You're missing this key: Attunement to her subjective reality.
Success in attraction is not just about not giving a shit and saying crazy things. It's about keen awareness of the woman's emotional state, situational awareness, and being able to attune yourself to the social environment.
This is what keeps you from coming off as a madman and freaking people out. Don't say things which don't fit the subjective reality of the woman you're talking to. You need to meet her where she's at rather than bombarding her with your I-don't-give-a-fuck attitude.
When a woman tells you you're being a creep, that's a clear sign you're not attuned to her subjective reality and you're acting weird. You are not respecting the rules of the social game.

It's hard to draw simplistic conclusions. This stuff can be very complex.
Sometimes I had porn, sometimes I didn't. Didn't really matter.
Back in the 90's porn was pretty low quality and hard to access. Zoomers are so spoiled today.
My sex drive has nothing to do with porn.
And actually, I was very careful not to waste my life energy on pursuing sex.
What you guys fail to consider is that pursuing real life women is a WAY bigger waste of time and energy than jerking off to porn. The amount of life energy lost in the drama of relationships and physical sex is incalculable. The time that the average guy wastes in dumb relationships and dating, I invested that time in my life purpose, philosophical contemplation, and career/business.
You think I got to where I am today by wasting time on having a bunch of sex? While you were having sex, I was contemplating the nature of existence.

Stop masturbating and do the hardcore spiritual practice.
You will not get anywhere without rigorous practice.
Sit down and do 10 days of non-stop one-pointed concentration. And if you're not willing to do that then you should just stop pursing spirituality because you will just chase your tail in circles and get no results.

Worrying about the end of the world is silly. The whole point of awakening is to not give a fuck about such things. If the world ends, it ends. No point thinking about it.
BTW, human civilization is more peaceful and better than ever. There has never been a better time to be alive. Don't let Shunya bullshit your with his stories.
I asked him when human civilization was better. He said in the ancient times. I told him 40% of the ancient Roman population were slaves. He just handwaved my objection away. That little fact didn't fit his worldview so well.
Human civilization is better than ever and it ain't going anywhere. So buckle in and enjoy the ride.

The difference between one and many is imaginary.
The difference between anything IS called dreaming.

A radical change in your state of consciousness is necessary.
The human mind would basically have to die. You would have to experience a death so deep you surrender survival itself.
You will not accomplish this through any trick or manipulation. You have to actually surrender the entire game of life.

Try 2-4 weeks raw veggies/fruits and compare with 2-4 weeks beef/chicken. That would give you a clean baseline. Then you could experiment with others things like grains or dairy. Find which food groups work worst for you and then avoid them for life.

I get max consciousness and alterness on 100% carnivore.
It's pretty unbelievable.
You have to experiment with elimination dieting to find what works best for your body.
Definately kill the bread and heavy refined carbs. That is the single biggest performance killer.

I was never a pickup coach.
I've known many women with abusive relationships.
My ex girlfriend was handcuffed to a door for weeks and fucked at gun point.
So yeah, most you guys don't even understand what an abusive relationship is.

5-MeO-DMT: mindfuck within a mindfuck wrapped in a mindfuck smothered in mindfuck sauce.
It's a mindfuck burrito where every ingredient is just another flavor of mindfuck.

Time: mind perceiving change within eternity through thought. 
Space: body perceiving change within infinity through perception.
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One of the new functions of all Mods, new and old alike, is to keep an eye out of dangerous/reckless activity on this forum.
What this means is, lock down threads and discussions which involve overly risking/reckless use of psychedelics or other methods which could lead to obvious harm or death. And post messages which inform the general public that such activities are dangerous and not what this forum or Actualized.org is about.
Our values here are about healthy and responsible use of psychedelics and other spiritual methods. Nothing that harms the body or leads people into clear danger (like taking 1000ug of LSD).
If you see someone who is unraveling in an unhealthy way, guide them to temporarily suspend their spiritual work until their mind and life stabilizes.
We want to cultivate an ethos of safety around here. We do not want to be associated with anything clearly reckless or dangerous.
And if people are talking seriously about Mahasamadhi, lock that down too. Nobody here should be considering Mahasamadhi.
And if you find anyone being suicidal you report that to me.

