Yali

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  1. 12 step groups useful for enlightenment?
    12 step groups useful for enlightenment?
    He probably became one later in life. People can have their downfalls.
    There are also functional alcoholics.

  2. 12 step groups useful for enlightenment?
    12 step groups useful for enlightenment?
    Desperate people need desperate measures.
    An addict is not in any position to do serious philosophical work. They just need rescuing from their inner demons. This is good and proper, but it is not the advanced work we do here.
    This is the difference between therapy and philosophy. There is nothing wrong with therapy but it is not philosophy.

  3. 12 step groups useful for enlightenment?
    12 step groups useful for enlightenment?
    No. It is a group for dysfunction people who can barely keep their shit together.
    Such people are clueless about God. They are too psychologically broken to do serious existential work.
    They are useful in the sense that if you are a dysfunctional addict then these groups can help you reform your ways, so you stop being a total degenerate. And then there is a chance that you can do some serious spiritual work.

  4. To Leo and all the others: I need your advice for my current situation.
    To Leo and all the others: I need your advice for my current situation.
    You can just be direct with her.
    1) Ask her what she wants from you.
    2) Tell her what you want, explain your boundaries to her.
    The problem is you guys are playing this implicit game where nothing is being spoken, which leads to lots of fantastical expectations and secret hopes.
    If you want to date her, tell her. And if you don't, tell her.

  5. Hey Leo, could I check on something you said re dating
    Hey Leo, could I check on something you said re dating
    Well, could be either, but there's less point in doing it later on once she is already yours.
    Waiting 4-5 dates or a month is a long time.
    She could definitely take that as a sign that you are uncertain or don't like her very much. She could even turn to another guy because she is probably horny during that month.
    2-3 dates is more than enough.
    But the best way is to read her mood and receptivity. You should easily tell just from how she reacts to you touching her how open and ready she is for sex.
    Start groping her and see how far she lets you go. It's as simple as that. You should be groping her from day 1.

  6. I want to get better with women, but I’m hesitant about casual sex
    I want to get better with women, but I’m hesitant about casual sex
    Why don't you focus on getting a girlfriend?
    Go on dates and if you don't feel a chemistry then don't sleep with her. And if you feel a chemistry, sleep with her and make her your girlfriend.
    What is confusing about this?

  7. I feel ashamed about being an Incel
    I feel ashamed about being an Incel
    Fixing your inner game is crucial for success with women. You cannot attract women with your kind of toxic negative mindset.
    You must reprogram your mind with positive talk, positive vision, success, and positive beliefs. Removing all negative beliefs and self-doubt. This is huge part of learning game.
    You will only ever keep the quality of girl you believe you deserve.
    It makes no difference that you are an incel, all that matters is your vision for who you will become in the future.
    You should already see yourself as a player, not an incel.
    The girl has no clue you were an incel in the past, nor does she care.
    Incels and losers never cold approach hot girls. Only players do that. Only winners do that.
    You need to spend the next 6 months, every day, drilling into your mind positive visions for yourself as a successful player. And any time a negative thought enters your mind, you notice it, you catch it, you stop it, and you replace it with a positive one of yourself being even more successful than you first imagined. You have to reframe every failure and every rejection as success.

  8. Dilemma about sleeping with escorts
    Dilemma about sleeping with escorts
    I think using online esocrts are more ethical because they're creating their own profiles and doing it because thats how they want to make money rather some shitty 9-5 job, definitely useful for getting some sexual experience when you're clueless

  9. How many women did you meet before you found a girlfriend?
    How many women did you meet before you found a girlfriend?
    No. Just start socializing in groups with men and women in them. (school, hobby groups, or any other place that you frequent)
    Make friends and acquaintances with the men and the women in the group.
    And over time, if you are authentic, a small but sizable percentage of women in the group will be interested in you.... and you can spark up something when you sense chemistry. 

  10. Is Sadguru's Inner Engineering Course worth it?
    Is Sadguru's Inner Engineering Course worth it?
    It has zero resemblance to my videos.
    It's mostly just a gimmick to get you to sign up to his live programs.
    It does not teach you yoga.

