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Thoughts on men who have their girlfriends support them?

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5 hours ago, electroBeam said:

Then the next step is rating which one of those are the most effective for getting laid... because its not wise to invest your times in the ones that has high input, little output. 

That's far too narrow a view. To become an attractive man you shouldn't put "getting laid" as your highest priority.

Build an attractive lifestyle which YOU are in love with. This will attract women.

5 hours ago, MsNobody said:

@Leo Gura Leo I think you hate women. You barely answer my questions but when men ask something you create them a bible. Could you create the same list for women, please?

That's because I hesitate to give advice to women because, 1) I am biased in this area, 2) I don't have experience dating as a woman.

Why are you asking a dude for lady dating advice? Ask an experienced lady.

You can easily re-tune that list for women if you sit down and contemplate it a bit. This isn't rocket science.


You are God. You are Love. You are Infinity. You are Leo.

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15 hours ago, MsNobody said:

@Keyhole yes because beta men are not good in bed, Leo please halp haha 

@Leo Gura

it’s difficult when the nice guys are super sweet but do I want to fuck a nice guy? No I don’t want to fuck a nice guy ? 

If the guy is not a player he won’t be experienced and won’t be good in bed, what do you recommend us to do? 

@MsNobody I use to be a massive player when I was younger and was even a dating coach for men for a bit. When I 'woke up' so to speak my whole approach to dating started to completely change and I started to treat women very well whilst at the same time giving them exactly what they wanted. I  generally think there are conscious men out there who are also not beta and have game but use it for good, tho they might be quite rare tho I know a few guys like this. From the sounds of it I would say you should start to hold off and screen men hard to see if they are this type of guy. And if they are not maybe don't bother. Start to learn how to gain control over your urges, just because a man is say attractive dose not mean much, they need to give you more if you ask this for yourself.  wait for someone who is growing consciously, solid in himself, is free of toxic masculinity and who will help you grown as well as giving u great sex. (also someone who won't treat u like shit). Say I dunno someone like Russel brand, he's gone through that hedonistic phase and knows how to please a women but has started to really mature. 

Thats the way I approach it now when meeting women, I just screen super hard and I am super picky. But I can be as there is a Hugh abundance of girls out there as well as men for a hot chick who has her shit together. 

Also think about what sort of girl a man like this would want. 

I have always wondered whats the best way for women to approach dating in a conscious way., there is matt Hussey but Im not sold on him. 

Thats just my two cents but Id imgaine like Leo said there must be much better advice out there with an experienced women in this area. 

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2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

That's far too narrow a view. To become an attractive man you shouldn't put "getting laid" as your highest priority.

Build an attractive lifestyle which YOU are in love with. This will attract women.

Yeah I think I was saying it in the context of myself. The lifestyle in which I'm in love with, is the sort of lifestyle which repels girls. I'm in love with the same lifestyle that Niels Bhor, Leonardo Da Vinci and Einstein are in love with. And so that's why I treat these points as a very specific skillset for getting laid, rather than something that generalises to other areas of your life.

But sure for the average guy, the sort of lifestyle they like would be the sort of lifestyle she likes. 

 

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15 hours ago, modmyth said:

Spoken like someone who has low standards personality-wise. :P

You assumed attraction is only based on physical appearance. 

I have seen some beautiful models became instantly unattractive the moment they open their mouths. :P

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