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NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

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And you stop putting women on a pedestal, or thinking you need them on a subconscious level.

Like right now, she needs to put massive intellectual/spiritual value for me to even entertain the idea of a relationship, it's not enough to have a pretty face and nice boobs/ass, even if she's a 10.


Spirituality is not the renunciation of life

It is the art of living fully

 

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ho yes, that I got it. That's the big shift, but I m not sure it comes from "no fap enterely" more of my awakening experience on a wholeness lvl.

I was still virgin until 25. Now my first one, was a canon working in shop, too bad she was dogmatic and alienated with feminist bs.

the second is a scientific girl, more of a nerdy one, not a 10, but I suppose I don't even care lol, she is beautiful, smart, very open minded, anti dogmatic, young and that's enough for me, I prefer a "yellow" one than a "green" one.. She is just hard on being turquoise, but hanging with me could cost her .. life. She is open to psychedelic so..

I like adventure, I hacked enough reality for appreciate the subtle lvl. I m still a noob, but she told me I was the best on stamina ( elle m'a dis endurance haha ) ( c'était la 3eme fois que je passais une nuit avec une fille de ma vie ) ( and she told me I m the first one giving her an orgasm ) ( she is 19 ) she harass me now on the phone.

but the other one ( my first a "9/10" or "10" I don't like using point that's very relative ), thank me for giving her an orgasm aswell ( like meant it, I was mild surprise, I don't know if that's hard, was the first time for me, and was already on no fap journey since 6 months ( but fall like 10 times ) )

yeh I rant a bit on my life, thanks for your insight, I got you. craving is more of a mind illness than only sex, but sex/porn/pmo is probably the big fuel for "needyness" 

 

je suis du genre à les bouffer comme des glaces ( et je parle de leur cou surtout )

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11 hours ago, bejapuskas said:

@Aeris Why do you judge them like this? Aren't you still a slave?

I m an alien playing an human. Take a sit we all fake having a blowjob

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Not even proud of the 90 days, was been too easy.

Well it is too easy now, of course it is easy,

When you aren't addicted to pmo anymore.

 

Biggest obstacle is to think it is hard !

That will make it hard !


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4 hours ago, Shin said:

Not even proud of the 90 days, was been too easy.

Well it is too easy now, of course it is easy,

When you aren't addicted to pmo anymore.

 

Biggest obstacle is to think it is hard !

That will make it hard !

I even masturbate by will now, because I fear having too much will for not masturbating

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Not true. Cause I don't use porn and think of the girl I m with. Then take a very deep breath and feel the hand pushing on the skin.

Each stroke making me a bit more conscious.

I don't use porn 

mainly because I don't want my mind to be aroused by a non actual thing.

And I m not talking everyday. Dépend. I m not a daily fapper. Life goal call

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And are you conscious of all t he energy you lose when you cum ?

If you were really that conscious, just this will make you stop.


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I only do it when I m overpowered, so yes.

but when I do it while on love it's different. It's the same, but not from a place of craving.

when you have been aroused all the day by your girl and cannot see her before many days ?
 

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Doesn't make any sense.

You feel great so you want to feel less than great ?

That's being deceived by the mind big time.


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I did & my girl had rules .. I have known except respect & love.

it was more hard than edging and no fap, such a god challenge.

go try to knock at the door and not enter ! that's REAL CHALLENGE FOR THE MIND. BLUE BALLZ ? BODY BLUE

I mean no man on earth could own the will I had, not fucking her with my hooky looky so close from her lumpiu lumpa

2 days she will tear up the sofa.

I made her mind squirt by mental arousing

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Yoo what’s the deal with wank but no cum mate?? You said in OP it’s a bad idea but deida and a video posted here a few weeks ago suggest daily practice circulating the energy is healthy and necessary. Plus how is the energy wasted if it’s not shot out? I’ve been trying a little over a month and longest streak is 11 days?best to leave my dick alone yea? 

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4 hours ago, KyleR said:

Yoo what’s the deal with wank but no cum mate?? You said in OP it’s a bad idea but deida and a video posted here a few weeks ago suggest daily practice circulating the energy is healthy and necessary. Plus how is the energy wasted if it’s not shot out? I’ve been trying a little over a month and longest streak is 11 days?best to leave my dick alone yea? 

 

It took me 2 years to recover, so don't expect to be addiction free in one month ?

Even though I guess it's possible, just very unlikely.


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