Yali

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  1. Enlightenment and pickup
    Enlightenment and pickup
    Deep awakening will make you more authentic, secure, charismatic, masculine, feminine, and playful. It will dissolve much fear too. Which is very effective for pickup.
    But it will not give you technical skills nor experience with women -- which is also very important for results. For example, you will still not know how to escalate, handle logistics, or close.
    If you think pickup is difficult and scary, awakening is way more difficult and scary. If you can't muster the balls to approach a girl, you won't be awakening any time soon.

  2. Trump Supporters Storming The Capitol! - MAGA Coup Mega-Thread
    Trump Supporters Storming The Capitol! - MAGA Coup Mega-Thread
    Again, the police are not white supremacist, but many of them have ethnocentric dispositions and egos.
    Calling the police white supremacist or racists misses the deeper point for a shallow understanding of the issue. Demonizing the police is not a good strategy because the police are what stand in the way between you and serious devils who would beat you to death with an American flag pole.

  3. Trump Supporters Storming The Capitol! - MAGA Coup Mega-Thread
    Trump Supporters Storming The Capitol! - MAGA Coup Mega-Thread
    A) It will surprise you, but most Nazis are not blood-thristy people. They are good, ordinary, hard-working people who just happen to follow the herd and identify with their ethnicity, riled up by a fascist demagogue. They are slowly radicalized in the same way Islamic extremists are radicalized.
    B) Nazism is just an extreme form of stage Blue ethnocentrism.
    C) Every Spiral stage is very broad and can have healthy and toxic manifestations. There are many positive manifestations of stage Blue, and even ethnocentrism, but there are also extremely toxic ones. The problem is not stage Blue per se, it's toxic stage Blue riled up by demagogues, grifters, and devils like the Trump family and FoxNews.
    Don't forget that approx 50% of the global population is at stage Blue ethnocentric level of ego development. Therefore half the global population is susceptible to Nazi-like ideologies if they are allowed to flourish. The key is that those of us who are more developed and more conscious must steer them away from such extremes and show them a path toward healthy manifestations of Blue and beyond. Republican leadership has failed at this job by playing into conspiracy theories and not standing up against Trump's depraved behavior from day one.
    Few MAGA supporters are actually Nazis. So characterizing them as such will just make you look partisan. It's important now, more than ever, to be as precise as possible with our terminology and casting of other people -- to avoid demonization, scapegoating, and misunderstanding the nature of the beast. The more accurately we understand the problem, the better we can deal with it.

  4. Trump Supporters Storming The Capitol! - MAGA Coup Mega-Thread
    Trump Supporters Storming The Capitol! - MAGA Coup Mega-Thread
    If you want to understand just how deranged the MAGA crowd is, head on over to Brietbart, click on any random article, and read the comments section.
    Warning: not for the feint of heart.
    https://www.breitbart.com
    That's what happens when you don't moderate hate speech, racism, and terrorism.

  5. Is gender a social construct?
    Is gender a social construct?
    Cultural beauty norms are.
    But Beauty is also an Absolute.
    When you fully awaken you will realize that absolutely everything is infinitely and equally beautiful. You will discover Absolute Beauty and it will make you feel so stupid for not seeing it sooner.

  6. Making The Podcast Rounds -- Need Your Suggestions
    Making The Podcast Rounds -- Need Your Suggestions
    He is too cocky for my taste. I don't like these debate lord streamers. They are a bit like the bottom of the intellectual barrel. It's very juvenile designed for juveniles.

  7. Making The Podcast Rounds -- Need Your Suggestions
    Making The Podcast Rounds -- Need Your Suggestions
    I would talk to JP or Sam Harris or the Weinstein's -- the problem is I very much doubt they would be open to it. And I don't know how far the conversations could go. We would get hung up very quickly.
    My conversation with Charlie was smooth and we went deep. But that's only because he's got the right kind of mind for this work, which is rare. People like JP, Sam Harris, Weinstein's, etc tend to have a lot of personal agenda clouding their minds. Which makes going deep rather hard. I'd be curious just to see how far it would go. There would be a lot of defense mechanisms triggered very quickly because they have a certain worldview to defend on behalf of their loyal audiences. Then it becomes more like a debate, which isn't good.
    What's needed is hosts who don't have a worldview that they are defending/promoting -- because of course their worldview cannot be ultimately true. Because all worldviews are biased and partial.