  11. How many women did you meet before you found a girlfriend?
    How many women did you meet before you found a girlfriend?
    If you look good enough you can just collect phone numbers with no game and like 1 in 10 girls will sleep with you.
    I have a good looking friend who just runs a script on every girl he sees that he finds attractive to get a phone number. He only runs the script. And he gets girls fly in to sleep with him because he is good looking. He is just a script machine and he will run that script on any girl he sees, any place, any time, no matter what.
    Lol

  12. Im speechless with super hot girls
    Im speechless with super hot girls
    Very common. I struggle with that plenty.
    Asking her to be you gf in a serious way so early comes off too creepy and needy.
    But you can do it in tongue-in-cheek ways, by saying something, "So... you single?" and when says Yes, you say, "Not any more ;)"
    Stuff like that. Don't be serious about it. But also your vibe should already be that she's your gf. Just assume she's your gf from the opener. Talk to her like you'd talk your gf. Treat her like your gf without saying it explicitly. The vibe and frame is what matters, not the words.
    One of the worst things you can do is treat her like a stranger. You just have to fool yourself using your mind that she's your long-time friend to skip the stranger phase.
    You just push yourself to approach anyways and try to treat her like any other human. Don't think about her hotness.
    Your lack of entitlement is a huge inner game problem. You will never get girls you don't feel entitled to. So you just have to brainwash yourself to feel entitled to the hottest girls in the world. Cause you're God, so why not?
    There's no reason a 9 or 10 won't be happy sleeping with you, as long as you develop rock solid inner game. In this case it really is a fake-it-till-you-make-it situation. Confidence and security is a state of mind. The more hot girls you push yourself to approach, the stronger your confidence will grow. And occasionally some of them will sleep with you, and that will skyrocket your entitlement. Eventually you will feel that no girl is too hot for you. Because of course it was all just limiting beliefs.
    With hot girls your frame should be: "Yeah, you're hot. Almost as beautiful as I am."
    Also with you need to work on your intent. You shouldn't just talk to hot girls, you should actually desire them and broadcast that raw desire to her just by the way you look at her. You need to be able to look a hot girl dead in the eyes with desire and not flinch. Practice makes perfect.

  13. Not Passionate About Approaching, Please Help
    Not Passionate About Approaching, Please Help
    Simple:
    Just focus on your ultimate vision: At the end of all this you will grow into a powerful, confident, high value man, and you will sleep with plenty of cute girls, and ultimately find your dream girl.
    That's all you should be thinking about, not the negative crap.

  14. Not Passionate About Approaching, Please Help
    Not Passionate About Approaching, Please Help
    1) You are thinking too far ahead. Just focus on sleeping with the girl. Then let things unfold organically. It might go somewhere serious or it might not. Both are good.
    2) You have control over your level of excitement for sex. You should practice just going out, talking to girls, and FEELING horny for them.
    3) Fucking a random girl can be very exciting. You just aren't giving it a chance. You need to push through that initial period of discomfort and unfamiliarity. This is done by building deeper rapport with the girl. Learn to build rapid rapport and a genuine emotional connection with the girl. You should genuinely like her and be excited to sleep with her. For now, just fake it till you make it.
    4) The early phases of pickup put you so in your head, so worried about doing the right techniques, that you have no room left in your mind to really FEEL horny for the girl. It's easy to forget that part. You must learn to use your horny feelings. To turn them on and off when appropriate.
    5) You don't even understand how hot and exciting a girl is until you get her naked. Even a below average girl can suddenly become super hot and exciting once you got her naked and she's horny for you. So don't judge a book too much by its cover. Complete the pickup thru to sex. Then judge the situation AFTER sex. You just won't know how good the chemistry is until you have sex.
    Stop doubting yourself so much. Self-doubt and negative thinking is killing your game.

  15. So..Ronaldo is now a billionaire
    So..Ronaldo is now a billionaire
    Ronaldo has a rape settlement in Las Vegas.
    Pretty boy also appears to be a rapist. But what do I know?

  16. So..Ronaldo is now a billionaire
    So..Ronaldo is now a billionaire
    That's the power of celebrity.

  17. Is math discovered or developed?
    Is math discovered or developed?
    Math is no truer than a dog turd laying on the grass.