And how about empathy for women struggling to find stable long-term male providers?
How about we regulate the dating market such that you cannot sleep with a woman unless you show the government your bank account. And if your bank account has less then $100k cash, no sex for you.
The framing of this entire thread is itself sexist and deeply male-biased. It ignores the reproductive difficulties and agenda of women. Because this thread is just another lame attempt at making excuse for not talking to girls.
The excuses you guys invent are truly crafty. Anything to not talk to a girl.
You feel entitled to sex but you don't feel the need to work for it.
Regulating capitalism is a lot easier than regulating dating. Capitalism already has regulations in place, so tightening those regulations is reasonable and doable. And the excesses of capitalism affect all genders, races, peoples, rather than one segment of the population.

Death is imagined by consciousness.
There is no Atman, only God/Brahman.

Relatively is another name for separation or duality.
Its a fictional story in which an individual living in a world of meaning, purpose and value, endlessly strives for fulfillment in the future.
In that relative dream story the individual never finds what's truly longed for because what's truly longed for is the end of feeling separate. 
What's longed for is the end of ME that feels separate, incomplete or lacking. 
The cosmic joke is that "the separation never occurred" -ACIM
It was only a dream story all along.
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He used recreational drugs.
He was as pure as my ass crack.
If I did 10% of the stuff Osho did, you guys would come for me with pitchforks.

Not God-realized. Just more beating around the bush, lost in mind.

Basically do the work to move up the Spiral Dynamics stages. As we all move up the stages stuff like racism, selfishness, hatred, judgment, violence, war, terrorism, corruption, etc will all dramatically reduce. We don't really need aliens to help us with that. I doubt they even can.
Also, we need more material wealth and economic development. Much of the world is simply held back from developing themselves psychologically and spiritually because they lack basic safety and material conditions. You cannot self-actualize in a warzone.
You don't have to re-edit it unless you want to.

It is not subjective at all.
Reality is Absolute Perfection when you look at with a high enough degree of consciousness, free from all of your biases and attachments.
God did not make any mistakes. That's what's so astounding about awakening. It is unbelievably Good.

Because it is necessary. You just lack the consciousness and intelligence to see the necessity of children dying.
Everything that exists is absolutely necessary and could not be otherwise.
Reality is Absolute Perfection. The only problem is that your vision is clouded.

Nothing quite like psychedelics to bring out your shadow.
2 years of therapy in 1 trip.

No. It is not I who says their morality has an objective basis. It is THEY who say that.
I say that all morality is just selfishness.
Practical is just selfishness. Of course there are many people how have practical morality. The point of all morality is to be practical and to serve one's survival. But this doesn't make it true. It is a fiction.
Not the same stuff.
I know that everything is Good. JP doesn't. Nor do you.
No, all morality is personal preference. The difference is, I am honest about it, people like JP are not.
No two people in the world have the exact same morality. Which clearly tells you that morality is relative.
Moral systems around the world and across time vary enormously.
There are many commonalities because humans tends to have similar survival needs. Since morality is pure selfishness, people tend to be selfish in similar ways.
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The core problem here is that you fundamentally don't understand relativity. Contemplate what relativity is.

Dude, your posts seriously lack nuance.
If you keep going down this road of misunderstanding you will be asked to leave the forum. You are misunderstanding a lot of stuff.
Spiral Dynamics is a relative fiction. I share it with you guys as training wheels for making some bit of sense of the social and political landscape -- without which you would be lost like a baby in the middle of the ocean.

In the absolute sense you are free to hate your pain.
The problem for you is that hate and resistance to pain just makes the pain worse.
But you are free to torture yourself until you wise up.
What you don't appreciate is that mankind is the cause of most of its own suffering.
Education cannot come from the heavens, mankind has to bootstrap it from nothing.
Everything has to be bootstrapped. This bootstrapping process is very challenging.
Exactly, God cannot awaken unless God really wants to. So God struggles help itself.
God put itself in this survival game.

@Need Answers It's very simple: you are God dreaming up all of reality. The end.
What you can dream is completely unlimited.
As a newbie this will not help you. You need to do practices or psychedelics to become more conscious.
If you want Truth you should be willing to burn every assumption to the ground. Including the assumption of other people.