  8. Sadhguru's view on Advaita Vedanta
    Sadhguru's view on Advaita Vedanta
    It's just a mockery of Vedanta that could only impress someone dumb enough to hang on Sadhguru's every word -- which most of his followers do.
    Of course those lashes are Maya. That's the point.
    Vedanta is not a belief system. It is a path towards realization of Maya and then liberation from it. If you aren't liberated from it then your embodiment and consciousness is weak and you have not actualized Vedanta. This is not Vedanta's fault.
    Sadhguru's characterization of Vedanta is very uncharitable. It would be like if I characterized Sahdguru's teachings as a cult of bending oneself into pretzels.

  9. Sadhguru's view on Advaita Vedanta
    Sadhguru's view on Advaita Vedanta
    I criticize Zen and Christianity and JP at times. But I don't hold a strawman of Zen or Christianity. I have always acknowledged the core validity of those teachings. Christianity just happens to be exceptionally corrupt.
    Imagine if I said that Zen is all just intellectual ideas that do not lead to truth. That would be akin to what Sadhguru said about Vedanta.
    Criticizing stuff is not the same as strawmanning it. I can also present a steelman case for JP and conservativism.

  10. Spiral Dynamics Stage Turquoise Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Turquoise Examples Mega-Thread
    The divine joke of self-help:
    The entire self-help section is filled with books by others helping themselves by helping you by teaching you how you can help yourself by helping others help themselves to help others help themselves by helping others.
    Maybe that's a clue to how Love works

  11. Not investing into stock market
    Not investing into stock market
    I have also said I am open to investing in stocks.
    What I am against is daytrading and using stocks as a get rich quick scheme.
    For me stocks are a good inflation hedge. Since the gov is printing so much cash I feel somewhat justified placing my cash in stocks. I don't like my savings just being eaten away.

  12. Can solitude be dangerous?
    Can solitude be dangerous?
    Yes, it can be dangerous if you spiral downward into madness by yourself.
    But don't forget, being social can be very dangerous as you spiral downward into collective madness.
    People. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't.
    It is what you make of it. Welcome to life.

  13. Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    That works up to a point, but CBT can only take you so far. Precisely because it's cognitive. And cognition is the whole problem.
    A) Sadhguru is highly educated. Which should be obvious from his manner of speech. He has a degree in English Literature.
    B) He's 59 years old.

  14. Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    @sgn Tis hard to solve overthinking with more thinking
    Rationalists who try to grasp the nature of reality with their intellect alone, often end up going full-insane. Of course. Because the whole project is fatally flawed from the get-go.
    The intellect is such a tiny thing.

  15. Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    Iq And It's Relevance To Self-actualization
    IQ is the biggest load of bullshit. Such a red herring. Never take those tests. All they do is compare you to some arbitrary standards some rationalist chimps concocted in their infinite ignorance.
    Unless you're clinically retarded, you're good.
    The highest IQ people are some of the biggest fools around. Just because you can solve a math puzzle quickly, doesn't say anything about your wisdom or level of consciousness.
    Self-actualization means you have to stop thinking of yourself as a statistic. Statics are for policy-makers and people who care about measuring the mob. As a self-actualizer, you are going to grow so high above the statistical mob that you will not even fit on the scale. You will be qualitatively beyond all that.
    Your true nature is Absolutely Infinite, and you're trying to measure yourself with an IQ test? Lol. You might as well be measuring your dick to see if it's big enough to self-actualize.

  16. Spiral Dynamics Stage Turquoise Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Turquoise Examples Mega-Thread
    The difference between TYT/Vaush/Kyle Kulinski and Ken Wilber.
    It's a huge difference.

  17. Spiral Dynamics Stage Orange Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Orange Examples Mega-Thread
    I like being a higher achiever. And I often worked more than 40 hrs per week. But it has to be carefully balanced out against the higher things in life. It shouldn't become a lifestyle nor its own end. You can do it for short bursts when something important needs to be completed.

