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    A person should set his goals as early as he can and devote his energy and talent to getting there. With enough effort, he may achieve it. Or he may find something that is even more rewarding. But in the end, no matter what the outcome, he will know he has been alive. - Walt Disney (from creating your best life - Caroline Adams Miller)
  2. One option is meaningful activities that replace that. When you have meaningful goals to attend to, it gives you motivation to cut out that stuff and you naturally gravitate to other more meaningful things
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    Indecisiveness is part of the downward spiral because it enhances your feeling of being out of control - Alex Korb Author "Figure out what's important to you. To help reduce irrelevant details in your life, focus on what's really important to you. Studies have found that focusing on your values reduces the brain's response to stress. So think about the times in your life when you were happiest. What were you doing then, and what factors contributed to your happiness? What activites make you feel most fulfilled? What achievements are you most proud of? what good qualities would you want coworkers or friends to use in describing in you?"
  4. Anyone know of any heathy food blogs, articles, youtube channels? I basically am looking to make some really easy healthy food as I am changing my diet around. I don't have a nutrition ideology really except for it to be non-processed
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    Solutions: 1% change daily Brainstorm 10 things, and commit to a decision Read 3 books on intuition (yikes!) and Follow your intuition Find a life coach to help you Brainstorm, what thing if accomplished would transform my life? Brainstorm, what thing if accomplished would transform my life for 2020? Follow your intuition and find self-actualization models Follow your intuition and find happiness models Follow your intuition and find emotional mastery models Follow your intuition and find relationship models There exists a book for every issue in your life - Leo Answer the question: What would fulfill you most? What makes you happy? What small habit would have significant impact on your life? Harness the power of requisite variety (I think that's what I'm doing right now) Start a friendship project - a new friend everyday Steve Pavlina challenge: Set a meaningful goal and do it for 365 days for the reference experience to show you your capabilities Set an intention to love yourself and find peace within, in your relationships, in your life and in your career Use healthygamergg and find a friend to help you solve your issues Talk to your uncle to get you a job right now (Easiest/Least fun) Become a digital marketer then get a job (Medium/Moderate fun) Start a physical products business (Medium/Medium fun) Start the business with Aj (Hard/Life transforming/Scary) Tools: Set goal -> Be decisive -> Actualize it Visualize what you want Tool: Conscious awareness of anxiety will heal the anxiety as you become conscious of it and let it go Tool: Grounding Exercise: Brings you to the present moment so you can make better decisions + have more clarity + peace of mind
  6. May I suggest an alternative- I find making those types of friends in real life much more rewarding and fulfilling. masterminds, book clubs, groups on meetup.com could be a place to start (outside of this forum) but if you're more of a forum guy, I found eckhart tolle facebook groups great with tons of nice conversation. but you will find eckhart tolle bias. as you will probably find leo bias in here
  7. the e-myth revisted was an important book for me. i learned from a ton of people but most notably from friends who were successful entrepreneurs
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    To practice self-assertiveness is to live authentically, speak and act from my innermost convictions and feelings - as a way of life, as a rule (when appropriate) I want 2020 to be about friendship, self esteem, and career . I have this urge to do it all at once. I don't know how else I can do it
  9. O fuck this is lit I been waiting for someone to do something like this
  10. kreygasm
  11. @ilja lmaooo
  12. @Logan my guess is the next week
  13. The book letting go by david r hawkins is one way . it gets in touch with the root and lets go of the traumatic feelings . theory: meditation:
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    The quality of your life depends on .... verified: if you feel you're doing the right thing and the amount of energy you have limited by the quality of your influences... you adopt the knowledge, behaviors, mindsets, emotions of the people you listen to/are around. you will adopt the strengths and weaknesses of the knowledge and systems you listen to the amount of presence you feel .. when I feel present I am happy because I feel in bliss and unbothered. A state of calmness. Peace the amount of sleep you have -> no sleep makes me feel much slower and less happy. But the plus side is that it often reveals trauma and is an opportunity to practice presence skills the amount you eat -> eat too much at once and you feel sleepy the amount of present moment resistance -> resisting the present moment comes with tons of struggle. a lack of acceptance of what is comes with tons of struggle. be it with my parents, my life situation, a relationship Coffee. 9/10 energy. Tons of energy = tons of mindfulness, positive thinking, productivity Exercise. 4/10 - 8/10 energy. I think exercise can only give energy if done consistently. I've heard a scientist saying that it works like an anti-depressant but I don't know if it's the case for me. I'm interested to know more and possibly test more Quality Relationships: Great friends = Lots of happiness. Just like coffee lol. Better than coffee in fact. --- unverified: depends on the quality of your questions .. makes sense because good questions give me amazing answers. and with amazing answers can give me secrets to a good life people say it depends on the quality of your decisions .. makes sense because I see that some decisions in my life have led me to where I am today. people say it's the quality of your thoughts.. makes sense because negative thinking left out of control can lead to a shitty life what does the quality of your life depend on? [Article work in work in progress] Tools on helping you manifest a powerful life: Manifesting a great life takes time and consistent effort. How does it come to be? A focused strong desire followed by appropriate effort to live this life is what will actualize this vision Goals I currently find fulfilling: Making 1 million $ Becoming a top player in overwatch Giving and receiving love in a meaningful relationship Healing my relationship with my parents and forgiving them + being a better (distanced) leader Being a powerful support system and leader for my sister A group of friends How to manifest this? Visualize PLUS Contemplate PLUS And manifest this on the daily in an enjoyable manner as much as possible (intuition says 30-40 minutes, 8 times a week) Some thoughts lately: Beginners mind can sometimes be more powerful than an experts mind, as they are open, learning and curious. They are starting from the ground up. Can an expert replicate this place of not knowing? Yes, but they have to let go of all ideology and habits and have a willingness to learn the newness