Bob Seeker

Thoughts on porn while in a relationship?

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My thinking is it shouldn't be a big deal if u watch some porn while in a relationship, and just be open about it with your partner.

Idk, anyone else have thoughts?

It would seem weird for a girl to not want you to watch porn, like she must not understand male psychology/sex drive or something.

do you agree?


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Yeah and tell her you are doing it so its not a secret...they dont want it because they feel like its a competition between pornstar and her...


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It's unattractive and a turn off for most women. Think about unattractive things women do that you wouldn't want your sweet gf to do. It's the same feeling.


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I'd like it if my future or potential bf (currently I'm single) made me do some of the stuff in the porn like role playing or if he shot his own little cute porn movie with me where I'm his muse and introduced me to new exciting sexual moves.

 

 

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2 hours ago, Bob Seeker said:

It would seem weird for a girl to not want you to watch porn, like she must not understand male psychology/sex drive or something.

You are in for a rude awakening :D

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1 hour ago, Bob Seeker said:

Okay then, lay it on me. Can't leave me hanging like that.

Most women don't understand men psychology and vice versa.

And even if they understand, that doesn't mean they act on that understanding.

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@Bob Seeker I used to do this but they will most likely never really be okay with it, even if they say otherwise.

 

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3 minutes ago, universe said:

Most women don't understand men psychology and vice versa.

Which is why we need to get out of our heads with women xD

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3 minutes ago, vladorion said:

A man who respects himself doesn't watch porn.

Amen

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On 11.1.2023 at 4:49 PM, Bob Seeker said:

Idk, anyone else have thoughts?

Copy the action into your sex life :)


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On 11/01/2023 at 2:49 PM, Bob Seeker said:

My thinking is it shouldn't be a big deal if u watch some porn while in a relationship, and just be open about it with your partner.

Idk, anyone else have thoughts?

It would seem weird for a girl to not want you to watch porn, like she must not understand male psychology/sex drive or something.

do you agree?

Only problem is when there is judgement about watching porn or not. Do what you want to do. No one is judging :) 

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Just curious.. How would you feel about your girl watching porn? (question not only for the topic starter, but for all guys)

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11 hours ago, Mz Hyde said:

Just curious.. How would you feel about your girl watching porn? (question not only for the topic starter, but for all guys)

I'll add to the question for all guys, porn with the spot light mainly on very submissive, tall, hot, muscular and well equipped men, she also has favorite porn actors and she's watching it in the first opportunity when you are not around even if you regularly have sex. Maybe she has a collection and she obsessively storage their videos and photos in her phone and computer, maybe exchange them with her girlfriends and discuss them, maybe she's even paying for videos or has a membership in some porn sites. In her mind she's comparing you to them and expect you to act like them in order to feel the same dopamine rush that she gets with porn. Inevitably due to constant exposure to porn it affects the way she sees you and your value in her eyes. When you complain about it she says that that's how women are and that she can't do anything about it. How that would make you feel regarding her? About yourself? About your relationship? 

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29 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

I'll add to the question for all guys, porn with the spot light mainly on very submissive, tall, hot, muscular and well equipped men, she also has favorite porn actors and she's watching it in the first opportunity when you are not around even if you regularly have sex. Maybe she has a collection and she obsessively storage their videos and photos in her phone and computer, maybe exchange them with her girlfriends and discuss them, maybe she's even paying for videos or has a membership in some porn sites. In her mind she's comparing you to them and expect you to act like them in order to feel the same dopamine rush that she gets with porn. Inevitably due to constant exposure to porn it affects the way she sees you and your value in her eyes. When you complain about it she says that that's how women are and that she can't do anything about it. How that would make you feel regarding her? About yourself? About your relationship? 

Wouldn't care about that lmao

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5 minutes ago, Michael Jackson said:

Wouldn't care about that lmao

Do you think it would positively contribute to your relationship? Assuming you want a healthy, deep, spiritual and intimate relationship. 


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1 hour ago, Lila9 said:

I'll add to the question for all guys, porn with the spot light mainly on very submissive, tall, hot, muscular and well equipped men, she also has favorite porn actors and she's watching it in the first opportunity when you are not around even if you regularly have sex. Maybe she has a collection and she obsessively storage their videos and photos in her phone and computer, maybe exchange them with her girlfriends and discuss them, maybe she's even paying for videos or has a membership in some porn sites. In her mind she's comparing you to them and expect you to act like them in order to feel the same dopamine rush that she gets with porn. Inevitably due to constant exposure to porn it affects the way she sees you and your value in her eyes. When you complain about it she says that that's how women are and that she can't do anything about it. How that would make you feel regarding her? About yourself? About your relationship? 

Reminds me of a discussion I had with my brother a little while ago. I was basically arrogantly telling him that real women are nowhere near female pornstars. Then he told me that I'm nowhere near male performers either. Totally shattered my ego with that reality check lol.


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