  18. Are Plants Conscious?
    Are Plants Conscious?
    Ego is more than a thought, since thoughts come and go all the time, but your sense of self is pretty constant and much more stable than any one thought or belief.
    Ego is actually a state of consciousness. Consciousness imagines itself to be a "someone". A human. A living creature. A thing that is conscious . A thing that has experiences. We might call this the egoic or materialistic state of consciousness. Changing that state of consciousness is necessary for the illusion of ego to dissolve.
    It is as if you were a child playing a game of cowboys and Indians, and you are imagining yourself as a cowboy. Is the cowboy real? It's a role that's being played, a mask being worn. You feel like a cowboy because you keep imagining that you are one. Until you stop imagining it. Ego is not a thing, it's an imaginary role you've adopted.
    For example, you might imagine yourself to be a woman. But right now you're imagining yourself to be a man. Except you tell yourself that you actually ARE a man, whereas being a woman would be imaginary to you. But both are imaginary. What is a man? A man is not a physical object. A man is a role you've adopted.

  19. What Salary Do You Need To Do Pickup In Vegas?
    What Salary Do You Need To Do Pickup In Vegas?
    Not much.
    Vegas has cheap rents and you can get into all clubs for free on Sun-Thurs. Now they charge $10 for parking, used to be free. Buying drinks is not needed at all.
    Your only expenses are rent and parking.
    Living on the Strip is pricey and not needed. A small Strip condo would cost $2k/month. Off the Strip you can find decent apartments for $1000/mo
    If you want to go clubbing on Fri and Saturday -- the hottest days -- that will cost you $40/night.

  20. Why Do Women Cheat? (The Psychology Behind Cheating)
    Why Do Women Cheat? (The Psychology Behind Cheating)
    Women are capable of it. But they have little interest in it.
    The situation is so bad that I have simply given up on trying to explain attraction to women. It's a pointless effort. I know precisely what attracts them and I simply will embody it. No explanations or discussions.
    Women are generally not truthful about what they are attracted to because what they tell themselves is one thing, and what they actually respond to is another.
    Women create romanticized versions of attraction which suit their fantasies.
    To understand what women are actually attracted to requires attracting lots of women. Attraction is ridiculously counter-intuitive and brutal.

  21. Why Do Women Cheat? (The Psychology Behind Cheating)
    Why Do Women Cheat? (The Psychology Behind Cheating)
    I have no interest in debating female attraction with females.
    Female attraction is something a man should learn through direct experience and then keep his mouth shut.

  22. Does being high conscious and egoless mean you become a doormat?
    Does being high conscious and egoless mean you become a doormat?
    If you were Black, they would’ve called the police on you.

  23. Why Do Women Cheat? (The Psychology Behind Cheating)
    Why Do Women Cheat? (The Psychology Behind Cheating)
    I never said he was awesome per se.
    Girls get attracted to narcissistic and sociopathic men who know how to push their emotional buttons and have balls.
    As a human being, John is bottom of the barrel. But from the perspective of attracting girls, this is a positive.
    I'm not telling you to be like John. I'm telling you to be a good person but adopt some the excitement and charm of a scumbag narcissist.
    Bottom line: stop being boring. Girls hate boring. Girls would rather sleep with a murder than a boring dude.

  24. Day game: minimizing flakes
    Day game: minimizing flakes
    It's harder, but practice more improv.
    Asking women questions upon open is terrible. You quickly lose her with your interrogation. Instead, either make funny assumptions about her or talk about yourself. My fave way to open is just telling her about my day or where I traveled recently. Travel stories are the best.
    Stop the questions. Make statements. Learn to carry the entire conversation. You should be able to talk for 5 minutes without needing any input from her.

  25. Why Can You Transcend Ego?
    Why Can You Transcend Ego?
    Does a rock have an ego?
    Why should a human?
    When you realize there is no difference between you and rock, you got it.
    The idea that a human should have a self is the dumbest unquestioned idea of all time. It's just so dumb when you think about it. Why would anything have a self?
    Obviously nothing has a self.