Posted July 16, 2019 (edited) I want friends but whenever someone reaches out, i self sabatoge and it doesn't get much anywhere Edited July 16, 2019 by d0ornokey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 12 hours ago, bejapuskas said: Plus if you would talk about for example spiritual crisis with a regular therapist, they could hospitalize you It is better to hospitalized than to live in a constant backlash of a rude awakening (aka The Dark Night Of The Soul) one day this will all be memories Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 @Sage_Elias I don't think that you are the only one feeling this, my friend, who is 27, told me, that girls my age (16) are having much more adult looking bodies these days. I also know some girls who had a crush on a guy who was like 5 years older than them and they even dated, it was ok. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 @Michael569 For me it works better when I keep the games installed and accept them, rather uninstall and demonize. There is something magical about loving your addiction... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 Do you guys think anybody's gonna die if they actually show up? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 (edited) 5 hours ago, bejapuskas said: Do you guys think anybody's gonna die if they actually show up? They are going to die when we show up. *At Aliens planets that is. Edited July 17, 2019 by SFRL Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 @Theta I guess everyone did that? Or not? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 22 hours ago, dinone said: I had mental breakdown after 10 months on vegan diet. High five! Had that happen to me too. Ate about every junk food with meat imagineable in a week's time. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 @Michael569 @Shin All you gotta do is recontexualize life as a video game and there you go The how is what you build, the why is in your heart. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 (edited) 21 minutes ago, OctagonOctopus said: @Michael569 @Shin All you gotta do is recontexualize life as a video game and there you go Well... If you hate your character in the video game your still not going to have a very nice time now are you? Edited July 17, 2019 by Maarten reads better this way Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 17, 2019 On 16. 7. 2019 at 7:01 PM, Charlotte said: I think I'm so polite because I still people please @Charlotte I have the opposite thing, sometimes I want to get to know someone so quickly, that I am not polite enough. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2019 @bejapuskas that's interesting. Could it be like a self sabotage behaviour? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2019 I fancy attractive women with an outie bellybutton. It's a fetish. I've been scared to tell that to anyone. Also, i find some unattractive normal girls highly erotic. I think the point of radical honesty in my case to accept things I fancy which are shameful. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2019 It's interesting what we deem as 'secret worthy', as in where does the shame around that come from? My kind of secrets are, I have had hocd, where you worry about your sexual orientation for no good reason, for many years, that and other themes of ocd. I always wonder if people like me or not. Probably other things but it would be around how I feel day to day, I think everyone has to put on this mask of everything's great so there's always the secret of how so eone really feels If you liked whatever i said in this post, check out my youtube channel for actual me talking Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2019 @Charlotte It is kind of toxic, because it is based around neediness I think. It developed when I was learning Japanese and all these people that I wanted to talk to either thought I am trying to rob them (tourists) or they were so polite that I didn't really get to know them that much, it was basically all small talk and bowing. I found it very limiting For example this thread is probably my most favourite, because we don't have to be ashamed of anything, no need for barriers. @Consept Do you still have that OCD? I think that most people are affraid to tell you about their true feelings, but if you get good with body language and observing what they say and then you connect the dots, you can kind of guess. You might be able to tell what their values and interests are just by talking about something, or seeing what they order in a restaurant etc... It's really interesting Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2019 I think I'm smarter and superior to other people I always want to be right My relationships are terrible I'm uncomfortable with women I'm still a virgin Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2019 (edited) 2 hours ago, Raphael said: I think I'm smarter and superior to other people I always want to be right My relationships are terrible I'm uncomfortable with women I'm still a virgin It's a good thing that you recognise these things. This self-awareness shows you already have the capability to correct them. Edited July 18, 2019 by Apparation of Jack Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2019 5 hours ago, bejapuskas said: @Charlotte It is kind of toxic, because it is based around neediness I think. It developed when I was learning Japanese and all these people that I wanted to talk to either thought I am trying to rob them (tourists) or they were so polite that I didn't really get to know them that much, it was basically all small talk and bowing. I found it very limiting For example this thread is probably my most favourite, because we don't have to be ashamed of anything, no need for barriers. @Consept Do you still have that OCD? I think that most people are affraid to tell you about their true feelings, but if you get good with body language and observing what they say and then you connect the dots, you can kind of guess. You might be able to tell what their values and interests are just by talking about something, or seeing what they order in a restaurant etc... It's really interesting Yeah i still have that theme of ocd but i understand it 100x better than before, obviously before i didnt even know what it was, so that led to all the habits and reassurance which im still dealing with today. It can also play out in perfectionism, as in i should have the 'perfect' thoughts, but again with understanding it takes a lot of the sting out but its still very frustrating. I think it plays into worrying about what people think as i used to have social anxiety but thats gone for the most part. Yeah i love atching body language and stuff, always very interesting, its like a whole conversation going on as well as the verbal, its easy to fake verbals but not body language. If you liked whatever i said in this post, check out my youtube channel for actual me talking Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
