacrificing hot new sex. Which is the only real sacrifice needed here.
He's pumping himself full of so much testosterone, he wants to fuck everything that walks.

Aubrey made a huge mistake publishing that podcast with Vylana and Alana.
Their situation could have lasted had he kept it private, but now that he's made it so public, Vylana will never hear the end of it. People will keep whispering around her how he is exploiting her and it will slowly eat away at her soul until the whole thing implodes. I doubt she will be able to handle all the gossip and judgment. This whole incident will be like a worm in her brain. She will torture herself over this while calling it spirituality.
There's good reason why Mormons keep their polygamy secret. The women need to be kept in the dark and isolated for it to last.
Aubrey naively wants the benefits of polygamy but with honesty and transparency. Fat chance. There's good reason why polygamy is not socially acceptable in developed nations. It only exists in patriarchal 3rd world nations where the women don't have equal rights and there is no transparency.
And Aubrey is being quite foolish because Vylana will divorce him and take half his fortune. If he is legally married to her with no pre-nup, he better start praying to all the gods in the pantheon every night.