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NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

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Day 15 🙏 Feeling amazing. Also, when with a woman but not having sex, I can confirm the pain/blue balls thingy. Almost made me masturbate, but stayed strong and the next day it was gone. Happened to me several times already. I feel like it's boosting the energy level another notch so it has an upside.

Guys, I do have kind of my own opinions on this, but I would love to hear what you think. Of course I see the benefits of being completely unattached to lust, but is it really necessary to abstain from sex altogether? I don't (want to) think that removing yourself from your natural drives is the healthiest way to be unattached from them. Tao, Tantra and other spiritual traditions make sex even a way of spiritual growth and this seems much more mature and natural to me. 

I bet there are like two sides who will tell me the opposite. I personally want to live in the world, including sex, even if I have to learn by that that it actually did hold me back. Yeah, maybe not willing enough to sacrifice all, might be true. 

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Nonono, this is not about abstaining from sex, it's just about abstaining from loosing semen = energy.

You can ejaculate inside, it's not that difficult, just read and apply the exercices found in «The multi orgasmic man».

 

Maybe I should redone the post by explaining the difference between traditional Nofap and NoNut (=semen retention).

The difference is that in the rirst one you abstain from porn because it fucks up your psychee on different level,

In NoNut you preserve semen to be more productive and feel more energetic, but you can still have sex if you learn how to do it this way.

You guys would want that ?

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If you want love, do not hide from yourself

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1 hour ago, Shin said:

Nonono, this is not about abstaining from sex, it's just about abstaining from loosing semen = energy.

You can ejaculate inside, it's not that difficult, just read and apply the exercices found in «The multi orgasmic man».

 

Maybe I should redone the post by explaining the difference between traditional Nofap and NoNut (=semen retention).

The difference is that in the rirst one you abstain from porn because it fucks up your psychee on different level,

In NoNut you preserve semen to be more productive and feel more energetic, but you can still have sex if you learn how to do it this way.

You guys would want that ?

Yes, I already read "Tao Yoga of Love", I'm aware of that and aspire to master this :)

I think I digressed from what this thread is about, I was just asking because I saw some mentions of abstaining from sex completely here and elsewhere more often and i was curious how you guys think about it. 

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@Shin I want that, even though I'm probably not gonna have sex in the near future xD 

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5 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin I want that, even though I'm probably not gonna have sex in the near future xD 

Oh yes,

You do,

😏😏😏


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If you want a rose, do not run from the thorns
If you want love, do not hide from yourself

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Now I have reached 97 days and I discovered something great. So I got interested in pick up (I haven't done it yet) and because of that I can get very horny and feel a lot of energy around my sex organs.  This is a huge distraction when meditating, because I'll think about girls, sex nakedness, etc. so I thought what about sexual transmutation? 

Since a couple of days that energy was so powerful, normally at that moment (I think) guys want to jerk off, at least I would. I learned about chakra's a couple of years ago and I learned that the sacral chakra is the source of emotions and sexuality. With that in mind I visualized that energy and I imagend that it would flow to the solar plexus chakra.

https://images.ecosia.org/_YiBZgu1Ohyp7i0XLupbJnK1tak=/0x390/smart/http%3A%2F%2Fwww.healthline.com%2Fhlcmsresource%2Fimages%2Ftopic_centers%2Fchakras%2F7-chakras-header.png

It really felt like it was moving up. Then I imagined the energy being a flame in my belly and when breathing in it would become stronger. This helped me focus and I was less distracted by thoughts. It felt so good, I wasn't horny anymore.

So try this out when you get horny and feel the urge to fap and please tell me if it helped!


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Guys, do you think that nofap can cause headache? I'm day 20 currently.

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Day 22. Balls getting blue. Ego attacks with thoughts of relapsing. Feeling more confident, discipline's stronger.

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On 28/01/2019 at 6:49 AM, bejapuskas said:

Guys, do you think that nofap can cause headache? I'm day 20 currently.

A recovery from an hardcore addiction can make your mind go crazy.

Nofap is no exception, it's not because it's not a chemical drug that it can't be an hardcore addiction.

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If you want a rose, do not run from the thorns
If you want love, do not hide from yourself

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@Shin  I found out with the help of my friend, that it could be many things at once - nofap, radical changes in behavior (brain) and breathing techniques like breath of fire and Wim Hof, that change your blood pH... I should slow down probably :D 

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