Yali

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  1. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread
    I mean a basic reasonable degree of success. Like a low level millionaire.

  2. I struggle so much with the pursuit of sexual pleasure and validation.
    I struggle so much with the pursuit of sexual pleasure and validation.
    Key insight: no-fap is stupid and wrong.
    Women will never give you enough sex to satisfy you.
    No-fap is conformity. Duh.
    Jerk off and be happy. Simple.

  3. Is Conscious Selling Possible?
    Is Conscious Selling Possible?
    It will depend on the specific job and what you are expected to sell.
    Many sales jobs are chill and others are not. High pressure sales would be a problem.
    Is a Tesla dealership doing high pressure sales? No.
    When I bought my house, the sales lady was very sweet, helpful, and I never felt pressured to buy it. She was not pushing houses on people, she was just there to answer questions and handle the details.
    Desperate sorts of sales are the problem, where you got a quota to meet or you are fired.

  4. The Truth Behind Elon Musk’s Drug Use
    The Truth Behind Elon Musk’s Drug Use
    You don't see why a guy who does business with the government and intelligence agencies and world leaders would lie about habitual use of legally questionable "drugs"?
    NASA almost cancelled their contract with Musk after he smoked weed on Joe Rogan.
    You think if Musk was addicted to it he would tell you about it? Do you think he even has enough self-awareness to admit to himself if he is addicted?

  5. High Achievers = Big Ego?
    High Achievers = Big Ego?
    There are different kinds of egos. Not all of them are the ambitious career workaholic kind.
    It's not only size but kind.
    And there are other conflicting variables like mental illness or impulse control. You can have a huge ambitous ego but poor mental health so you will never actualize big success.

  6. Does the need for realising the truth have to be natural, or you have to force it?
    Does the need for realising the truth have to be natural, or you have to force it?
    @KGrimes What you describe is very typical. It's probably the norm.
    Very few people have single-minded spiritual focus. Which is why spiritual masters are so rare.
    You can compare spiritual pursuit to other pursuits like world class athletic mastery. Very few people have the diacipline, focus, and motivation to do the training to become an Olympic level athlete. That requires very serious drive and self-motivation. Most people just dabble around because they have no gramd vision and low ambition.
    The answer to your question is both: it has to be natural AND also you have to force it because the most natural thing is to slack off and lose your focus.

  7. Does the need for realising the truth have to be natural, or you have to force it?
    Does the need for realising the truth have to be natural, or you have to force it?
    It's hard to say because motivation is such a personal, subjective thing.
    I don't know what you need in order to become interested in truth. I have been interesting in it naturally since I was a teen. It barely even makes sense to me how anyone could be interested in anything more than truth.
    Most people characteralogically don't care about truth or reality. And I don't know what it takes for them to change that.

  8. Life Purpose ME Sheet
    Life Purpose ME Sheet
    Ambition is probably the least recognized yet most important personality trait.

  9. You GET what you ARE
    You GET what you ARE
    Nice!
    If only Incels understood this.
    Another key insight to add to this is: You create all the drama in your life. The drama keeps you excited.

  10. High Achievers = Big Ego?
    High Achievers = Big Ego?
    No.
    Voting is mostly just conformity, ignorance, and bias.

  11. Everyone tells me this song sucks but I like it
    Everyone tells me this song sucks but I like it
    Music you listen to is a reflection your inner state/consciousness, music vibrates at different levels. The music you like the most is where you vibrate energetically because you're connecting to the persons mind/energy that created the song. People don't like or hate different songs is because the vibration is too far apart.

  12. Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    Leo, how much do looks influence a man's attractiveness
    It matters quite a lot.
    But you don't need great looks to have success with women. You can overcome lack of looks with volume of approachs, good game, charisma, humor, and other value. But if your looks are below average you are boxing with one hand tied behind your back. But you can still win because you are boxing with a girl.

  13. Teal Swan - A Deep Dive Into Her Work
    Teal Swan - A Deep Dive Into Her Work
    Like her episodes about what men need to understand about women, masculine containment, what it's like to be a woman.
    This is good stuff for men to learn.
    You guys are being too cynical and closedminded.
    She has good insights about emotions, trauma, relationships, shadow work. That is stuff my work doesn't cover so much.
    Teal is popular because she is genuinely helpful to many people.