  18. Is it a coincidence that many geniuses are good at mathematics
    Is it a coincidence that many geniuses are good at mathematics
    The way math is thought in school is memorization.
    Instead if math thought in school involved reinventing Newton or Einstein's equations, then id say your pretty intelligent. 

  19. Is it a coincidence that many geniuses are good at mathematics
    Is it a coincidence that many geniuses are good at mathematics
    It's true I was unfortunate to have very bad math teachers, otherwise I would have been much better.

  20. Is it a coincidence that many geniuses are good at mathematics
    Is it a coincidence that many geniuses are good at mathematics
    without listing many obvious people who qualify, what are your thoughts on this common pattern?
    I've also heard that there is truth within mathematics, which surprised me. 

  21. 1 in 4 people Will die Single
    1 in 4 people Will die Single
    Great points here already, and definitely great question too.
    Basically how I see it is that girls getting more power through the empowerement movements taking over, making them more entitled and picky.
    While at the same time guys getting disempowered by the same movements, society and culture, and thus being way more afraid of being a proper masculine, attractive man. Being more afraid of actually learning social skills with the girls and the art of approaching and seduction.
    Finally, add in the fact that more girls enter universities than guys, they enter the work force more, make more money etc. and the whole old school traditional protect & provide don’t really work anymore.
    What this means tho, is that the girls now go more for the really top attractive guys (who dont want to commit, cuz they dont have to and are driven by having lots of sex with different women), and are more willing to be in their harem, especially as slut shaming also is getting much less than in the past. So for the top guys, it is just getting easier.
    So girls get their needs met by the attractive people they really wanna have sex with, but can provide for themselves better than most guys. And the top guys get their needs met without having to commit to just one girl.
    This is the case for the majority of girls, and the top guys. The rest struggles to even enter the game - hence the whole male loneliness pandemic.
    Oh, and of course social media and endless options just throws gasoline on fire.
    Personally, I find this lifestyle extremely shallow and unsatisfying. I prefer an intimate relationship, but my standards are perhaps too high. Or just really hard to find someone compatible with me.
    Compatibility is key in making relationships work.

  22. Weed is like lsd for me
    Weed is like lsd for me
    Weed is stronger than LSD for me.
    Weed is the strongest psychedelics I've ever taken hands down.
    Nothing can beat 1mg of pure THC.

  23. Mind Is Studying Mind
    Mind Is Studying Mind
    God is Godding

  24. PsychedSubstance is Taking Steroids for No Good Reason
    PsychedSubstance is Taking Steroids for No Good Reason
    Apparently PsychedSubstance has been suffering from some very mild low Testosterone symptoms that may have been caused by his Kratom abuse over the years. He is not considering stopping the Kratom because that would him make him miserable & unproductive for weeks.
    He checked his testosterone levels and they were all within the ''normal'' range, although to the very low side. He is now injecting testosterone prescribed by his doctor. These doctors are really funny because some will prescribe you with testosterone while others won't even if you give them the same blood tests.
    Anyways the problem i have with this is the following : I think he is just creating another problem to solve a problem. His problem is probably the Kratom and not the low T. He is influencing other people with the mentality ''if i have low T, then i guess i need to inject some testosterone''. And i believe he hasn't thought through for all the possible consequences and pitfalls especially when he is much older.
    I have been involved with steroids and powerlifting and i have experience with this new trend of trt. Basically trt (testosterone replacement therapy) is very new. We don't even 100 year old studies on this stuff. We don't know how it can affect your prostate and etc  when you are old.
    This new trend i am talking about is this myth that if you are over 40 or have low T, then immediately you should do yourself a favor and inject oil to your buttocks for the rest of your life. Maybe you have seen some doctors from trt clinics advising you this kind of stuff because they profit from this.
    This is absurd. Of course there are many people who would benefit from injecting testosterone BUT i see more and more people taking it for no good reason like PsychedSubstance. 
    I believe PsychedSubtance has been heavily influenced by another heavy steroid user and Stage Orange youtuber over the last few weeks, More Plates More Dates his name is.
     

  25. Question to women
    Question to women
    Read book: Way Of The Superior Man