  14. Jeffrey Epstein Suicide
    Jeffrey Epstein Suicide
    This is a good case to admit the truth: You don't know.
    Notice how the mind spins theories and stories to convince itself. But the fact is extremely clear: you just don't know.
    Notice this. This is a very important point.

  15. Consciously Resting and Relaxing
    Consciously Resting and Relaxing
    It means keen awareness of your present experience.
    Try eating mindfully next time you eat. Eat very slowly and feel each bite.
    That is mindfulness.

  16. Conformity Examples Mega-Thread
    Conformity Examples Mega-Thread
    @AtmanIsBrahman It is not conformity if you are doing it for authentic personal reasons.
    Extroversion is not conformity. It is a genetic personality style.
    You guys have taken the concept of conformity and turned into confused junk.

  17. Respectfully disagreeing with Leo about Crypto
    Respectfully disagreeing with Leo about Crypto
    The key is not to fool yourself into thinking that you know what these coins will do in the future. Much of crypto investment is based on self-deception. The deception that you know what is gonna happen in the future. The truth is that you do not know, no one knows, and you are just guessing. You could guess right but most likely you will guess wrong.
    I see many crypto people decieve themselves that they are doing something more than guessing. That is what makes this so dangerous and unsound as an investment. With crypto you are engaging in wild speculation but you rationalize it to yourself as something more than that.

  18. Let's talk about alcohol
    Let's talk about alcohol
    Eventually you will get sick of all the self-inflicted suffering and just go sober.
    The only question is, How much suffering will it take you to bite the sober bullet?
    Drinking is not needed to socialize.

  19. I'm falling into black pill ideology (need help to reverse it)
    I'm falling into black pill ideology (need help to reverse it)
    Insane ambition and seriousness.
    The idea of quitting never even entered my mind.
    That's how a serious person approaches life.
    I have done 1000+ approaches without getting laid.
    400 approaches is nothing. You can do 400 approaches in 2 months.

  20. I'm falling into black pill ideology (need help to reverse it)
    I'm falling into black pill ideology (need help to reverse it)
    Both things are true: genetics matter, but also you have a lot of development work to do to actualize and max out your genetics.
    You are underestimating just how much can be accomplished through the right kind of labor.
    The reality is that most people are far too lazy to do the work necessary to become massively successful. It's not that you can't, but that you don't have enough ambition and seriousness to even make a serious attempt.
    If you knew how hard I worked to get better with girls you would cry and quit out of disgust. The people who succeed in big ways are just willing to endure that kind of labor and failure, whereas most people are not.
    Today's generation is weak and spoiled. They seriously underestimate the labor it takes to achieve anything meaningful. You expect and even demand meaningful things for free. For example, you expect beautiful women for free. You have no understanding of the worth of things and the seriousness of life.

  21. Deconstructing Rationality - Part 1 - New Video
    Deconstructing Rationality - Part 1 - New Video
    That's because there's no such thing.
    "A woman" is just a simplifying assumption humans make as they go about survival. When questioned it breaks down.
    It's like asking, What is matter?

  22. Appreciation Post for Leo
    Appreciation Post for Leo
    Do you know how little I do game?
    You guys have some weird view of me, like I'm out hunting for girls every night.
    I don't chase girls or sex at all.
    The reason I talk about game is to help desperate guys out there to move up the hierarchy of needs so they don't end up deluded Incels.

  23. If you think you’re enlightened, go and live with your parents for a week.
    If you think you’re enlightened, go and live with your parents for a week.
    It is a absurd fantasy that'll you'll get along with anyone and everyone just because you are awake. If anything you'll get less along with your family the more awake you are.

  24. Insecure about my d size
    Insecure about my d size
    Bro, 90% of sex is mental and emotional, not physical. 
    Ideally, the woman has to be soaking, almost orgasming when you penetrate her. 
    Tease, tease, tease, be playful but dominant, make her forget everything else, make her 100% in your frame.
    When you do it right, she will cum in minutes after you start penetration. Do it slow, rhythmically, put her in a trance.
    I ended up developing my own "style" of sex, tantric but dominant. 
    Forget all you saw in porn; that shit is low-quality sex, like fast food is to food or Marvel movies are to movies. 

  25. Insecure about my d size
    Insecure about my d size
    I don't think I've ever seen an Asian girl in my entire life. Not even at university.